Angusburger 155 Posted September 3, 2020 Share Posted September 3, 2020 I don’t know maybe I am not waiting long enough as a guy but I always leak and leak and never experience a full on lose of control like I can leak and then hold it in again but never feel like I have no control even if the leak frequency is a lot. Any ideas why I can’t fully lose control? I probably have around 1-1.2L when I leak Quote Link to comment
AliasnameTO 334 Posted September 4, 2020 Share Posted September 4, 2020 You probably just haven't worn yourself out enough. The "holding" muscles work like any others, and if they get too exhausted, they will just refuse to close. I have basically a bladder of steel, but with the right timing of fluids and holding, I can still get myself in real trouble. 😄 Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,584 Posted September 4, 2020 Share Posted September 4, 2020 These suggestions are good. When I held until I wet I would leak and spurt for over an hour maybe two. I tried everything to hold it in. Once my pants were wet past my knees I considered my pants accidentally wet and I just released a long satisfying soaking bladder emptying pee. Quote Link to comment
Angusburger 155 Posted September 4, 2020 Author Share Posted September 4, 2020 15 hours ago, AliasnameTO said: You probably just haven't worn yourself out enough. The "holding" muscles work like any others, and if they get too exhausted, they will just refuse to close. I have basically a bladder of steel, but with the right timing of fluids and holding, I can still get myself in real trouble. 😄 When people say they wet themselves, does this mean they previously already held for a long time or are female bladders that much weaker. I feel like by the time I hold long enough all my leaks in total would have emptied my bladder Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted September 4, 2020 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted September 4, 2020 I experience the same thing on my holds. I try for a full blown loss of control but only reach leaks - some of which I force by getting into positions - and eventually get impatient for the full blown wetting and end the hold before I can lose control. Quote Link to comment
Tellnoone 2,400 Posted September 4, 2020 Share Posted September 4, 2020 I'm a woman and experience the same. Only leaks and spurts, no total loss of control. I think it works that way for a lot of people, both women and men. Quote Link to comment
Angusburger 155 Posted September 5, 2020 Author Share Posted September 5, 2020 It seems like even on those authentic genuine desperation in love wetting there are rarely leaks as it all comes out in one go at the end particularly the long holding videos where they get lost in the city Sometimes I leak and leak but I feel like desperation may go away if you leak enough since your bladder isn’t full anymore Quote Link to comment
mfmf 34 Posted September 7, 2020 Share Posted September 7, 2020 (edited) Just water doesn’t really do it for me for having a genuine accident. As an adult the only times I’ve really lost control was when I had been drinking alcohol. In college I was trying to hold it long enough to make it home. My bladder simply burst as I was opening the front door (thankfully my roommates were not there). Or when I had a lot of caffeine with also drinking lots of liquids. Most recently I had been on a road trip of several hundred miles and had drank a Bang energy drink and liter of Arizona iced tea. I was trying to hold it until I made it to a rest area. I had a few warning spurts into my pants before I just...started going 🥴🥴. I had to grab a bottle and get that between my legs as I was trying to stop pissing myself on the freeway. Yes it was a struggle. Edited September 7, 2020 by mfmf (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
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