wet-alex 3 Posted June 27, 2020 Share Posted June 27, 2020 hello all, long time lurker, first time poster i recently got a boyfriend and i think i love him quite a lot he's also incontinent, mainly happens when he's laughing. he's yet to have an accident in front of me and he knows when he does i'll be extremely caring and look after him. i'm just not sure whether or not i should tell him i like this as it is a source of embarrassment for him. any help would be appreciated! Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 I think you should do it, but with tiny steps, so it won't be too much of a shock. Maybe rather than telling him, let him discover by him self through your actions. Show him your sexual excitement when it happens, like his wetting accident leading to kisses or even sex etc, if possible. DiaperedGuy 1 Quote Link to comment
SGSO 27 Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 Yeah, I think when he has an accident in front of you and he feels unlovable you should comfort him with a deep kiss and show he's "still" sexy to you. If it's not happening in front of you, you could tell him the same when he mentions worries about his incontinence. Once you have the foot in the door, it's easier, right? 😉 Quote Link to comment
Spectator9 954 Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 Not just "still" sexy, but let him know that it turns you on. Every guys wants to know his mate's triggers. Quote Link to comment
Chris2p 20 Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 Could you have a small accident in front of him, a medium wet spot on your jeans while laughing, would that ease things for the future. AliasnameTO 1 Quote Link to comment
Dynamic 133 Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 I think you should be up front and honest, the sooner the better. If this fetish is a significant part of you (ie it's not going anywhere) then it's bound to come out sooner or later. I think early in a relationship is the best time to find out what is acceptable and what is not to a partner. If you build up a deep and meaningful relationship only to find out years down the road that something about you repulses your partner, it will be a lot more painful and destructive to both of your lives than it would be much earlier. The counter argument is that you can't build a relationship on your fetish, and I know from experience that this is true. It just doesn't hold up. However, I think it's also true that you shouldn't build a relationship with someone and not be open about yourself. If you keep something inside for a long time it has the potential to gain a lot of power over your life. This is just me talking, though. I couldn't live happily without being able to express my desires, so for me it would be unthinkable to keep this from a partner for any significant length of time (basically once I know I can trust them to not hurt me regardless of how the relationship ends up). But if you're different from me, and you can ride the line, then another approach might work better for you. Quote Link to comment
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