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I don't like sex, I like watching urine


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Hello people,

I believe that you are the right people for me to talk to about this.
I have no attraction to having sex or kissing, I never have. I've had sex a few times with my boyfriend but I didn't find it interesting, while other people in our world see sex as something fascinating, well, I don't.
People consider that the erotic world is all about having sex. I disagree, there are many ways to feel horny, orgasm, sex is just one of them. There are many other ways.
What has always turned me on is urine. It excites me, both in anime and in videos of real people on the internet and pornographic sites. For a long time I thought I was the only one to think that way, after all I didn't choose that, this characteristic was born with me. As I grew up and had access to the internet, I started to research and realize that this fetish is more popular than I thought. It turns out that people don't talk about it, they just talk about "having sex". Even in several doujinshi with omorashi, the character pees but then he has sex with someone.
Within the omorashi we have several aspects: wetting, urine, accident, etc. This universe is bigger than I imagined and I am happy to discover that there are many adept people.

I definitely don't feel like a straight person, but I also don't know how to define my sexual orientation. What I do know is that I am a cisgender woman who feels horny to see men and women urinating, only more strongly in men (men peeing naturally). Having sex is uninteresting to me.
I was wondering if this feature fits into any LGBTQ + concept or if it has nothing to do with it. At this point I consider myself bisexual (since I am attracted to the urine of men and women), but I'm not sure, I always had doubts about my sexual orientation.

Are you also like that? Do you hide it from other people or do you talk openly?

Do you know the manga "Ureshon"? The protagonist thinks exactly that way. He has no interest in sex, but in women's urine. The other characters consider him gay because of that.

 

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Well, there's a second axis to sexuality, and at one end of that axis are folks called asexual.  I consider myself mostly that; from your description, you might be even more so. 

I can definitely identify with what you are describing.  I am cisgendered male, and while I do actually love kissing, actual sex, not so much.  It took me a long time to come to grips with the fact that I'm more turned on by wetting than by the prospect of sex.

If I were on the market (I am not) you sound like the sort of person I'd be looking for, but, for reasons you described (people don't advertise this fetish), I would have a very difficult time finding.  I think it would be just amazing to have a girlfriend who wets with me, both day wetting and bed wetting.  That would be so much fun!

Now, to my understanding (and I don't have a source for this, so please take it with an appropriate-sized chunk of salt) only 3% of women have this fetish, versus 10% of men, which puts you in a better position to find a guy who understands you.  I hope you are able to do so.

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Oh I recognize this! I think I read part of it before but dang I want to read it all now lol. While I'm definitely someone who really enjoys sex, I love this scenario of like two friends listening and talking to each other while peeing.

Anyway back on topic, what you described to me sounds like you're asexual. There's some variations on it like demisexual and grey-ace but asexuality has a whole spectrum within itself. In a way, I consider it to be like a limited sexual attraction. Some people have no interest at all, some people who are often called demi only start developing sexual attraction to someone when they form a strong emotional bond, but then others could still be asexual while also still developing fetishes or sexual attraction towards very specific things.

Many people within the ace spectrum or even the Queer/LGBTQIA+ spectrum have even started making specific labels to describe not just sexual attraction but romantic attraction. So some people could still see themselves having a romantic relationship with someone of multiple genders and they may call themselves panromantic. Same thing can be applied to other things like if you're only attracted to someone of the same sex but not interest in sexual attraction, they could call themselves asexual and homoromantic.

Hope you know that it's totally ok and completely valid to see this way. Gender, sexuality, and romantic attraction are all complicated subjects we're all still figuring out and everyone has their own journey.

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I can relate a lot to this. Although I am a virgin in every sense of the word when I started having sexual fantasies they were never about penetrative sex, so for a long time I thought I was asexual rather than just a lesbian. Then I realized that my primary turn on was pee desperation and embarrassing nudity rather than genital contact, which has never really interested me, at least not as much as the idea of seeing someone desperate to pee or being naked or vice versa. To me penetrative sex or genital to genital contact (since I am a lesbian) never held the interest or the level of excitement as did lots of other associated sexual things that weren't actual sex sex so to speak.

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I feel it same. Classical sex- I do not need it. I do not hate it, I am able to have a vaginal sex and get orgasm (but I must think on pee things) but I have never had sex over 10 years. I do not miss it.

More intensive orgasm I get if I pee myself or if I watch other people to wet themself, if play some pee scenarious etc...

Do not worry, you are not alone with it.

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I am French, sorry for my level of English!  I find myself a little in your description.  I am perfectly straight, but already younger I was never interested in the sight of a naked man!  I love when he walks his fingers on my cock, when he masturbates me, but not when his cock enters me!  I am more excited by the sight of a desperate woman or by my own despair than by the sight of a naked man!  the most exciting and the most pleasant for me is to see a desperate woman, who starts to flee and that the person who accompanies me slides her hand on my crotch and starts to rub me !!!

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