Humiliation after wetting : tun on or turn off

[Andreea 32]

I feel like wetting yourself in public can be one of the most humiliating things someone could ever experience & it could be enough to completely ruin someone 's social status.  Sometimes it might even require one to have to go through therapy in order to recover from something like that. Which is why I would only find it arousing if it happened to someone that  I hated (or who has hurt me or one of my friends). I know that holding it in is not good for your bladder but most people would obviously prefer holding it in for as long as possible rather than wetting themselves in public.

I personally believe that the more crowded/busy the place is, the more embarrassing it is. So, wetting yourself inside public transport (bus, train, plane), at the mall, at school, at work or such could be extremely socially devastating. I mean, I imagine în some cases, that sort of thing could be just enough to trigger a PTSD attack. 

The only thing I can see as being worse than peeing yourself in public would be pooping yourself in public. 

Edited May 26, 2020 by Andreea (see edit history)

[Lukhas 237]

It depends on where in public. If you are for example turist in another city, nobody knows you so it is humiliated but not so much. 

But if you are at work, school, with peoples which know you... it can be problem. Especially today- everyone can take a picture and send it to the social media. 

When I peed myself and once time pooped myself, yes humiliated it was, but nobody could send my peed pants or pooped to the world.

[PrincessPeeach 4,153]

I don’t personally find humiliation a turn on, regardless of my feelings for the person who had the accident. 

The exception would be some mild, consensual fun, if I knew the other person was also into it....for example I would fully enjoy making my (willing) partner hold it through dinner....to the point of leaking (on a vinyl seat lol), and I think I could enjoy making him ask the wait staff for extra napkins to clean it up....

if he really was into that kind of thing, (and probably only if i were a little drunk) I might make him confess exactly what he needs to clean up, and add a comment about how he just can’t hold it

I’m just really not really into being found out in public for wetting and I’m even less into public humiliation. I do however find it a huge turn on knowing someone else is turned on, so I could push my limits a bit if my partner really enjoyed that kind of thing. 

 

As far as what id personally find more humiliating it’s definitely wetting in public. I think it would be waaaaay harder to hide. 

[Bite me 1,429]

I don't have any sense of humiliation myself, but seeing/dealing with someone elses humiliation makes me nervous. 

[PrincessPeeach 4,153]

4 minutes ago, Ninji said:

I don't have any sense of humiliation myself, but seeing/dealing with someone elses humiliation makes me nervous. 

Interesting....like you mean you wouldn’t be humiliated/embarrassed to have an accident in public?

I wish I wasn’t so freaking shy sometimes lol...I’m very easily embarrassed 

[Bite me 1,429]

1 hour ago, PrincessPeeach said:

Interesting....like you mean you wouldn’t be humiliated/embarrassed to have an accident in public?

I wish I wasn’t so freaking shy sometimes lol...I’m very easily embarrassed 

Nope.  Anxious for sure, particularly of conflict.

 

People don't feel a drop in pride they don't have. 

 

I would have to imagine friends or someone I care about thinking less of me.

[The Dark Wolf 877]

I find it fun to fantasize about in fiction. In real life the humiliation aspect overrides my fetish and I can't enjoy it even a little bit. Unless they post about it wanting us to enjoy it, or found it fun in the long run. Even in fiction I usually like them feeling better by the end, unless they're really mean or evil (like the Dazzlings in EqG).

And I don't know if I'd get over it if I wet myself in front of anyone. The closest I ever came to a public wetting, what I was wearing didn't show wetness so no one had any idea, plus it was planned each time.

[JuliusSlouchy 23]

I love humiliation in my fetishes. It's because humiliated girls are really cute. Especially when they're embarased. I just want to hug them and make them feel better. But I'll do that only with cute, pretty girls. (Or bad girls. They're cute too)

I know I'm weird.

Edited May 27, 2020 by Ciamajdus (see edit history)

[CarmenCD 762]

Humiliation after wetting can be a turn on, if you planned that to some extent and feel really naughty when you do it. And of course, you have to enjoy self humiliation. It's definitely a huge emotional roller coaster when it happen and can even bring a few tears in your eyes at that moment, but it doesn't automatically mean that what happened it's not a turn on for you. It's often more enjoyable later, when you re-living the event in your head, already safely at home than when it actually happened. I often hold in public and have wetting accidents due to that, some more obvious than others. When things just don't go as planned and I get humiliated more that I wanted, when an accident is too obvious or at places it doesn't suppose to happen, it can be hard to cope with emotionally and I don't really feel naughty or turned on by that. But generally, small humiliations, like a small wet patch or something like that, can be a turn on, even if it's a total accident.

If your wetting accident is a turn on for others, is probably related to their kinks, if they enjoy others get humiliated. They don't really care how you feel abot wetting yourself.

[SGSO 15]

2 hours ago, JuliusSlouchy said:

I love humiliation in my fetishes. It's because humiliated girls are really cute. Especially when they're embarased. I just want to hug them and make them feel better. But I'll do that only with cute, pretty girls. (Or bad girls. They're cute too)

I know I'm weird.

not weird at all - same here

[The Dark Wolf 877]

@JuliusSlouchy Julius, Sunset avatar, loves humiliation... I think I know you from fimfiction.

[Bite me 1,429]

3 minutes ago, The Dark Wolf said:

@JuliusSlouchy Julius, Sunset avatar, loves humiliation... I think I know you from fimfiction.

Oh I drew that picture btw. You might have seen my old derpibooru account. 

[The Dark Wolf 877]

1 minute ago, Ninji said:

Oh I drew that picture btw. You might have seen my old derpibooru account. 

I'm The Dark Pony there.

[xDeathSoulx 12]

I really, really don't like humiliation. Wetting is hot, but only if it's either planned, or in a setting where it wouldn't really be humiliating, just funny at worst. I don't like it when people feel bad about themselves.

[JuliusSlouchy 23]

13 hours ago, The Dark Wolf said:

@JuliusSlouchy Julius, Sunset avatar, loves humiliation... I think I know you from fimfiction

Yeah. I changed my nick, but that's me - THE GREAT KING JULIUS THE SLOUCH

Edited May 28, 2020 by JuliusSlouchy (see edit history)

[JackedUp 386]

Yeah, if I saw someone genuinely having an accident in public, I wouldn't get any enjoyment out of it. I get secondhand embarrassment pretty easily, so I'd just feel bad for them.

[rachelkirwan 8,473]

Huge turn on. This is why I end up watching more female porn as a straight woman. I want to capture that humiliation after an accident!

And touch myself while reflecting on it. Of course

[Cantholdit95 24]

2 hours ago, rachelkirwan said:

Huge turn on. This is why I end up watching more female porn as a straight woman. I want to capture that humiliation after an accident!

And touch myself while reflecting on it. Of course

Same, absolutely love it. That's why I love watching guys wet as a straight man it's hot to imagine myself in their situation. 

[Beaumont 4]

The couple of real accidents I’ve had were very embarrassing because they happened in front of women. I staged a couple years later and it wasn’t as bad due to it happening with strangers I’d never see again. Most older women are sympathetic, while younger girls in their 20’s tend to laugh.

Edited September 6, 2020 by Beaumont (see edit history)

[shortmetalboi 102]

On 5/26/2020 at 11:56 AM, Andreea said:

I feel like wetting yourself in public can be one of the most humiliating things someone could ever experience & it could be enough to completely ruin someone 's social status.  Sometimes it might even require one to have to go through therapy in order to recover from something like that. Which is why I would only find it arousing if it happened to someone that  I hated (or who has hurt me or one of my friends). I know that holding it in is not good for your bladder but most people would obviously prefer holding it in for as long as possible rather than wetting themselves in public.

I personally believe that the more crowded/busy the place is, the more embarrassing it is. So, wetting yourself inside public transport (bus, train, plane), at the mall, at school, at work or such could be extremely socially devastating. I mean, I imagine în some cases, that sort of thing could be just enough to trigger a PTSD attack. 

The only thing I can see as being worse than peeing yourself in public would be pooping yourself in public. 

I completely agree. However, some people are into it. Idk how you have the confidence to be okay with/into something like that, but more power to ya

[Skirt Accident 233]

On 5/27/2020 at 7:39 PM, JuliusSlouchy said:

I love humiliation in my fetishes. It's because humiliated girls are really cute. Especially when they're embarased. I just want to hug them and make them feel better. But I'll do that only with cute, pretty girls. (Or bad girls. They're cute too)

I know I'm weird.

I love humiliation for the same reason. The opportunity to comfort the crying woman afterwards is beautiful.

While humiliation is one of the main draws of omo for me, I also enjoy it when a woman enjoys her naughty accident and revels in the indignity of losing control.

Edited September 7, 2020 by Skirt Accident (see edit history)

[Can'tFoolOwls 83]

Maybe I'm just weird but I find a sympathetic/empathetic response way more of a turn on than a humiliating one. I mean I've never actually seen a public wetting (except as a kid) but in my head the idea of someone wetting and then being comforted by those around them/told it's ok is way hotter than them being humiliated. Maybe it's just because I always get a really bad case of second hand embarrassment when I see someone embarrassed in public, I don't know.

[petitewonder 56]

I mean I like it in fiction but I wouldn't want someone to feel bad. I definitely like the idea of comforting someone though. But again, I wouldn't want them to be traumatized. 

[SoakedScott 37]

I would find it an absolute turn off. I love the struggle to hold on as my overfilled bladder spasms and tries to expel my urine. I love the aftereffect, if I slowly lose it or if it all seems to go at once. All that being said...I don’t need the humiliation factor. 

[Guyandee 10]

When I saw a true, genuine, wetting accident once (male) I can only remember my own sense of embarrassment rather than the person it happened to.