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I hate dealing with jerks.  I can handle when people have legitimate disagreements with me, that is fine, or when there are fundamental ideologies that are different.  I can respect that, even though I may disagree.  But dealing with someone who is an asshole just for the sake of being an asshole is really annoying.

This evening I received a message from someone on another platform.  They were familiar with HD Wetting and my work there, and they felt the need to tell me how how poorly made my videos are and how, they think, I should leave the business altogether.  As they explained, they have been a real professional adult content creator for two whole years now, and it is obvious I have no clue what I am doing.  After all, their one video on porn hub has over 1,000 views.

I did check out their video, at their urging, and it was OK.  There was a lot that could have been done better, but that is usually the case with such videos.  It was nothing spectacular, but not horrible either.

I acknowledged that the HD Wetting videos are not perfect, that there is room for improvement.  But I also noted that I am running a business, and to stay profitable I can't always put the time into every scene that I would like to.  This was simply met with more insults and attacks of an increasingly personal nature, so I simply ignored him at that point.

The whole thing just left me feeling very irritated.  What is the point of going out of your way to contact someone, just to insult their work?

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For some people it seems the only way to get up in the world, is by kicking other people down.. And I mean that quite literally actually, not trying to use a 'feel good-quote', but I genuinely believe that some people feel so very much insecure that they n e e d to feel in top if everyone else! 

It probably has got nothing to do with your work even, it's just a way for them to cope with life. 

Sorry to hear about your bad encounter with some of these 'professionals' but please don't get discouraged in doing what you like and what you're good at! 

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Its not so much upsetting that this person isn't a fan of my work.  Everyone, after all, can have their own opinion about such things.  What does bother me, though, is the need some people have to be insulting and put others down.  I don't understand the point of it.  Even if my work was truly terrible, why go out of your way and take time out of your life just to let me know how bad my work is and how superior you are?  I can't imagine ever doing that to someone, and I can't really understand why anyone would be like that.

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I have a brother 2 years younger than me who operates that way.  He has developmental disabilities as result of almost 3 months premature birth.  In one respect, he's exceeded everyone's expectations as to what he can do - has a driver's license, clean driving record, has worked at the same retailer for 15 years as a cashier, and now managing the self-checkouts.  But unfortunately he is mostly oblivious to his own limitations, if that makes any sense.

Has high standards and expectations of himself (don't we all).  Wants to one day live on his own, get married, raise a family, etc. but seems he has no clue what it's going to take to get there.  He just can't grasp the simple every day common sense stuff.  He wants to be everybodys friend, but doesn't realizes how or why he's always chasing them away...and when he starts following them, so to speak...oh shit....when shit hits the fan, it's always the other perons fault.  Always making completely stupid moves on his part, and doesn't understand why his actions should have consequences.  Instead of acknowledging his wrong doing and apologizing, will use all kinds of cover-ups, tries to deflect or pass the blame on something or something else, etc.  When people get blunt with him, he refuses to listen and shuts down completely.  

The most frustrating part of it is, if i say something to him, in an effort to set him straight, my parents are always quick to rush to his defense.  He still lives at home under their roof.  Growing up, I was the one who got the blame for everything, brother got off the hook easy, he would probably get away with murder.

Unfortunately, the reality is it all comes down to this: some children never grow up...

 

 

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1 hour ago, TVGuy said:

Its not so much upsetting that this person isn't a fan of my work.  Everyone, after all, can have their own opinion about such things.  What does bother me, though, is the need some people have to be insulting and put others down.  I don't understand the point of it.  Even if my work was truly terrible, why go out of your way and take time out of your life just to let me know how bad my work is and how superior you are?  I can't imagine ever doing that to someone, and I can't really understand why anyone would be like that.

If his work was truly far superior to yours he wouldn’t need to insult you. He’d simply steal your market share and put you out of business. Perhaps the fact that he hasn’t managed to do so rankles with him to the point that he feels the need to attack you instead. 

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