TVGuy 10,658 Posted May 10, 2020 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted May 10, 2020 I hate dealing with jerks. I can handle when people have legitimate disagreements with me, that is fine, or when there are fundamental ideologies that are different. I can respect that, even though I may disagree. But dealing with someone who is an asshole just for the sake of being an asshole is really annoying. This evening I received a message from someone on another platform. They were familiar with HD Wetting and my work there, and they felt the need to tell me how how poorly made my videos are and how, they think, I should leave the business altogether. As they explained, they have been a real professional adult content creator for two whole years now, and it is obvious I have no clue what I am doing. After all, their one video on porn hub has over 1,000 views. I did check out their video, at their urging, and it was OK. There was a lot that could have been done better, but that is usually the case with such videos. It was nothing spectacular, but not horrible either. I acknowledged that the HD Wetting videos are not perfect, that there is room for improvement. But I also noted that I am running a business, and to stay profitable I can't always put the time into every scene that I would like to. This was simply met with more insults and attacks of an increasingly personal nature, so I simply ignored him at that point. The whole thing just left me feeling very irritated. What is the point of going out of your way to contact someone, just to insult their work? Bite me, wannawatch, Foxlover and 1 other 4 Link to comment
Bite me 1,436 Posted May 10, 2020 Share Posted May 10, 2020 I think you're great, and that as an artist you'll run into many artists who hate you for poor reasons. Don't worry about it. He's a heckler, nothing good will come from humouring him. Link to comment
wannawatch 255 Posted May 10, 2020 Share Posted May 10, 2020 For some people it seems the only way to get up in the world, is by kicking other people down.. And I mean that quite literally actually, not trying to use a 'feel good-quote', but I genuinely believe that some people feel so very much insecure that they n e e d to feel in top if everyone else! It probably has got nothing to do with your work even, it's just a way for them to cope with life. Sorry to hear about your bad encounter with some of these 'professionals' but please don't get discouraged in doing what you like and what you're good at! Link to comment
Bobby_DL 35 Posted May 10, 2020 Share Posted May 10, 2020 (edited) People can be assholes, care about the ones that enjoy your work and give honest feedback. Ignore the ones that are there to put you down. No reason to 'feed' the trolls nor give your time and energy. Edited May 10, 2020 by Bobby_DL (see edit history) Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted May 11, 2020 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted May 11, 2020 Don't listen to them. I haven't even seen your videos but I can tell from the pictures they're really good. Link to comment
sonadam9 40 Posted May 11, 2020 Share Posted May 11, 2020 I have only seen the daily free videos. But form the little I have seen they are high quality and well-made. So don't listen to them. The Dark Wolf 1 Link to comment
Redd 268 Posted May 18, 2020 Share Posted May 18, 2020 I think your work is great. Lameone24 1 Link to comment
TVGuy 10,658 Posted May 18, 2020 Author 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted May 18, 2020 Its not so much upsetting that this person isn't a fan of my work. Everyone, after all, can have their own opinion about such things. What does bother me, though, is the need some people have to be insulting and put others down. I don't understand the point of it. Even if my work was truly terrible, why go out of your way and take time out of your life just to let me know how bad my work is and how superior you are? I can't imagine ever doing that to someone, and I can't really understand why anyone would be like that. Link to comment
JanelleO 26 Posted May 18, 2020 Share Posted May 18, 2020 I have a brother 2 years younger than me who operates that way. He has developmental disabilities as result of almost 3 months premature birth. In one respect, he's exceeded everyone's expectations as to what he can do - has a driver's license, clean driving record, has worked at the same retailer for 15 years as a cashier, and now managing the self-checkouts. But unfortunately he is mostly oblivious to his own limitations, if that makes any sense. Has high standards and expectations of himself (don't we all). Wants to one day live on his own, get married, raise a family, etc. but seems he has no clue what it's going to take to get there. He just can't grasp the simple every day common sense stuff. He wants to be everybodys friend, but doesn't realizes how or why he's always chasing them away...and when he starts following them, so to speak...oh shit....when shit hits the fan, it's always the other perons fault. Always making completely stupid moves on his part, and doesn't understand why his actions should have consequences. Instead of acknowledging his wrong doing and apologizing, will use all kinds of cover-ups, tries to deflect or pass the blame on something or something else, etc. When people get blunt with him, he refuses to listen and shuts down completely. The most frustrating part of it is, if i say something to him, in an effort to set him straight, my parents are always quick to rush to his defense. He still lives at home under their roof. Growing up, I was the one who got the blame for everything, brother got off the hook easy, he would probably get away with murder. Unfortunately, the reality is it all comes down to this: some children never grow up... Link to comment
GreenChile 828 Posted May 18, 2020 Share Posted May 18, 2020 I'd be interested to see their work, but nonetheless, some people can only deal in negativity Link to comment
WetDave 650 Posted May 18, 2020 Share Posted May 18, 2020 1 hour ago, TVGuy said: Its not so much upsetting that this person isn't a fan of my work. Everyone, after all, can have their own opinion about such things. What does bother me, though, is the need some people have to be insulting and put others down. I don't understand the point of it. Even if my work was truly terrible, why go out of your way and take time out of your life just to let me know how bad my work is and how superior you are? I can't imagine ever doing that to someone, and I can't really understand why anyone would be like that. If his work was truly far superior to yours he wouldn’t need to insult you. He’d simply steal your market share and put you out of business. Perhaps the fact that he hasn’t managed to do so rankles with him to the point that he feels the need to attack you instead. Link to comment
wetskipants 840 Posted May 19, 2020 Share Posted May 19, 2020 Just remember the old maxim, that people who attack you often do so because they feel you are better than they are and they want to make you think the opposite by trying to drag you down. sonadam9 1 Link to comment
Lameone24 27 Posted May 30, 2020 Share Posted May 30, 2020 Anyone can have 1000 views if their product has been on the market long enough. You're on a well known website and running a business. That person is a performer and as others have said is just heckling you to get a reaction. Link to comment
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