Angusburger 156 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 especially for women in mix sex outings. I noticed this where I in group gatherings despite all the drinking no one wants to say they have to pee. But when person finally admits it everyone wants to go. Why? Also, is it more awkward for girls to admit it when it’s mainly a guy’s group and why? For me it’s cause I feel more “inferior” in having to pee and a filled bladder and don’t want to divert the group either but o also have an interest in this so I may differ from the general populace lol Quote Link to comment
richard3 57 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 I was always that way. Quote Link to comment
Ms. Tito 1,569 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 Definitely me. Quote Link to comment
Spectator9 957 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 I feel the same way. Quote Link to comment
peedespes02 686 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 I do that too when I am out. I never admit that I really have to pee. I am pretty good a holding but I dont like when holding it and comes to painful to hold. Quote Link to comment
Spectator9 957 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 6 minutes ago, peedespes02 said: I do that too when I am out. I never admit that I really have to pee. I am pretty good a holding but I dont like when holding it and comes to painful to hold. Seeing the videos of your massive pees, I imagine that in a group you're usually the LAST one to admit you need to pee! Quote Link to comment
peedespes02 686 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 Ya that true but years ago I was bladder shy and after holding it for hours cant go. Stalls workout better for me. Quote Link to comment
Sudoers 103 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 If possible, I will try to hold even longer after someone admits in order to show I’m not as desperate as others. At least, I will wait others back from the bathroom and find an opportunity to go. Quote Link to comment
Anathema 186 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 "I'll be right back" No admitting why you're leaving, no shame, no judgement. You aren't socially obligated to tell people you're going to take a piss. Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,586 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 Yes I was that way for many years, but less so now. Back in the day this resulted in hours of intense pain and desperation, and even a few wetting accidents. Quote Link to comment
Lukhas 391 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 Yes, same way for me. If I am in bar with friends I try to hold it until someone else says that (s)he must pee. Quote Link to comment
buggy2013 290 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 I have severe anxiety and groups of people make me feel uncomfortable period. If it’s a new place or people I don’t know I don’t know what to do with myself. If I can’t find it myself or get it myself then I won’t ask. I struggle to even take a seat for a conversation at first (I actually have a manager at work who is very understanding and won’t start a serious conversation until I’m warmed up enough to sit down) but even if I’m the only one that knows it’s the bathroom I’m headed for, I can’t bring myself to excuse myself. at work we have stations we can’t leave until someone relieves us from the post, and I used to hold it for HOURS because I was too shy to ask for someone to cover me. (now I’ve been there two years and don’t have the same reservation. I actually insist newly hired people let me cover them if I’m the relief body, so they know it’s okay to ask for that stand-in). Quote Link to comment
purlypuff 137 Posted January 6, 2021 Share Posted January 6, 2021 I don't really have an issue saying that I need to pee. However, I'm really shy admitting I'm desperate if that makes sense Quote Link to comment
Charlie Kirby 829 Posted January 7, 2021 Share Posted January 7, 2021 On 4/23/2020 at 12:50 PM, peedespes02 said: I do that too when I am out. I never admit that I really have to pee. I am pretty good a holding but I dont like when holding it and comes to painful to hold. This is absolutely me. Even if I’m desperate when others admit they need the toilet, I often keep quiet about my urge and just quietly thank the stars that they’ll be a bathroom break coming up. One of the worst/best parts about my day job is that you have to announce on radio when you’re breaking for the toilet - and even if it’s a number 1 or 2. There are codes we use but I still hate doing it myself so just try to time myself with scheduled breaks instead. Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,793 Posted January 7, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted January 7, 2021 It depends on the situation. Among family and friends when I know there is a bathroom nearby I have no problem announcing I am going to the bathroom, although I will never admit to when I have to poop. But when I am in a situation like I am at work where I have male coworkers and I can't get to the bathroom I try to keep it as secret as possible, even though I don't think I'm very good at hiding it. Likewise when I am the only woman in a group of men in general it's kind of embarrassing to admit that I am the one who has to pee, especially if there is like a line for the ladies room or something like that, because then there is the peer pressure to hold it and not be the one holding everyone else up, so it sometimes better to just stay quiet about it. But otherwise I will get teased for having the little girl bladder. Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,586 Posted January 14, 2021 Share Posted January 14, 2021 I absolutely used to be this way . I endured hours of bladder stretching pain rather than admit I had to pee. Even if it was obvious I was desperate and couldn't stand still or even up straight , I didn't say anything or even denied I had to pee, even if I was worried I might pee my pants. Now that I am old enough to not worry about what people think , and well can't hold it like I used to. I go when I need to Quote Link to comment
dwp 465 Posted January 14, 2021 Share Posted January 14, 2021 I just tell everyone that it's time for a nature break. But sometimes I'm already leaking before I realize it's time for a nature break. Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted January 14, 2021 Share Posted January 14, 2021 Yes, but I have no choice than say it, because I'm the one who usually have to pee first. If I would wait for others, would probably wet myself every time I'm with someone. Quote Link to comment
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