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So this happened a few years ago with a now ex. Both of us were into kink and quite routinely used diapers as part of our kink.  

This happened during one of our times sleeping together. Its burned into my memory. Because despite having this fetish. After my accident I spent the entire night in tears. I have a issue of losing bladder control during sex. Normally I just leak and something like a towel underneath is enough to protect the bed. Something I warned my partner at the time about and they were aware of. To protect the bed I put on a pair of child style pulls ups and we started of with using a vibrator on each other. 

The vibrator was against me through the pull up up I felt myself close to orgasm. Then I felt myself get wet in a bad way. I felt a lot of liquid start to stream down me and pool at my bum. But I didn't worry. I was wearing a pull up and my partner was as kinky as me I had nothing to worry about. So i continued. Getting closer and closer to orgasm and losing more and more control of my bladder. 

Afterwards I remember thinking shit I feel really wet. I move on the bed and look down. The pull up has leaked and the sheets are soaked. 

I remember feeling really embarrassed and having to tell them I leaked. They got mad and started shouting at me. I was not expecting them to be so angry over it so the anger hit me harder. I ended up cleaning the bed up and spending the night on the sofa in tears.

 

 

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9 minutes ago, Lesbianomogirl said:

So this happened a few years ago with a now ex. Both of us were into kink and quite routinely used diapers as part of our kink.  

This happened during one of our times sleeping together. Its burned into my memory. Because despite having this fetish. After my accident I spent the entire night in tears. I have a issue of losing bladder control during sex. Normally I just leak and something like a towel underneath is enough to protect the bed. Something I warned my partner at the time about and they were aware of. To protect the bed I put on a pair of child style pulls ups and we started of with using a vibrator on each other. 

The vibrator was against me through the pull up up I felt myself close to orgasm. Then I felt myself get wet in a bad way. I felt a lot of liquid start to stream down me and pool at my bum. But I didn't worry. I was wearing a pull up and my partner was as kinky as me I had nothing to worry about. So i continued. Getting closer and closer to orgasm and losing more and more control of my bladder. 

Afterwards I remember thinking shit I feel really wet. I move on the bed and look down. The pull up has leaked and the sheets are soaked. 

I remember feeling really embarrassed and having to tell them I leaked. They got mad and started shouting at me. I was not expecting them to be so angry over it so the anger hit me harder. I ended up cleaning the bed up and spending the night on the sofa in tears.

 

 

That's really too bad this happened to you.  There's probably a reason it's now your ex...

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9 hours ago, Lesbianomogirl said:

So this happened a few years ago with a now ex. Both of us were into kink and quite routinely used diapers as part of our kink.  

This happened during one of our times sleeping together. Its burned into my memory. Because despite having this fetish. After my accident I spent the entire night in tears. I have a issue of losing bladder control during sex. Normally I just leak and something like a towel underneath is enough to protect the bed. Something I warned my partner at the time about and they were aware of. To protect the bed I put on a pair of child style pulls ups and we started of with using a vibrator on each other. 

The vibrator was against me through the pull up up I felt myself close to orgasm. Then I felt myself get wet in a bad way. I felt a lot of liquid start to stream down me and pool at my bum. But I didn't worry. I was wearing a pull up and my partner was as kinky as me I had nothing to worry about. So i continued. Getting closer and closer to orgasm and losing more and more control of my bladder. 

Afterwards I remember thinking shit I feel really wet. I move on the bed and look down. The pull up has leaked and the sheets are soaked. 

I remember feeling really embarrassed and having to tell them I leaked. They got mad and started shouting at me. I was not expecting them to be so angry over it so the anger hit me harder. I ended up cleaning the bed up and spending the night on the sofa in tears.

 

 

Thats horrible and I'm sorry to hear that! 

Kindness is always the best reaction, and if they aren't kind, there really is no point in being with someone.

I hope you are a lot happier now  and its not a reflection on you, it is a reflection of their own personality when someone acts like that. 

When you find a kind, open minded good person to share life with, that's when life gets 100 times better ♥️

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20 minutes ago, rachelkirwan said:

Sending you a big hug, I've leaked tons during sex, and know how you feel. If you are worried about big leaks, I'd recommend a PeePod pad, they are like washable towels but can hold more than two full bladders worth, so not stress fumbling for towels 🙂

Oh thank you for the advice I will look into the peepod pad. 

3 minutes ago, AliceWetting said:

Thats horrible and I'm sorry to hear that! 

Kindness is always the best reaction, and if they aren't kind, there really is no point in being with someone.

I hope you are a lot happier now  and its not a reflection on you, it is a reflection of their own personality when someone acts like that. 

When you find a kind, open minded good person to share life with, that's when life gets 100 times better ♥️

 

Thank you both of you! I'm now happily single so that ex is no longer in my life. 

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My Ex didn't know about my diaper fetish for the first few months, but then she had the great idea to search for any "bad" things in my computer (I guess she wanted to make sure I don't cheat or whatever, she had some heavy jealousy issues).

This is how she found some of my diaper porn. The discussion did not go well to say the least, she found it disgusting, wanted me to go to a psychiatrist and so on.

This was just one of the many issues in our relationship, but it marked the beginning of the end...

Fortunately now I have a very sweet and supportive girlfriend who knows about it and even participates (she has lots of fun making me horny with this ;))

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"One man's trash is another man's treasure"

What your ex considered a gross disaster, I would consider a hot accident, as I'm sure many around here would. 

I'm sorry your ex's inability to handle this/it not being their kink creating a shameful night for you. I hope you someday find a partner who not only is comfortable with stuff like this but will also make you feel less ashamed about the aforementioned event. 

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On 4/20/2020 at 7:43 PM, legostein said:

My Ex didn't know about my diaper fetish for the first few months, but then she had the great idea to search for any "bad" things in my computer (I guess she wanted to make sure I don't cheat or whatever, she had some heavy jealousy issues).

This is how she found some of my diaper porn. The discussion did not go well to say the least, she found it disgusting, wanted me to go to a psychiatrist and so on.

This was just one of the many issues in our relationship, but it marked the beginning of the end...

Fortunately now I have a very sweet and supportive girlfriend who knows about it and even participates (she has lots of fun making me horny with this ;))

Oh god that sounds horrible. That is such a horrible reaction. Your honestly better without her.

Your new gf sounds lovely 😊

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7 hours ago, Miles Davis said:

"One man's trash is another man's treasure"

What your ex considered a gross disaster, I would consider a hot accident, as I'm sure many around here would. 

I'm sorry your ex's inability to handle this/it not being their kink creating a shameful night for you. I hope you someday find a partner who not only is comfortable with stuff like this but will also make you feel less ashamed about the aforementioned event. 

I think that is what makes it so much worse for me. It was a genuine accident and to have a genuine accident met with such hostility hurt.

There are a lot of things which are not my kink. But if they happened to a partner in front of me I would be as supportive as I could. Like if a partner was sick in the bed. I probably wouldn't be happy about it. It would gross me out. But I would still clean it up and make sure there okay. 

 

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On 4/19/2020 at 1:54 PM, Lesbianomogirl said:

I have a issue of losing bladder control during sex.

Girl, that's not a bug; that's a feature 😆 A sought-after one around these parts, actually.

Jokes aside, I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I hope things are better now 😘

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Someone treated my omo friend Pamela very badly when she had a bit of a public accident. We live a long ways away from each other, so she told me about this over skype, but I wish I had been there to kick his ass.

She was out on a date with this guy and they were in a booth at a club. Pamela was 42 at the time, and I think the guy was a few years older. She could tell that he was totally vanilla, so she definitely wasn’t planning any omo activity, but the guy was telling funny stories, and Pamela said, “Oh, please don’t make me laugh too hard! I might have an accident!”

He didn’t take her seriously, but he should have. Pamela started having stress incontinence accidents after her daughter was born, and then she gained some weight, which put even more pressure on her bladder. Pamela has accidents fairly often, but she is into omo and enjoys the accidents if they don’t happen in public.

The guy kept trying to make her laugh, and she laughed way too hard, and then said, “Oh my God! I just had an accident!”

The guy just stared at her. He was scowling. He said, “No, you really didn’t,” and Pamela replied, “Yeah, I really did.”

The guy said, “Well then, I guess I have to just take you home.” He paid the bill and began to walk out of the club. If an omo girl wets her pants on a date, a real omo gentleman ties his jacket around her waist and walks close behind her, to conceal as much as possible and save her from the worst of the embarrassment. But this vanilla jerk walked out as if he were ashamed to be seen with her, and she had to follow with a big wet spot on her butt. Fortunately the club was dark, but she knows that a few people saw her.

After that, he made her stand next to the passenger side door of his car in a very well lighted parking lot while he rummaged around in the trunk and found a ragged old U Haul blanket for her to sit on. She is fairly sure that a few more people saw her wet butt while he was making her stand there and wait.

He drove her home in silence, didn’t give her a goodnight kiss, and never called her again.

Pamela really is an omo girl, and when she has a public accident, there is a part of her which is just as humiliated and ashamed as any normal person, but there is also a part of her that is somewhat aroused. As she told me during our skype talk, “There sure wasn’t any arousal with a jerk like that around.”

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Two cases, but not entirely bad...

A lot of people (most?) don't actually have any serious opinion on omorashi but feel maybe some social pressure on shaming it or feeling disgusted by what we have been trained since very young to not-do (wet themselves).

Twice someone told me clearly they found it disgusting and would never do it after I told them about my fetish. Both times were people I met through a dating app that I waited until I saw things were going well to tell them (the first I told right on the first data and the second after we met almost 10 times).

Still, both ended up trying it at least once and didn't really seem disgusted by it.

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I had an ex that would bounce back and forth on what she was ok with - at first she opposed anything pee related and was pretty unpleasant that I’d be interested in it, but she eventually eased up and did some softer omo stuff. But there were a few times even after that wear she responded really negatively. One that sticks out was when she told me she was wet (just meaning that she was horny) but I thought she was implying she’d leaked/had an accident... she ended up getting super upset because she took that to mean that I wasn’t interested in her and only wanted her for the fetish despite it being a simple misunderstanding. Stuff like that is no fun. 😞 

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i don't think that is a terribly reasonable reaction, whether they're into kink / omo or not.  something similar happened to me a loooong time ago. we put protection and the mattress and discussed what we were going to do but as soon as i started peeing she went off on my for like at least an hour.  i don't know if there were subtle hints at some kind of humiliation game i missed or... ? i mean, i miss a lot of hints, so, that might have been it -_- it sucked. we actually went on to do some very naughty and fun things in the future 😮 i remember her wetting herself right inside the doorway of a college dorm room, in my car in the middle of a crowded parking lot...  it was good. i'd share details for those potentially interested, but that was so long ago i'd be basically writing fiction. (idk if you can tell but i'm not a good writer. used to be. use it or lose it.) i don't know if it was necessarily worth dealing with all the times like the first thing i mentioned. i mean, i possibly could have been doing kinky omo things with people who didn't yell at me? i totally forgot about that experience until i went to write, "i'm glad i've never had an experience like that" HA. thankfully that was the only one. other than that, the most not - turned - on reactions i've gotten was laughter. that's a far more reasonable response, if you ask me. it's freakin peeing your pants. unless someone says  "DO NOT PEE YOUR PANTS OR I WILL BE VERY HURT," i don't think it's that big of a deal. i'm 90 percent sure i'd feel this way if i wasn't into omo or anything of the sort.

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On 4/19/2020 at 1:54 PM, Lesbianomogirl said:

So this happened a few years ago with a now ex. Both of us were into kink and quite routinely used diapers as part of our kink.  

This happened during one of our times sleeping together. Its burned into my memory. Because despite having this fetish. After my accident I spent the entire night in tears. I have a issue of losing bladder control during sex. Normally I just leak and something like a towel underneath is enough to protect the bed. Something I warned my partner at the time about and they were aware of. To protect the bed I put on a pair of child style pulls ups and we started of with using a vibrator on each other. 

The vibrator was against me through the pull up up I felt myself close to orgasm. Then I felt myself get wet in a bad way. I felt a lot of liquid start to stream down me and pool at my bum. But I didn't worry. I was wearing a pull up and my partner was as kinky as me I had nothing to worry about. So i continued. Getting closer and closer to orgasm and losing more and more control of my bladder. 

Afterwards I remember thinking shit I feel really wet. I move on the bed and look down. The pull up has leaked and the sheets are soaked. 

I remember feeling really embarrassed and having to tell them I leaked. They got mad and started shouting at me. I was not expecting them to be so angry over it so the anger hit me harder. I ended up cleaning the bed up and spending the night on the sofa in tears.

What's wrong with him?? See after a long day and an intense orgasm with a girl I was so exhausted I dropped in what was like a coma. When I woke up her eyes met mine. She had a sad look on her face and said "don't worry, but you wet the bed". I wasn't sure if I was still dreaming but suddenly I felt the cold wetness from my body. Then I realized this happened in HER bed and she was still living with her parents. I panicked and thought about jumping outta the f'n window. Next thing I know she handed me some chocolate and tried to comfort me. She then told me I had slept 11 hours and she was already awake for a whole 4 hours due to me wetting myself. She was not into omo or anything and didn't know about my interest in this either so how she handled it was really special if you ask me. She only told her parents I wasn't feeling well and got them out of the house so we could clean up.

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The only person I've told is my ex, which the relationship was long distance. It's a shame because she was super into it too lol. I would never tell anyone irl though, unless they told me they were into it first. Omorashi has always been my favorite kink/fetish, and it's always been a personal thing of mine. So I'm careful who I share it with to not accidentally ruin the special-ness of it ^^

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I wet one too many times on accident to be anything but empathetic.

 

I hope I can be a good partner to someone if they actually have incontinence issues. I'd keep towels pads and diapers stocked.

 

I'll use a rubber sheet and towels under my bed frame,  But if they wet on me in my sleep things will get physical. 

 

I'm sorry your ex sucks, getting angry at an intimate mistake is sociopathic. He'd prob be the kind of guy that would put a toy/videogame back if their kid wet at the store so the kid can have trust issues and low self esteem for the rest of their life. 

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