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What’s the worst about desperation on a long bus ride for you


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On 4/19/2020 at 2:47 PM, mr calypto said:

It was not a very long bus ride (around 2hr) but the big cup of coffee and the two bottles of water prior to the bus ride, started to kick in after about an hour in. My girlfriend (who I went on the trip with, and took the pic below, shortly before our ride) - peed before we got on the bus but I didn't feel the need to, in spite of the coffee consumed and all that water.

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The bus ride was going smooth but an hour in, I started to feel the first signals, and within 10 or so more minutes I was hit by a really strong urge to piss. My bladder not only was quite full all of a sudden, but the urge was quite strong to release; like the drunken pees you desperately need when you're on several beers.

I was now in a state of panic, I've never wet myself in my life (and no, I didnt this time either), but I was really worried. I knew we had another 40-45 mins and it was a straight road ahead, we were on a highway, so there was no way the bus would stop. And it didn't. The fact that I was wearing tight leather pants really didn't help. The tightness especially in the bladder area was squishing my bladder, which was already throbbing from piss.

My girlfriend was trying to comfort me and take my mind off. I was squirming in my bus seat for a good 40 minutes. When we arrived at the bus station, I somehow managed to walk to the toilets and I unleashed a powerful torrent of piss in the urinal. 

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Fuck those are hot pants!

 

Also, my answer would be... Not being able to brag about masturbating to bus-based desperation porn on NUMTOT groups...

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2 hours ago, DesperateJill said:

Trust me I wasn't holding out of choice! I would have loved to go to the bathroom but it was a situation of not being able to go due to circumstances, which is what made it extra frustrating. It's one thing if you're holding voluntarily just to show you can do it, but another thing if you are holding on for dear life because you have no choice.

I understand that you was holding about the circumstances, but was it not a little bit arousing. needing to go, but forced to hold it?

Was you not a little bit proud of your ability to hold it for so long?

You asked me, if i would love this trip- my answer: yes i would!

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Guest Peter-P

Best is, if a beautiful woman at a party decides to just go pee at home, not at the party. And the party is too good to leave - and all night long and a long way back home by foot on a cold Sunday morning...

I adore women, who anyhow get home dry no matter how desperate and bladder spasming the party and the way home is...  🙂


And of cause after really much (diuretic) beer...  😛

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"I understand that you was holding about the circumstances, but was it not a little bit arousing. needing to go, but forced to hold it?

Was you not a little bit proud of your ability to hold it for so long?

You asked me, if i would love this trip- my answer: yes i would!"

The time I hadn't yet developed a fetish for it so my only thoughts were getting to a bathroom and how it was driving me out of my mind. Of course now years later of course I fantasize about that trip, so it was only retroactively that it really started to arouse me. I am one of those people who I think got into this fetish out of the trauma of being forced to hold it many times and then I started to eroticize it. I used to hate having to hold it but then when I would masturbate that is what I would fantasize about, situations where I was in incredible bladder pain!

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18 minutes ago, DesperateJill said:

"I understand that you was holding about the circumstances, but was it not a little bit arousing. needing to go, but forced to hold it?

Was you not a little bit proud of your ability to hold it for so long?

You asked me, if i would love this trip- my answer: yes i would!"

The time I hadn't yet developed a fetish for it so my only thoughts were getting to a bathroom and how it was driving me out of my mind. Of course now years later of course I fantasize about that trip, so it was only retroactively that it really started to arouse me. I am one of those people who I think got into this fetish out of the trauma of being forced to hold it many times and then I started to eroticize it. I used to hate having to hold it but then when I would masturbate that is what I would fantasize about, situations where I was in incredible bladder pain!

That trip sounds painful from your other comments. Were you actually desperate cause your bladder was full? Could you stand still in line or sit still on the bus because when I am at home I am trying to simulate long lines but can’t atand still 

did men try to make women jealous on the trip? 

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One of my earliest experiences was actually holding while stuck on the school bus. It was a hour and half ride usually. During that first 20 minutes, I could definitely tell I had to pee. And bad.

The next hour drug by. I was the last stop and once the last person got off, I told the bus driver to please hurry because I thought I was gonna have an accident. Thankfully, she let me stand and that helped me a lot. I made it but I wasn’t sure I could make another 5 minutes.

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I haven't actually had to deal with this. When it comes to traveling, I am super super careful about how much I drink and plan out bathroom trips. I know, I know, I'm no fun XD. I love reading about others' traveling desperation experiences, but for me it's one of the worst situations to be in irl since it's harder to clean up if you have an accident.

For me, the worst part of being desperate on a bus would be outside factors that add to the discomfort. I'm a bit claustrophobic and a bus triggers that (trains are fine). So anxiety would be high, and if I really had to pee, those 2 factors would play off each other and make it worse. I'm also a germaphobe, so I'd be very scared that rest stops wouldn't be clean, but if I was desperate I'd HAVE to use them.

I'd also be scared of outliers, like traffic jams and closed rest stops. Things I can't control.

Even if there was a toilet on the bus, I wouldn't use it. Something about that is so off-putting, and I've used bathrooms on trains. I guess it's because train bathrooms have flush toilets and actual soap + water.

Can you tell I prefer trains lol.

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Guest w92iasd

The vibration, bumps and dips in the road, anxiety and remaining still. The first 2 are obvious I think, anxiety for me would come from knowing there is a chance I would actually pee myself in public and being forced to remain seated in a relatively still manner is kinda hard when you are really desperate as well

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16 hours ago, w92iasd said:

The vibration, bumps and dips in the road, anxiety and remaining still. The first 2 are obvious I think, anxiety for me would come from knowing there is a chance I would actually pee myself in public and being forced to remain seated in a relatively still manner is kinda hard when you are really desperate as well

I have always wondered why bumps make it worse. I might post a thread on it. Hmm I have been thinking more if peeing pants is possible because it seems like from my simulations it’s always leaks but they can be visible too but yeah staying still would be hard

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Guest Peter-P

If your bladder gets full and heavy and you drive over a bump, your bladder's weight plus the shock energy from hitting the bump tease your bladder walls like it would be a much fuller bladder. So the bladder walls spasm too and the sphincter has to work worse...

I wonder why you wonder... 😉

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Do you all think drivers are more sympathetic to a girl than boy? I remember this field trip when younger a guy was shouting and complaining he had to pee for at least an hour and everyone on the bus told him to be quiet and the tour guide, driver and teacher all told him he has to hold it because it’s his fault. An hour later a quiet girl started having tears and all of a sudden the driver let her use the coach’s lavatory while the boy kept complaining until we got to our stop and he said we’d the restroom there. The girl no idea why she kept quiet and why we only knew cause she was crying. Never seen crying in pee desperation. I guess it may have been a sharp pain

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13 hours ago, Angusburger said:

Do you all think drivers are more sympathetic to a girl than boy? I remember this field trip when younger a guy was shouting and complaining he had to pee for at least an hour and everyone on the bus told him to be quiet and the tour guide, driver and teacher all told him he has to hold it because it’s his fault. An hour later a quiet girl started having tears and all of a sudden the driver let her use the coach’s lavatory while the boy kept complaining until we got to our stop and he said we’d the restroom there. The girl no idea why she kept quiet and why we only knew cause she was crying. Never seen crying in pee desperation. I guess it may have been a sharp pain

When I worked as bus driver on the night bus lines, so I stoped bus in the nearest place. No matter if it was girl or boy who asked me. Usually that stop used 10 and more peoples for pee. Some of them peed near my bus so I could see them in my rearview mirror 🙂

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I'd love to be on something like a bus that's unexpectedly stuck in unusually heavy traffic and eventually we've got a lot of squirmers... I've always dreamed of being one of multiple people who didn't make it in a situation where no one could get away for a bathroom break.

But, under any other circumstances, I'd hate to be desperate on a bus - if it's to the actually-might-not-make-it level, you have a choice: risk wetting yourself in a public situation you won't be able to get out of, and make a mess that others will have to clean up or even step in, or get off the bus in search of a restroom and have to wait a loooong time for the next one.

 

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