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One of the many things I really enjoy about pee desperation is the language people use. It ranges from absolute silence and soft moans to uncharacteristic swearing and cursing and repeating phrases and almost begging. I find when someone does talk it can add a degree of emotion that actions alone don’t quite convey. 
I am also intrigued by the fact that authentic desperation for example on say a you tube clip not designed for ‘porn’ most people are fairly talkative with things like ‘stop the car please I have to go!’ And such like yet as soon as you see staged or even genuine desperation but made for the porn audience the vast majority of the videos don’t have spoken language. 
I get that privacy and identification are major issues but I would love to hear more language in videos and wondered if anyone else felt this?
do you like the language of desperation and if so what phrases or types of language do you like best?  

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Oh god yesss. This is exactly why Bound 2 Burst has always been my second favorite producer, next to Picas. In every one of their videos, they're talking constantly and it's so wonderful. Yes the moans are amazing, but literally anything they say in that, you know, that really desperate tone of voice, it's just magical. I'd listen to a woman read instruction manuals for vague forklifts from the 70's if she were desperate and I'd cling onto every word. 

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I totally agree with you! Interestingly when I am genuinely desperate, and I am becomingly increasingly prone to “proximity desperation” as I get older, I am more likely to be naturally vocal when I pee. However, when I make vids, although the desperation is very real, I become subconscious about being vocal in case it sounds effected or false 

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I totally agree! Desperation in real life is in most cases accompanied by very explicit vocal expressions, which very much contribute to the fascination of the whole scenario. The voice of the desperate person sounding authentically (!) worried or even full of panic - this rarely happens in staged videos, but it does in real life.

As for particular phrases, this is not so easy to answer for me, as English is not my first language and I hear these typical phrases in my home country in German - unfortunately it’s not really possible to translate these typical German phrases into English without losing the particular „atmosphere“ of them... 😕

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I’m an absolute fan of a verbal expression of desperation. As long as it's not too vulgar. In principle, any self-respecting lady, tries to be discreet when she has to admit that she needs a toilet. It depends a lot on the situation and the character of the lady, what words and expressions she uses. It’s very hot for me when I hear a woman to use the particular verb pee” and its derivative expressions. Women talks in this way, among close friends, in front of a man whom they have intimate relations or he is very close friend. Using the verb pee instead of some other polite form is usually a sign, that a woman is desperate.

I noticed the following graduation of desperation, according to the phrases woman saying in informal setting: 1 - “I have to go (to the toilet)” – it’s a normal state, she is not in a hurry and she is going to the toilet just in any case. 2 – “I have to pee” – the bladder is quite full, it’s still not so urgent, but at the earliest opportunity she will go to the toilet. 3 – “I really have to pee” following sometimes with “I’m going to pee myself” – that means a woman feels a real discomfort in her bladder and her only plan at that moment is to find a toilet as soon as possible. You need to look for а specific body movements - it is almost certain that she would be in visible discomfort. Even more, if you are close enough with her, you could become a witness of her peeing outside. In a formal setting the women use only polite forms and in most cases they would ask for a toilet only when they are bursting.

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In my native language, there are many verbs that mean "pee". Two most popular verbs, the regular and the vulgar, compare more or less as "make out" and "fuck", if I use English words for having sex as examples (can't think of any other way to explain). Of course there's a medical verb ( ≈ urinate) and many imitative verbs ( ≈ wee-wee). Normally a person won't say any of these, just "visit the toilet" (closest translation). Also, there's a verb that means "to be desperate", but in one word, like "I despair for two hours already!" (Of course this word wasn't made for holding pee, its first meaning is something like "bear". One can say, for example, "I always despair your reproaches!")

So, someone please remind me what was I going to say?.. Ah, this: I really like the vulgar word, it's so hot. Last weekend there was a bathroom line at some bar, and that very drunk girl in front of me turns to me and says "I'm gonna pee myself* right now". It was so sexy :3

*swear word

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I agree that verbal expression of desperation by a female is an absolute turn on, especially if accompanied by urgent visible actions such as leg crossing, dancing and jiggling, also arms folded tightly across the stomach. etc. Another favourite of mine is the "sssssss" sound desperate women sometimes make, by sucking in air through clenched teeth, things are usually getting quite urgent by this stage. Interestingly most of the posters in this thread are using the word "pee". I'm guessing that most are from the USA, but where I am, in the UK, "wee, toilet or loo" are much more commonly used words. Typical phrases being "I'm bursting for a wee", "I'm dying to wee" "I'm busting to go to the toilet" "I need a wee desperately" "I'm dying for the loo" etc. To hear a female utter any of those is music to my ears!

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