DL but not AB

[Micron227 50]

I love diapers but not into the adult baby stuff. Not hating on it... just not my thing. 

Diapers for me are more of a comfort and fun thing for me. 

Sometimes i will wear them all day and never pee in them. 

Other times I will soak them as much as i can then run to the batroom (carefully) before they leak for a change. 

Any thoughts? Questions?  Or anyone feel the same?

[Marty Silver 21]

I'm with you in that boat. I don't have anything against AB stuff and those who love it either. I just like my diaper things without that stuff, and I'm a little but sad tha it's so hard for me to find the content with diapers that I want. Maybe I'm looking in wrong places or not hard enough (the latter is most likely true), but who knows.

[juntaglom 87]

When I first got interested in diapers, I thought I might just be a DL, but relatively quickly I also realized I was a little. The DL side of me is very important and very, um, fulfilling, but I'm happy that I enjoy both. To me, AB has much more of a community or even lifestyle associated with it and that part of it is very fun. It kind of elevates the whole thing beyond just a kink, if that makes sense. If you know for sure that your interests lie in diapers and nothing else, that's great, but if you have any doubt, I think that experimenting is always a good idea.

[Micron227 50]

Thank you for the comment and insight. To me the AB part fits in the RP relm and im not that good at that. (Im more of a just get down to busness type) But i also havent had a partner to explore that deeply.

[Bravestone 362]

I've always been way more of a dl too. But for some reason chatting with a woman here who enjoyed both ab/dl made me think I may enjoy AB as a sub. She wasn't even trying to sell me on it. Just the way she spoke of it kinda made me feel .... good. and curious.

[juntaglom 87]

5 minutes ago, Micron227 said:

But i also havent had a partner to explore that deeply.

I haven't either, at least, not in real life. But I do think that AB becomes a lot more inviting when you have a partner... like if you're just a DL then there isn't exactly a tailor-made roleplay dynamic for you, so you're kind of either going to go for something AB-flavored or something more BDSM-flavored.

3 minutes ago, nc_dude said:

I've always been way more of a dl too. But for some reason chatting with a woman here who enjoyed both ab/dl made me think I may enjoy AB as a sub. She wasn't even trying to sell me on it. Just the way she spoke of it kinda made me feel .... good. and curious.

ONE OF US ONE OF US

[jackthestripper 61]

I'm also not into AB personally, but I'd hang out with someone who's full ABDL.

[bobbyindiapers 15]

I'm more of a DL. Have  been for years. I can't fault any one for being a little, but  when it comes to diaper play I want someone to be the same age as I. I've been involved with a woman who found out about me liking diapers and it was a good relationship. I guess you could say I was submissive, but it worked for me.

[Calvin1 69]

I've worn diapers in the past just for fun. Have not had the chance to, though, in a very long time. I enjoyed the feeling, but like others have noted, never had a partner to try experimenting with the AB side. 

[CarmenCD 682]

I wear diapers every night for the past year, but I'm also not into AB. It's just out of convenience, because I had prior to that too often wetting accidents in my sleep and I hate cleaning my bed, especially in the morning when I'm in a hurry to get to work.

[Miralyn 1]

I'm also DL but not AB. I enjoy wearing and wetting diapers as more of a sexual thing, although I'd wear for convenience too if I got the chance to wear more often (like car trips or movies for example). I wouldn't mind hanging out with AB's so long as no one's trying to force me into that world since it's not something I'm into myself.

[Bluesman59 52]

On 11/26/2019 at 2:39 PM, jackthestripper said:

I'm also not into AB personally, but I'd hang out with someone who's full ABDL.

This.  This 100%.  

[Tailsuser 24]

I am also not so very much into the AB thing. Some AB flavored wetting vids are quite good, but let's face it: I am a DL.

I tried neither of it in companion, but I expect the AB thing to kill the arousal for me. If I got asked wheter I want to try the AB side of things by a girl, I would probably say yes anyways, but I need to do it carefully.

I come up with DL stuff by myself sometime, but also very carefully and after I got to know the girl. I just do not trust the girls I make out with enough to tell them about these things, at least not after seeing them like two times, that means vanilla sex until I know them better. My bigger problem: Having the gals longer. Might also be me being afraid of too much contact.

[scinosensation 117]

I am a lifelong DL but not an AB. I had often wished diapers could be my regular underwear.

[wetaccident 38]

I definitely skew toward the DL side of the spectrum. AB stuff is not really my thing though certainly it doesn't bother me that others enjoy it. I do have some "little" tendencies though.

[Wetshisbed 56]

I am incontinent and unashamedly DL. The AB sene isn't for me but I have the greatest respect for those who are that way.  You only get one life if it harms no one. Live it as you choose.

[Tailsuser 24]

On 12/1/2019 at 11:18 PM, scinosensation said:

I am a lifelong DL but not an AB. I had often wished diapers could be my regular underwear.

Thats how you know you are a at least a DL. But anyone has to admit that diapers feel way better than usual underwear. The only bad thing about them is how they have a stigma. I can see why, but I like to wear them anyways.

[Pineapple_ 7]

I realized I liked diapers in the past year. Not into the baby stuff tho.

[Barry 1,113]

I’m a DL, but definitely not an AB. 
I like wearing and using them, and love the feel and the look. 
I do identify with having a “Little” side, although it’s not always there. My “Little” side is between 9-12, and sometimes I imagine myself as that desperate or distracted kid who has an accident. Diapers are a rare treat for me, but when I do have them, my Little side is definitely more prone to coming out. 
I don’t actually play or act as a kid. That just feels completely weird and unnatural for me, although I understand how it works for some people. I have no desire to actually regress, and don’t want to be babied, or treated as such. 
But when I’m desperate or wetting, it’s fun to mentally regress to my preferred age bracket, and pretend in my mind that I’m a kid having an accident, or wearing a diaper for bed wetting. 

[RNSL81 76]

Hi there. Defo a DL after trying them earlier in the year after wanting to for ages. I would love to try AB with the right woman though. I can see myself as being a sub as I'm quite introverted IRL. Never had the chance but would love to see myself as younger (not baby, perhaps early teens) and being diapered after an accident. No spanking or humiliation, not that much of a sub, but being "helped" to clean up and then put in a nice fresh fluffy diaper. And then let it build back up to flood it (which is the best feeling, letting the heavy warmth spread out......mmmmm). And my partner ending up wet or diapered as well of course. Have to share the fun.

[nightfox82 3]

I'm a DL and diapers are for me pretty much a sexual thing or like my kink #1 beside a couple of others, but not AB. 

[wetaccident 38]

On 12/4/2019 at 5:27 PM, Barry said:

I’m a DL, but definitely not an AB. 
I like wearing and using them, and love the feel and the look. 
I do identify with having a “Little” side, although it’s not always there. My “Little” side is between 9-12, and sometimes I imagine myself as that desperate or distracted kid who has an accident. Diapers are a rare treat for me, but when I do have them, my Little side is definitely more prone to coming out. 
I don’t actually play or act as a kid. That just feels completely weird and unnatural for me, although I understand how it works for some people. I have no desire to actually regress, and don’t want to be babied, or treated as such. 
But when I’m desperate or wetting, it’s fun to mentally regress to my preferred age bracket, and pretend in my mind that I’m a kid having an accident, or wearing a diaper for bed wetting. 

I feel what Barry said here describes me pretty well too. My interest in desperation and wetting is clearly rooted in my childhood habit of getting distracted playing with friends or video games or movies or whatever and waiting too long to go pee. So while I wouldn't say I engage in "age play" as such (I relate to the notion of this feeling unnatural to me as well though I know some enjoy it), the activities I enjoy for a hold/wetting now are similar to the ones that that used to unintentionally produce the same result when I was younger. This is often video games or movies these days as they can be done solo. My childhood friends were very forgiving of my wet pants if I had an accident while we were playing but I don't think the reaction would be the same now as an adult!

Similarly, for the DL side I have no interest in the AB aspect at all but enjoy the notion of waking up wet or wearing while gaming etc. I love the feeling and the look of the diaper bulging out when wet and will wear as long as I can to enjoy that feeling more.

Edited December 8, 2019 by wetaccident (see edit history)

[footedsleeper 121]

I'm also DL and not AB.

[Geniefan 56]

I guess I'm just a DL since I don't really do anything that makes me an AB

[CapCap 60]

Thanks for posting this. 

Same here too.