leicesterfan 62 Posted July 11, 2019 Share Posted July 11, 2019 I've recently been getting more comfortable wearing and wetting in public, which I have to say has been tremendous fun! Every time I've worn in public I've worn underwear over my diaper, I guess to try and disguise the crinkle/bulge a bit more. However, I'd say about 60% of the time when I wet (not too much that the diaper gets close to capacity), some of the pee finds it's way onto my underwear around where the underwear meets the leak guards. It's never been enough to leak onto my pants (touch wood!) but it's not the most comfortable feeling and I do fear that in some situations it could help a proper leak to occur. So I wondered how everyone else deals with this, do you guys wear underwear over the diaper or not bother? My concern if wearing jeans is that the material could rub against the plastic and cause a small tear which I wouldn't notice until a leak had already occurred Quote Link to comment
tsporty1 88 Posted July 11, 2019 Share Posted July 11, 2019 Part of it could be if you're wearing briefs and they are getting under the diaper. I wear boxer briefs or women's underwear and don't have this problem. I also don't trust wearing a diaper without anything covering it under jeans. I fear for the plastic to be rubbed too much and tear. leicesterfan 1 Quote Link to comment
rachelkirwan 13,626 Posted July 17, 2019 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted July 17, 2019 With you on this, when I was younger and even today, I always pull a pair of larger panties over top of a pullup or diaper I wear in public, easier for changes and covering sounds. I even wore panties inside my Goodnites for a couple of months when my mom thought my feeling wet would wake me up... this did not work. moiamigo and leicesterfan 2 Quote Link to comment
sandy808 1,192 Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 I occasionally will wear panties over my diaper to help conceal it. moiamigo and leicesterfan 2 Quote Link to comment
leicesterfan 62 Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 14 hours ago, rachelkirwan said: With you on this, when I was younger and even today, I always pull a pair of larger panties over top of a pullup or diaper I wear in public, easier for changes and covering sounds. I even wore panties inside my Goodnites for a couple of months when my mom thought my feeling wet would wake me up... this did not work. Have you ever tried plastic pants Rachel? I've ordered a pair and I'm now questioning whether to go diaper then plastic pants then underwear then jeans, or skip the underwear altogether. I've got a long car journey coming up where I'll mostly be on my own except for when I briefly pick something up on the way so I would like to wear an ABU or something similar but want to make sure I can disguise it as best as possible and avoid any leaks from sitting down too long Quote Link to comment
rachelkirwan 13,626 Posted July 18, 2019 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted July 18, 2019 On 7/17/2019 at 2:25 PM, leicesterfan said: Have you ever tried plastic pants Rachel? I've ordered a pair and I'm now questioning whether to go diaper then plastic pants then underwear then jeans, or skip the underwear altogether. I've got a long car journey coming up where I'll mostly be on my own except for when I briefly pick something up on the way so I would like to wear an ABU or something similar but want to make sure I can disguise it as best as possible and avoid any leaks from sitting down too long I have but I've had bad luck finding pairs that are comfortable and don't cut off circulation in my legs. I wore plastic panties occasionally when I was growing up, but basically stopped about 8? 6? Quote Link to comment
CONNORDL 3 Posted July 20, 2019 Share Posted July 20, 2019 it's not just about how much you wet, but how fast. theres a huge difference between a brief flooding and a constant dribble. that said, underwear is always prefered, maybe you should consider wearing loose boxers? Reeve, debisibllaall and tricot 3 Quote Link to comment
Reeve 1,868 Posted July 28, 2019 Share Posted July 28, 2019 On 7/19/2019 at 11:33 PM, CONNORDL said: it's not just about how much you wet, but how fast. theres a huge difference between a brief flooding and a constant dribble. that said, underwear is always prefered, maybe you should consider wearing loose boxers? Couldn't agree more. Peeing too fast won't allow the diaper to absorb it all and cause some to leak out. The position you're in (Sitting/standing) will also determine where the pee ends up, and possibly cause leaks out the sides. I find letting it out slower, or peeing when you don't need to go that bad, is the best way to go. I've also had good experiences with wearing loose boxers over diapers, allowing them to conceal whatever is sticking out above my jeans, and also helping to muffle sounds and protect from rubbing against the denim. Quote Link to comment
rachelkirwan 13,626 Posted July 29, 2019 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted July 29, 2019 Hehehe I just realized my profile pic is literally me with panties inside my pullups! Quote Link to comment
DeltaFoxtrot 173 Posted July 29, 2019 Share Posted July 29, 2019 On 7/18/2019 at 7:15 PM, rachelkirwan said: I have but I've had bad luck finding pairs that are comfortable and don't cut off circulation in my legs. My wife has the same problem. We use cloth diapers on weekends to save money on disposables but the plastic pants have always bothered her. Try Leakmaster PUL pants. You can get them on Amazon. Very comfortable around the legs and still snug enough to prevent leaks. Those are the only kind my wife has had any luck with. Quote Link to comment
dampknickers 213 Posted July 29, 2019 Share Posted July 29, 2019 I prefer panties under the pull up. I enjoy wet pants feeling. Also decent plastic pants over that with big enough leg openings. It feels so nice peeing my pants with confidence and then I can just enjoy the sensation as I'm wetting ! Quote Link to comment
Will1994 136 Posted July 30, 2019 Share Posted July 30, 2019 I've tried boxers over diapers before. Only to help conceal and keep the poof from being obvious. If they're wet, they'll of course sag. And walking can turn into awkward waddling if you don't have something to help support your diaper. Of course if you're wearing something noisy, adding a pair of underwear that is similar to compression shorts, can really minimize the telltale signs of what you have underneath. Less noise, less poof. Quote Link to comment
SquirmWorm 6 Posted July 31, 2019 Share Posted July 31, 2019 I usually wear boxer briefs over my pull-ups. Mostly because it makes them fit snugger and I feel more secure that way, but also because it cuts down on the crinkle sounds. Quote Link to comment
Wetshisbed 191 Posted August 14, 2019 Share Posted August 14, 2019 I wear incontinene pants over my nappies Quote Link to comment
oopsiepants 2 Posted October 10, 2019 Share Posted October 10, 2019 I always do that. I like to feel the bulge through my underwear lol and in the event I have to bend over I can hopefully mitigate risk of diaper exposure lol. Plus I like when it leaks a little bit Quote Link to comment
Cuddlebear55 30 Posted October 10, 2019 Share Posted October 10, 2019 There is a great set of videos on youtube where they test different diapers on a manican. They showed that wearing underwear (boxer brief's or tighty whiteys) will cause the diaper to leak sooner. So you can get more capacity if you don't wear snug clothing over top. However, I find, probably because I don't have hips, that as the diaper gets full and heavier it will not just sag but start to slid right off. So I always wear boxer briefs over a diaper. They keep the diaper nicely in place without applying too much pressure, and don't have the elastic of the briefs interfering with the side guards. I don't usually see leaks until I sit down having filled more than the compression of sitting can handle. I try to be very aware of how much my diaper can hold when I'm out in public. Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,403 Posted October 13, 2019 Share Posted October 13, 2019 On 10/10/2019 at 8:23 PM, Cuddlebear55 said: There is a great set of videos on youtube where they test different diapers on a manican. They showed that wearing underwear (boxer brief's or tighty whiteys) will cause the diaper to leak sooner. So you can get more capacity if you don't wear snug clothing over top. However, I find, probably because I don't have hips, that as the diaper gets full and heavier it will not just sag but start to slid right off. So I always wear boxer briefs over a diaper. They keep the diaper nicely in place without applying too much pressure, and don't have the elastic of the briefs interfering with the side guards. I don't usually see leaks until I sit down having filled more than the compression of sitting can handle. I try to be very aware of how much my diaper can hold when I'm out in public. What is the title/account name of these? Quote Link to comment
Cuddlebear55 30 Posted October 14, 2019 Share Posted October 14, 2019 Real World Incontinence I'll try and link it. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCM0f82pCeke-f1EFwWXX00g Quote Link to comment
sissy baz 10 Posted December 18, 2019 Share Posted December 18, 2019 On 7/29/2019 at 9:40 PM, dampknickers said: I prefer panties under the pull up. I enjoy wet pants feeling. Also decent plastic pants over that with big enough leg openings. It feels so nice peeing my pants with confidence and then I can just enjoy the sensation as I'm wetting ! I also love wearing satin panties under goodnight pull ups and maybe pul panties on top for extra protection this way its the best of both worlds wet panties pull ups and waterproof panties and when im around home I also wear my plastic skirt, nice ! Quote Link to comment
Guest Flyboy Posted December 21, 2019 Share Posted December 21, 2019 I'll often wear boxers or shorts over top, both because I continue to be shy about this in front of my wife, and because it helps combat the sag as they start to become soaked. I've contemplated buying a plain onesie, but the ones I've seen are expensive, and I'm not sure I'm comfortable enough with myself to go around sporting one of those anyway. Ironically, I tend to feel less self conscious in front of total strangers, and am contemplating wearing a diaper on an upcoming flight just by itself under sweatpants or track pants. Quote Link to comment
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