Theonlysaneperson 42 Posted January 7, 2019 Share Posted January 7, 2019 If you had a method, whether "magical" or chemical or other to "turn off" your bladder control for a specific length of time, how long would you do it? I know some AB/DL types strive for total incontinence, but most of us would definitely hate that? So, how long? Hours, days, weeks, months, (etc.)? Go ahead and throw loss of bowel control in there too, if you fancy. I'd love to pick your brains about this. Quote Link to comment
Explorermonkey 504 Posted January 7, 2019 Share Posted January 7, 2019 It would depend on what I was planning on doing in the near future. Where I work I have to change clothes with about 5-7 of my co-workers, so wearing a diaper during a work period would be out of question for my part. But if I was off work and didn't have any plans I definitely would try being totally incontinent for a weekend, or even a full week. nappypants 1 Quote Link to comment
JMatthews1995 1,030 Posted January 7, 2019 Share Posted January 7, 2019 It's not a constant leak is it? If not I'd say a full weekend! Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,402 Posted January 7, 2019 Share Posted January 7, 2019 Yeah, a weekend would be about right. Would be good to have different choices of how to experience it, e.g. constant leakage, or episodes of urgency that you can't hold back. Quote Link to comment
noobishlord 53 Posted January 7, 2019 Share Posted January 7, 2019 Probably for a weekend at first, and maybe a week here or there later. Quote Link to comment
ourwetsecret 412 Posted January 7, 2019 Share Posted January 7, 2019 I agree with everyone with just starting off for a weekend (maybe not even the whole weekend), or I’d plan it to where I know I won’t be leaving the house for at least a day or two. I feel like it’d be fun. footedsleeper 1 Quote Link to comment
Padded_girl 343 Posted January 7, 2019 Share Posted January 7, 2019 34 minutes ago, ourwetsecret said: I agree with everyone with just starting off for a weekend (maybe not even the whole weekend), or I’d plan it to where I know I won’t be leaving the house for at least a day or two. I feel like it’d be fun. Or maybe try diapers and go full incontinent for that weekend :3 Quote Link to comment
homeanddry 307 Posted January 7, 2019 Share Posted January 7, 2019 Personally, I wouldn’t ever want to, not even for a few hours. I like being in full control, and I like the challenge of pushing that as far as I can. I’d hate to lose control without a serious struggle first! luvmybladder4 1 Quote Link to comment
BladderLad 1,463 Posted January 8, 2019 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted January 8, 2019 I think for me enjoying extreme desperation is about testing the level of control that I actually have, so not having control doesn’t appeal, however each to their own! ? Quote Link to comment
SoggyShorts 815 Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 I would turn it off when I have time for myself, which usually lasts a few hours at most. I can see two variations: one where your bladder never fills -- it just runs out as fast as it runs in, and one where you just don't feel your bladder filling and when it hits a threshold, it just lets go. I think I'd enjoy either of these variations, but would prefer the latter....without diapers, of course. noobishlord 1 Quote Link to comment
shwarzwald 2 Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 Hmm with so many factors going into it choosing is quite hard. I mean to start with totally a weekend. I have those off so it would be like a little surprise each time it happened. Though with total incontinence I feel like you lose some of the thrill of trying to hold it in. Which kinda means you be doing something (playing game) and bam you've wet yourself. Now if I could get myself some diapers.....well then that would totally change it up. Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 I would definitely like to try out total incontinence if I could, but only for a week or so and when I'm on vacation or at least away from people I know, especially coworkers. And I wouldn't want to loss of bowel control. I hate to mess myself. Quote Link to comment
BENAir01 601 Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 It would depend on the situation and time. Under normal circumstances, an afternoon, maybe lasting overnight would be nice. If I managed to have the house to myself for a weekend, or it was just me and a certain person I'd want to be there with me, I would love to be able to go for a full weekend. The ideal of course would be like a full week where I could go on vacation with just the guy I'm into and we could just spend like the week at a rented house somewhere in the middle of nowhere and I could be incontinent for the week. Mostly in diapers, but maybe there would be a day where i would go without diapers. That would be especially good with the idea of you not feeling your bladder filling and then at a certain threshold it just releasing like @SoggyShorts mentioned. Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,585 Posted January 9, 2019 Share Posted January 9, 2019 I love the feeling of being full and desperate. I even try to continue trying to hold it in after i start leaking uncontrollably. To just start peeing without the sensation of trying to hold it, just feeling my clothes getting wet does nothing for me. I am also concerned about incontinence continuing when i don't want it too. Will I just start wetting my pants in public? No judging. To each their own. If that is what you enjoy it is all good. Quote Link to comment
kochel428 583 Posted January 9, 2019 Share Posted January 9, 2019 As long as we're fantasizing, I think the incontinence I'd like to be able to turn on and off would be something more like urge incontinence. Once my bladder became moderately full, I'd have a strong urge to pee, and sphincter muscles that were simply not strong enough to counteract that urge, no matter how hard I tried. I could have tons of fun with that for a day or a weekend. Quote Link to comment
WBxx 219 Posted January 10, 2019 Share Posted January 10, 2019 My fantasy, and I’ve making real progress, is to loose bladder control every time I fall asleep. Quote Link to comment
DrBorderline 325 Posted January 12, 2019 Share Posted January 12, 2019 Going through a number of variations here, in no particular order. Also not that all of these are based on the premise of 100% reliable, adjustable, temporary conditions; no "be careful what you wish for" scenarios. This also is based on the idea that these are scenarios that have no "abort" or "emergency stop" conditions. Overactive Bladder without Urge Incontinence: Maybe 24-48 hours, in other words a free weekend, to see what it's like. Rushing to make it to a bathroom in time could be fun, though the frequent trips and interruptions could easily be a hassle. Overactive Bladder with Urge Incontinence: Probably no more than 24 hours total if I didn't have some sort of absorbent stopgap in the worst case scenarios. Up to 48 hours if I did. So from one day to a weekend. Stress Incontinence: To be honest, curiosity would compel me to try this for a full week, to see how it would impact how I handled previously routine events and circumstances. (I tend to do a lot of heavy lifting, both when working and in my leisure time.) I would definitely plan ahead and get clothing, both under- and outer-wear, that could handle the occasional leak. No Feeling of Fullness, Sudden Emptying: Just for 12 hours. Even with diapers designed to hold a lot of liquid, too much released all at once has the potential to make a pretty big mess. Constant Leaks or Frequent Dribbling with Sensation of Going: 24 hours, probably. Diapers would be a necessity. Constant Leaks of Frequent Dribbling without Sensation of Going: No more than 12 hours, since I'd probably be constantly distracted trying to manage other stuff and checking to see if anything needed to be changed. Also I wouldn't be completely comfortable sleeping through the night, even with overnight diapers and plastic / rubber mattress protectors in place. Anything related to the bowels: No thank you, I'm fine with the bladder stuff. There's also a few more "exotic" scenarios in my head that I'm mentioning here for the sake of completion. Hypnotic Trigger, Uncommon, Instant Voiding: For 48 hours, over a weekend where the demand on my time and attention was low. No diapers. For those who aren't into or familiar with the erotic hypnosis / mind control thing, this means a word, phrase, sound or image that would cause an accident by itself, but it's not something most people would run across in the course of a normal day. Hypnotic Trigger, Common, Instant Voiding: For 24 hours, and I'd be in diapers for every second of them, since this is a trigger that I could easily stumble over with no warning. Hypnotic Suggestion, Can't Use A Toilet: For 24 hours if no diapers are involved, up to 48 if they are. This suggestion could take many forms, from an irrational fear of the toilet to temporarily forgetting how it works to a post-hypnotic trigger caused by toilet use that I'd want to avoid. Hypnotic Suggestion, Can't Feel How Full The Bladder Is But Control Is Normal: For 48 hours, over a weekend. I estimate I would end up getting into the habit of using the toilet every couple of hours to make sure I didn't overflow. Which probably would have consequences at night if I got used to regular bathroom trips. And there you go. More information than you know what to do with. ? Ultima01, nappypants, April Nine and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment
CaptainCranberry 166 Posted January 12, 2019 Share Posted January 12, 2019 Every night. Quote Link to comment
Breadfan 100 Posted January 13, 2019 Share Posted January 13, 2019 On the weekends I would definitely opt to turn control off I'd need control for work, but otherwise I'd love to be pleasantly surprised by wetting myself when I least expect it footedsleeper 1 Quote Link to comment
KnottyBuoy 113 Posted January 15, 2019 Share Posted January 15, 2019 I would turn it off for a full second at random intervals during any time when I needed to pee. That should be sufficient to make things quite interesting. Yeah, try it ? Quote Link to comment
jackthestripper 75 Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 Probably no more than 24 hours at a time, probably less. I am currently not in work or school so I have a lot of free time but I'd prefer to have loss of control as a gimmick rather than being bound to it as a lifestyle. I think it'd be kinda fun not realizing I peed until during/after the fact. At least for a short while. I'd like to be able to give myself sudden, intense, uncontrollable urges that I try to fight but lose, like what people with urge incontinence experience, (but of course still somewhat under my control.) I'd probably inflict those episodes on myself pretty often. Like, multiple times a day, whenever alone, near a bathroom/secluded outside, or in a diaper. nappypants 1 Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,402 Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 On 1/18/2019 at 8:35 AM, jackthestripper said: I'd like to be able to give myself sudden, intense, uncontrollable urges that I try to fight but lose, like what people with urge incontinence experience, (but of course still somewhat under my control.) I'd probably inflict those episodes on myself pretty often. Like, multiple times a day, whenever alone, near a bathroom/secluded outside, or in a diaper. Yeah, I like that idea (on a temporary basis). The situation where there's nothing you can do but flood your nappy, and that's why you need them... Quote Link to comment
tutti.frutti 64 Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 On 1/12/2019 at 6:57 AM, DrBorderline said: Going through a number of variations here, in no particular order. Also not that all of these are based on the premise of 100% reliable, adjustable, temporary conditions; no "be careful what you wish for" scenarios. This also is based on the idea that these are scenarios that have no "abort" or "emergency stop" conditions. Overactive Bladder without Urge Incontinence: Maybe 24-48 hours, in other words a free weekend, to see what it's like. Rushing to make it to a bathroom in time could be fun, though the frequent trips and interruptions could easily be a hassle. Overactive Bladder with Urge Incontinence: Probably no more than 24 hours total if I didn't have some sort of absorbent stopgap in the worst case scenarios. Up to 48 hours if I did. So from one day to a weekend. Stress Incontinence: To be honest, curiosity would compel me to try this for a full week, to see how it would impact how I handled previously routine events and circumstances. (I tend to do a lot of heavy lifting, both when working and in my leisure time.) I would definitely plan ahead and get clothing, both under- and outer-wear, that could handle the occasional leak. No Feeling of Fullness, Sudden Emptying: Just for 12 hours. Even with diapers designed to hold a lot of liquid, too much released all at once has the potential to make a pretty big mess. Constant Leaks or Frequent Dribbling with Sensation of Going: 24 hours, probably. Diapers would be a necessity. Constant Leaks of Frequent Dribbling without Sensation of Going: No more than 12 hours, since I'd probably be constantly distracted trying to manage other stuff and checking to see if anything needed to be changed. Also I wouldn't be completely comfortable sleeping through the night, even with overnight diapers and plastic / rubber mattress protectors in place. Anything related to the bowels: No thank you, I'm fine with the bladder stuff. There's also a few more "exotic" scenarios in my head that I'm mentioning here for the sake of completion. Hypnotic Trigger, Uncommon, Instant Voiding: For 48 hours, over a weekend where the demand on my time and attention was low. No diapers. For those who aren't into or familiar with the erotic hypnosis / mind control thing, this means a word, phrase, sound or image that would cause an accident by itself, but it's not something most people would run across in the course of a normal day. Hypnotic Trigger, Common, Instant Voiding: For 24 hours, and I'd be in diapers for every second of them, since this is a trigger that I could easily stumble over with no warning. Hypnotic Suggestion, Can't Use A Toilet: For 24 hours if no diapers are involved, up to 48 if they are. This suggestion could take many forms, from an irrational fear of the toilet to temporarily forgetting how it works to a post-hypnotic trigger caused by toilet use that I'd want to avoid. Hypnotic Suggestion, Can't Feel How Full The Bladder Is But Control Is Normal: For 48 hours, over a weekend. I estimate I would end up getting into the habit of using the toilet every couple of hours to make sure I didn't overflow. Which probably would have consequences at night if I got used to regular bathroom trips. And there you go. More information than you know what to do with. ? Have to say I like most of your suggested scenarios ? good work Quote Link to comment
Ultima01 188 Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 Once I get an apartment, probably try it out for a weekend to see if I like it. I would honestly like to see which one works better for my tastes: sudden urges that I can't fight or just releasing without warning or authorization at a certain threshold. Quote Link to comment
footedsleeper 178 Posted January 1, 2022 Share Posted January 1, 2022 I'd do it during times when I have privacy and the ability to clean up. Provided either i was alone or the only people who could see me are female and can appreciate the event in the right way. Quote Link to comment
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