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Will you ever come out with your fetish?


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Will you ever come out with your pee fetish to an audience? I was thinking about if I were to ever become a YouTuber with a loyal fanbase and one day I’d openly come out and admit that I have a piss fetish. I once saw a girl openly admit to being into BDSM on social media. But sadly she got a lot of hate from it. I think it’s stupid when someone comes out homosexual they get more respect over someone coming out with a fetish. I’m not saying coming out gay/lesbian doesn’t receive judgement as well, but fetish’s tend to have more backlash. I think coming out with anything should receive equal respect bc it takes a lot of guts. At the end of the day you are who you are. What’s most important is loving yourself. 

 

What’re your thoughts? 

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I probably never will, even to those closest to me. I’m not afraid of telling anyone, but it’s just best for me to keep this fetish to myself.

The only way I’d come out is if I got caught dead in the act (looking at omo, wetting myself on purpose... something like that) and it would be impossible for me to play it off. 

I have a fairly decent following on other social media and I would never bring this up to them lol. That just would not work... I started to see my old tumblr vids get posted on twitter  within the little omo community on there now, and I know with those sites things can easily get accidentally mixed with the ‘normal’ part of them and get a lot of backlash. I’ve seen it happen to a couple diaper pages and stuff like that.. I don’t show my face in these videos or pics I make but I wonder if someone would ever put two and two together one day and be like “hey is this you?” ? and my answer to them would still be no

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Why would that ever come up? Like, seriously, why would anyone other than a sexual partner ever need or want to know about a fetish?

A fetish isn't something you "come out" with. It's your own personal business that nobody else needs or wants to know.

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17 hours ago, 8BitMike said:

Coming out about your sexual orientation is in no way similar to coming out about what gets you off. This is just not a thing.

actually it's the exact same thing. because unless you intend to have sex with a person, both his/her sexual orientation and fetishes are completely irrelevant. 

people who talk in details about their sexuality all around the public are 1. annoying, because nobody cares, and 2. disrespectful to their own intimacy and their sexual partners. a person who respects himself/herself and sexual partner will keep it intimate. because that's where sexuality belongs, and it's in human nature to keep it private - that's why we cover our private parts for 1000s of years.
this "coming out" is like "hey, everybody, imagine me having sex with this person in this unconventional way!". i don't want to. nobody wants to, and nobody cares. and finding people like that annoying is not hating, it's common sense. if you want to be watched, just make porn for those who like to watch it. 

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No way would I broadcast my fetishes on social media!

It isn’t something I’d want my family, my daughter, my colleagues, bosses, my team members at work, all my friends and so on knowing.

There’s too much over-sharing of personal information already and I’m not going to add to it by telling everyone about my kinks. 

I’ve only told one person in real life - a female colleague and very close friend, who’d already told me some of the (rather more extreme) things she did. My secret is safe enough with her as effectively we have a “mutually assured destruction” deterrent against leaking the information about each other.

 

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My best friend and my wife know.  I don't see any real value in broadcasting it, because it doesn't have any noticeable impact on who I would have for a partner.

Now, all that said, if someone called me out on it, say someone I know discovered it, then the situation might shift a little, but my planned response can be summed up as, "yeah, so?  What of it?"

 

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6 hours ago, Breadfan said:

Not willingly, if someone ever does notice me on here and confronts me then I'd have no choice lol but at the end of the day a kink is just a kink, its super embarrassing sure but it'd be okay

well, if they're interested in you, having the same fetish (probably it's no coincidence for them coming on this site), something beautiful could come out with that ? if they don't and they just start that lecture about how everybody is different and it's ok to be weird, i'd just tell them to f**k off and mind their own business.

see, there is one thing i realize now that i haven't, when i was younger (and paranoid about anyone finding out about my fetish) is that person who gives out secrets and even mocks people because of them are much more disliked than people with weird secrets who try to conceal them and not bother anyone about it. so, be confident - if anything ever happens, don't feel guilty, and make damn sure your "mocker" will understand that he/she is much worse off than you if it spreads around. 

i have trusted quite many people with my fetish. actually, it was other way around - online i tell about my fetish without hesitation (to those who are interested or ask me, of course), and i reveal my true identity only to those individuals who i find are trustworthy. and i can assure you, unless you come accross a true psychopath, most people they will keep the secret. it's important to know that only you see the fetish as a big deal, other people almost don't care at all. 

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On 12/24/2018 at 6:45 AM, kenken4k said:

Will you ever come out with your pee fetish to an audience?

Well, what kind of audience do you mean? Your fetishes is like your sex life, you probably don't talk to a wide audience how many times you ejaculated last weekend, so you don't about your fetish. My wife knows, my kinky friends who I meet at local fetish parties and other kink related events know about my fetishes, like I know about their. Others don't need to know because they're not going to participate anyway, even if by sheer luck they're into it as well. Also, at least in my local area omorashi turned out to be extremely rare fetish, and very few people are into it, so chances to find one more among people I casually know are slim to none.

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An individual fetish is in no way comparable to sexual orientation which is about a whole lifestyle and whilst homophobia still exists ( which sadly it does) there is a political aspect to coming out and an importance about visibility 

an individual fetish area just isn’t the same 

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No, I don't think people need to know about it. People can obviously tell that I'm gay when I'm with my boyfriend, so I'm "out" in that way, but that's a little different fron a fetish. I don't draw sexy conclusions whenever I see a gay or straight couple, pretty much... but one's imagination could easily fill in the blanks, whether they want to or not, when hearing someone say "I'm into omorashi."

I'm into exhibition and public humiliation fantasies, but I'm not into my fantasies actually being public knowledge. My public life as a gay man is pretty different from my private life with my fetishes, and pretty similar to just any confident straight dude with a girlfriend. I wouldn't really equate the two...

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I think I already have. FetLife wise and my kink Instagram I've come out to omo cause those are both sexual. I wouldn't do it on social media that people that know who I am know because people aren't consenting in that state. But with friends or something, maybe. I'm really open with my fetishes and I have open minded friends. I can imagine me blurting out my fetishes if I'm like, stupid drunk though lol 

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My closest friends don't know and even my girlfriend doesn't know it. I'm too scared for their reaction. Too scared my girlfriend would leave me because she can't answer to my fetish, not that it's necessary for me that she partakes in my omo adventures, but scared that she might feel that way. Frankly this is something I'm struggling with because I would like to know someone for real with whom I can share this fetish with. Not sexually but as a friend, a real omo buddy. And If I could be sure my girlfriend would not be disgusted with me I'd definitely tell her.

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