RoTracksuitWet 138 Posted April 28, 2018 Share Posted April 28, 2018 For some time, I still wondering if people who have to pee, cannot hold their pee in or just can't endure the pain made by the urine from their bladder. It's like when you have wounds and you want to get rid of them really quick because you just can't endure the pain anymore. And i think the same thing applies to the full bladder, as well. Well, the pain from the bladder isn't that bad but still does count as PAIN. If we(most of us) like to have a full bladder then we don't mind if we feel that our bladder hurts, because it doesn't hurt so much like a wound. What do you think is the "problem"? Quote Link to comment
Bulge_Lover 1,909 Posted April 28, 2018 Share Posted April 28, 2018 Depends on the person. A lot of people can and do have real uncontrollable accidents when they're desperate enough. I don't think anyone would publicly wet themselves against their will due to pain alone - It would have to be forced out. The pain of a full bladder does, however, convince people to do things that they would never do otherwise. Whenever you see a woman peeing on the ground at a festival or on the side of the road, you know that they were truly desperate and just couldn't take the pain any longer, even if they physically could still hold it for a time. Bisonwin and HoldingPrinces 2 Quote Link to comment
RandomWetName 121 Posted April 28, 2018 Share Posted April 28, 2018 Yeah like Bulge_Lover said, depends on the person. I for instance, only wet when the pain gets too much and I just give up. I don't have real accidents anymore, sadly. As a kid, I remember getting desperate and eventually ending up having an accident. Kinda miss those accidents. Quote Link to comment
Gemgirl 659 Posted April 28, 2018 Share Posted April 28, 2018 It really does depend on the person. As someone who enjoys desperation I will hold on as much as I can and go to avoid an accident. But for other people the feeling of a full bladder can be really uncomfortable. Quote Link to comment
WetDave 650 Posted April 29, 2018 Share Posted April 29, 2018 I don’t really get any pain from holding - I’ll just end up peeing involuntarily. Quote Link to comment
BENAir01 601 Posted April 29, 2018 Share Posted April 29, 2018 (edited) I know I get huge unbearable pain long before my bladder even feels full because it’s so big, but luckily I’ve never naturally gotten there in public because I can always find a bathroom long before that happens. Edited April 29, 2018 by BENAir01 (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Spectator9 955 Posted April 29, 2018 Share Posted April 29, 2018 Like WetDave, I will pee involuntarily before I experience real pain. I may feel extreme discomfort, but that's not pain. And then I start to pee….. Quote Link to comment
Michelley 110 Posted April 29, 2018 Share Posted April 29, 2018 I can hold it for hours and hours but eventually the uncomfortable bloated feeling overrides the arousal, and when it gets painful I start to worry. Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted April 30, 2018 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted April 30, 2018 I think it depends on whether the desperation is more natural or if it's induced by chugging a bunch of water. Natural, held-it-all-day desperation leads to actual uncontrollable accidents for me, but when I try to invoke it, it results in a lot of pain when holding. Quote Link to comment
liesjeversteven 1,826 Posted April 30, 2018 Share Posted April 30, 2018 For me at least if I have to go and I wait too long it just comes out involuntarily. I don't like holding, so I never do that on purpose... Quote Link to comment
Dynamic 133 Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 I'm beginning to think it has more to do with what a person drinks, rather than just how much. Some articles I've read report that different drinks have different effects on the bladder, with some causing irritation that makes the body want to void the bladder sooner. Through my own experimentation, I can verify that certain drinks absolutely have the effect of making a loss of control much more likely (as well as much less painful), but I'm not sure if that is because of the effect it has on the bladder itself, or some other process in the body (see below). Perhaps it's a combination of both. I'd love to see a comprehensive study, though. It could also have to do with the external sphincter muscle strength. From what I understand, there are essentially three muscles that work together to control the voiding of urine. You have the bladder itself, and then the internal and external sphincters. The bladder and internal sphincter are under the control of your body's autonomous systems - you have no voluntary control over those. So, when the bladder gets a certain amount full (and/or possibly irritated) it'll start to try to squeeze the urine out on it's own. This is where urges come from. The internal sphincter will also open all on its own when your body decides, hey, it's time to go. So, the only control you have is over the external sphincter, which is skeletal muscle that is under voluntary control. As the bladder fills, and the urges get more frequent, this muscle structure is taxed, and like any skeletal muscle it'll eventually get fatigued and stop working so well. This is what causes accidents to happen. So, it could depend on a person's external sphincter muscle - if it's very strong, then that person will be able to hold on a long time, resulting in discomfort and/or pain from the over stretched bladder. It might even lead to injury (especially in males it seems), though I'm not actually sure about this, and there are many schools of thought and conflicting information out there. Also, since the external sphincter is under voluntary control, it can be exercised to make it stronger (eg pelvic floor exercises I'm sure you've all heard of). In theory, it could also be relaxed to make it weaker, if you wanted to achieve that result over time. It's worth looking into if your bladder is too strong. Point me in the right direction if I got anything wrong with the anatomy. I'm barely even on the level of an amateur here. TheGreatNobody, HoldingPrinces, hoimi and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment
Padded_girl 343 Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 Thats very interesting. From your experience, what are the drinks that have the effect of making a loss of control more likely and less painful? I always get too much pain and not enough urge. 2 hours ago, Dynamic said: I'm beginning to think it has more to do with what a person drinks, rather than just how much. Some articles I've read report that different drinks have different effects on the bladder, with some causing irritation that makes the body want to void the bladder sooner. Through my own experimentation, I can verify that certain drinks absolutely have the effect of making a loss of control much more likely (as well as much less painful), but I'm not sure if that is because of the effect it has on the bladder itself, or some other process in the body (see below). Perhaps it's a combination of both. I'd love to see a comprehensive study, though. It could also have to do with the external sphincter muscle strength. From what I understand, there are essentially three muscles that work together to control the voiding of urine. You have the bladder itself, and then the internal and external sphincters. The bladder and internal sphincter are under the control of your body's autonomous systems - you have no voluntary control over those. So, when the bladder gets a certain amount full (and/or possibly irritated) it'll start to try to squeeze the urine out on it's own. This is where urges come from. The internal sphincter will also open all on its own when your body decides, hey, it's time to go. So, the only control you have is over the external sphincter, which is skeletal muscle that is under voluntary control. As the bladder fills, and the urges get more frequent, this muscle structure is taxed, and like any skeletal muscle it'll eventually get fatigued and stop working so well. This is what causes accidents to happen. So, it could depend on a person's external sphincter muscle - if it's very strong, then that person will be able to hold on a long time, resulting in discomfort and/or pain from the over stretched bladder. It might even lead to injury (especially in males it seems), though I'm not actually sure about this, and there are many schools of thought and conflicting information out there. Also, since the external sphincter is under voluntary control, it can be exercised to make it stronger (eg pelvic floor exercises I'm sure you've all heard of). In theory, it could also be relaxed to make it weaker, if you wanted to achieve that result over time. It's worth looking into if your bladder is too strong. Point me in the right direction if I got anything wrong with the anatomy. I'm barely even on the level of an amateur here. Thats very interesting. From your experience, what are the drinks that have the effect of making a loss of control more likely and less painful? I always get too much pain and not enough urge. Quote Link to comment
Dynamic 133 Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 (edited) 1 hour ago, nicobulat said: Thats very interesting. From your experience, what are the drinks that have the effect of making a loss of control more likely and less painful? I always get too much pain and not enough urge. I've mentioned this a few times before on this forum, but what has worked best for me is catnip. I found a tea that has catnip as one of its ingredients called Tension Tamer from Celestial Seasonings, but that might be exclusive to the US. I once tried a more pure blend of catnip from some other supplier, but it was a long time ago and I can't remember how it stacked up. Oh yeah, and mind the dosage. It can have side effects, so look into that. One cup is enough for me (in addition to other liquids of course), so don't OD on the stuff or anything. Edited May 1, 2018 by Dynamic (see edit history) Padded_girl 1 Quote Link to comment
Brittanybunny 1,494 Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 For me it depends, sometimes i cant hold it not because it hurts but because im desperate, but it depends on where i am and how much i drank during the day, sometimes i just dont because i can feel a bit of pain so i stop immediately Quote Link to comment
Dynamic 133 Posted May 2, 2018 Share Posted May 2, 2018 I should have probably stated before that everything I said above assumes a healthy person with no disorders or illnesses. The variation between people and how they experience holding seems to be pretty wide, too. Again, I think there needs to be some comprehensive studies done. I can dream about it, at least. Netflix seems pretty willing to tackle diverse topics - maybe we can get them to produce a documentary. Quote Link to comment
fullbguy 27 Posted May 7, 2018 Share Posted May 7, 2018 It's a pain thing for me - my lower back will usually start to hurt and I'll decide to let go. Quote Link to comment
SpaceWonderer 699 Posted May 8, 2018 Share Posted May 8, 2018 I believe it depends on the strength of sphincters a lot. If they're very strong, it will be more about pain, otherwise it's more about having an accident. For me it's pain. I can't say I never leaked at all but it takes a lot of pressure in my bladder to make me leak, and often requires some external pressure like pushing with a hand on my full bladder to make my holding muscles give in even for a moment. Usually before then pain in the bladder goes up to the level I can't handle anymore, and occasionally I even get an ache in the lower back (the sign to stop holding immediately since it's probably kidneys hurt). Sometimes I wish I would have weaker sphincters, not so weak that I would be accident prone (wetting isn't my main interest in omorashi) but weak enough that if I hold it on purpose, I would start losing control before bladder starts to ache a lot. However I am wondering if pain is individual factor too, in the past I had been talking online with a few people who clearly had strong sphincters and could hold very well but when their bladders would get super full and hard as rocks, they would feel low levels of pain but very strong pressure. One woman described that feeling to me like her bladder felt like overfilled balloon that is about to explode from another drop and she said it was absolutely hard to touch, but actual pain stayed very manageable and she said it was more like a tolerable dull ache. hoimi 1 Quote Link to comment
hirokun 19 Posted May 10, 2018 Share Posted May 10, 2018 Yeah I have an especially strong set of sphincters, but I pee quite often depending on my hydration state. For example, if I am over-hydrated, I'll have to go a lot and it doesn't hurt as bad for long hold (if I can endure one), but I usually don't enjoy the pain I get as I'm a male and it hurts all the way to the tip at times. If all I had was water vs more sugary stuff, I tend to hurt less but get desperate faster however, and its more of a tingling and itch feeling than a pressure pain. It very strange. But I can usually hold for hours at home doing things just naturally and very modest fluid intake. Only once I hurt so bad I wanted to puke, it was when I did that one video that's on here. Quote Link to comment
hfgghfh 43 Posted May 10, 2018 Share Posted May 10, 2018 On 2 May 2018 at 1:52 AM, Dynamic said: In theory, it could also be relaxed to make it weaker, Do you know how to weaken it? Quote Link to comment
Dynamic 133 Posted May 10, 2018 Share Posted May 10, 2018 6 minutes ago, NinjaGamer said: Do you know how to weaken it? In theory, since the external urethral sphincter is skeletal muscle, you should be able to weaken it by simply not using it much. The reverse of exercising. I guess the trick would be to figure out how to feel that muscle group and practice relaxing it as often as is practical. If overdone it could lead to incontinence, but the upside is that since it's, again, skeletal muscle you can consciously exercise it to bring it back up to strength. Quote Link to comment
hfgghfh 43 Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 On 2 May 2018 at 1:52 AM, Dynamic said: Also, since the external sphincter is under voluntary control, it can be exercised to make it stronger (eg pelvic floor exercises I'm sure you've all heard of). does pelvic floor exercises only apply to women? Quote Link to comment
Dynamic 133 Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 45 minutes ago, OmoNinja said: does pelvic floor exercises only apply to women? No, those apply to both sexes. Quote Link to comment
hfgghfh 43 Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 1 minute ago, Dynamic said: No, those apply to both sexes. Right, also would masturbation count towards exercising your sphincter? Quote Link to comment
Dynamic 133 Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 I'm actually not sure about that. Maybe somebody else can weigh in. Quote Link to comment
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