Rick Dixon 291 Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 Personally I love seeing someone desperate and unable to find a bathroom. Both in real life and fiction. Like someone is suffering and I'm aroused by that . It seems sociopathic. But aside from that I'm normal and a nice person honest. But like if a hot person wet their pants after. It's humiliating but a turn on. what do you think? Quote Link to comment
TimLeary 2 Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 I don't think we should feel bad about what makes us feel good. That sounds like guilt to me. kevinnzcd and Sake 2 Quote Link to comment
Rick Dixon 291 Posted June 24, 2017 Author Share Posted June 24, 2017 I know buts it's people suffering. It seems sadistic. Quote Link to comment
Guest Seeker Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 For a lot of people like myself, it's natural, not something we can help. No sense in feeling bad about it. It's not like you're the one forcing anyone into that situation. Quote Link to comment
Bulge_Lover 1,909 Posted June 24, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted June 24, 2017 As long as you're not the one causing it, it's fine. Here's a logic aid. Imagine that you don't have any special fetish. You're at a beach. A woman is walking along the waterline when a surprise wave knocks her over and her bikini top falls off. This is objectively hot. You can feel embarrassed for her, you can even choose to not look, but the fact is something kind of sexy just happened and nobody would deny it. ^ This is no different than seeing any sort of omo-related situation. You're not creating the problem, therefor there is no reason to feel guilty. panther, nappypants, Bismiris and 5 others 8 Quote Link to comment
That_Guy 40 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 Enjoying things on behalf of other people's suffering is simply what makes the world go round. This is no different. If anything at least something positive is coming out of somebody wetting themselves, whereas if you didn't have this fetish the same thing would happen but you wouldn't get to enjoy it. Now. If you make a significant effort to make people wet themselves without their consent, then yea it's sadistic and morally wrong. Quote Link to comment
MsFortune-Take 110 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 (edited) Yes, but not the way you see it as bad. Also it's kinda... unfair I guess... to ask that type of question on a site dedicated to that type of stuff. Edited June 24, 2017 by MsFortune-Take (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
MsFortune-Take 110 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 5 hours ago, Rick Dixon said: Both in real life and fiction. Like someone is suffering and I'm aroused by that . It seems sociopathic. This might be disturbing to some people but I love seeing torture porns like Saw and other horror movie but I also like seeing real torture to an extent and real murders. But I don't think that's something that's that bad as long as I don't go out and actually torture or murder someone, I feel the same way about this fetish, it's ok to enjoy it when it happens in fiction and real-life (unless they're crying hard and are acting like it's the worst day of their life) but as long as you don't go out and break all the female toilets or something to see it I think that's perfectly fine. Quote Link to comment
garador 51 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 My view is that you don't control what turns you crank, you control what you do about it. There's nothing wrong with being turned on by people's suffering - you didn't decide to be turned on by that, so there can't be any moral fault attached to that. What matters is that you don't actually inflict suffering on others without their informed and enthusiastic consent (and of course that implies that your partner is able to meaningfully consent to be a masochist for you). Xeno_ 1 Quote Link to comment
Trelos_77 70 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 2 hours ago, Rick Dixon said: I know buts it's people suffering. It seems sadistic. ... I enjoy Omorashi because I am a sadist. I don't like to see women piss themselves, that isn't what turns me on. I want to see them squirm and fight and do everything they can to stay dry because they don't want to embarrass themselves, or because master said so, or because wetting themselves will cause more pain (Specific scenarios)... I am not into pee... I am into the discomfort/pain of the fairer sex, and Omorashi and is amazing tool towards that regard. Quote Link to comment
Adrian6970wc 243 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 If it turns us on and it's harmless I see no reason to indulge in guilt trips over it. I've already been there, done it and got the T-shirt. Having reached a certain time of life I feel I've got to a point where I no longer want to do guilt trips. It goes without saying that in real life if someone comes up to me asking where the nearest toilet is, I do tell them if I know. RDFan2020 and Bismiris 2 Quote Link to comment
WetDave 650 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 Often it's the thought of it rather than the reality which is enjoyable. There have been threads on here where people have often said that seeing someone suffer embarrassment and humiliation spoils the enjoyment of seeing the wetting. Princess111 1 Quote Link to comment
piglet 75 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 (edited) 6 hours ago, TimLeary said: I don't think we should feel bad about what makes us feel good. That sounds like guilt to me. Don't you think there are limits to that line of thinking, though? You think if something makes you feel good, you should indulge in that thing and not worry about the morality of it at all? Edited June 24, 2017 by Thefredmann (see edit history) WetDave, Princess111 and SecretPerson 3 Quote Link to comment
TVGuy 10,658 Posted June 24, 2017 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted June 24, 2017 7 hours ago, Rick Dixon said: Personally I love seeing someone desperate and unable to find a bathroom. Both in real life and fiction. Like someone is suffering and I'm aroused by that . It seems sociopathic. But aside from that I'm normal and a nice person honest. But like if a hot person wet their pants after. It's humiliating but a turn on. what do you think? Yes, I think one should feel bad about it, but it is also okay to still enjoy it simultaneously. Feeling bad about the suffering of another person is a good thing, I think. That you do feel bad about it shows that you are not a sociopath. But I think it is possible to do both- Feel bad for the person and what they are going through, while simultaneously having feelings of arousal about the situation. As long as you don't do anything to engineer the situation, or let your arousal influence things in anyway, I think it is okay to have both sets of feelings. Sexual urges are very primal. You can't help what arouses you, and you shouldn't feel bad or guilty for every feeling aroused. You can't control that. At a higher level of functioning, we are capable of empathy and caring. These things you have a lot more say over, and you can control your actions. So, you can feel bad for someone, while simultaneously being aroused by the event. Fisk and Bismiris 2 Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted June 24, 2017 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted June 24, 2017 (edited) I felt bad about it sometimes too, except I only take any pleasure if either the characters and story are fictional, or if the real life subject enjoys/doesn't mind it. But the fact that you're worried about your fetish making you a sociopath shows that you're not one. Just getting aroused by real life accounts where they are humiliated, can't be helped. As long as you didn't cause it even a little bit, are able to feel bad for her despite the arousal, and don't say or do anything to make her feel worse. (Sometimes I get a little aroused against my will by Wetting Experiences here where they didn't enjoy it, though if it's REALLY bad that overrides my fetish and I don't feel arousal) I still felt bad about reading/writing fiction/fanfiction about it, or fantasizing about it, but have to remember people also watch movies where people get violently tortured and killed such as Saw which was mentioned above, or play video games where you murder people, so how different is reading/writing omorashi fiction/fanfiction from that? Edited June 24, 2017 by The Dark Wolf (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Keita123 1,103 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 I don't want it to happen in real life since I'm not that cruel. I keep it to fiction and even then, there are still limits to the humiliation the fictional character suffers thanks to her wetting. Quote Link to comment
Tyler Durdan 161 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 I see no reason why we should feel bad. It ain't like they're getting harmed or anything. Embarresment builds character. Theonlysaneperson and TVGuy 1 1 Quote Link to comment
SecretPerson 287 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 13 hours ago, MsFortune-Take said: Also it's kinda... unfair I guess... to ask that type of question on a site dedicated to that type of stuff. I disagree. I see where you're coming from: to bring up this question can feel like an attack on what makes us us, especially for those that were already unsure how they felt about having the fetish. But I think it's important that this forum be open to discussing all aspects of it, including discomfort over the moral ramifications (real or imagined). If we limit ourselves to only talking about what doesn't make others uncomfortable, we risk whittling down our already small community by driving members away for asking difficult questions. Fisk 1 Quote Link to comment
TimLeary 2 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 (edited) 13 hours ago, Thefredmann said: Don't you think there are limits to that line of thinking, though? You think if something makes you feel good, you should indulge in that thing and not worry about the morality of it at all? I don't believe there are limits to that kind of thinking. As long as one knows oneself. Morality refers only to the causation of suffering. Is that something y'all are comfortable with? We're brushing up against the topic of Sadomasochism here. Any thoughts on the morality of Sadomasochism? Edited June 24, 2017 by TimLeary (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
MsFortune-Take 110 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 1 hour ago, SecretPerson said: I disagree. I see where you're coming from: to bring up this question can feel like an attack on what makes us us, especially for those that were already unsure how they felt about having the fetish. But I think it's important that this forum be open to discussing all aspects of it, including discomfort over the moral ramifications (real or imagined). If we limit ourselves to only talking about what doesn't make others uncomfortable, we risk whittling down our already small community by driving members away for asking difficult questions. What I meant was so that asking that sort of question on a site dedicated to that type of stuff. It feels massively in favor that most people would think it's okay since they're a part of it. [Insert Omo] 1 Quote Link to comment
OPencil 58 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 I suspect that if it weren't for my sadomasochistic tendencies, omorashi wouldn't interest me to the extent that it does- I like it for the sensual aspects of pain/discomfort and relief of pain, little more. (I don't view it as overly related to urophilia). However, as long as everyone's consensual, there's nothing too sociopathic about it. Quote Link to comment
SecretPerson 287 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 58 minutes ago, MsFortune-Take said: What I meant was so that asking that sort of question on a site dedicated to that type of stuff. It feels massively in favor that most people would think it's okay since they're a part of it. True, but does that mean the question isn't worth asking? The majority of the answers are in agreement, but several of them offer interesting alternative views, such as Trelos_77 and OPencil. Quote Link to comment
stephan1990 10 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 I think we should not feel bad for a thing we enjoy. As long as it doesn't hurt somebody and nobody is forced into something they do not want to do, everything is fine. Embrace the things that make you happy. Respect other people. Quote Link to comment
randomrobot007 60 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 I see it as a movie everyone is entitled to their opinion Take for istant the pixar cars movies most people think it is the worst movie that pixar have made but for me the first cars movie is my all time favourite puxar movie So if someone happed to be into bondage or playing with poop (stuff i'm not into) that ok with so long as you don't mind me for liking the stuff that turns me on Quote Link to comment
Jarvis Langley 477 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 (edited) I don't think it's wrong to be turned on by witnessing unwanted desperation/accidents, as long as you did nothing to cause it to happen. If it's going to happen regardless of what you do, then I think you absolutely can feel whatever you want about it, since it's not going to change what happens. You can't control what turns you on, and when the only thing you're doing 'wrong' is having thoughts that hurt no one, I don't see any reason to feel guilty about it. That goes for any fetish. Thoughts are just thoughts, and they only matter when they influence your actions. Edited June 24, 2017 by Limey Weasel (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
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