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Should we feel kind of bad about our omorashi fetish?


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Personally I love seeing someone desperate and unable to find a bathroom.  Both in real life and fiction.  Like someone is suffering and I'm aroused by that . It seems sociopathic.  But aside from that I'm normal and a nice person honest.  But like if a hot person wet their pants after.  It's humiliating but a turn on.

 

what do you think?

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For a lot of people like myself, it's natural, not something we can help. No sense in feeling bad about it. It's not like you're the one forcing anyone into that situation.

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Enjoying things on behalf of other people's suffering is simply what makes the world go round. This is no different. If anything at least something positive is coming out of somebody wetting themselves, whereas if you didn't have this fetish the same thing would happen but you wouldn't  get to enjoy it. Now. If you make a significant effort to make people wet themselves without their consent, then yea it's sadistic and morally wrong.

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5 hours ago, Rick Dixon said:

Both in real life and fiction.  Like someone is suffering and I'm aroused by that . It seems sociopathic.

This might be disturbing to some people but I love seeing torture porns like Saw and other horror movie but I also like seeing real torture to an extent and real murders. But I don't think that's something that's that bad as long as I don't go out and actually torture or murder someone, I feel the same way about this fetish, it's ok to enjoy it when it happens in fiction and real-life (unless they're crying hard and are acting like it's the worst day of their life) but as long as you don't go out and break all the female toilets or something to see it I think that's perfectly fine.

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My view is that you don't control what turns you crank, you control what you do about it. There's nothing wrong with being turned on by people's suffering - you didn't decide to be turned on by that, so there can't be any moral fault attached to that. What matters is that you don't actually inflict suffering on others without their informed and enthusiastic consent (and of course that implies that your partner is able to meaningfully consent to be a masochist for you).

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2 hours ago, Rick Dixon said:

I know buts it's people suffering.  It seems sadistic.  

... I enjoy Omorashi because I am a sadist.  I don't like to see women piss themselves, that isn't what turns me on.  I want to see them squirm and fight and do everything they can to stay dry because they don't want to embarrass themselves, or because master said so, or because wetting themselves will cause more pain (Specific scenarios)...

 

I am not into pee... I am into the discomfort/pain of the fairer sex, and Omorashi and is amazing tool towards that regard.

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If it turns us on and it's harmless I see no reason to indulge in guilt trips over it.  I've already been there, done it and got the T-shirt.  Having reached a certain time of life I feel I've got to a point where I no longer want to do guilt trips.  It goes without saying that in real life if someone comes up to me asking where the nearest toilet is, I do tell them if I know.  

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6 hours ago, TimLeary said:

I don't think we should feel bad about what makes us feel good. That sounds like guilt to me. 

Don't you think there are limits to that line of thinking, though? You think if something makes you feel good, you should indulge in that thing and not worry about the morality of it at all? 

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7 hours ago, Rick Dixon said:

Personally I love seeing someone desperate and unable to find a bathroom.  Both in real life and fiction.  Like someone is suffering and I'm aroused by that . It seems sociopathic.  But aside from that I'm normal and a nice person honest.  But like if a hot person wet their pants after.  It's humiliating but a turn on.

 

what do you think?

Yes, I think one should feel bad about it, but it is also okay to still enjoy it simultaneously.

Feeling bad about the suffering of another person is a good thing, I think.  That you do feel bad about it shows that you are not a sociopath.  But I think it is possible to do both- Feel bad for the person and what they are going through, while simultaneously having feelings of arousal about the situation.  As long as you don't do anything to engineer the situation, or let your arousal influence things in anyway, I think it is okay to have both sets of feelings.  

Sexual urges are very primal.  You can't help what arouses you, and you shouldn't feel bad or guilty for every feeling aroused.  You can't control that.  At a higher level of functioning, we are capable of empathy and caring.  These things you have a lot more say over, and you can control your actions.  So, you can feel bad for someone, while simultaneously being aroused by the event.  

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I felt bad about it sometimes too, except I only take any pleasure if either the characters and story are fictional, or if the real life subject enjoys/doesn't mind it.

But the fact that you're worried about your fetish making you a sociopath shows that you're not one.

Just getting aroused by real life accounts where they are humiliated, can't be helped. As long as you didn't cause it even a little bit, are able to feel bad for her despite the arousal, and don't say or do anything to make her feel worse. (Sometimes I get a little aroused against my will by Wetting Experiences here where they didn't enjoy it, though if it's REALLY bad that overrides my fetish and I don't feel arousal)

I still felt bad about reading/writing fiction/fanfiction about it, or fantasizing about it, but have to remember people also watch movies where people get violently tortured and killed such as Saw which was mentioned above, or play video games where you murder people, so how different is reading/writing omorashi fiction/fanfiction from that?

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13 hours ago, MsFortune-Take said:

Also it's kinda... unfair I guess... to ask that type of question on a site dedicated to that type of stuff.

I disagree.  I see where you're coming from: to bring up this question can feel like an attack on what makes us us, especially for those that were already unsure how they felt about having the fetish.  But I think it's important that this forum be open to discussing all aspects of it, including discomfort over the moral ramifications (real or imagined).  If we limit ourselves to only talking about what doesn't make others uncomfortable, we risk whittling down our already small community by driving members away for asking difficult questions.

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13 hours ago, Thefredmann said:

Don't you think there are limits to that line of thinking, though? You think if something makes you feel good, you should indulge in that thing and not worry about the morality of it at all? 

I don't believe there are limits to that kind of thinking. As long as one knows oneself. Morality refers only to the causation of suffering. Is that something y'all are comfortable with? We're brushing up against the topic of Sadomasochism here. 

Any thoughts on the morality of Sadomasochism?

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1 hour ago, SecretPerson said:

I disagree.  I see where you're coming from: to bring up this question can feel like an attack on what makes us us, especially for those that were already unsure how they felt about having the fetish.  But I think it's important that this forum be open to discussing all aspects of it, including discomfort over the moral ramifications (real or imagined).  If we limit ourselves to only talking about what doesn't make others uncomfortable, we risk whittling down our already small community by driving members away for asking difficult questions.

What I meant was so that asking that sort of question on a site dedicated to that type of stuff. It feels massively in favor that most people would think it's okay since they're a part of it.

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I suspect that if it weren't for my sadomasochistic tendencies, omorashi wouldn't interest me to the extent that it does- I like it for the sensual aspects of pain/discomfort and relief of pain, little more. (I don't view it as overly related to urophilia). However, as long as everyone's consensual, there's nothing too sociopathic about it.

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58 minutes ago, MsFortune-Take said:

What I meant was so that asking that sort of question on a site dedicated to that type of stuff. It feels massively in favor that most people would think it's okay since they're a part of it.

True, but does that mean the question isn't worth asking?  The majority of the answers are in agreement, but several of them offer interesting alternative views, such as Trelos_77 and OPencil.

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I see it as a movie everyone is entitled to their opinion

Take for istant the pixar cars movies most people think it is the worst movie that pixar have made but for me the first cars movie is my all time favourite puxar movie

So if someone happed to be into bondage or playing with poop (stuff i'm not into) that ok with so long as you don't mind me for liking the stuff that turns me on

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I don't think it's wrong to be turned on by witnessing unwanted desperation/accidents, as long as you did nothing to cause it to happen.  If it's going to happen regardless of what you do, then I think you absolutely can feel whatever you want about it, since it's not going to change what happens.

You can't control what turns you on, and when the only thing you're doing 'wrong' is having thoughts that hurt no one, I don't see any reason to feel guilty about it.  That goes for any fetish.  Thoughts are just thoughts, and they only matter when they influence your actions.

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