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The way I look at it, practicing one's fetish is analogous to masturbating.  It is something personal that you do for gratification, it isn't appropriate to do in public, and generally not something y

All of this. I'd probably be more lenient than is normal about the bathroom anyway, for health and psychological reasons. 1. Ain't good to hold it past the point of reason. Much as we like to think

I suppose I raised my kids the same as I was raised. I loved to pee and swim in jeans as a teen. It made no difference if I swam in my jeans, or soaked myself in the shower, a faint pee odor always re

If I found they were doing it, I would tell them about their 'options'......don't think I would tell them that I was 'into it'........strangely I think it would help to tell them in exactly the same way that I broach the subject to girls....ie:   I used to have this g/f who was into it and my experienc of it is....etc etc.........I would use the same method if I had a child who I though was close to 'coming out' as gay.

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I would let my kids indulge in their fetishes. I would just teach them to do it in private and be responsible about it. Growing up my mum found out me and my sister liked holding/wetting and sat us down and told us that if we enjoyed doing it then that was fine. As long as we did it at home and cleaned up after ourselves we could do what we want. Pretty much the same thing she said about us masturbating. 

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Let it be how it is. Only say her that it is not good to pee her pants on public places or at home in the chair, bed etc. Or in the cinema when an another person get same seat after her. 

If it is fun for her and she likes it, so you cannot unleran it. If you show some kind of tolerance, your relationship with her can be better, more strong.

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I have 3 young girls and my youngest suffers from urge incontinence like me. Due to long commute / circumstances etc even my older two need to pee in public or have the occasional accident. I can tell my oldest is starting to enjoy it and sometimes does it on purpose. As mentioned she only does it at home and immediately cleans up afterward we don't discuss it really as far as liking the feeling of it I let her do it in her own independent way just like I don't share when I do it for pleasure with her. 

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On 24/07/2017 at 11:42 AM, Lukhas said:

I have daughter which is almost 11 years old. When she is living with me, she uses my laptop. She can use internett as a usually user but she does not know something about temporally internett files or history. I check what she looks in internett but not because I am curious but for its security- there are no only good peoples on the nett. I have found that she looks on omo, messing and womiting stuff. The last one is nothing for me but what can I do with her or better asked- do I want to do something with it? She does not come from school peed or messed so I think she do it in private. She likes to wash clothes as me at that age, so I decided that we all have a claim to private and I do not persecute her for it- btw I cannot change her fetish anyway.

 

When I think back, I would have been horrified if my parents had discovered I was wetting myself, and doubly so, if they had recognised why I did it. I would strongly advise anyone who discovers this to do nothing unless the child starts to do it publicly (I had an old pair of trousers that I used for the purpose - hidden well away). In that case I would pretend it was an accident, and encourage them to go to the toilet more often.

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21 minutes ago, David_E said:

When I think back, I would have been horrified if my parents had discovered I was wetting myself, and doubly so, if they had recognised why I did it. I would strongly advise anyone who discovers this to do nothing unless the child starts to do it publicly (I had an old pair of trousers that I used for the purpose - hidden well away). In that case I would pretend it was an accident, and encourage them to go to the toilet more often.

Well as I was a kid until very recently, when I think about it, I would have actually preferred if my parents did say something, but only in a very supportive "its okay just be careful" kind of way. So although you may advise one way, I would advise the other. And I think @Lukhas knows best and we should let him choose what he thinks is right for his daughter. 

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i'd say omorashi is pretty much a fetish and some people are very scared of people finding out (like i am, although this whole thing started at 7/8 years old for me)

so in response to your question, i think if your children are into this thing, they will want to hide it (probably because they dont know you are into it as well) but also because they may feel confused/embarrassed by their fetish so without u asking, they will most likely hide evidence of them browsing omorashi/related websites as well as evidence of wetting incidents--so i guess not much u have to worry about. 

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Keep it to yourself?  Then my family and friends do it all wrong.  1.  One late-teen cousin loved hanging out on beaches.  When she was in the right mood and had to pee, she'd look around.  When she found a congenial-looking guy, she'd wade into the water or pick a log whichever was in his line of sight.  She'd drop into a squat so she was hidden from about half way up her tummy down.  And she'd pee through her swimming suit.  Her body posture screamed, "Peeing!"  And she really was.

2.  Before she was doing the beach pees, that cousin liked to mix two 2 quart pitchers of lemon-aid.  After we had shared one, she'd announce we were going for a walk or drive.  She is five years older than me and when I was ten, I had to do what she said.  Obviously, needing pee in either situation lead to some serious holding while we looked for a place to pee.  She strongly preferred outdoor pees.  We always peed out of sight of each other.  But we couldn't help chatting about how bad it was getting.

3.  The girlfriend of a college buddy was in a small-sized girls' club.  When she didn't have much home work or a date she'd get together 4 or 5 of the other girls.  They'd get hydrated.  Then they'd watch some giggly television or read from books that made then giggle.  They'd keep that up until they'd all leaked.  Obviously, they'd had to talk to other girls in the dorm to find partners in this activity.

4.  One female (a 9-year old) in my extended family liked getting squirmy desperate in public places.  I saw her bypass three public restrooms to avoid peeing before desperate.  I saw her run up to clerks and tells them she needed a bathroom really bad.  She seldom did this twice in the same store.  Exception: neighborhood Walgreen's where I'd seen other children desperately needing to run to clerks.  The clerks had a special code for this.  If a male clerk announced the code or the public address system, it meant female clerk needed to escort female to restroom.  And visa versa.

So I've seen people make a social and sometimes public show of their omorashi.  But it takes people who can make it appear neither crude nor violating public behavior by too much.

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On 28.7.2017 at 9:32 PM, David_E said:

When I think back, I would have been horrified if my parents had discovered I was wetting myself, and doubly so, if they had recognised why I did it. I would strongly advise anyone who discovers this to do nothing unless the child starts to do it publicly (I had an old pair of trousers that I used for the purpose - hidden well away). In that case I would pretend it was an accident, and encourage them to go to the toilet more often.

I did not say anything to her when I discovered what my daughter looked on the internett. I let it be. She (most probably) did not pee herself in public places and when she practicings it at home, it is always clean floor, her pee is not in the chair, bed etc.... so I have nothing against it.

If I- for example- one day come from work or another walks unexpectedly earlier and catch her in her wet pants, so I will say her that it is ok, if she does it at home or another private places. And I will say her that there are more peoples which like it- something she already knows.

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i guess for me if i had a child that was into it. it'd be allowed only in private and if the cleaned up after themselves and not on furniture or carpetting. they'd have to put their own underwear and clothes into the wash. but growing up i had a stepsister that use to pee diapers as a teen but our parents didnt know.

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12 hours ago, Lukhas said:

If I- for example- one day come from work or another walks unexpectedly earlier and catch her in her wet pants, so I will say her that it is ok, if she does it at home or another private places. And I will say her that there are more peoples which like it- something she already knows.

I think the problem is that it only makes sense in an erotic context (I know one or two people here disagree), and I think I would have still found that conversation very hard - but hey maybe I was over sensitive!

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I tend to look at everything as if it is OK for me then it is OK for younger people as long as they are old enough to be responsible - and you don't have to be very old to be able to handle your own bladder.

 

Of course you have a responsibility to make sure children are potty trained, but after that it is not reasonable to cause them discomfort when allowing them to wet would be more sensible.

Obviously involving children in the sexual aspects is not a good idea, but the rest is pretty harmless.
 

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I would definitely pretend not to notice. If my children develop an omorashi/diaper fetish like what I have, I would ignore it if they weren't hiding it well. We all want to be the "cool" parent who can hang with their kids but just really think about how much you hated your parents doing that to you. What makes you think your children won't feel that way?

 

However, there is one scenario where I would probably talk to them about it. If they are over say... 16ish and they came to me and straight up told me they had a fetish. I still don't know if I would say they got it from me because I would HATE myself if I unknowingly in some way influenced them or coerced them into it nor would I ever want that possibility to be planted in their head. I would sit and talk to them openly in every other way though. Tell them it's okay so long as they do it ONLY with consenting partners within a a year or two (mostly a year) of them. If they are 18, then NO ONE under 17 can join them. 

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I suppose I raised my kids the same as I was raised. I loved to pee and swim in jeans as a teen. It made no difference if I swam in my jeans, or soaked myself in the shower, a faint pee odor always remained. To keep things private from my parents, I would hide my wet clothing outside in a secure place. When my parents were out for the evening, I would wash and dry my pee soaked clothing. I am sure my parents knew something was up, but never said anything to embarrass me. As my kids became teens they liked to swim in their clothes after school. I must have passed my "Omo gene" to them, because their wet cloths always contained the faint odor of pee. I never said anything to embarrass598f58302df15_peeJeans.jpg.180063fcfcb3f22ca8caa84bccff64a0.jpg them. Omo was always my greatest secret. I knew for them it would be the same. 

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Since I do plan on having kids in the future after I'm through college and settled with a job and an apartment, etc, this is more than likely a decision that I'd have to face eventually anyways. 

I think I'm pretty much of the same opinion as the author on this. I'd want to make sure they're still potty trained as normal, and then at about 7 or so, I would give them the choice of whether they wanted to use the toilet or hold/go in their pants, but this would only be at home.

Now, the fact that I'll be working in the IT field, I can see myself getting a networking rack/cabinet where I'd have my home's network centralized (router, switches, etc), as well as one or more servers, in part allowing me out-of-work practice on the same or similar things but with minimal risk factor. Out of that, one big rule I would have is no wetting around said networking rack/cabinet (and I would place the same rule upon myself too). As for the rest of the home, another rule I'd have is only wet in non-carpeted areas, and to clean up after themselves.

If my kids do find that omorashi is something they're into, then that'd be kinda nice, but if they're not then it's not a big deal and I would in no way force it upon them. I would aim to be as approachable and open as possible with them though (but only bring up the topic of omorashi if it's clear they have an interest in it) so that if they do have an interest in it, then they'll be more inclined to bring it up with me. Of course, chances are decent that they wouldn't know it's called omorashi, or even think it's something anyone else would be interested in, but then again that can also depend on their age at the time too and how much exposure to the internet they've had.

 

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I'd let my daughter do it. But then, she's over 30 so I guess it's not really up to me to let her or not.

Fortunately it never came up when she was younger, as it was really a conversation I'd rather not have. But if it had, depending on her age, I'd have just told her to be discreet about it, not to leave a mess and to do her own washing. 

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35 minutes ago, Daviss said:

This whole subject is ridiculous. Under NO circumstances would I ever discuss fetishes or anything sexual like this with a child! Some of the replies to this post sound like child molesters to me.

Agreed. I don't see why parents should decide whether or not their children should participate in a harmless fetish in their private lives. It's none of their business, and getting involved is awkward and disturbing even if only done with the best intentions, which is pretty optimistic based on some of the creepy crap I've seen posted around this site.

My answer is that it wouldn't be my decision, and it shouldn't be yours either.

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