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My parents never found out about my fetishes. They would not have let me do them.

If you found out that your kids liked to pee and/or poop their pants, would you let them?

My answer to this is: I would, of course, potty train my kids during their early years. I would let them discover it on their own and then when they were old enough to know how to keep a secret, say maybe between 8 and 10, I would let them do it. I would set rules, however, such as "only at home", "not on the furniture", "no more than twice per week" and "always clean up after yourself". As they got older, I would relax the rules little by little until they were 15 or 16. At that point I would allow them to do it as much as they want whenever they want as long as they understand the cleanup and consequences involved. The only rule would be to clean up after themselves any time they did it anywhere indoors.

What are your thoughts? Do you have kids and do you allow them to do this stuff? If you don't have kids, what will you allow when you do?

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The way I look at it, practicing one's fetish is analogous to masturbating.  It is something personal that you do for gratification, it isn't appropriate to do in public, and generally not something y

All of this. I'd probably be more lenient than is normal about the bathroom anyway, for health and psychological reasons. 1. Ain't good to hold it past the point of reason. Much as we like to think

I suppose I raised my kids the same as I was raised. I loved to pee and swim in jeans as a teen. It made no difference if I swam in my jeans, or soaked myself in the shower, a faint pee odor always re

4 hours ago, TVGuy said:

The way I look at it, practicing one's fetish is analogous to masturbating.  It is something personal that you do for gratification, it isn't appropriate to do in public, and generally not something you should do around other people.  

So, if the topic ever came up, I would tell them to keep it to themselves and cleanup afterwards.  If it was relevant, I would assure them that many people have kinks, it isn't just them.  And, again if it was relevant, I would make sure to point out you shouldn't do it in public or around other people who don't consent to being part of it.  I wouldn't try to regulate how often they do it, just like I wouldn't try to regulate how often they masturbate.

All of this. I'd probably be more lenient than is normal about the bathroom anyway, for health and psychological reasons.

1. Ain't good to hold it past the point of reason. Much as we like to think the models in the video are actually bursting, the psychological effect of knowing the expected end results drastically decreases the burst point. If they feared peeing themselves,, or thought it was shameful, in the way many kids do, they could and would hold it to literal muscle exhaustion or bladder overflow, which is really unhealthy. B2B had a model leave because pee shyness caused her to hold on the way someone who wasn't expected to wet would, and it was causing her some kind of unspecified health problem.
2. The fear of punishment for accidents, the shame associated with accidents, all of it... Not good.

I know this falls dangerously down the direction of sounding like I'm planning to normalize my fetish but that's not it. I cringe when I read posts on the internet "I'll let my kids pee or poop wherever they want. They don't ever have to hold it." ....No. Just no.

I'm just saying I remember what most of my friends' parents were like. Poor kids tying their legs in a pretzel when unable to get to the toilet for whatever reason. "Just go in your pants. Who cares?" "I'll get in trouble." ....Maybe my liberal is showing but trouble should be reserved for dangerous, destructive, or cruel behavior, not.... failing to reach the toilet.

Getting back to the topic, I honestly doubt i would know about it, kids don't talk to their parents about masturbating let alone kink, Besides, given my previously stated lenient stance. beyond worry about health I would probably not even press for an answer if I found evidence. If they're old enough to have the kink they're old enough to answer "Are ya sick? No? Well, all right then."

Unless I noticed evidence of emotional distress or hiding something I wouldn't come within ten miles of finding out.

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On 6/10/2017 at 9:10 PM, Wet19 said:

My parents never found out about my fetishes. They would not have let me do them.

If you found out that your kids liked to pee and/or poop their pants, would you let them?

My answer to this is: I would, of course, potty train my kids during their early years. I would let them discover it on their own and then when they were old enough to know how to keep a secret, say maybe between 8 and 10, I would let them do it. I would set rules, however, such as "only at home", "not on the furniture", "no more than twice per week" and "always clean up after yourself". As they got older, I would relax the rules little by little until they were 15 or 16. At that point I would allow them to do it as much as they want whenever they want as long as they understand the cleanup and consequences involved. The only rule would be to clean up after themselves any time they did it anywhere indoors.

What are your thoughts? Do you have kids and do you allow them to do this stuff? If you don't have kids, what will you allow when you do?

 

I would pretty much do the same thing, except I wouldn't make them wait until they were 8.  I would wait a couple months after being potty trained, then I would tell them if they wanted to do it, they could, and to try it if they wanted to.

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If I had children I wouldn't exactly encourage them to do it but if they wanna wet themselves or mess themselves I'd be ok with it once they are a bit older and now how to clean and be responsible about it. I wet myself often and I always make sure I don't think anything or damage anything because of pee so I would let my kids do omorashi once they are at an older age. 

 

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Hmmm. Well, I wouldn't exactly encourage it, but I wouldn't punish the kid. 

If they were peeing all over the place, and they weren't telling me, I'd take them to the doctor, and if I found out they were doing it intentionally, I'd tell them to keep it to the bathroom or bedroom. 

I wouldn't be aggressive, but there is a reason that porn sites have 18+ warnings on them, and a reason that parents don't have sex in front of their kids.

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Isn't part of the attraction wetting your pants is naughty. My kids are way past needing my permission. But in theory I would not punish them for it any more than if I caught them masterbating. 

I could not see myself saying hey guys it is ok to pee in your pants, especially to a 10  year old. That would be very confusing for them . I can't honestly say  how I would address it if I repeatedly found wet pants, but it would not be punitive. It would be as if not more awkward as discussing sex, but if they admit to the omorashi fettish perhaps I could do the same. 

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There is a lot of evidence - a lot of it anecdotal that the roots of OMO interest for many people lay in the now old fashioned idea of making kids get toilet trained before they were ready for it and using threats and spankings to underline that wet/pooped pants was a cardinal sin.  If there is any truth in this then these days a OMO interest is less likely to have its roots in early rearing and lose lots of its psychological overlay.

The modern availability of good diapers for all ages means the stark choice between a thick cotton diaper and plastic pants or having your kids wet themselves does not exist anymore.  The mum who suggests her 10 year old slips on a "goodnight" before a computer game session or the kid who asks for one before a long car ride both have the right approach and are not risking  fetishistic behaviour - just being sensible.

We let our kids choose when on holiday - spare under-pants and "dri-nights" or equivalent were available and you didn't have to ask if you needed clean undies or wanted the extra security against weeing in your sleeping bag, etc.

Now they are much older none of them have a fetish - but there again they wouldn't tell me would they!

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I have daughter which is almost 11 years old. When she is living with me, she uses my laptop. She can use internett as a usually user but she does not know something about temporally internett files or history. I check what she looks in internett but not because I am curious but for its security- there are no only good peoples on the nett. I have found that she looks on omo, messing and womiting stuff. The last one is nothing for me but what can I do with her or better asked- do I want to do something with it? She does not come from school peed or messed so I think she do it in private. She likes to wash clothes as me at that age, so I decided that we all have a claim to private and I do not persecute her for it- btw I cannot change her fetish anyway.

 

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It looks like you share parenting and this makes all too easy to make problems for your daughter by saying the wrong thing to her other family.  Maybe you could tighten up on cyber security and limit her use to certain times - any of the standard things might do. The sort of sites you mention are not appropriate for a 10 year old. A middle of the road approach could be to say you are going to make sure she is safe on the web and ask the school for advice about what they recommend without saying what kind of sites she visits - because as you say respecting privacy is important and breaking it  could  lead to relationship problems that you don't need.

 

 

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2 hours ago, blisster said:

There is a lot of evidence - a lot of it anecdotal that the roots of OMO interest for many people lay in the now old fashioned idea of making kids get toilet trained before they were ready for it and using threats and spankings to underline that wet/pooped pants was a cardinal sin.  If there is any truth in this then these days a OMO interest is less likely to have its roots in early rearing and lose lots of its psychological overlay.

This  is interesting, I was not really potty trained until I was 4 or 4 and a half, and due to the fact that I was brought up fairly recently (I'm only 18 and a half), some of those recourses were already available to me. however I still have this fetish. 

Anyway, back to what the OP was asking, I treat it the same as masturbation, because thats what it really is. Hopefully the topic wouldn't come up, but if it did, I would say "keep it in private, clean up, ad oh yeah I have the same thing so its totally fine" (not normal, but you get what I mean). maybe Id give the child some good online resources to find a community, like this site once the are old enough. 

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54 minutes ago, blisster said:

It looks like you share parenting and this makes all too easy to make problems for your daughter by saying the wrong thing to her other family.  Maybe you could tighten up on cyber security and limit her use to certain times - any of the standard things might do. The sort of sites you mention are not appropriate for a 10 year old. A middle of the road approach could be to say you are going to make sure she is safe on the web and ask the school for advice about what they recommend without saying what kind of sites she visits - because as you say respecting privacy is important and breaking it  could  lead to relationship problems that you don't need.

 

 

Yes I am sharing parenting but I am not in war with my ex. And we can cooperate well. My daughter has limited acces to internett, sha cannot be on the laptop a whole day. Not if she living with me and not if she lives with mother and her new man. Problem is at school, some classmates has parents which do not control what their kids do on the nett and at her school are poor secure limits. She can see hard porno in youtube because youtube is ok. Omorashi also works in her school. Only if is in name word sex and similar so pages are blocked.

But her messing, peeing and womitting liking is something which I respect and will not punish her for it- because if I punish her so she get problems with relationships in future, she can be humiliated because she likes something which is not "normal" etc...

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As far as I'm concerned, if I knew a kid of mine were doing stuff like that then they're being too public and we need a talk about boundaries. If I don't know about them doing it then it's none of my business.

Don't have kids, but I figure that makes the most sense.

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You cant stop someone from having a fetish just wanted to address that part, about if your parents found it that you were into it. 

I started off not wanting kids but the idea slowly started to grow on me, and i have a set time of when i need to make my decision because there would be planning involved a year in advance. Like you said i would potty train my child, but i wouldnt punish them if they got older if they wet themselves or the bed. I would ask them simple question about why it happened, did they do it on purpose, do they like doing it.  As they got older, it wouldnt surprise me if they came across me doing omorashi in the home, and having questions about it. And then i would explain it to them and what it means to me to like omorashi, and depending on the age they ask those things they are free to try it. id have rules, not doing it at school, in public (unless you know for sure you wont get caught), and yes to clean up themselves. I would go the extra step to show them how to clean up aswell. But if they want to like it and take it up, by all means id encourage them to do things they would like. My own family life was full of secrets and no one talking to each other about anything and when someone did talk it spread to everyone including people outside the family. I dont want my family to be like that. I want my kids to be able to come to me about things even if it is weird for them, and we can sit and talk about it before they go looking things up online and getting into some kinda trouble or the wrong idea about something. 

from what ive seen omorashi isnt a fetish for everyone that causes arousal. So im not gonna treat it that way, and i wont introduce it that way. but if it turns into that for my child then i'll welcome that as well. 

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By the time I was 10 or 11 I knew I found pee desperation with or without wetting interesting, but I didn't understand a sexual connection yet. Of course the internet was over 30 years in the future.

So, while there is nothing wrong with your daughter developing an early interest in the topic , she definitely  is too young to be allowed to visit omo web sites. The site is described by our founder as "soft porn" but even this not appropriate for her.

Unfortunately there are sick minds out there that would like nothing more than to take advantage of a young girl. As a father I would be scared to death about that happening as a result of her visiting sites like this. There must be  a better, safer outlet for her fetish.

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I had very good experiences with fetish sites. I defenetly wasn't damaged by those sites because I searched for them, when I was 10. I don't know where the fear for the internet comes from. My parents weren't capable to show me how to be save in the web, I just learned it, that another person 5000km away can't hurt me through an internet connection. I had 2 or 3 viruses on my PC because of infected pages, but that's a job easily fixed with a quick google search and programms.

Of course I looked at content the mayority would say aren't there for a kid. I watched videos with women without any clothes except a panty they were doing their buisness in. I didn't care about the women, I was interested in the things that happened in the panties. I don't know where you guys are comming from, but Austria or Europe in general seems a lot more relaxed about nudity, breasts etc. In my family it was totaly normal for us to see each other naked. Why should I be ashamed for my mum to see my privat parts 7 years after she changed my diaper and saw the exact same thing.

To come back to the topic: I would totaly allow my children to have fetishes like that. I would say it's common sense, even I child can learn, that things shown in porn isn't the real thing.

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I mean, if I wasn't tolerant of deviancy in any of my hypothetical children, then I would be a hypocrite... which would seem to be kind of in line with a lot of parents I've either known or heard of. But more honestly, while they can be fun, it's not something I'd wish for my nonexistent offspring. Being different is hard and can lead to real loneliness. If they were in to this sort of fetish specifically, I'd feel terrible... the odds of something like that happening without me having subconsciously affected them seem very small. I don't want to force anybody into anything. Parents should want the best for their kids, and while this sort of fetish is wonderful in certain ways, I wouldn't even have chosen it for myself. It's fascinating... I view those with vanilla sex lives with a strange mixture of pity and envy. On the one hand, they don't know what they're missing. On the other hand, I myself am missing basically everything that they take for granted.

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13 hours ago, wettingman said:

By the time I was 10 or 11 I knew I found pee desperation with or without wetting interesting, but I didn't understand a sexual connection yet. Of course the internet was over 30 years in the future.

So, while there is nothing wrong with your daughter developing an early interest in the topic , she definitely  is too young to be allowed to visit omo web sites. The site is described by our founder as "soft porn" but even this not appropriate for her.

Unfortunately there are sick minds out there that would like nothing more than to take advantage of a young girl. As a father I would be scared to death about that happening as a result of her visiting sites like this. There must be  a better, safer outlet for her fetish.

I was 7 years old when I discovered that I like to pee myself. At that time I peed myself on way at my home from school. As you- I did not understand sexual connection and internett was not available.

So it is not problem that my daughter browses this kind of pages. Maybe it is a little advantage because I was a little scared that I liked peeing myself. I did not have info om fetishes in my child age.

About security- daughter has own Skype, Youtube (she makes videos about horses, dogs, cats) and email. My ex and me have password from all those accounts. And we check it. And we are talking with her that on the nett can be bad peoples as in real life. She knows if she change password without us, we take her mobil and did not get acces to my or my ex-wifes PC. She does not have tablet. So she will be without nett at that case.

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21 hours ago, RavenEevee said:

I want my kids to be able to come to me about things even if it is weird for them, and we can sit and talk about it before they go looking things up online and getting into some kinda trouble or the wrong idea about something. 

You sound like you'll be a great mom!

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