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I've recently started writing for male characters about desperation and I realized I have a lot of gaps in my knowledge about the male anatomy. I've never touched a dick as you might guess so I 'm really kind of curious. I read and hear that peeing while hard is very difficult. Here's a list of questions I have. The more detail the better.

What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

How long can you keep a boner?

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

Girls, if I'm forgetting something ask it in the comments. That's all I can think of for now.

(God boner is a weird word)

 

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Oh boy. So you've got questions about the ol' penisia.

Well, as a life-long penis-haver, I can tell you you've come to the right place. Lemme answer these questions, one by one.

A hard dick feels like... Well, it feels hard. It's throbbing and hot and really sensitive. It also kind of feels powerful. Flex your bicep as hard as you can for ten seconds. It feels kind of like that, with the tension and the heat, except the muscle-cramping sensation is a sexual focus, and feels really good.

You CAN bend a dick that's hard a tiny bit upwards, if you mean bending the dick at the middle, like an elbow. Bending it down isn't really possible if you're fully hard, at least for young healthy guys. You can PUSH it down at the base, but it won't bend, which I guess answers the angling question. Angle it any way you want, as long as it's not 180 degrees.

Hard dicks stick out and up quite a bit if you're standing, but if you're wearing pants, then yeah, they press up into your bodies. I don't know about into your belly. That's like nine+ inches from the base of most dudes' dicks. My dick is pretty smallish, so you'd have to ask another guy about getting that high.

A hard dick just... makes it hard to pee. That's it. When your dick is hard, you try to release your bladder, and even try to push, and it just won't come out. If you push really hard or are really patient and desperate, you CAN pee with a hard-on, but it goes everywhere. We're talking crazy, otherwise-impossible angles.

Does having a hard-on make you less desperate to pee? Maybe, if you're a little desperate, but if you REALLY have to go, then no, it won't help. It'll prevent you from wetting yourself for a few extra minutes, but you'll still FEEL desperate.

Would making yourself hard on purpose help you hold it, and how long can you wait? I'd say yes, it would, but if you're ALREADY desperate, it might be hard to get sexually excited, unless desperation sexually excites you. It's tough for guys who like omo, because they hold their pee with the intention of wetting themselves, then thinking about that gets them hard, and then because they're hard they can't pee. As for how long, in terms of having a 'can't hold it anymore, I"m having an actual accident' level of desperation... Maybe five minutes, optimistically? Not long at all.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish? See above. When I just have to pee and I'm out at the grocery store or something, usually not, but if I'm holding to be naughty, then yeah, every time.

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners? Not really. You get a boner, especially a random puberty-boner, it'll go away after a few minutes if you don't do anything about it. Just focus on something else, like doing your math homework or playing video games, and it'll go down pretty immediately. And if you're super desperate, peeing is still possible.

How long can you keep a boner? If I'm just reading porn or watching videos, it could be hours. If you're having sex, that's another question. Stamina varies from partner to partner and from guy to guy. As for keeping a boner for the sole purpose of preventing an accident, especially for someone who doesn't like omo? Probably only a few minutes, unless you're actively masturbating, and even then it would be tough.

Holding yourself through your pants absolutely helps. You squeeze your dick and pee can't get out. It's like squeezing a hose really tightly. Of course, after long enough, the hose ends up leaking and your hand gets tired, but yeah, it really helps at first.

Lemme know if you have any other questions!

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

The best I can really say is that it feels... tense. A feeling of pressure building up and you just need let it out. Most guys will also tell you that there are varying levels of hardness. This is true. In all cases, it pretty much feels like something is just sticking out "down there", but during the more intense moments, some level of throbbing and tension can be felt.

Imagine you have a floppy object down there, such as a balloon. Suddenly it begins to tingle a bit and fill up with something. Suddenly this small floppy object is feeling a bit intrusive and taking up room in your pants. But more than that, you can still feel with it. The texture of the denim against your skin, and the growing uncomfortableness as you try to make it fit inside of its container.

It really is kind of like just having this sudden extra mass down there. I'm not sure how else to describe it without a basis of comparison.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

The most hardened of dicks prefer not to budge. They angle a bit near the base, but that's all you're getting out of them.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

Yes. Straight up is about the only direction they go.

I think I misunderstood this question at first. If you mean do they press up against the belly without outside intervention, then no. Hard dicks usually stick out anywhere between a 45-90 degree angle. Varies from guy to guy.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

I usually can't go beyond a 45 degree angle in proportion to the rest of my body, though as I said in the first answer, there are varying degrees of hardness. At moderate level, you have a bit more freedom.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

It is not necessarily difficult, but rather it takes effort. I'm not expert on male biology, but I want to say that the hardness puts pressure on the sphincter, making it difficult to just pee without giving some measure of effort.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

I have never felt less desperate when hard.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

It might help prevent involuntary leakage, but it doesn't really help with the desperation.

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

Not much.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Not me personally. I don't really become aroused by being desperate.

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

Not really. As I said, it takes a bit more effort to pee while hard, but it isn't impossible.

How long can you keep a boner?

As long as it wants. Damn thing has a mind of its own.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

Not even a little.

Again, these are my personal answers and don't necessarily reflect every guy out there.

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*What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

Pretty much just like a hairless forearm, but much warmer. It also tends to move around by itself when aroused.

*Can you bend a dick that's hard?

You can't BEND it, just kind of push it in different directions. 

*Do hard dicks press up against your belly?

Only if you're laying on your back, and even then you need to have a pretty large penis for it to really get on your stomach. It doesn't like magically stick to your belly when you're walking around.

*Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Yes. If you push it too hard in any one direction though, it does hurt.

*Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Because semen comes from the balls and urine comes from the bladder. When a penis is hard, it's preparing to ejaculate. Imagine it like a fork on a railroad. You can switch the path the train should take, but if the train has a lot of momentum (you're extremely desperate) it will derail and go flying past the track its supposed to take (the pee is forced out even though you're hard, simply because of the pressure.)

*Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

Not really less desperate, but it is distracting and it does prevent leaking, just through biology.

*Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

I've tried this method, but I always cum way too fast when I'm desperate. I need to keep my hands off myself while I'm bursting or I'll get off and then I lose all will to hold.

*How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

As I said above, I always cum too early to make a difference if I let myself get hard.

*Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

While the desperation is building up, yeah. Once I get to like a 7/10 though, it goes away due to the pain and the squeezing of my legs. To get it back, I need to touch it. But damn does it come back fast when I do.

*Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

I don't remember having any issues with this, mainly because I've always had an absurdly large bladder and never got full against my will.

*How long can you keep a boner?

I've kept hard for a couple of hours a few times, watching the Holding it for Hours videos from Bound 2 Burst and other similar ones. I know you're not supposed to let it go for longer than four hours, not sure why though.

*Does holding yourself through your pants help?

It doesn't really help hold it, it just feels really good, putting pressure on it from the outside while my bladder is boiling. However, you can physically hold the pee inside by pinching it directly. One time I put a clip on it for like twenty minutes while my body was desperately trying to leak. It felt insanely amazing, I got so incredibly full, but I'm not doing it again as that's an easy way to hurt myself. The one-time experience was unforgettable though.

If you have any other questions, I'd be glad to help. I also have similar questions I'd love to ask a woman. If you'd be willing, shoot me a PM. I don't ask for pics or video or anything, I just love gathering information and talking about desperation.

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

This is so hard to describe. I think the "flexed muscle" is a good description of the feeling.  It becomes a lot more sensitive.  I suddenly become more aware of whatever it touches because the sensitivity is really high. Jesus I..have no clue how to answer this.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

Not really.  I can bend mine really slightly, but after that it can't bend any further.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

Absolutely not.  Without any clothing, it sticks outward and a little upward on its own, but with clothing, mine goes down.  Pushing it up to my belly would hurt...a lot.  I can push mine down really easily though.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Yeah you can angle it in different directions, to a certain point. 

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

I would imagine that it's harder to relax the muscles or get the pipes running while you're hard.  That's just for a stray erection.  You cannot physically pee and ejaculate at the same time, so it's actually a lot more difficult while your near the point of ejaculation since your body physically won't let you pee.  I generally don't have too much trouble peeing with a stray erection though.  

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

Very, very slightly.  I think it's more mental though.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

I'd say most likely.  In fact it happens naturally most of the time!

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

I have no idea.  I haven't lost control of my bladder while I was fully-awake since I was like 3, and I would've never noticed something like that at that age.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

My body actually does trigger an erection when I have to pee really bad usually.  I'm not sure if it's because having to pee arouses me, or it's just a natural "this helps you hold it" reaction.  I'd lean towards the former.  Mostly because I'm significantly more sensitive down there when I have to pee.  

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

No. Even if boners prevented me from peeing, walking usually gets rid of them on their own.

How long can you keep a boner?

Without any stimulation, no longer than 20-30 minutes, and that's pushing it.  If it's being stimulated, I can usually keep it hard for like 90 minutes.  If I have to pee, sometimes I can keep one for like 45 minutes.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

I'm sure it does a little, but I never really hold myself through my pants.

edit: I posted a personal fact, but decided I wasn't comfortable sharing it so I removed it.

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

Like a long rock wrapped up in a thin cloth. Just a tiny bit squishy around the firmness.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

No. 

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

They generally point outwards, however a guy could use his hand or press his body against something to push it against himself.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Yes. The base is kind of like the pivot point, though while hard it's more limited than soft.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Personally don't have this problem. I can pee just fine hard. Hard AND aroused however does cause this. It's so a guy doesn't pee and cum at or near the same time. Pee would kill the sperm.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

A little bit. I don't get desperate enough to know.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

No idea.

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

Same as above.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Nope. My fetish is more with the needs of others, not my own. 

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

Nope.

How long can you keep a boner?

How long can i? Indefinitely I assume as long as I'm awake. How long have I? Two-ish hours at least if I try.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

Don't have enough personally desperation experiences to tell.

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The thing with puberty is that in most cases while one is gong through puberty, you often can actually pee while you have a boner, though not as much can come out at once. I believe it isn't till after puberty that it becomes very difficult or impossible to pee and have a boner. 

As for the biology, I also am unsure, but I do know it is impossible to pee if you are ejaculating, about to, or just did because your urethra closes up.

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There are varying levels of hardness. I can pee with morning wood or a "half chub" (sort of hard but not completely). I cannot pee with a 100% hard "im about to have sex/having sex" boner. If I have to pee moderately bad, getting a boner can take my mind off of it. If I have to pee so bad I'm about to lose control, I won't be able to get hard no matter what. 

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.  Difficult to describe to someone who doesn't have one.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?  You can alter the angle a bit, but that's all.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly?   While the majority angle upward at various angles, some are at 90 degrees from the body.  It's an individual thing.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?  If fully hard, you can't easily change the angle very much.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?  This varies, but when fully aroused, there is a "valve" that is supposed to close to prevent semen from going into the bladder during ejaculation.  It works more strongly in some men than in others.  Also, a hard dick is difficult to aim!

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?  Another individual thing, but for me the sensations from the erection distract from the need to pee.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?  It works for me, and it's a trick that I learned when I was about 12.  

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?  It varies, but I can usually buy at least a few more minutes.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?  Because it's the need to pee that turns me on and not the prospect of wetting, I often initially get hard, though I will soften when I am close to losing control.

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?  Occasionally (because that made it difficult to aim), but it would soften and then I could pee.

How long can you keep a boner?  Anything from 10 seconds to several hours.  According to the Viagra commercials, an erection lasting more than four hours could damage the penis.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?  You can't squeeze hard enough to actually prevent pee from escaping once the sphincter has released, but it gives psychological help, perhaps telling your system, "Not yet!"

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

Ololol said it well, it feels like a flexed muscle when you touch it. I think it also kinda feels like a nose or an ear. Touch your nose and ears, squeeze them. They're not literally rock-hard, but not just fluffy fat tissue, you can feel there's a strong structure inside. You can move them around with your fingers, but they hold their shape. The insides of a penis is different than the insides of ears or nose, but it feels similar. Penis can just go a little harder than ears or nose.

But what it feels like as a body part. Normally it just hangs around, like boobs. (Yes I know what it feels like to have boobs I have a pair myself don't judge me I love pizza and ice cream.) It doesn't feel like anything special. But then it decides to start feeling special. It starts feeling warm and you can just feel how the blood pumps in there and starts inflating it. It's like, if you hit some part of your body really bad, and it gets red and warm and it swells and you can feel your blood pulsing in there. That's what an erection feels like, minus the pain and the panic of having hurt yourself.

 

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

Depends on how hard it is. If it's as hard as it can be, it can be bent maybe half a millimetre. A tiny bit, but practically not at all.

 

Do hard dicks press up against your belly?

If I'm wearing clothes, then it reaches towards my belly, flat against the front of my body. However, this does depend on how it's positioned in your pants, so it doesn't go that way for everyone. If I'm not wearing any clothes, it doesn't point straight up, it points more like forwards, and a little bit up. Google images can help here, you can see the angle how up and how forward it goes.

 

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

If I understood the question correctly, then yes, yes you can. You can't point it in just any direction, especially not downwards, but it can be aimed with.

 

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Because it's either pee or semen. They come from separate sources, but they come out the same way, so when you have an erection, that way is reserved for semen. But this is not a 100% accurate description, in real life there are lots of grey areas. It's easier to pee without an erection, but it's completely possible, especially if it's not completely hard.

 

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

No, but as in all of these questions, the answer varies with each individual.

 

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

No, it would just make it harder for me to pee intentionally.

 

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

Practically not any longer than without an erection.

 

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

No, because for me personally, everyday toilet business is completely separate from this fetish. Imagine if you, as a heterosexual woman, lived in a house full of attractive men. Exciting, yes? No, if those attractive men are your father, your brothers and your uncle. That's how I feel about everyday toilet business. I love the risk of helplessly peeing and pooping myself, but when I'm just casually taking a bathroom break from work, it doesn't register as an exciting thing in my brain. If I'm intentionally having personal funtime with desperation and wetting myself, there's no problem either. At first it was really hard to pee on purpose when I was excited about it, but them my brain got used to it and my body learned to let the 'accident' happen even with a small erection. The full erection, in my case, only comes after I'm already wet. Moral of the story? Brains win penis.

 

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

What do you mean unpredictable boners are for pubescents? I'm having unpredictable boners at 22, well past my puberty. And no, it's not a problem, assuming you're talking about normal, everyday peeing. If you get an erection when you need to pee, just try again after a couple of minutes.

 

How long can you keep a boner?

Those couple of minutes I mentioned just now. But my penis is more restless than the average penis. If it doesn't get what it wants, it gives up quickly. If it gets what it wants, it gets tired of it quickly. It does not play games.

 

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

Yes, yes it does. It also feels safe and comforting.

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

It's like a feeling of heavy fullness, and it's soft to the touch but also rigid. The head swells and feels firm but soft and extremely sensitive, imagine your lips but far more responsive to light touch. There are lots of sensitive spots, like the underside of the head and the tip of the foreskin if not circumcised.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

Not really. It's usually quite painful to bend it at all for me, anyway.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

This varies, but for me it does when I lay down. Otherwise it points forward as much as it can.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

With some effort. Generally mine is difficult to manipulate in any way without some degree of discomfort, but it depends a lot on the dick, really.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Personally I struggle to pee at all if I'm hard. It's like I can't relax enough, even if I'm desperate. Maybe it's to do with my extreme pee shyness as well.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

Maybe a little, but I think it's mostly psychological.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

Yes, on account that I can't relax enough to pee when I'm hard.

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

Until I stop being hard, I guess.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Not exactly, but I get reflex ones from the pressure of a full bladder. I don't get desperate often enough to really say, sorry.

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

Nah, generally not. Maybe the occasional time, but other than that, no.

How long can you keep a boner?

Not too long. I need to be really aroused to keep it up for more tgan a few minutes. Again, this varies a lot.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

I actually find it really uncomfortable.

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

If you have ever touched a "realistic skin" dildo, that is probably the closest pliable non-natural texture to skin that I have found. But, the dick is warm, which is different to vibrators and dildos. In some ways, the skin of a dick is like stretched labia.  The tissues under the skin are "hard", but the skin (to various degrees of elasticity and hardness) slides over the shaft The head is spongy, but firm (and warm).

 

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

You can, but it depends on how hardness of the dick. Generally, the harder the dick, the tougher it is to bend. There are exceptions. My roommate was probably 9+ inches (I never measured it) and he could bend his dick when hard. (See sext answer also.)

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

When very hard, mine presses against my belly. If I am showering; extremely horny; and have to pee, sometimes my only choice is to pee upwards. My roommate could move his penis (especially if not at full erection) to his pants leg. Why? Well, the head of his dick would be above the waistband of his pants if he didn't tuck it down his pants leg. (He did rip a pair of older pants once while we were walking on campus. The pants split and he was quite exposed. 

Hard dicks can also curve up, down, right or left, to varying degrees. They can also stick straight out.

Most of the time (in my experience) they point upwards.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

You can angle your dick if it is hard. In my experience, the harder the erection, the harder it is to adjust. The hardest time I ever had was when i was extremely horny (My housemate, but not a girlfriend was an exhibitionist and diagnosed hypersexual.) She would have guys (and the occasional woman or couple) in her bedroom for very loud sex. Being single at the time, I was hard and horny most of the time.  I had to pee but was so hard I could barely bend my dick and I did not want to pee in my own face. I went to the bathroom and tried to point myself down. I could only get a slight bit of movement. I was horny and desperate. I tried thinking of anything to get my erection to subside.  No luck. I was gripping the head of my dick very tightly to try to keep from peeing and I had a crazy idea. I lay on the floor with my head by the base of the toilet, thinking I could angle dick over the rim and pee in the toilet that way.

I almost was able to do it myself. My housemate came in and started laughing. When I (quickly) explained my predicament, she braced me up and pointed my dick over the rim of the toilet and I peed.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

The blood rushing to the dick causes the erection. If I understand it correctly (and this is very basic), when a guy is excited orgasm takes precedence over peeing (since we use the same tube for both orgasm and pee). I have been able to pee when hard (various degrees of hardness), but it is more difficult some times than others.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

I think it may depend on the person. For me, if I have to pee (only a little) and my partner wants to have sex, I can do that. Orgasming usually makes me need to pee, no matter how much or little I needed to pee.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

I've made myself hard to increase the excitement/desperation/kinkiness factor, but I do not think that it would help much to hold it. It seems (mentally and/or physically) the act of peeing and orgasm is performed in the same area / by the same organ.

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

It does not make a significant difference in holding time. The only change is the desperation level. I have accidently peed up my stomach while fully clothed and soaked my shirt, stomach, and waistband of my pants.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Yes!

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

It was even before puberty. Boys get boners all the time. 

How long can you keep a boner?

A lot of it depends on stimuli and frame of mind. I have had "raging" boners for hours - usually when I was in my teens to late 20's - but they occasionally still happen. (This is without the aid of any medicine.)

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

It can help as much as holding it without  wearing pants (or only) underwear. The difficulty with pants is that when I have to pee (and/or have a boner) is that my dick s is much more sensitive at those times. Cloth rubbing/touching my dick can easily chafe it. On the other hand, it is more socially acceptable to hold oneself through clothes than strip naked and do the same.

Girls, if I'm forgetting something ask it in the comments. That's all I can think of for now.

(God boner is a weird word)

Yes, especially considering the ancient phrase "pulling a boner" (doing something stupid) was in use until the early 1970's.

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful. 

It feels like a flexed muscle. If you flex your arm and feel the muscle tensed....that is what it is like. If you are quite fit you will feel the skin taunt and the muscle hard. If you are not so fit you will feel the skin a bit loose and some softness before feeling the tense muscle underneath. That would be what a semi hard penis feels like. 

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

No way. Not if it is fully hard. If it is not fully hard then a small amount of bend is possible but the pain of "bending" it is extreme. When you forceably bend an erection, the tunica albuginea has no more room to stretch. So it tears. Or breaks. This is what is called a broken penis. Google "Broken penis".

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

I suspect this is different for every guy. It will depend on length and size etc. The longer/bigger it is the harder it is to get it that hard. And if it is too small/short it obviously would not reach the belly. And I suspect that as we are all different some would point straight out and some would point straight up. Although I think most tend to point up. When I was younger mine did point up and when i got a boner in my pants the only comfortable position was letting it point straight up and rest against my belly and yes I always wore higher wasted pants to accommodate that.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Yes to angling it. But again not too much angle... the more angle the more discomfort.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee? 

For me it did/does not make it hard to pee. It does make the stream more forceful and takes longer to pee. Think of a garden hose, when you put a nozzle on it the water will spray further with more force but less volume. When the penis is hard the blood is creating pressure and squeezing the urethan tube.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

It does. Our mind is distracted from the desperation so that does make us feel less desperate but once the need to pee is high enough either a guy will be able to pee while hard or he will lose his hard on and then pee. So it only helps to a point. 

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

In my opinion, no it would not. If I can't hold it then hard on or not I will not be able to hold it. Again having said that the hard on could be a distraction from the need to pee for a very short time.

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

If I am fully desperate a hard on might delay it a minute or two. 

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

I certainly do!

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

I do recall quite a few times where it did. If the only place to pee was in a toilet I had great trouble being able to "bend" it downward so my stream went in the toilet. Bending over at the waist and trying to push my boner downward would allow me to get the stream to just barely go in the toilet but the force of the stream would cause lots of splatter that did not make it into the toilet! Peeing in a urinal would result in the back splash landing on my pants. I always did my best to never get desperate because of this! This is bringing back some wonderful memories I should probably write about....

How long can you keep a boner?

This is tougher to answer. Tougher because it varies. Sometimes it would go on for the whole day basically but as i got older it would be a couple hours as more of a norm.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

Not at all. For a guy you have to hold the muscles inside to contain the pee. Once it makes it to the penis there is no being able to hold it with out extreme pain. I remember a story my father told me of a guy who tied a string around his penis to hold in the pee. He was a bed wetter and they were working in a camp and he did not want to pee the bed. He woke up in the middle of the night screaming in pain and it was quite an ordeal to cut the string so he could pee.

Girls, if I'm forgetting something ask it in the comments. That's all I can think of for now.

That is my best shot at answering your questions and if any of my answers invoke more questions feel free to ask and I will be happy to answer. And Kudo's to asking some great questions!!!

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8 hours ago, Bulge_Lover said:

Uh, yes you can. It just really hurts. I'm a huge masochist though, so I've done it for a few minutes. The pressure was indescribably amazing, but I wouldn't recommend it as you're liable to hurt yourself doing so.

Perhaps I should have said, "You shouldn't try squeeze your penis hard enough to stop pee from coming out."

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

Subjectively? As opposed to physically?  It is hard to describe the sensation actually. I am very conscious of it when it starts getting hard. It becomes much more sensitive and you get an urge to do something with it - if I'm on my own then I just have to get a hold of it with my hand.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

Not much. I can bend it around a bit with my hand but much more is painful.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

Not naturally. But if it is in clothes and I free it up from any constriction then it will be held vertically flat against my belly by my clothes. It doesn't go right up my belly of course, it's not that long!

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Naturally, if I'm nude, it will stand about 45 degrees from the vertical. As I said above I can move it around a bit. I can easily move it to a completely vertical position so it's flat against my waist and belly, and that is how I normally keep it if I'm dressed and my clothes/waistband/belt will keep it there. I push it downwards by about 30 degrees (meaning it is now 75 degrees from vertical, or just a bit above sticking straight out horizontally. Any further is very uncomfortable  . Going sideways I can't get it much below 45degrees from the vertical. I suspect I'm not typical in this respect though as I have often heard guys saying they keep their erection pointing downwards or sideways in their pants yet I cannot understand how they can do this - mine points upwards pretty much no matter what.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

I am not a biologist but I think there's a valve that switches over between the pee tube (ureter?) and the semen tube  

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

No. Every guy is familiar with the morning wood problem when you get up, desperate to pee, but can't go without spraying the ceiling  

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

no

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

not at all

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Yes if I'm intending to indulge in some wetting fun - the anticipation of the wetting makes me hard before and during the wetting. This is still the case even now I am older (50)  but I can manage it better than when I was 20 when it was hard all the damn time  

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

I don't remember so, other than the morning wood problem I mentioned above.

How long can you keep a boner?

Half an hour, maybe, unless it is stimulated or inserted in a vagina. 

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

Not really

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I'll try to answer a number of these.

What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

Not quite sure how to describe it... it's different than the rest of the body, much more tender.... Think of it this way, grip the fattest part of your arm tight, and imagine how it would feel if your arm was all muscle and nerve and no bone underneath. Now imagine that when gripping something dick sized. It's more than that around the dick, but using only parts of the female body that's the best description I can think of.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

Depends on how hard it is. If it's not fully erect yes, if it's as hard and erect as it gets, then no.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

Only if we push it there (such as tucking our dick between the waistline of our pants to avoid having a large bulge down there).

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

I don't quite know what you mean, but yes, you can point and aim a dick that's hard, it's not forcibly standing upright in one direction.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Basically, the path from the bladder to the tip of the penis gets cut off on the inside. From what I understand, biologically this is on purpose, because if pee mixes with sperm then the sperm is wasted, hence your body will try to automatically clamp down on the bladder no matter what when it's fully erect. If you're really desperate you can still squeeze some urine out I think, but I've never tried to.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

I haven't done much getting erect while desperate, but I think it helps a bit. But what helps more is like I said above, it's extremely difficult to piss with a fully erect dick even if you try to. That doesn't mean you don't still feel the desperate need to piss badly.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

Maybe if you were really close to losing it, otherwise probably not in my opinion.

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

Only until you start to lose some of your hardness.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

No, though I'm not gay. I would probably get a goner if I was desperate and was with a woman who was desperate to.

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

No. Though I should mention, peeing with a boner can be difficult for other reasons. At times it makes pee come out in unpredictable directions. From what I understand with what I've read, a piss stream is actually much more consistent in a girl (who knows how to aim it properly) then a guy, for basically this reason. Occasionally even if you aren't hard at all the piss will still go off in a random direction once every 1000 times we pee.

How long can you keep a boner?

Basically as long as there's something to keep stimulating us sexually, or until we cum.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

Probably about as much as it helps when a girl grips her crotch. As in probably barely at all, but a desperate person will still do it and insist they need to in order to hold on.

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

From a girl’s perspective, I imagine it would feel like something sticking out of the vagina, but all of it is sensitive like the vagina. So basically if your vagina was a Pyukumuku from Pokemon (or a sea cucumber if you wanna be not nerdy about it).

 

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

Not much without it being painful, it less bends and more tilts like a lever. You can tilt it away from the center and let go, and it’ll sort of bounce back to its original position.

 

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

Rarely. It would basically have to be poking up through your waistband before it got fully erect to get that, and it wouldn’t be very comfortable that way.

 

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Yeah, that’s more or less what I meant by ‘tilt’ before.

 

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Probably because it’s all coming out the same hole, and because I believe urine kills sperm? So if men could easily pee just before, during, or mere seconds after ejaculation, our bodies would be sort of at odds with procreating. Unless you mean in what way is it difficult, in which case my answer would be it just doesn’t come out as easy.

 

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

Yes. Arousal in general tends to make my bladder take a back seat. This results in often having to go very badly after I ejaculate.

 

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

Probably but if I’m in a situation where I don’t want to leak, I’m probably in a situation where I don’t want to be hard either i.e. in public.

 

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

I don’t know for certain, because I reach a point where I’m so full that I can’t even focus on my arousal and just gotta empty my bladder. So I imagine I can’t hold it any longer at all, it’s just easier to hold it for the normal time that I can when I’m not aroused.

 

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

No. I think because boners are so you can have sex, and me having to pee, while feeling good, doesn’t mean I’m about to have sex. So it doesn’t trigger that reaction. Though I do get hard when someone else has to pee or does pee, so that sort of goes against that a bit. Maybe because its someone else that I could have sex with later? 

 

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

Sometimes, but I don’t remember it being a major issue. My early boners were a bit softer than the ones I get now.

 

How long can you keep a boner?

As long as I’m aroused. It tends to deflate pretty quickly after ejaculating, at least for a little while.

 

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

When I’m flaccid? I more press my hand against the soft penis than physically hold my dick, it’s not so different from what girls do I imagine. As for when I’m hard, holding the dick tightly doesn’t help much from my experience, and it’s hard to get a grip when you’re wearing clothes over it.

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

A hard dick almost feels like a slightly squishy metal bar if you touch it, but to the boner-getter, it's a hot, tense, sensitive limb that won't stop bugging you, which can be good or bad.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

This is subjective, some dicks are incredibly hard and can't move, some have a little give. I know my own dick best, so I would say it's possible but slightly hard to do.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

Some dicks naturally angle differently, few dicks actually move into the stomach itself but most, like mine, naturally push upwards if you're just standing.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Absolutely, again where you can angle is subjective. I personally have a very hard time pushing down but as pointed out above me some move downwards much easier.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Well in terms of actually being unable to pee, it is because you can't urinate and ejaculate at the same time and with an erection your body assumes it will ejaculate soon and gets confused. But another problem is not being able to point your dick at the toilet, if you can't push down far enough you could pee straight up, onto yourself, or just piss all over the wall.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

No.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

Not really, maybe for about 30 seconds.

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

30 seconds to a minute, though again the major problem would probably be getting your dick in position.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Not personally, but some might.

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

Not at all, usually getting a random erection wasn't likely when I had to pee.

How long can you keep a boner?

Again it's subjective, the longest I've ever simply had an erection was about 2. But if an erection lasts longer than 4 it's dangerous, as the lack of blood flow could cause the blood in the penis to clot.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

It's more of a mental thing, it feels good, certainly. Which is why so many guys do hold it like that, but it doesn't actially help the bladder muscles.

(God boner is a weird word)

Yes, yes it is.

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What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

It feels....taut. Tight. Like there's a pressure building in this part of your body.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

You can bend it down a little bit and bend it up pretty easily. The shaft itself can't bend when it's erect though. However the less hard it is the more pliable it is.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

Mine doesn't.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

I assume you mean aim it? I can. It's a little tough but it's possible.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Yes. If I have morning wood it has to go away before I pee.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

A little bit, but not a whole lot.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

I think so but I've never done it before so I wouldn't know.

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

Another thing I've never tested. I've never had an accident, though it's been close before.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Nope. Most of the time when I need to pee I'm not really thinking about it. I'm not narcissistic enough to be turned on by myself :P

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

Nope. They came and went but never got in the way as far as peeing went.

How long can you keep a boner?

If I'm teasing myself, for hours on end. If I ignore it, it'll go away within a few minutes.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

Not really. There's other piping back there that's stronger. I feel like trying to squeeze the shaft would make a mess.

(God boner is a weird word)

A lot of words are like that. The more you say 'em, the funnier they sound.

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I'm just gonna skip some of the questions since most of it has been answered.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

No, it's pretty stiff (pun intended)

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

Straight forward if you're not wearing anything, not perfectly straight, it does point up a bit

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Only upward, trying to point it down hurts. Generally if you're wearing pants it'll be pointing up to your waist or slightly sideways. When you're sitting it trys to go along your leg, but if you stand up it's not going to be good. First of all the penis doesn't want to be bent downward like that, so it's going to press up against your pants and it's not going to be comfortable. And second, it's going to be VERY noticeable since it's trying to point straight and is pressing against your pants.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Since you can't really bend or angle it downward, you kinda have to bend over so the penis is pointed at the toilet. The penis is still hard when peeing, so you're not really waiting for it to go away fully. But usually it does get softer while peeing.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

No, but getting turned on does mask the need slightly, you're just trading one feeling for another, but soon reminded.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

Similar to above there are people that say "think about sex if you need to pee"

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

It really depends but I think your body is going to try and get rid of the boner as soon as it can if you're super desperate

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Me personally? No. But I think people get them in a similar way with morning wood or just the friction of holding themselves might cause one.

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

I don't believe so. The only real problem was getting it in class or something.

 

Also, in relation to getting hard and needing to pee. If you need to pee bad, and just keep using arousal to hide the desperate, you're eventually going to orgasm. And at that point the need to pee will pretty much reach maximum. If the characters you're writing about do orgasm, the only thing they'll be doing for the next minute or two is waiting for the boner to start going away so their bladder can explode, and the stream is going to split in multiple directions.

 

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I don't have one, but I think I can answer them with the help of my boyfriend.

 

What does a hard dick actually feel like? Analogies would be helpful.

Good :)

Serious answer: It becomes really sensitive, warm and slightly heavy. I don't know how to describe it.

Can you bend a dick that's hard?

Not without damaging it.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly?

Some guys put it behind their belt to hide it, but it's uncomfortable. When naked, it usually points .forward, but slightly bend down.

Can you angle your dick if it's hard?

Yes, but not down, because it starts bending.

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

Since you can't bend it, you can't aim with it. The stream also usually becomes unpredictable.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

Slight arousal helps, but actively thinking about arousing things makes it worst.

Would making yourself hard on purpose help you hold it?

Only slightly.

How much longer can you wait if you're hard?

Depends, maybe 15 minutes.

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Yes, sometimes he does.

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

It still is for my BF, but it used to be worse.

How long can you keep a boner?

He told me "As long as you exist." lol

Until he cums or gets tired, if there is constant simulation.  So about an hour.

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

Squeezing the tips slightly helps, but only when not erect.

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Can you bend a dick that's hard?

You can move it around a little bit, but there's not much you can do bending-wise.

Do hard dicks press up against your belly? 

For me, it definitely can't make it that far up when hard - but every guy is different!

Why does a hard dick make it difficult to pee?

When a guy is really aroused, the valve that allows urine to pass through will just temporarily shut off, and this is to allow pre-cum and sperm to be able to come out without mixing pee into it.  I don't know about the other guys, but it's just super difficult to even try to pee when hard... One or two minutes of calming down, thinking about projects, or relaxing quickly fixes that problem though.

Does having a hard on make you feel less desperate?

Doesn't really change anything... just makes it harder to pee.

Would making youself hard on purpose help you hold it?

Yes, but at some point a guy would still reach a threshold of discomfort just like any human being and I wouldn't recommend trying to "stay hard on purpose" past that. 

Do you get boners when you need to pee because of your omo fetish?

Yes - it can be quite annoying (maybe for some guys that might be part of the fun though?) - especially if I'm trying to go and it's a "no go" because of the boner... All I can do in that situation is it just relax, think about something else, and then in a bit I'm able to go (hopefully)... and it's more of a challenge when I'm out with someone or the clock really matters.

Was peeing a problem during puberty because of the unpredictable nature of boners?

Yes.  And it certainly didn't help that back at the puberty age there were plenty of cute girls walking around school and such...  I recall this time where a cute girl sat next to me on the bus home and during that time I (of course, right) had a very noticeable boner (wearing shorts).  Of course she is not oblivious to the fact and says "Ah... do you have to go pee really badly?" (I will never forget this, btw).  I didn't really know what to tell her except to just blush and sheepishly reply "yeah..." :blush: That was a facepalm moment for sure.  

There was another time where myself and two girls put our hands up to go to the restroom and the teacher sent the 3 of us out as a group since we were all very behaved students...  The girls were in and out of the restroom quickly and it took me a while because of an unpredictable boner happening at the time (because when I really had to pee, I would usually get one for some reason).  When I came out, they complained that they were waiting forever for me and "reminded me" that boys are supposed to be quicker than girls at this. :sleep:  All they talked about walking back to class was how now relieved they were feeling.

How long can you keep a boner?

Pretty much until not aroused anymore?

Does holding yourself through your pants help?

On 6/2/2017 at 5:11 PM, Raiden S. said:

I more press my hand against the soft penis than physically hold my dick, it’s not so different from what girls do I imagine.

I do this too.  Not sure why, but that's the habitual way I "hold" myself if I do.

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