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Asexual and into Omo?


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Hey guys!
I'm Oliver (not my real name, naturally). I'm 18 (though I look like I'm 14 because I'm trans and short.)
I'm a sex-repulsed asexual... like really sex repulsed. Male, female, vanilla, kinky, whatever, it doesn't matter. Just the thought of sex  or sexual behaviors makes me feel really uncomfortable and panicky. I can put up with nudity, but only in a non-sexual context. Heterosexual sex and anything involving anal contact is the worst for me.
But for some reason I'm also really into a variety of fetishes, mostly based around a fascination for innocence and strong negative emotions. My interests are pretty specific, but cover a wide range of kinks.
I have a hard time finding things to suit my fetishes because it's all so based around sex and nudity. I can barely find any wetting videos.fic/artwork that doesn't involve exposed genitalia and masturbation if not explicit sex.
So I was kind of wondering if anyone felt the same way, or if anyone could offer any help to narrowing my search down to more "PG" content.

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HD Wetting and Bound 2 Burst are the first to come to mind. They both have a lot of fully-clothed, non-sexual (at least to people not specifically getting off on that fetish) wetting. Just be aware that there's also definitely some with nudity, but its normally marked.

A quick way to search would be for "Jeans Wetting". They are normally fully clothed the whole time in those videos. You can also search on youtube. There's a surprising number of desperation and wetting videos on there, and they are obviously not going to contain nudity.

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Hello! I'm also asexual and into various fetishes. I'm sex repulsed but only towards real life footage (I'm OK with it in art and stories).

 

It's hard to find real videos that don't involve nudity and touching :( It's really hit or miss with sites like xtube. I have had much better luck with artwork, specifically on DeviantArt and Tumblr. I don't know what fandoms you are into, but there's quite a lot of clothed omorashi art for Homestuck under the "peestuck" tag. There may be other fandom-specific tags for omorashi on Tumblr (which would help weed out real life videos), but I'm not aware of them unfortunately.

 

I don't know of any fics off the top of my head that have non-sexual omorashi. I'll definitely keep a look out for that when I browse AO3 :D

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Thanks!
The problem I'm having with tumbler is that the "Omorashi" tag is filled up with stuff like watersports that doesn't even fall under the definition of Omo .
I sometimes try looking for fandom stuff, but not a lot of people make Omo art/fics for my fandoms. And when they do, it's always the wrong characters (x_x)

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Yeah, unfortunately people putting general watersports in the omo tag is a big problem :( That's why I wish people would make side tags to keep things more organized, but it's hard to get those things going.

 

What fandoms are you in, if I may ask? I can help look for stuff, or if I enjoy the fandom I might also try to make some stuff!

 

There is something that may help out on Tumblr but it kind of takes a lot of work for potentially little reward. You could use the block system to keep from seeing submissions from certain blogs on the tags (it won't work if someone reblogs from them though, but that shouldn't be a problem in tags since they are only shown when the original poster uploads it). Xkit is also a great addon that lets you block words with a blacklist. This could help clean up tag results to help generate more relevant results. I'm not sure if the "block post" feature is from Tumblr itself or Xkit, but that keeps certain posts from ever showing up again if you don't enjoy it.

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I have a couple of fandoms, but especially these~
.Black Butler/Kuroshitsuji (for omo purposes: Ciel, Alois)
.Death Note: (for omo purposes: Near)
.Harry Potter (for omo purposes: Luna, Neville (especially 4th year Neville, because that's my favorite age)
,Les Miserables (for omo purpose: Eponine, Gavroche, Cosette)
.South Park (for omo purposes: Clyde, Tweek, Kyle, Kenny)
 

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9 minutes ago, Oliver said:

Death Note: (for omo purposes: Near)

*muffled screaming*

 

Oh man I used to love Near so much! I did an omorashi picture of him once but it's not very good (it's really old). I still love him but I'd probably draw him much older now, and I don't know if you'd be interested in that.

 

There is a Tumblr page called Deathnoteomorashi which might help out for that one, if you haven't heard of it yet! :)

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I haven't visited ADISC in a very long time. Didn't have a good first time there at all.

 

However, unless they've changed their rules, I don't think you're allowed to talk about messing/wetting there? Or at least they didn't accept art featuring messing/wetting? It's been years and I'm not in a position to check the website right now so that may be wrong.

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37 minutes ago, ShadowDog said:

I haven't visited ADISC in a very long time. Didn't have a good first time there at all.

 

However, unless they've changed their rules, I don't think you're allowed to talk about messing/wetting there? Or at least they didn't accept art featuring messing/wetting? It's been years and I'm not in a position to check the website right now so that may be wrong.

It's really weird. You can mention wetting and messing, just not in detail. The same as diapers. Like here, there's a dedicated diaper thread, which is huge, with people discussing and comparing products, and they certainly discuss stuff like how well they work, but heaven forbid you should dare to describe how the diapers swell up, or how they feel in intimate detail!

I thought the OP may be interested because there's a lot of people there who are asexual, don't get any kick out of the sexual side of it, but enjoy age regression play. 

I myself identify as a little, but like the OP, I find adult babies kind of weird. I like diapers, but have no desire at all to be a baby. The incessant talk on there about bottles, sippy cups, plushies, pacifiers and the like is a real turn off for me. 

For me, my "little side" is between 9-12 years old. I like to be a little boy who sometimes wets his pants. It's not totally a sexual thing, and I have no interest in kids themselves, but I like the innocence and the naughty feelings of pretending to have an accident. 

But I'm kind of stuck halfway between the two sites. Not a lot of people on here enjoy the regression side of things, and people think of it as being a "pedo" type of thing, but on ADSIC it's like a complete way of life for a lot of them, but they get no sexual feelings out of it whatsoever. 

Theres a lot of people there (like here) who enjoy wearing diapers for fun but don't use them. 

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This sounds a lot like me. I don't exactly feel panicky, but it makes me uncomfortable and a bit disgusted by sex. I also understand what you're saying about preferring the innocent aspects of omorashi. 

I mainly use tumblr and deviant art when looking for content, but I usually end up stumbling across more sexual stuff by accident too. I just try to move on quickly. There's specific fan fictions and art work I often go back to, if you'd like me to share them I'd be happy to, feel free to dm me. 

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I'm only kind of a little? Like, I don't know if I count because up until very recently I was an actual minor, and since I'm trans I really do look like a younger boy instead of a boy my age. And I never, ever act 'little' in public. Only when my parents are out and I'm home alone do I slip into a younger mindset. I'd say around 7 years old, but a little immature, like I was at that age. I've never really wanted to try diapers, and I wouldn't have the nerve to buy them anyway. (x - x) I'm content just dressing in cutesy clothes like shorts and animal hats and the old middle-school t shirts that I still fit into perfectly for some odd reason, and hold until I can't stop fidgeting like a little kid. Since I'd never dare make a video of myself, I usually wet in front of the mirror.

So anyway,  I don't really know if I'd be a good fit for a group made for age-regression type people, since most of them seem to be a good deal older than me (like 25+) and  regressing way back into early toddlerhood. It's not as sexualized, which I like, but it's still not exactly what I want, per se?

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19 minutes ago, Oliver said:

I'm only kind of a little? Like, I don't know if I count because up until very recently I was an actual minor, and since I'm trans I really do look like a younger boy instead of a boy my age. And I never, ever act 'little' in public. Only when my parents are out and I'm home alone do I slip into a younger mindset. I'd say around 7 years old, but a little immature, like I was at that age. I've never really wanted to try diapers, and I wouldn't have the nerve to buy them anyway. (x - x) I'm content just dressing in cutesy clothes like shorts and animal hats and the old middle-school t shirts that I still fit into perfectly for some odd reason, and hold until I can't stop fidgeting like a little kid. Since I'd never dare make a video of myself, I usually wet in front of the mirror.

So anyway,  I don't really know if I'd be a good fit for a group made for age-regression type people, since most of them seem to be a good deal older than me (like 25+) and  regressing way back into early toddlerhood. It's not as sexualized, which I like, but it's still not exactly what I want, per se?

Apart from age and sexuality, we're extremely similar!

Im the same, I never do it in public, and I'm not into toys or playing. But, like you, I enjoy dressing little and doing holds, and watching myself wet in front of the mirror. 

Its not always a sexual thing, although it certainly can be, but it's just nice to relax yourself into a little mindset where the only thing you are thinking about is needing to pee, but still trying to put it off for as long as possible, and subconsciously knowing that if you do wet yourself then it's not really a big deal anyway. 

I had quite a few accidents growing up, and wasn't ever punished for them, and I think that's where this comes from. 

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I didn't have a lot of accidents growing up, maybe once or twice on long car trips. By the time I was eight or nine I'd pretty much outgrown peeing my pants entirely, and I never wanted to until I was maybe 11 or 12. I don't know what the hell sparked that interest. Maybe because it was around then that I realized that I didn't want to grow up into a woman. Maybe I thought that if I stayed a little kid forever it would be easier for people to accept the fact that I wanted to be a boy instead. I dunno really.
But anyway, I guess that I just kind of developed a gag reflex to "adult" things like puberty, and sex because of my fear of becoming an adult female.

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Actually, Im Asexual also, but I havnt really put much effort into figuring out how to describe how I feel in full. Your description fit pretty well. Im Nearly Thirty and still a Virgin because I can't seem to find the Idea of sex appealing. But since forever, I've loomed around places like this one enjoying myself. Although I cant help ya find tame videos and whatnot, unless you look in the downloads.

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Would anyone have suggestions for a tag that could be made for non-nude, non-sexual omorashi that's easy to remember?

 

I can start tagging things as that, or start a personal folder of any videos or pictures I find. I think a tag name would be a cool idea to make searching easier, because I am sure there are more people out there who have similar tastes :)

 

(Getting to talk with other asexual omorashi fans makes me super duper happy!!)

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Not sure about that perception of ADISC, lulz, I first found that site in it's previous incarnation as a teen, and haven't really visited it much for years. I don't think it's really so much that it's an asexual AB collection of people, but it's more that it started out as a support forum that wanted to be PG so they could support teens. They eventually couldn't do that but owner still wanted it to be intellectual and not fetishy or filled with drama. I don't think it's really a Littlespace, reminds me more of an autism forum. I still wouldn't recommend it though.

Diaper porn is usually pretty safe to search for though. It rarely involves sex and nudity, is usually just omorashi humiliation and it's usually pretty easy to filter out messing. And messing in diaper art is usually pretty safe to scroll pass since it's contained (There's plenty of people into diapers that aren't into messing, and among those who are there's plenty who don't actually want to see shit, just the indication that they were filled that way).

Being a little doesn't have to mean much anyway. It's just about what makes you feel comfortable, you don't even have to make Little friends because chances are some Littles aren't good friends anyway. 

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I don't know about a specific tag word, but I like the idea a lot.
I would say something like SFW, but since even non-sexual fetish fuel can get you fired that might not be terribly accurate.
If this were my site I would make all nude/sexual content be tagged as 'explicit' or 'mature' but since we're all 18+ here it's hard to enforce.
I mean, it's hard because I feel like people will misuse the tag and put it on stuff that has 'lighter' sexual content like touching/masturbating.
Maybe we could use movie ratings!


G - No sexual content whatsoever. Not even innuendos. Nothing you wouldn't show a 10 year old.
PG - Very light sexual content. Sexy clothes, mild innuendos, brief mentions of body parts, etc.
PG-13 - Light sexual content. Obvious innuendos, mentions of sex/sexual behaviors, brief or vague nudity (like, from the back or blurred a bit).
R - Moderate sexual content. Full-frontal nudity, everything else except actual sex acts.
NC-17 - Explicit sexual content. Sex acts of any kind, including masturbation.
 

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Have you looked through the downloads section? There's loads of stuff there that doesn't involve nudity or masturbation.

By the way, what do you get out of an omorashi video? Genuinely curious, not a critique. I use them to fuel my sexual fantasies, and even though I may not literally be sitting there with my dick in hand while I watch them, there's definitely some raunchy intent behind my watching.

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Some kind of pleasure, ,I guess. I don't attribute it to sex, but it's fueling... something. It's similar to my reaction to seeing something really cute....
I enjoy omo more the cuter and more helpless-seeming the victim is, and the more upset they seem to feel over the accident. Wetting that seems intentional or wetting that is enjoyed does nothing for me. I can watch intentional wetting videos, but only when they make it look like an accident.

My interest in other fetishes is similar. Like with sadism, I like to see the victim punished out of the sadist's lack of behavioral control -rage is a good fuel emotion-, and the victim's pain has to be genuine. If the sadist seems to be driven by something other than strong negative emotion, it doesn't give me any joy. And god forbid the victim laughs, smiles or seems to sexually enjoy their punishment.

I think I probably experience the same kinds of 'aroused' feelings that people who enjoy sex do, but instead of being linked to sexual behaviors, it's linked to watching others' emotional pain.
 

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@Lotus, a good friend of mine, at your age, was also a virgin because she absolutely did not want to conceive (like be a "mother") and the idea of M/F sex was "not right."

She loved omo and eventually she met a guy who got her into messing - to such an extent she lost a damn good job because she got caught at work twice. But, my point is, she wanted to try it with this good-for-her guy and did it during her monthlies. She always got very very horny at that time and she loved "losing it" very much. She was always on top and in charge.  

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Interesting, @Mildred Downs
I never really thought about pursuing a purely fetish-based romantic relationship with someone. I always think that they'll get annoyed with me not wanting sex and not seeing the fetish in a "sexual" way.
But your friends story makes it sound like she's found someone who she works well with, minus her losing a job due to fetishy reasons. Why didn't she just tell them she had incontinence issues or something?

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