SprinkleBellx 19 Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 I'm not, I get intense pain but I've never been able to lose control. how do you do it and how does it feel? desperation(); and mastersnothing 2 Quote Link to comment
WaityKaty 1,171 Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 It seems the range of experience in regards to feeling pain when badly needing to pee is rather variable. For me, I can just drink plenty of liquid and ignore the "you need to go pee now" signals until I pee involuntarily. It doesn't hurt, just a bit uncomfortable near the end. I don't bother very often though. Mess. Clean up. Also if I stand completely still in the bathroom looking at the toilet, or sit still on the toilet itself, provided I at least kind of needed to pee to begin with I'll lose control within 30 seconds or so. Probably doesn't help you much though. Have you ever held on to a bar above your head and suspended yourself hanging? Eventually you can't make your muscles hold on to the bar any longer? Just like that. But with a different set of muscles. Then everything gets wet down there. :p BladderChamp 1 Quote Link to comment
Omo_Guy 61 Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 For me it also starts to become painful before I start leaking, however similar to @WaityKaty if I wait long enough eventually my bladder wears down (again, probably not the answer your looking for haha) i think any sort of duiretic will help, something with a lot of caffeine (like red bull or monster). Also, a beer or two will do the trick, it's liquid, a diuretic, and the alcohol makes the muscle harder to control, so it's killing three birds with one stone. Quote Link to comment
Omo_Guy 61 Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 And also, to answer your second question, it feel great :) Quote Link to comment
Fred46888 201 Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 My bladder probably isn't really full when I reach the point of needing to pee urgently, so it isn't painful. I get a feeling of increasing pressure, and then I guess my bladder starts to spasm, with strong urges to pee. If I don't do something about it soon, I can't hold back the urges and I will spurt into my briefs, and then smaller spasms will cause frequent leaks until I'm quite wet. Quote Link to comment
WetDave 650 Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 Annoyingly, when I want to have an involuntary wetting it doesn't happen. Usually I just get small involuntary leaks rather than a proper wetting. Yet when I definitely don't want to wet myself I find it difficult to hold it in, and a couple of times I've had a wetting accident when I didn't want one. It's annoying and if anyone knows of a solution to this I'd be very interested. Quote Link to comment
little_accidents 86 Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 Yes. If I wait long enough, then I'll eventually wet myself whether I want to or not. Normally - if I've had my usual caffeine intake - the urgency hits and I'll start spurting involuntarily before my bladder's full enough to be painful. If I've been off caffeine though, yeah, it can get pretty painful before I lose control. I can hold out for longer, but it stops feeling good. footedsleeper 1 Quote Link to comment
CaptainCranberry 166 Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 If I wait a while and get really desperate, I can let a little bit go and it'll be very hard if not impossible for me to stop it. Quote Link to comment
EmmyMurder 83 Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 I've somewhat experienced this, but honestly would not recommend or try again. It was when I was at my absolute limits, the pain can get pretty intense if you're not into that side of omo. The feeling is like losing grip on a bar after using up every bit of strength left trying not to fall, your whole body trembling because of it. Then again maybe it's easier for someone else and I just overdid it. Quote Link to comment
wetaccident 185 Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 I guess maybe it depends on what you mean by "lose control". For me, desperation comes in waves and never reaches a constant state it's just the frequency/severity of the waves increases the more desperate I am. So I can usually make it through even late stage waves with by squirming/fidgeting/holding myself, etc. Sometimes I'll lose a squirt and that's "involuntary" and those too will become more frequent as time passes until often I'm quite wet. So that's kind of not voluntary and I'm not wholly in control. But if you mean a lose of control where I"m just not holding at all and completely flood myself, then no. I've always been a "leaker" though so as I guess others have said YMMV :). Quote Link to comment
LunasAuditor 163 Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 It depends an awful lot on people's different abilities to hold - personally I have the ability to hold pretty damned long so it gets quite uncomfortable before I truly lose control but a lot of people, women in particular, have somewhat less iron control over those muscles so can't hold it to the point where the bladder is stretched uncomfortably/painfully before giving out... As for the question of being "Able" to lose control involuntarily, I can but only when I do it on purpose... By which I mean I have to plan it, and generally get someone to play along to encourage me to hold on long enough as otherwise I almost always just give up due to discomfort before losing control genuinely... Quote Link to comment
jeanvaljean 87 Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 I can, but it requires a huge amount of energy (not to say effort) and time. And it does get fairly painful, especially over the last 30 minutes or so of the hold, when all you actually think about is how good is going to feel letting go of all that pee, regardless if that is going to be in your jeans, on your floor or in the toilet. So yeah, it's definitely possible but it needs a lot of physical and mental input. Quote Link to comment
Jeanette 168 Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 I wrote a pretty detailed account in another thread of what I experience during the final stages of desperation before finally losing control of my bladder: Quote Link to comment
Beatrix 459 Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 I leak a ton for a very long time before the loss of control comes so I have to do more to encourage my pee to come. Quote Link to comment
Rajnish94 32 Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 I'm one of those who feels pain and who leaks a little bit at a time, unfortunately. I'd like to test the experience of losing control, but I couldn't in any way :/ Maybe I'm just too sensitive to pain and I give up early, I don't know °w°' Only once I felt something like a loss of control. I was holding and suddenly I felt my bladder muscles giving up. It wasn't like they relaxed suddenly, it seems more like they began to push on their own. Maybe someone else has experienced the same sensation. Quote Link to comment
gobphus 182 Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 9 hours ago, Beatrix said: I leak a ton for a very long time before the loss of control comes so I have to do more to encourage my pee to come. Leaking prevents your bladder from filling up enough for you to lose control until your sphincter gets really tired. What do you do, besides continuing to drink fluids, to encourage your sphincter to let go against your will? Quote Link to comment
Bite me 1,436 Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 I'm the same, I just get huge amounts of pain, and I've been forced to do my own dental work before. I've got spurts to come out pushing on my bladder, but even then there was no loss of control. From what I've read I got an extremely large bladder, and I think people with huge bladders have their insides yanked on before they actually loose control. Quote Link to comment
liesjeversteven 1,826 Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 Happens a little too easily... Quote Link to comment
Beatrix 459 Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 17 hours ago, gobphus said: Leaking prevents your bladder from filling up enough for you to lose control until your sphincter gets really tired. What do you do, besides continuing to drink fluids, to encourage your sphincter to let go against your will? I hold legs wide open with no hands and barely any moving - it's the only way to let my muscles weaken. I can't drink too much due to medical problems potentially arising from that and my bladder is too large to overflow quickly. Quote Link to comment
gobphus 182 Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 1 hour ago, Beatrix said: I hold legs wide open with no hands and barely any moving - it's the only way to let my muscles weaken. I can't drink too much due to medical problems potentially arising from that and my bladder is too large to overflow quickly. So you keep your sphincter constantly tense, hoping that it will eventually give out, even if spurts reduce the contents of your bladder during your hold? How long does it usually take you to love control? Do you prefer to use the toilet or to wet yourself at the end? Quote Link to comment
Beatrix 459 Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 22 hours ago, gobphus said: So you keep your sphincter constantly tense, hoping that it will eventually give out, even if spurts reduce the contents of your bladder during your hold? How long does it usually take you to love control? Do you prefer to use the toilet or to wet yourself at the end? I always prefer to wet, otherwise would be a waste! As for losing control, can take over an hour for a loss to occur. Quote Link to comment
JengaJen 0 Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 I have been able to let myself lose control a few times. I have found that this method outlined in a post here is very effective. However, I do find it difficult as it can start to get a bit painful for me right before I let go. For me, using this method it takes around an hour, but it depends on what I'm drinking. Quote Link to comment
gobphus 182 Posted October 26, 2016 Share Posted October 26, 2016 8 hours ago, Beatrix said: I always prefer to wet, otherwise would be a waste! As for losing control, can take over an hour for a loss to occur. Using the toilet always seem like not just a waste but a loss. Add the struggle to hold, and not getting to enjoy hot pee spreading through your clothes seems particularly unfair. An hour doesn't seem like a particularly long time to hold before you lose control. How desperate are you at the start of that hour? Quote Link to comment
Euin 72 Posted October 26, 2016 Share Posted October 26, 2016 I always thought this was the difference between men and women. I never really feel pain, I feel discomfort and pressure, like something is pushing against the muscles that holds the pee back, so you thighten them. The more you need to pee the harder you have to clench to keep it back and eventually you just cant anymore. A friend of mine who is also female (whos not into pee stuff as far as I know) said that women relax when they pee and men sort of "push" it out. Thats why it could be harder for a man to lose control because the body doesnt do it automaticly. Think it has to do with the lock men have that makes them unable to pee while having an erection. Matias and GreenChile 2 Quote Link to comment
Wetshisbed 191 Posted October 26, 2016 Share Posted October 26, 2016 I feel nothing very much at all often just my nappy becoming warm and wet. Quote Link to comment
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