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I have a form of autsm known as Asperger's Syndrome which is essentially a social and mental condition. I was wondering if anyone ele on here had it, as Ive found that I connect very well to others with the same condition.

It's no cancer, but it still sucks at times and it can make life pretty hard, so I thought it would be nice if we all got together, knowing we have not one but two big things in common. :)

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Not to forget myself, I too have Asperger's Syndrome (according to the doctor's diagnosis). I tend to find the reason for misery is other people, especially ones whom do not understand us and share a

In Japan it is thought to be shameful to have diagnosed mental issues, but my parents did not agree with that because they are very progressive.

Yes, I have done quite a lot to defend women from being terrorised. In Hitomi's case, I heard of her from my friend Rin, a police officer, who said that her boyfriend Akira had forced her to go to the

Me too! :happy: I wondered before if there's some kind of connection, there seem to be many of us.

 

I don't find it challenging at all, I've learned to deal with the social problems mainly because of how my parents helped me when I was a girl, and my husband John helps me now we're married. The only signs I really have left are saying awkward things and having tics like fiddling with my skirt and jumping on the spot, but people just think they're cute most of the time, helped of course by the fact that I'm a pretty lady. I think it helps with my job working in our friends' computer shop, it lets me focus for lengths of time without being distracted.

 

How it relates to omorashi is an interesting thing. I am very accident prone, partly because in the past my awkwardness made me shy to use public toilets or ask permission to go, with wet consequences. :blush: But I learned to laugh at and enjoy accidents and I don't have nearly as many now. I suspect that my omorashi passion may have come from my mother, she was never ashamed to have an accident if she couldn't hold it any longer. I thought that she might be a bit kinky, since she often flirted with my father in ways that embarrassed him a lot. She and my father are also both geeky scientists, which explains me as well I guess.

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I too have Asperger's. The syndrome itself has never really been a problem for me. The only thing it really seems to make me do, that I notice people with higher levels of autism tend to have, is shake random parts of my body, and whisper random nonsense to myself for no reason. One thing that does kinda cripple me is the fact that if have a dangerously low self-esteem. This usually leads me to insult myself in public, or constantly fear making the slightest flaws. And I always have to degrade myself and say that everything I do is pointless and no one cares. And even if someone says something to me, I have this urge to apologize for things that didn't even happen (For example: I was holding the door for a couple the other day, and had to apologize to them for "getting in their way," even though they were thanking me. I don't really know why I do these kinds of things, but no matter how much I don't want to, I always have to lower my self-esteem, and if I REALLY mess something up, I have to punish my self (and not the masochistic kind). I actually talked about this recently with a friend of mine, and he really doesn't seem to mind. I just feel bad that I'm constantly apologizing for asinine reasons, and being a waste of time for every one else.

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It sounds like no one really struggles with it, so I wonder if that might not be the real problem for me in life. I know I have anxiety and depression but sometimes I just do really weird stuff for no reason and idk why :/

Oh well

Didnt mean to ruin the mood :P

Its definitely nice to know there are other people on here with AS.

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I too have Asperger's. The syndrome itself has never really been a problem for me. The only thing it really seems to make me do, that I notice people with higher levels of autism tend to have, is shake random parts of my body, and whisper random nonsense to myself for no reason. One thing that does kinda cripple me is the fact that if have a dangerously low self-esteem. This usually leads me to insult myself in public, or constantly fear making the slightest flaws. And I always have to degrade myself and say that everything I do is pointless and no one cares. And even if someone says something to me, I have this urge to apologize for things that didn't even happen (For example: I was holding the door for a couple the other day, and had to apologize to them for "getting in their way," even though they were thanking me. I don't really know why I do these kinds of things, but no matter how much I don't want to, I always have to lower my self-esteem, and if I REALLY mess something up, I have to punish my self (and not the masochistic kind). I actually talked about this recently with a friend of mine, and he really doesn't seem to mind. I just feel bad that I'm constantly apologizing for asinine reasons, and being a waste of time for every one else.

I have a lot of the same symptoms, main difference is instead of apologizing all the time, I often flashback to stupid things I did in the past and I berate myself for my actions even though it was a long time ago.  I'm trying not to obsess over past mistakes so much.

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I have a lot of the same symptoms, main difference is instead of apologizing all the time, I often flashback to stupid things I did in the past and I berate myself for my actions even though it was a long time ago.  I'm trying not to obsess over past mistakes so much.

 

Heck, I do that and I haven't been diagnosed with anything on the autism spectrum. That might be from internalizing a way of seeing the world where personal worth hinged on not making mistakes as a defense mechanism from my dad's endless, groundless criticism. By the time I was old enough to realize that was a losing strategy (along with many others) it had already become a fundamental part of my personality.

 

All roads really do lead to Rome... except in this case Rome is a self defeating psychological reflex.

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Yes, I was diagnosed with Asperger when I was 16. Since then, several psychologists have established that as being extremely unlikely.

As I saw the Aspergers diagnosis as a sort of death sentence, I am quite happy that it has since been confirmed by them that this was absolutely incorrect.

 

I just see myself as being weird, different, and strange. Sometimes positively, sometimes negatively. Most of all I'm just myself.

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Seeing that comment about punishing yourself makes me think about how I like John to punish me if I've done something wrong - or even if I haven't! :rolleyes: I always thought that was just being kinky, but maybe there is more to it than that.

 

Seeing it as a death sentence would be very worrying, did the doctor tell you your life expectancy was very short?

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I just didn't want to be diagnosed as having anything weird in my brain. I'm just a little different, that doesn't mean I have a disorder that needs to be formally diagnosed by a medical professional based on the DSM (the bible of psychiatric diagnostics).

People with serious stuff like schizophrenia, real phobias, obsessive-compulsive disorders, manic-depression, borderline disorders - that stuff belongs in the realm of psychiatry. Or stuff like serious personality disorders (antisocial, narcistic etc).

 

Just being a little bit different should not be considered a psychiatric disorder. We are just a little bit different from most other people, I do not feel that that should label me as suffering from a psychiatric syndrome.

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I don't really like Japanese culture very much in many ways. I love anime and geeky things but as somebody who has lived here all her life I can tell you that most of Japanese society is very boring and conservative, many people are unsatisfied and companies can be very cruel to their workers. You may already know about our friend Hitomi who was raped by her boss, and forced to wet herself. That company is now closed and the boss in prison but it was very hard to get justice for her.

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I don't really like Japanese culture very much in many ways. I love anime and geeky things but as somebody who has lived here all her life I can tell you that most of Japanese society is very boring and conservative, many people are unsatisfied and companies can be very cruel to their workers. You may already know about our friend Hitomi who was raped by her boss, and forced to wet herself. That company is now closed and the boss in prison but it was very hard to get justice for her.

 

This is news to me !_! That's gotta suck... I always hate hearing stories about people getting raped. I feel like if I were to walk through some dark alleyway and stumble upon someone getting raped, I'd walk up to the man and punch him in the teeth, then bash his bloodied face against the brick wall multiple times, whether I go to prison or not! Sometimes justice needs to be served, even if that justice doesn't look pretty.

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I have a form of autsm known as Asperger's Syndrome which is essentially a social and mental condition. I was wondering if anyone ele on here had it, as Ive found that I connect very well to others with the same condition.

It's no cancer, but it still sucks at times and it can make life pretty hard, so I thought it would be nice if we all got together, knowing we have not one but two big things in common. :)

I have a light case of it but the social aspect is tough.

 

There are times where i just creep people out all together

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I have never formally been diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome, but I remember I have read a lot about it on the Internet and pretty much every single symptom of it applies to me, so it's probably safe to assume that I am somewhere on the spectrum. I also had most of the disorders that are commonly attributed to Asperger's syndrome. I read that Asperger's syndrome is now a newly diagnosed syndrome only coming to be acknowledged in 1994 or something like that. When I was tested for psychiatric problems it was in the late 80s early 90s before this existed as a syndrome. Had I been tested in the modern-day I probably would have been diagnosed with it. But I don't need to get a formal diagnosis as I don't see how it's going to change my life one way or the other. I have lots of other issues aside from my numerous neurological ones and social problems. I have a bit of an extensive psychiatric history.

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This is news to me !_! That's gotta suck... I always hate hearing stories about people getting raped. I feel like if I were to walk through some dark alleyway and stumble upon someone getting raped, I'd walk up to the man and punch him in the teeth, then bash his bloodied face against the brick wall multiple times, whether I go to prison or not! Sometimes justice needs to be served, even if that justice doesn't look pretty.

 

It wasn't happening in a dark alley, it was in her boss's office. Most rapes are like that, done by someone the victims knows somewhere no one can intervene to save her.

 

My husband John once beat my friend Kana's abusive ex husband (also called John weirdly, though he was American, it must be a very common name among English speaking people) because she and her children were staying with us and he came to get her. The fight was very short because John smashed him flat with a frying pan. The frying pan was badly dented after that and I couldn't use it for cooking anymore. I remember poor Kana cowering, cuddling with her children, and she actually wet herself in fright, though of course none of us found it sexy. Afterwards I found I'd peed a little too, but it wasn't arousing at all.

 

Another time John saw a girl being menaced by 2 men with knives and saved her by knocking out one and dragging her very quickly away from the other! He also punched somebody who groped me on a train once. He is always very protective of ladies in distress, having saved 3 already and helping to save another when he gave support to Hitomi as she pursued legal action against her boss.

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It wasn't happening in a dark alley, it was in her boss's office. Most rapes are like that, done by someone the victims knows somewhere no one can intervene to save her.

 

My husband John once beat my friend Kana's abusive ex husband (also called John weirdly, though he was American, it must be a very common name among English speaking people) because she and her children were staying with us and he came to get her. The fight was very short because John smashed him flat with a frying pan. The frying pan was badly dented after that and I couldn't use it for cooking anymore. I remember poor Kana cowering, cuddling with her children, and she actually wet herself in fright, though of course none of us found it sexy. Afterwards I found I'd peed a little too, but it wasn't arousing at all.

 

Another time John saw a girl being menaced by 2 men with knives and saved her by knocking out one and dragging her very quickly away from the other! He also punched somebody who groped me on a train once. He is always very protective of ladies in distress, having saved 3 already and helping to save another when he gave support to Hitomi as she pursued legal action against her boss.

 

Your husband definitely sounds very protective for others. Getting a husband who can defend those he cares for... You sure made the right choice falling in love with someone like that ^_^

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Yes, I have done quite a lot to defend women from being terrorised. In Hitomi's case, I heard of her from my friend Rin, a police officer, who said that her boyfriend Akira had forced her to go to the police with the issue. He had noticed that she was very subdued one evening and questioned her about it until she broke down in tears and told the full story, and even expressed plans for suicide. She was very unwilling to pursue the case since she thought it would be humiliating and she would lose, but with the support of her boyfriend, Rin and then me she eventually agreed to testify. After she did, other workers at her company did too, and the boss then confessed to raping her and was imprisoned. She now works as an IT specialist for the police and is married to Akira. Even now, hearing the Japanese word for rape makes her curl into a ball and cry.

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Yes, I have done quite a lot to defend women from being terrorised. In Hitomi's case, I heard of her from my friend Rin, a police officer, who said that her boyfriend Akira had forced her to go to the police with the issue. He had noticed that she was very subdued one evening and questioned her about it until she broke down in tears and told the full story, and even expressed plans for suicide. She was very unwilling to pursue the case since she thought it would be humiliating and she would lose, but with the support of her boyfriend, Rin and then me she eventually agreed to testify. After she did, other workers at her company did too, and the boss then confessed to raping her and was imprisoned. She now works as an IT specialist for the police and is married to Akira. Even now, hearing the Japanese word for rape makes her curl into a ball and cry.

You are a hero, and Kimiko is VERY lucky to have found you!  :happy: And all of us here on omo.org are honoured to have you (both) with us.  :smile:

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This is news to me !_! That's gotta suck... I always hate hearing stories about people getting raped. I feel like if I were to walk through some dark alleyway and stumble upon someone getting raped, I'd walk up to the man and punch him in the teeth, then bash his bloodied face against the brick wall multiple times, whether I go to prison or not! Sometimes justice needs to be served, even if that justice doesn't look pretty.

 

It seems I am not the only Spy... who thinks that way.

 

 

You are a hero, and Kimiko is VERY lucky to have found you!  :happy: And all of us here on omo.org are honoured to have you (both) with us.  :smile:

 

Quite so!

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