Do you ever feel 'disgust'?

[Guest]

Do you ever get the feeling of disgust when you watch/take part in Omorashi? Recently I have felt some resentment towards this fetish for enjoying it. To watch people wet themselves for sexual satisfaction has made me feel dirty and filthy, and that I should feel ashamed.

 

The mere thought of people finding out or being open with someone close fills me with dread, the notion that they will view me as a freak and weird sexual pervert, does play in the back of my head.  Don't get me wrong, I have been into omorashi for nearly 10 years. Its just recently that I have been having these feelings. 

 

So, does anyone else have such feelings or had feelings similar to these? 

[Kyuu 5,911]

Yes. Certainly. Running this website for the last 3 years hasn't really helped either. You see and have to deal with all kinds of shady characters.

 

I mainly feel disgust in not wanting to be associated with some of the many creeps you'll see out there. For example; the guys stalking a persons YouTube profile after they post one clip where a friend barely wets herself on accident, asking over and over again for the user to make more "peeing vids" and coming up with all kinds of fake excuses as to why (it's so funny!1!!) when they really just want to manipulate the person into producing more free fap material. Then there's the guy who thinks stalking a girl on the street with a camcorder is fair game and accuses you of being on a "moral crusade" when you say "hey guy, that's not cool, you shouldn't do that or post that here."

 

Being attracted to pee/wetting doesn't actually really bother me much at all. I have plenty of other fetishes as well. I don't find it disgusting. It's weird, for sure. But I enjoy being a bit weird, and I love meeting other people who are the same way.

 

It's more the stigma that bothers me. The fact that paraphilias usually get associated with these creeps and other whackjobs. But creeps aren't exclusive to any single thing or fetish, you just have to deal with it and move on.

 

As for being disgusted by the fetish itself, I really don't think you should be. Sex in itself isn't really about cleanliness. Plenty of people have foot fetishes, and feet are often viewed as "nasty." It doesn't really matter. It's completely harmless fun. If it's the humiliation aspect that bothers you, I'd also recommend taking a look at this thread.

[vexer6 62]

Nope, i'm proud to say that i'm not ashamed of my fetish in the least. Sure there's some people i'd prefer not to know about it like my parents, but I wouldn't mind telling some of my female friends one bit. I'd love to be in a relationship with someone who's as open as I am about the fetish, or is at least willing to indulge me.

[ExplosiveTurtlez 230]

Not really... trust me dude, there are worse things. Omorashi, yeah it is peeing and stuff like that,  you really shouldn't hate on yourself for something you like.

Don't deny that fact... just accept it. It's a lot easier than you might think, trust me. And if you think about it, Omo doesn't really have any disturbing qualities about it (unless you count AB/DLs in which case... really? You're disturbed by something you had to wear yourself as a baby. Don't get in other people's interests you-... sorry... for a moment I thought I was talking to someone else -_-) All omo is, is just peeing/messing yourself, in which case, is just a trip to the laundry machine. It's not like you're murdering somebody, and raping the corpse... or molesting a child, or anything like that. So really, if anyone says that you're fetish is stupid, just do one of two things...

 

1. Ignore them and tell them to fuck off

2. Make a forceful, direct impact of your closed, dominant hand, to any preferred section of the offender's facial region

 

 

Just accept it dude, nothing's wrong with Omorashi ^_^

[OmoCommando 33]

Much like what Kirito said, the main part that makes me feel ashamed of this fetish are the people who think it's okay to stalk people in the streets and record them with their camcorders when they just want a some privacy. We all go on about how awful it is how the government is willing to ruin our private lives for the sake of "national security" and then you have people like this who go ahead and violate someone else's privacy for totally selfish reasons. The hypocrisy here is disgusting. Or times like when someone records a video of a girl who is truly in pain and embarrassed to the point of crying, deliberately being kept from the bathroom for the sake of these guys getting their kicks.

 

I've said it many times before on the site; I don't see any reason that anyone but the person I would have sexual relations with should need to know about my sexual fetishes. And even if that person didn't share them, life would still go on.

 

As far as being ashamed of simply enjoying the fetish, the answer is no. I am not ashamed of it. There are other fetishes I have that I would feel shame for way before this one.

[Little Widow 91]

When I first figured out I was in to this stuff, yes. a TON of disgust. Like I was a freak. and I used to call myself one. And it was because of, again, the stigma around it. But after a while... It sort of faded, because the only reason this would be disgusting and creepy is if I make it like that. I've had to accept this as a part of me, and challenge that kind of thinking.

[LoadedMink 101]

When I first discovered what I was into, I felt some disgust like bashfulbeauty16 said. However, I slowly came to realize that everybody has their own unique kinks, and that what I'm interested in isn't actually harming anyone, so I have no reason to feel ashamed or disgusted. The only person I would ever talk about it to would be a sexual partner or a really close friend, but that's not because I'm ashamed to tell anyone else about it, it's because it's no one else's business what I do in my private life. If someone found out about it and told me they thought it was gross, I would just tell them that everyone has their own unique kinks and quirks, and that what I like is harmless, and life will go on.

 

Again like Kirito said, when I truly start to feel uncomfortable about the fetish is when I think about a misinformed person outside the fetish lumping me together with creepy perverts who stalk people with cameras or in bathrooms. I don't feel ashamed about liking a harmless thing like women purposefully wetting their panties, but I do feel ashamed to be lumped together with people who actually do cause harm to others by stalking or spying on them.

 

In conclusion, I would say that I felt some initial shame when I first discovered everything, but I've since grown out of it and am now proud of my kinks.

[Tom Nook 80]

Personally, I've never felt any self-disgust by being into omo. When I learned I enjoyed it, I was young enough to where I was just starting to learn about sex in general (public school system did a great job of teaching about STD's but not much else... Seriously fuck that shit...) and kinda had the mindset that, "Hey, if I feel like this then everyone else must too" so it wasn't really weird for me. By the time I figured out that it wasn't something everyone experienced I had reached the point where I didn't care what other people thought/said to or about me so that helped keep away any negative feelings about it.

 

You definitely shouldn't be disgusted about yourself from something like this, unless you actually do something disgusting like others have said with the stalking and whatnot. It's perfectly normal (in my eyes anyway) to have some sort of fetish, even if you don't realize you have it. And as far as kinks go you could get much worse. Some people have rape fantasies (which is obviously not good if they act upon them), some people like blood (really bad if not done with extreme care), and some people just like to beat the shit out of other people. Omo isn't something extremely harmful or emotionally scarring so there isn't really any reason feel disgusted by it. And if I was ever with someone that didn't approve of I would give them the same speech (which is probably one of the reasons I'm single. I also overuse parenthesis)

[Halflife77 54]

I'm in agreement with most of the other posters in this thread that I used to feel some disgust at myself for enjoying this kink, but over the years I came to accept it and I don't really feel poorly about it anymore. Granted, it can be a pain when telling a partner about and they're less than thrilled by it. I can say I've been lucky with all of my girlfriends being accepting of it and willing to indulge me, even if they're not that into it themselves. I'd say it's the association with being a "freak" or complete pervert that really bothers me the most, as it seems the majority of followers of this fetish are far removed from that category.

 

I have, however, felt disgust with myself when I wet myself (as well as the few times I messed myself) years ago. I don't know why it is, but I prefer watching over and or participating as long as it's not myself doing the wetting.

[Medieval Genie 197]

I admit, I do sometimes feel an element of disgust, but then I remember that I am not harming anybody in any way, so it is essentially harmless fun that barely costs me a pittance (especially since in Britain we almost exclusively use tap water, not bottled water).

 

Being one of faith has a peculiar effect on my perception of 'disgust' towards this as well, but again, I remind myself that as long as I don't become a porn addict, I am not really doing anything harmful to myself or others.

[PuddleofmyPee 131]

Not sure I would use the word disgusted but I do feel shame and embarrassment at times.  When I was in school I honestly thought I was alone in the world and there was something wrong with me.  Probably one of the reasons I have low self esteem now.  There are times I wish I didn't have this fetish and was "normal".  I think aspects of my life would be easier if I fit in more. 

[Guest Closed_Account]

Not personally no. I've been embarassed when people found out about it whom I didn't want to, but I'm not disgusted.

 

As kinks go it's pretty harmless. Even the creeps mentioned above are only annoying, not really dangerous.

[HappyFaceXD 10]

its really unfortunate about people posting on the youtube pages or following up on peoples twitter accounts. It happens and that disgusts me however, fetishes don't hurt anyone so how can someone really judge (as long as everything in consensual). Some of the underage stuff is borderline illegal and its hard to judge people because this fetish doesn't show nudity. Thus if you are faping to possible underage material that can cause internal moral unrest and it has for me as the real desperation thread has some obvious under 18ers. My two cents.

[Kyuu 5,911]

its really unfortunate about people posting on the youtube pages or following up on peoples twitter accounts. It happens and that disgusts me however, fetishes don't hurt anyone so how can someone really judge (as long as everything in consensual). Some of the underage stuff is borderline illegal and its hard to judge people because this fetish doesn't show nudity. Thus if you are faping to possible underage material that can cause internal moral unrest and it has for me as the real desperation thread has some obvious under 18ers. My two cents.

If you see posts containing obviously underage individuals, you should report them.

[welcomegaffer 10]

It's not so much the fetish per se, more the way people behave towards people with the fetish, either with disgust, or because the people with the fetish behave in an obscene manner, such as the comments on some videos. 

 

That being said, it's not an issue solely related to this fetish at all.

[DrBorderline 293]

No shame, no guilt, no disgust, no cognitive dissonance of any sort, even when I was first figuring out what it was. Having said that:

 

At the time when I was able to put together enough information to understand what was going on, a whole lot of other things were going on and most of them were bad, so this kind of thing ended up on the back burner - inasmuch as it can be. If I thought of it as a problem, it was the least of my problems and I needed to focus on other things. If it wasn't a problem then there was no point worrying about it.

 

Present day, I occasionally go through intervals of "low intensity" for lack of a better term, and I look at the logistics of it through more detached eyes. And on those days / nights I do have a tug of war inside my head between the pros and cons.

[SeverusSnapeFan 448]

I've never felt like utter disgust, because I know there are far worse things in this world. I was born with fetish, I've always had it, even if when I was a kid I wasnt aware of it was it called but I knew I was different. I went through a period of time where I was shamed of having it, and I wished for once that I could be like everyone else. That if someone says they have to pee very badly that I didnt bat an eye like everyone else instead of trying to pretend I'm like them and joke it off. 

 

But I've come past all of that I should say, I learned to accept that it was a part of me a long time ago. And I dont wish to change it. 

[Kimiko3 140]

No. My fetishes are a natural part of me, and have given me so much fun and pleasure. There's no good reason to be ashamed of them.

[nonny 119]

I'm older than many here, so there was no internet when my fetish was born. It was a very strange thing to want to wet myself like a little boy, or like a baby. It was especially strange because I'd wet my pants a lot as a kid (my bed too) and some of the most embarrassing moments of my childhood were about that.

 

For a few years I had no idea anyone else had ever had those thoughts. It felt so good when I did it, and so arousing too, some of the best feelings I'd ever had. But it also felt like a very dark secret for those years. I had a lot of doubt and shame. If I'm having fun with my fetishes now in a playfully adult way, I find them delightful. 

[ginger 0]

I don't know if disgust is the right word, but I have felt a lot of shame in the past before after deliberate accidents.  I think it was due in part to the social stigma against the fetish, but also in part due to upbringing?  When I was  kid, going through potty training, I'm sure I was taught at some point that wetting oneself is a bad, baby thing to do.  I had an issue with bedwetting as a child and had to wear a majorly uncomfortable alarm because of it, so I associated wetting with shame and discomfort for a long time.  I'm still trying to work through all that by remembering that I'm not doing anything wrong or even something that affects anyone but me.

[jesuisunbebe7 1]

Well, as most everyone said, there is some disgust in regards to some of the "typical" creepos who lurk around on sites like this. But, honestly, you like what you like. I went through many years of shame and 'disgust' at myself. Every cycle of throwing away paraphernalia (I'm an AB/DL, so sometimes this means lots of money) and cleaning out irreplaceable files on my computer would only last a few months at most. And everytime I'd give in and come back to it I'd feel guilty and even worse about myself. So, after over a decade of wrestling with my own disgust, I realized, the enjoyment and arousal my fetish brings me is not going to change, I'm not going to stop liking it. But my attitude can change. While I know in "normal" people's eyes, what I enjoy is disgusting and perverse, it's just a part of me. I can't stop liking diapers any more than I can stop liking the color purple, so why waste my time being ashamed and disgusted at something that's not going to change.

[the morningstar 72]

I think maybe before I knew what fetishes were, back when I was little, I felt pretty embarrassed about liking the idea of wetting myself.

 

Now though, I don't feel ashamed about it at all. Of course, I'd be hella embarrassed if someone I knew FOUND OUT about it, and they were someone I didn't want knowing about it. But I do not carry myself with shame or mentally beat myself up over "being this way." I actually think it's kind of kinky and I love it. I love the secrecy of it. Like this is my thing and it's only for me to enjoy with a small group of like-minded individuals (like here on the site :D).

 

I'm borderline asexual because I have a very low sex drive. I sometimes really wish this wasn't the case though, and I'm also kind of afraid of sex to boot, so that doesn't help in the slightest. But when I partake in omorashi, I find it helps my libido a little bit and I can just sit there amazed, like, "Wow, I'm actually kind of a naughty little -----." *laughs* I really don't fit the standards for "sexy" at all, and I oftentimes don't care at all to meet those standards. But once in a while, there's that odd moment where I actually do yearn for being a little sexy in one way or another.

 

 

The only times I feel disgust is when I stumble across videos of real, actual people being embarrassed and caught on tape, or drunk people wetting themselves and they're being recorded - because people can't give proper consent when they're totally hammered. I know I said before that I enjoy the shame aspect of omorashi, but I only enjoy that if I'm the one being embarrassed or it's fictional characters - and comfort ALWAYS has to come shortly thereafter for both situations in order for me to enjoy it. 

Edited January 15, 2014 by the morningstar (see edit history)

[Guest Closed_Account]

I'm borderline asexual because I have a very low sex drive. I sometimes really wish this wasn't the case though, and I'm also kind of afraid of sex to boot, so that doesn't help in the slightest. But when I partake in omorashi, I find it helps my libido a little bit and I can just sit there amazed, like, "Wow, I'm actually kind of a naughty little -----." *laughs* I really don't fit the standards for "sexy" at all, and I oftentimes don't care at all to meet those standards. But once in a while, there's that odd moment where I actually do yearn for being a little sexy in one way or another.

 

Aw, I think that's quite sweet.

[sandy808 1,192]

I never felt disgust over needing or wearing diapers, but I did feel a little disgust the first time I masturbated in my diaper.

[Guest Closed_Account]

I never felt disgust over needing or wearing diapers, but I did feel a little disgust the first time I masturbated in my diaper.

 

Sorry to hear you felt that way :/ Have you managed to come to terms with it since?