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  1. Hello again ❤️ I moved in with my bf this week and I haven’t felt the need to wet until now… I don’t have any diapers with me but I have an idea that I saw from this site. I’m currently wearing a dress and even though its cold I was thinking of not wearing underwear and then sitting on one of the apartment gazebo chairs and relieving myself there… I could also squat by a tree, but the chair seems a little more dangerous/exciting to me…I also thought I could sit at the top of a random stair case and just let go…they’re the kind of stairs that have the openings so it would be really loud and satisfying. If I wait a little longer I know that I’ll also need to mess…it’s an apartment complex and I have baby wipes with me, so I could clean myself up and dispose of the wipes in a public trash chute/dog waste bin….but where should I mess..? Quick replies please, I’ll be relieving myself in the next 2-3 hours!!
  2. So I've experimented a bit with both wetting and messing in my spare time. With the former, I love that I can get a good "accident" where I really can't hold it. However with the latter, even though I like pushing a log into my pants, I find I can't really ever get that accidental release unless it's really loose and messy. I much prefer a good solid load, but find that with those I can hold for days on end, and it eventually just gets uncomfortable and not pleasurable so I just make myself let it out very much on purpose. And that also makes the timing really difficult, as I have few days where I can try to plan my accidents and have the house to myself. So my question is- any good tricks to get a good genuine poop accident, without also making the output a sloppy horrible mess? Am I hoping for a unicorn that is hard to achieve in reality?
  3. I've got a WFH day to myself on Friday and was considering trying a bit of public desperation for the first time during a quick walk break. I feel like I want to up the risk factor a bit from what I've been doing recently, but I've only ever deliberately got super desperate behind closed doors and the idea of potentially putting myself in a situation where I might have an accident outside both excites and terrifies me. I was considering getting really desperate, putting on my long coat and taking a walk a certain distance around the quiet country tracks behind the streets I live near and seeing if I can make it back home on time. The main thing that gives me some trepidation is that someone I know might see! How did others here cross this hurdle? Any recommendations or tips?
  4. What do you guys do to stop Goodnites from leaking so much? The XLs hold a good amount but if you let it out all at once as a guy instead of in bursts, it'll almost always leak through the sides. Any suggestions to stop this? I really like the girl goodnites and would prefer not to have to buy dedicated ABDL diapers.
  5. Hi guys I need some advice from you. I want to go to the movies with my girlfriend on the 25th and would want to wear a diaper. But I don't know exactly how she will react should she find out. Since it's currently pretty warm in our house and unfortunately I don't own any shorts which would easily hide it. I had brought it up once a few years ago that I can just "turn off" the brain by wearing diapers and her reaction wasn't that great. Now I want to try it in public, maybe with wetting and yes, I do not know what to do. Can you help me?🥺
  6. Hey Y'all! So...I took The Plunge and put Grindr and Scruff on my phone(I'm Bi As Fuck btw). I've been thinking about this for a while, and I'm ready to start looking for my First Boyfriend! 😍 I've had Grindr for about a week now and the response has been nothing short of amazing! I've met so many new wonderful people and I'm making lots of new friends. A few Creeps, but I was totally expecting that. I set up my Scruff Profile this afternoon but if I'm being honest, the UI is a little overwhelming. I'm just gonna have to sit down tomorrow and fiddle with it until I figure it out. I'm VERY new to all of this, but I'm having fun nonetheless. The confidence in my body alone has risen by leaps and bounds! In my long history of Mental Illness, this is the first time I've felt this good about myself in YEARS! I feel like I could FINALLY be me! I Came Out to my best friend the other night. We live in the DEEP 'Hood in Austin, and he's a former Gang Member. We've been talking about getting our own place with increasing seriousness, and in order for things to not be awkward when I inevitably started bringing Guys over I had to tell him. He was TOTALLY cool with it! He said he'd never judge me for something like that. I cried off and on for the rest of the night. My first ever Happy Tears. So my reason for writing this is to ask any Grindr/Scruff Vets out there for any advice they may have, no matter how obvious it may seem. I know what I'm attracted to and I know what I'm about as far as Kinks go. But chatting up Dudes seems to be something I suck at for some odd reason. I've had several ok chats and a handful of Prospects, but nothing Solid yet. I'm so glad I did this. I just wish I had all My Shit figured out earlier. I got a lot of lost time to make up for! Thanks Y'all! 💜
  7. First off, I got a few messages asking where I went. Sorry to just drop out, but I felt like I wanted to take my experiences to a more private level for several reasons. One of which is that I felt wrong to be posting without the permission of my partner (things are getting more serious, so it's out of respect). The second is that I want to explore more of my personal psychology regarding this whole fetish. Hopefully by the end of this post, I can be forgiven 😅 That being said, I have several questions that I would love your input on if anyone has any insight. I will throw out a content warning for this post/thread, but trauma content ahead! I have also posted the links below for the research/articles I'm talking about? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7068517/ https://understanding.infantilism.org/surveys/trauma_and_exposure.php https://metro.co.uk/2019/06/24/teacher-lives-diaper-wearing-adult-baby-help-overcome-child-abuse-memories-10052173/ https://scholarworks.waldenu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=7495&context=dissertations https://books.google.com/books?id=Ogr-DwAAQBAJ&pg=PA76&lpg=PA76&dq=ptsd+abdl&source=bl&ots=DEVjB6DMDc&sig=ACfU3U39OP_lmFaBOJBWENzwTDOfoFlaNA&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiss4iOx_b3AhXuj4kEHZnXCnYQ6AF6BAgxEAM#v=onepage&q=ptsd abdl&f=false I've recently been coming to terms and processing a lot of harder aspects of my life after determining that I have CPTSD, or Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, for those unaware. CPTSD differs a bit from PTSD in that it often occurs in the presence of Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) and continued abuse. Instead of one repeated incident, it's many over time with no support system or coping skills in place. Some backstory, I experienced physical abuse, emotional neglect, childhood sexual assault (Age 14), and am currently being treated for CPTSD. I have previously been treated for depression, anxiety, Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder (dissociative disorder), and there is suspected ADHD as well, just for some pizzazz. I am an addict, but not currently being treated because well, that's a symptom, not a cause. I am also self-medicating by microdosing shrooms 2x weekly. One of my goals is to take a higher dose and actually trip while diapered. I'm a bit afraid of regressing involuntarily as well. I've always been uncomfortable with the topic of regression, and wouldn't it be telling if I were afraid of it because I subconsciously felt shame about it? That being said, there's research supporting that shrooms can help alleviate symptoms of trauma, but I did not expect how it would work. I've never been so emotional! And I can remember so much stuff now (a blessing and a curse.) Sorry, i digress. In terms of ABDL lifestyle, I have always had a fascination with the art of peeing. I discovered masturbation twice while absolutely bursting twice as a child. I say twice because I forgot in between instances as they were a few years apart. I never had an issue bedwetting or using the toilet, other than being afraid of the flush. I enjoy more DL aspects, and often don't align with AB parts of the fetish. In fact, I'm a bit yucked by some parts of it. I feel disgusted by the crossover of sexual experience and parental care, but before there's any wetting involved, the safety and comfort and cuteness is what makes me happy. There's also research supporting that ABDL lifestyles can be attributed to trauma during infanthood, sexual abuse as a toddler, lack of attachment to their parent, etc. HOWEVER, the research I'm seeing supports this claim only for the AB side of things. And there's overlap between my experiences and their definition of AB. And I believe someone on here asked me once if I was AB or not? So now, I guess my questions are: Do y'all agree about the characterization of the differences between AB & DL? What are your opinions on the connections between trauma and this fetish? Do you think childhood sexual assault or lack of connection is more likely to result in someone enjoying this fetish? Hypothetically. And on a more personal note: How can I further discover my connection to this fetish? Did you struggle to identify yourself as AB or DL or both? What kinds of questions can I ask myself/did you ask yourself to figure this shit out? I appreciate and invite all answers! And if this topic is a bit too sensitive or in the wrong place, please message me and let me know, and I will correct it ASAP. I'm also curious about regression, so if anyone has any related perspectives on that?
  8. first off, bonus points if you remember that headline phrase 😻 Hey Guys. I'm moving some furniture around and realized this chair has GOT to be good for wetting while filming from underneath, right? Like if I can figure out how to keep the camera focused on my pee not the chair and you guys are looking up at it while I thrash around and finally lose it... It would all just be wet pale chubby thighs, pussy, a puddle, and my sounds. I can probably throw some sexy shoes in there too. Unless that's not what we want for this look? What do we think? I'm trying to win the first Oscar for porn creative director btw🤭 Also I have three of them so if there's any Mid-Atlantic ladies who'd like to hold hands and see who can hold longer... I might be up for that 😈
  9. I had my first proper wetting experience yesterday where I forced myself to wet the bed. However, it's the 'forced' part I want to improve on. I find it much easier to wet myself standing up, than I do laying down, but I really want to get into wetting while I'm laying down in bed. It's when laying down that I do have to push fairly hard in order to pee, and it can take a while before I actually start 'wetting'. Does anyone have advice or tips to make wetting in general much easier? Or more specifically wetting in bed (/bedwetting) while laying down?
  10. I've created a burner account here but i was wondering if anyone has any tips for how to enjoy messing/wetting more? I'm new to this and dont know alot. Any ideas, challenges, whatever, are apprechiated. Thanks 😉
  11. I want to stain my underwear, pants, shorts, etc. But i have had some issues. What fabrics hold the stains best after washing? Or how to keep stains after washing? How long do you let them dry? How to avoid molding of the clothes?(had this happen before) How to hide them and keep smell down? Thanks in advance for any help! 😀 Also any other questions about stains and how to keep or get rid of them are welcome. Also might as well post your stains in here while we are at it. 😀
  12. Looking to try out diapers for the first time here soon. Will have home to myself for a couple weeks coming up. Was looking for advice on what kind of diapers would be good to try out for a first timer. Preferably something that over the counter and holds a lot. Also any advice in case of nerves or getting over trying to use for the first time. Know it may seem a little strange to ask
  13. I have a (rather improvised) guideline that I always follow when introducing the fetish to someone new. So far I have not had any really bad reaction to it. I hope this may help other's here as for many years I have dreamed of trying omorashi and have always been afraid of rejection. So it was a surprise to me realizing that "naive" people are usually open to trying it. I must say this guide may not work so well on every culture, gender and sexual orientation. So please take into consideration this is from the point of view of a heterosexual male in a relatively conservative first-world country (immigrant in Japan). This guide is also mostly for people you have no strong relationships with (dating apps, people you meet on a party, etc). I have never tried with old friends or long serious relationships. Assuming you two met and either had some sexual relations already or are both clearly interested in each other. Telling your partner: Wait for a chat to develop naturally about personal kinks or shameful stuff. Let your partner go first. Try one or two rounds without mentioning omorashi and equalize your reactions to your partner's. Be straightfoward and brief. Say this is something that you find hot and that's enough. Don't look more embarrassed about it than your partner was about what they told you. This artificially levels both confessions and make omorashi seems normal (or as normal as what your partner told you). You would be surprised how many people believe their "I think hands are sexy" is as weird as being excited by someone peeing themselves. Don't tell more details than demanded in the conversation flow. Make it look like it is just part of the conversation and react surprised and say you know many people into it if you partner is shocked by that. Have other stuff to tell after that so it doesn't look like the purpose of the talk was telling about omorashi. Trying for the first time: Unless your partner was deeply shocked and with no words for it when you told them (which I honestly never seen happening), their reaction doesn't really matter. People may say it is disgusting or say they would never do something like that, but one's inhibitions go down as soon as they realize: They can trust you. They are safe with you. You won't impose them anything and you are willing to stop at any time without pressuring them into doing anything. You must be firm in your intentions, but have the concept of consent clear in all your actions. Be sensitive to your partner's signals and emotions. You are not using them. Your partner is not a tool for your fetish, but an agent. The pleasure comes from them, their actions, their words, their body. They must feel desired. They will feel good. Maybe not with omorashi, but you are willing to give them as good of a time as you can. They must believe you will give them an experience they have never had before, that they will be pleased and longing for more. And you better deliver. No surprises, you must be predictable. For the first few times, DO NOT pee yourself, ask THEM to wet. This may seem counter intuitive, but people feel safer and more in control when they are the active person. When they pee themselves they feel ashamed, worry that they are disgusting to you. If you wet yourself they will feel disgusted by you, you are the one making them uncomfortable, and they won't want to be with you ever again. Wait until they are horny to ask. When you see they want to do something for you. Ask directly and don't insist if they say no. Wait for the perfect, safest situation. They must have an extra change of clothes, or you must be willing to wash and dry their clothes before the next day. Don't make too much of a mess on the first time, maybe wetting only panties on the shower, or only peeing a little on their pants is enough. If they seem uncomfortable of comment on the smell or feeling, ask if they would like to have a shower with you first before going on. Don't get the situation too detached from regular sex. While they wet don't just look or talk; touch, kiss, lick.... use your hands and mouth, look excited, help them removing their wet clothes in a sensual way, etc. Continuing to enjoy omorashi: If the person did it for you. Don't ask again next time. Wait for them to suggest it, now the ball is on their court. If they don't suggest it for a long time, or if they seemed ashamed after it, it may be worth talking about how good you felt that they did it for you. A few people will get really into it and want to do it for you every time you meet for the simple reason they feel excited by making you excited. Keep showing them how good you feel and rewarding them for their effort in the same coin. Some will only do it for your enjoyment. They won't feel embarrassed about it, but also won't really get any sexual pleasure from it. Don't insist and I hope you can enjoy regular sex for many times in between the omorashi sessions. A few may feel too embarrassed or ashamed from the first experience. Don't make it worse for them and don't be a creep. If you have any other tips, please leave a comment. I'm specially interested in how to tell old friends with whom you ended up romantically involved. I'd love to hear about other experiences.
  14. Guys I posted a pic of myself and I want to delete it, I don't know how and I'm freaking out!!!! There's no option to delete it!!!
  15. Okay, so long story short, I'm getting ready to write an actual novel. There won't be any omorashi in it or anything (yes, boo me like the peasant am!), but that's more because it's a bit of a romance novel set in a post-apocalyptic Earth. There will be zombies, Monsters, and a special girl though! I'm looking for anyone who'd be willing to perhaps read it as I write and give suggestions and ideas. There is a lot of excellent writers on here and I figured this would be a good place to seek some advice! If you're interested let me know and I'll send chapters of Google Drive or some other form of sharing!
  16. I've got a question for everyone I'm doing a holding tonight. Doing the rapid method so for the first few hours I'm using water but later in the hold I want to drink something more diuretic. I'm preferably loking for something more bladder irritating, like something that's harder to hold for a long period of time. So here's my question. What's your favorite non-alcoholic drink to hold with? What's you favorite alcoholic drink to hold with? Which alcoholic drinks are the hardest to hold with a for a long period of time>
  17. Wasn't quite sure if this should go in off topic form or here but since it was still pee related I thought this would be okay... but enough about that. I had a procedure done at my urologists office today and durning the test they could only fill my bladder up with a catheter to 280ml (which is below average) before my bladder was in pain and felt I needed to pee very badly. I don't have the full test results or a treatment plan from my doctor yet, but I just wanted some advice since I was feeling nervous about the test and results. I tend to use the bathroom very often. I can bairly hold past 2 hours if I have had anything at all to drink and if I drink a lot of liquid at once I need to pee several times each hour for a few hours after what I drank. I also have a problem with needing the bathroom several times each night. I think it was diagnosed as nocturna. (That may be spelled wrong) This causes me to always be aware of where bathrooms are in public and makes me very anxious when I am not near one. I wanted to know if anyone else had a similar problems and what they do to fix or help them. I have read lots about diapers for those with overactive bladder, but I do not have accidents despte having several close calls, so I'm just not sure I would want to do that. I have read about bladder training and talked to my doctor about it but it did not seem to help much when I tried. I have also tried some different medications prescribed by the urologist which helped quite a bit, but gave me nasty side effects along with it. Which was why it was then time for the tests I had today. Any advice or stories from those with overactive bladders or anything similar really would be appreciated and sorry for any spelling errors I am writing from my phone. Thanks in advance!
  18. I have been dating a girl I love for almost two years. I opened up to her about my love for wetting a few months ago and she said if it turned me on, she would love to do it for me and has wet her pants for me several times. However, for months now, when it's not involved it has become increasingly difficult for me to stay hard when we have sex to the point where she feels it's just not working. Maybe once out of every five times I can stay hard and that's just not a healthy ratio. It didn't used to be a problem and she, understandably so, has taken it quite personally. I feel that excessive masturbation has also played a role. And it's not as if she doesn't turn me on but no matter how much I say otherwise, it's hard for her to believe and makes her feel bad about herself. Just wondering if any others have experienced something similar and if there are any tips to overcome it. Thank you in advance.
  19. So considering this is a fetish site I'm sure everyone here masturbates to omorashi. But does it ever feel like masturbation lost its sensation? I'm sure a lot of guys can relate to this. Anyone have any tips on having a more satisfying masturbation?
  20. Hello all, some of you know me some don’t. My real life friends won’t help me with this subject as they all told me it would fuck up. So since I’ve met some great people on here I was hoping maybe you would be able to advise me on this... 18months ago I got with my first girlfriend (was with guys before) and we had a lot of fun and it felt near perfect. Her university course ended in August and she went back home which is 200miles away. We agree a long distance relationship could work. a couple weeks back home she admits she struggling getting a work homelife balance so I back off a little and tell her we can meet up when it’s all sorted. We keep in touch and have a laugh by phone and text, now it’s been six months and I feels I’ve let her down and don’t know what to do! I had to fight so hard to get her to agree to give me a go and now I think I’ve fucked it all. O really don’t want to lose her as I have fallen in love (I know the big L word) I’ve told her I think I was falling for her and she was ok with it, not scare or anything but she didn’t say it back. Do you guys think I’ve fucked up? Any advise for a stupid person? Love bree xx ????
  21. I am new to this. Was wondering if anyone had advice for a first timer? How to wet, where, tips?
  22. Ok. So. I've been into omo for a few years now, but I've only told one or two people, because I've never really wanted to tell anyone else. Well, no, I guess it's more that I've never had anyone else I'm comfortable telling- even I have to admit it's a bit out there. Anyways, getting to my point... Yesterday, my boyfriend and I were laying around in bed when he started poking me and ended up poking my bladder. It was a little bit full, so I started squirming around, and he kept poking it. Of course I got curious and asked what he was doing, and he told me he enjoyed watching me squirm, and that it was a turn on for him because it reminded him of...other things in regards to the bedroom. You know what I mean. He doesn't know about my interests in omo, but this definitely made me consider pushing it a little more and experimenting with how far I can push the boundaries without flat out asking him if he's into it or telling him that I am. For the record, I'm more just interested in holding with occasional wetting, and of course reading about/watching other's desperation. I would consider incorporating it into our other...activities, but I really haven't thought that far ahead yet. I don't really know what to do, so I figured I'd ask you all- do you think there's a chance he's into it, or could develop an interest as well? If so, what should I do next?
  23. Hello omo guys, i have a question for you everyone that i saw on here a bit ago, but cant seem to find the thread, so I'm starting my own. How do you keep holding for longer? My problem is how horny having a full bladder makes me, but if I cum I my full bladder no longer feels amazing, but more of an inconvenience, which stops me from losing control. Usually I try to not hold myself in general to prevent me from masturbating and ruining my omo fun. SO! What are some (preferably fun and exciting) ways to keep holding as well as lose control? The lose control part is there because i am unfortunately very good at holding my pee, and holding can become more painful than pleasurable after a while, which is when i go willingly as i don't want to cause any damage.
  24. ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ Hello everyone! ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ Some of you might know me, most of you don't. I post sometimes and I've made a lot of friends on here. I just want to make a big post so it's easier than messaging everyone... I struggle with BPD, if any of you don't know what it is look here: http://www.mentalhealth.com/home/dx/borderlinepersonality.html I have ruined a lot of relationships because of this. No matter if the other is a jerk, BPD makes me 10x more of a jerk. Emotions I feel, they blast out of me and I can't shut up about everything I am thinking and panicking about. Lately, I've been through a rough patch with a heart attack, family dying, home problems, PTSD and suicidal thoughts. These problems are in the past now, this week I've overcome them. But BPD is not as easy as it hurts everyone I talk to, if only they knew about it and could just ignore me... I try so hard to make people happy because I don't want them to know BPD is a part of me, since no medication helps and there's a low chance I'll get better. I've never told anyone I have it because I try really hard to keep the people I love, but these past few months I've been so vulnerable and stressed (which makes it 10x worse) that I haven't paid much attention and I've hurt too many loved ones. Anyway, I'm taking a break from the internet. Facebook, twitter, instagram, youtube, omo, literally everything. I'm not talking to anyone anymore, even friends, as I've realized it's better for them if I am alone, I'm not saying this as a mean thing. Some people stress me out too far or aren't direct enough with how they feel towards me, which BPD can take a toll if I don't calm down quick enough. I need to figure out ways to calm down easier than meditation (which has helped me a lot the past week) and teach myself to not use such sad or angry responses and thoughts so quickly. For two weeks, I'm going to completely cut myself off from the media world, except for Netflix (honestly, I need some entertainment). I won't be using my phone, or laptop unless it's video games. Although, I will check omo until April 1st, so if any of you have any suggestions please post them! I need to keep myself busy for the next 2-4 weeks as I won't be talking to anyone but co-workers and family (forced to really) but I will post occasionally on this topic ONLY. I REALLY AM TRYING TO GET BETTER 110% SO THAT I NEVER RUIN ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP AGAIN. I am a positive, strong and loving person, I try really hard and I am determined that I can beat anything! ❀ I like: baking; muffins are my favorite tv shows; anime and british shows are the best movies; distopia/utopia/different worlds painting; any ideas?? (no fetish as it's going on my walls lol) drawing; yes ok request some fetish if you'd like BUT all characters need a pet or I swear to god... hair; I am a hairstylist who loves odd and creative hairdos and braids so any of you want a picture replica of some anime shit or scifi (especially braids or sick mohawks) I'll post a picture mini paint stories; i love making gifs and such with paint on my laptop, it can be fetish or not (i like funny things) also drawing; give me a picture and add what you'd like it to change (favorite show character who is sooo close to that toilet but didnt make it) or a picture of anything morphed like human and pet, or two people like babies or just something thatd look like two people (idfk, a threeheaded dumbledore) If you have anything you like to do, that is fun and not pricey, please let me know! I also love pc games; mmorpgs yo or anything I can download. Thank you guys, see you soon! xx ☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺
  25. we've been together about 5 years or so, I've never broached the issue in the past or any other involving my sexuality and kinks simply because I'm afraid of the reaction it may receive. I genuinely don't know how to broach the issue, I see my fettish and sexuality as deeply personal and don't relish the idea of opening myself up like that. But it's came to a point where I feel I'm lying to her and depriving her of getting to know the real me from deep within. Please help me. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated.
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