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ssjammerz

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  1. Excited to have found a blue cycling kit! And it's a lighter shade of blue...can't wait to "break" it in! lol

  2. This has been bugging lately...but here goes. I'm a happily married, but for some reason, I have these strong fantasies and thoughts about being man-handled by (male) cyclists. Aside from these urges, I don't have any feelings with guys at all. Is this just a kink?

    1. Anathema

      Sounds like a kink to me. Nobody is entirely straight or gay, so it's not unusual for things like this to crop up from time to time.  Pull this fantasy apart some. What is the best part of it? Being cycling related? Men doing it? or the things they are doing to you, and why?

      It's probably more the situation that turns you on than the genders of anyone involved.

      Being bullied and then accepted and comforted by a person/group is a super common kind of fantasy.

    2. TVGuy

      When you get past all the rhetoric, what it comes down to is what makes you happy.  Sexuality is not a spectrum from gay to straight with people falling somewhere along it- It is more like a complex multi-dimensional web that is as unique to every single individual on this planet as is their DNA.

      Terms like "gay," "straight," and "bisexual" are just made up because we humans have a never ending need to talk about others and try and cram them into simplistic categories.

    3. ssjammerz

      @Anathema The best part of it to me is myself, being in that situation. You're right--it doesn't matter if it's a guy or girl, although I think being slobbered in sex juices is easier for guys to produce than girls. I always envision myself being the "victim" of a sexual rape/fantasy as I am in my cycling gear. I know it's a terrible thought because of actual survivors out there. My mind knows that if it does happen, it'll be a harrowing experience afterwards--the mental trauma, constant medical testing for STDs, but my brain just thinks of just that moment for me to get my kink on.

      @TVGuy I agree with your point of view. I'm mostly straight, but do have dirty, kinky thoughts from time to time. The thing that makes me unsettled the most is that my spouse is pretty "normal" in terms of sexuality and would prefer to see her husband act and be straight. I have no qualms about that, but it's just something about cycling and spandex that warps my mind. Of course, I've introduced it to her and she has obliged some, but nowhere to the point my fantasy will take me.

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