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D_guy10

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  1. I've done something similar with naps once or twice. It's a good shortcut if you don't want to "wait" for the feeling to get intense. I only do edibles if I want to get high so I've gotten it down where I can time it right to get a good feeling of fullness when the high kicks in proper. A tall glass of water 15-20 minutes before the edible, then once I take it I stagger two more glasses, drink one straight and sip another one during the next hour. A cup of coffee in between all that can really supercharge the whole process too, I find.

    An hour and a half later or so I'll probably be writing a story if I get inspired. I write on my phone also so I can stand upright and walk around to try and maximize the feeling. I actually just had to replace my phone due to damage and two stories I dearly liked didn't get backed up, there might still be hope I can get them from that old phone but I'm not holding my breath. I'll be holding an intense urge to piss if I have to do a rewrite though. 😅

    Once I get stabbing pains along with the mounting pressure that's about when I throw in the towel for safety sake, that's usually when the feeling is SO overwhelming it diminishes the high for me anyway, minutes after I finally pee it starts coming back up. 

  2. Cannabis generally augments everything we feel, getting very desperate can be much more intense in my experience. What might be a 7 in the scale normally would feel more like an 8, almost 9. Likewise the relief of peeing is even better than usual.

    However I've found that getting desperate to the point that it's getting legitimately painful actually decreases the feeling of being high mildly, due to the sensory overload of a full bladder I suppose. After a long hold I've felt the high come back "stronger" as it were.

  3. I've been able to go down on my wife a few times now while she's holding it, but she'll always ask me to stop when she feels she's about to lose it, and I've also told her it's fine time and again, but she never budges so I just leave it there and we move on. 

    Maybe some day I'll convince her but just having the opportunity to indulge in this with her is quite good enough for me.

  4. Hi, thanks for checking my thread. I was hoping to get some female perspective, regarding the best way to go for my wife and I when it comes to our omo fun times in bed. Any guys here who get to have sex while your SO is desperate are also more than welcome to share your thoughts.

     

    I'm primarily into desperation, and although my wife isn't herself into holding or omo in general, she knows and likes the effect it has on me when she's got an uncomfortable bladder, however she has been liable to get UTIs from time to time, particularly a few days after we had sex when she was holding.

     

    I get that sex in itself can cause the onset of a UTI, holding not withstanding even, but it makes it easier for it to happen if she needs to pee while we do it. Puts kind of a damper on our play time if she gets one, personally I feel like shit because she's doing it for me really, and she's even worse off recovering from it.

     

    But then I thought about her hold times. She always gets home from work after I do, and occasionally in need of a good pee, so we likely end up in bed.

    Since she's been holding for let's say 5 hours if not more, I suspect it could be factor. As mentioned in another thread I looked up, doing a hold with your first morning pee isn't recommended due to how long it's been in there and could incite an infection, so it strikes me as a similar situation.

     

    Understandably there's an assortment of factors that cause an infection (hygiene, liquid intake, restroom habits etc) knowing this, would cutting down the overall hold time, getting desperate quicker, help in further avoiding UTIs?

     

    To put it into perspective when I get desperate for my own amusement, I just down a couple tall glasses of water and within 2 hours I'm at a 7-8 out of 10, and climbing quick. I space out the glasses a couple minutes to avoid getting too bloated, once I get to a 9 I'm letting go.

    Being male I'm not as susceptible to UTIs but I have gotten cystitis from time to time, but in correlation to how often I hold? Not nearly as much, I'm guessing not dragging it out helps.

     

    My wife on the other hand, even if we're both home and she wants to "fill up" I noticed she'll drink casually, so by the time she has to pee bad she's been holding a gradually increasing amount for a longer time overall.

     

    Any feedback would be appreciated. I hope you're all having a nice weekend. 

  5. Sharing my love of desperation with my wife is in great part what brought our sex life out of the slump it was in.

     

    The last time she got quite desperate we were grocery shopping, as we were going through the aisles she had to stop and lean on the shopping cart once or twice. She doesn't show it much when she has to go, much less in public so the fact she did that told me enough of how bad she had to go.

     

    When we got home we basically went straight to the bedroom. So far it's been the only time that she's lost control while having sex, when she told me she couldn't stop it I had to agree, I couldn't stop myself either XD

     

    When she took a trip to Egypt once she told me she had learned to say "I have to pee" in Arabic. She's a keeper.

  6. 5 hours ago, VanCanto99 said:

    I have the first 3rd downloaded(there's 3 parts to it) but wow, it's having me wait about a half hour before I download again. Are these download sites usually this time consuming?

    In my experience, yeah they go at a snail's pace. 

    I tried downloading the naked desperation file, but I got a captcha error (despite being simple numeric codes) and after that my IP address was already being used so it wouldn't let me try a second time. Switched to my mobile data to try again with another IP and got another captcha error so... yeah I don't know what the deal was with those particular codes. I'll try again in a few hours.

  7. It's rather interesting to see the nuances of how this particular kink works for different people. Some who like some spurting before reaching the toilet, some that like wetting at the toilet, others that want the defeat/humiliation aspect, etc.

     

    A long time ago I read a piece somewhere that suggested that wetting triggering arousal is born as the mind's way of dissociating itself from the shame or trauma that a person went through when wetting themselves as a child which, let's be honest, is a time when accidents are likely to happen, and have the highest chance to leave a sizeable imprint on the psyche.

    So basically the brain copes by overriding feelings of trauma with pleasure, which applies to more than just omorashi. Cases of people whom, sadly, were molested at a young age are as adults aroused with rape roleplaying for example.

     

    It's a weird theory to wrap your head around but it holds water (no pun intended) The one time I had an accident as a little kid is burned into my memory, I distinctly remember how desperate I felt leading up to it and how embarrassed I was when people found out I wet myself.

    Nowadays I love me some desperation, and when a  person just barely reaches the toilet that's a more preferable scenario for me, probably due to the degree of how devastated I felt that time I couldn't make it, like my brain just can't overcome that feeling so it defaults to a more comfortable outcome. 

  8. If you mean videos from the Jade-net site, I've been after the start-stop pissing series of vids  for a while (OHOJHI-43, 21, or 10) 

    A while back I remember some of us were also lookong for the bulging bladder 2 video, hell there's even a 3rd one now, those are a bit more recent.

     

    Edit: forgot to mention these are all under the Haisetuya studio

  9. Sadly no, I can make out a few words here and there at best. If I had to guess I would say they probably ask the girls if it's harder to hold it when they squat (duh!) but other than gaman (wait patiently) and oshikko (pee) it's hard to make out the context of the conversation most times.

     

    Edit: Also I didn't notice you were a lady, not a sir, gonna correct myself here since I can't edit my earlier post lol

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