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  1. This is going to be a fun night. Thank you Rachel. :)
  2. Thanks for that! Great that there's more from where that came from. 🙂
  3. Just noticed this forum surpassed 100,000 members! Congrats all, we're like a small city now! 😁

  4. I think this is key and excellently put. Thanks for the insight, Hoimi. It has an element that I didn't include in my initial response - apart from giving her plenty of time, might there be anything that she would like to try? Something that came up over the years, or perhaps something she'll disclose soon? Think it's important to try and not make this only about you. 🙂
  5. davel

    Wetting the bed on purpose

    I would love to do it, but the last time really is a long time ago. There are a few reasons, including that I don't have any protection on the current bed, and I feel too 'blocked' to go out and buy it. Also, I would feel a bit too ashamed in front of my s/o, and finally, I'm afraid some things are better on paper than in real life, and this might be one of those things. But sadly, the main reason it's not happening is that I don't consistently feel OK with it, mentally, which is a real shame. This definitely made me curious. Any clue on where we might find that channel?
  6. davel

    Guns and Diapers???

    This could be the title of your first (?) novel, really. 🙂
  7. I got confused when looking at these pictures... "Where's the train?" But now I see I misread "rain". Maybe you actually should do train pictures, lol! 🙂
  8. davel

    Guns and Diapers???

    I guess people generally have a thing for contrasts in personalities. Perhaps there's no greater contrast than a diaper wearing gun bearer.
  9. This has been an interesting read, especially as I recognize several elements of it, from all angles. I applaud your candidness. I'm in the same boat in the sense that my partner of 7 years isn't into omo or ABDL. However, after a previous relationship, I did learn to be upfront about my preferences and told her about them when we were still dating. That way, I knew that I would either start a relationship with an accepting person or start no relationship at all. While she's not into omo, she's definitely curious and has tried several things, both with and without me. And you know what... it turns out it just isn't her thing. I'm sure she partially agrees with your girlfriend's assessment that it's dirty, but more importantly - it just doesn't do anything for her. It doesn't push her buttons or create any (sexual) emotion -- and she tried! Because of that, there's no role for her in omo. The analogy I often use is this: if I don't like football, I could probably still join someone to a game, but what's the point? I'd just be doing it for the other, and the other will feel that I'm not as invested. It's the same in our relationship: while she accepts my interests, there's just no point in imposing it on her. I definitely recognize the emotion that this is harder than it initially seemed. I'm sure you and I both know about people (perhaps IRL or from stories here) who seem to have it all: the love, the life, the omo. Damn it, wouldn't we all want that? However, in my experience, if you can find a way to deal with the omo part, having the other two is something to cherish. I'm fortunate that my girlfriend has no issue with me interacting with others online, and I sometimes even meet people IRL, even wearing diapers at time. Does it become sexual? Not really, because that's still hard, but we are talking about it. Maybe it will change some day. Kochel's words, at least in earlier posts, and with all due respect, seem a bit black and white to me. I don't think there's anything wrong or untrue about what he said, but there's a nuance in every relationship. In your case, I think your girlfriend deserves some slack, after you sprung your fetish on her after eight years. Sure, she said she'd never try it, but perhaps she never heard of omo the minute before you told her about it. It might have seemed alien at first? And maybe she has some level of prudishness in her character? Maybe she cares about what average Joe and Jane think and this scares her? Maybe she's just confused because she discovered a whole new side of you that went missing for eight years? These things contribute to initial responses, and they may change over time. What to do? It's up to you. Since we're in a comparable boat, here are some suggestions: Avoid the closet. Don't be ashamed. Don't put your feelings away. Adding to the previous point: try to stay confident. If you're insecure about omo, she'll feel insecure about it too. She'll feel better if you show you're comfortable with it. As Kochel said, she probably really should try it, once the initial shock is gone. Why not wet underwear in the shower? Any "damage" is gone within the minute, if it's really that terrible. This all happened four days ago, right? Give her plenty of time. No rush here. It really is too early to panic. If point 3 doesn't work out, stick to point 1. Kochel had some examples of what that may look like, but again - really too early to look there. Keep coming to this forum. We're here for you.
  10. Thanks for that, looks like you were just in time. 😉
  11. The context of this video is completely lost on me, but we're seeing a girl wearing pullups, telling her friends it's not a big deal to wet them because they're designed for that. Her friends, including one that is next to naked (you've been warned), laugh at her, and say she's gross when she finally starts wetting while sipping some more wine. As said, the weirdness of this video is beyond much that I've seen. Might be worth ripping before it's gone. Again, warning for brief nudity, and view of diaper contents at the end
  12. I was having a conversation at a client at their office the other day. Nothing was out of the ordinary, until a girl with a black sweater and light blue jeans walked in. She was perhaps 5 meters away from the table where we sat, in the pantry area. She came in to make herself a cup of tea. Standing with her back towards us, my heart suddenly stopped. From the corner of my eye, I was pretty sure I saw a sizeable, dark, wet patch in her crotch area. Wait, what? I had to have another look, but obviously didn't want my client to notice. Fortunately enough, as our meeting involved a few more people, the others continued talking and I was off the hook for a brief moment. Here was my chance: were my eyes lying? It turns out they weren't. Just meters away stood a woman that came straight from my dreams. This gorgeous blonde had deliberately wet herself at work, and was now walking around in wet denim, acting if it was the most normal thing in the world. No desperation, no hiding, nothing. Not a care in the world. I felt my right hand reach for my pocket to grab my phone. To others, it must have looked as if I had received a text message, but in reality, I had to capture this incredible moment for myself. Of course, reality sunk in fairly shortly after. Many people in this country commute by bicycle, and it had been raining earlier that day. In other words, this girl surely hadn't wet herself, but rather, her rain soaked bike saddle left a well placed wet mark on her jeans. Or did it...?
  13. davel

    Diaper Overflow!!!

    Absolutely! happens quite often honestly. ?
  14. Ooooh I really don't like nr 2 stuff but you made it bearable to read! What an excellent writer you are - and incredibly inventive too! ? I'll certainly remember this story when walking to the bedroom tomorrow morning ?
  15. davel

    Any Dutch omorashers?

    Welkom thuis! :D (That's "Welcome home", for you non-Dutchies!)