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33applepies

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  1. That should be illegal. That's awful. I really hate portable toilets, but at the very, very least, they should provide those. I personally don't think I'd take a job without restroom access.
  2. Might be a good idea for longer movies ngl. This reminds me of a very silly dream I had several years ago when I was in a theatre and all the seats were toilets.
  3. I was very lucky that I didn't have this problem growing up and am honestly horrified that schools limit restroom access. I think that causes problems later in life and makes people feel like having to use the restroom is something to be ashamed about. I did have a lot of teachers that wouldn't let you use the restroom during class and always thought that was cruel. They were like, well I don't get to go so you don't either. I always thought that was total bullshit, because they chose to be a teacher, but we didn't choose to be students. If this is "training" or whatever for the working world, that's also stupid, because not all jobs limit restroom breaks. Mine doesn't, I just choose not to use it 99% of the time. Controlling other's bodily functions against their will is not okay (it's an entirely different thing if this is between consensual adults). I hope they let kids use the restroom during class because of stupid COVID crap. Yes, you can get COVID from a restroom, but you can get other issues by being forced to hold it. Bottom line, if they can't provide restrooms, maybe don't force them to be there for 7 hours? It's very inhumane. I had a teacher in senior year of high school who was super chill and let us use the restroom whenever. Didn't even have to ask. Most of my college professors were chill about it too, because they realized that it's actually not a major detriment to your education to leave class for a few minutes if you really need to go.
  4. It's hit or miss for me. I LOVE prolonged desperation stories, but if it goes on for actual days (I know it's possible to hold for days, I'm talking about being desperate one day and holding for another 24+ hours. That's so unlikely that it takes me out of the story a bit). If it's an AU without our real world rules... I love it, but that has to be established. Same with specific characters. Holding a bursting bladder for 4 days with our world's rules is completely unbelievable for me, especially if there's not much detail.
  5. I loved your story! I'm sorry that you got stuck on the bus; being stuck in traffic when you really have to pee is a nightmare. I don't like humiliation unless there's someone who is understanding, so I'm very glad that the janitor was so nice, and I'm glad that you didn't wet yourself on the bus. I can totally relate to not wanting to hold up anyone by taking a bathroom break. I usually wait until someone else has to go as well. I don't have any stories as interesting as this one, though. There was one time where I was super desperate while on a bus and had to get off at a much earlier stop to use a restroom. My friend was annoyed with me, but I'm positive I would've had an accident otherwise. Welcome to omo org!
  6. I think it just depends on the person, and is partly the reason why some people have no problem holding it for hours and others can't stand it. I've always thought a full bladder was painful, but not terribly so. When I was younger, I couldn't stand any pain or discomfort at all, so I hated having to hold it. Now I like it (for the most part).
  7. I ALMOST agree. Thirst combined with heat can be arguably worse and more dangerous. I might be a weirdo. I'm totally okay going without bathroom breaks at work, but if I have a 6+ hour shift (i usually work 5 hours, so I don't need a snack in that time. That's my limit), I am NOT okay with skipping lunch. Can't concentrate if I'm extremely hungry, I'm bordering on underweight, and I get weak too.
  8. I wouldn't take this challenge myself (the cleanup would be very awkward with my living situation), but I'm very interested in how it goes for you!
  9. Pre COVID, definitely at school. I heard the most "omg I really have to pee" at school by far. I don't go out much (anxiety and fear of crowds), so that's about it for me. During COVID, definitely at my store, since our restrooms are closed to the public. They were actually closed to the public before, but I still witness it a LOT more. Yeah, I'm a major introvert.
  10. For me, desperate is when I'm likely to have an accident. Can't ignore it, hurts, have to do something (shift around, cross my legs etc) to keep holding it. This is what beer/ coffee leads to, or just drinking too much in general. "I'm about to burst!" is similar, but a little easier to deal with and not really painful. I feel like I'm less likely to leak when I'm in this stage. This is probably just when the bladder is full or to the point of overfilling. Of course, everyone is different.
  11. No. It just means that you might be asexual or on the ace spectrum. Nothing wrong or abnormal about that, even if others make you feel bad for it. So many things are hypersexualized in our society, so that might be why you feel like it's weird to not want it.
  12. Sometimes yes, but I suffer from depression and have extremely low self-esteem, so I tend to think there's something wrong with most things I like. I've been feeling very low for a super long time because of the pandemic, and I'm finding myself COMPLETELY OBSESSED with it. I think most people think a fetish like this is gross, so I'm too embarrassed to reveal that I'm into it.
  13. It's not always sexual for me. I always find it interesting, though. You described it well... I'm definitely thinking that they have to go to the bathroom. I often just think it's cute (if it's women around my age. Much older or younger, nah), but I wouldn't say I'm automatically aroused by it (although sometimes I am).
  14. Thank you, I needed this laugh today haha. To answer the question, I haven't noticed an urge to poop when I really have to pee. I'm probably jinxing myself. Not to get TOO tmi, but I generally poop in the morning, so I guess I simply don't need to poop later in the day. I don't purposely wet (it's not my thing), but I have had accidents, and have never had this problem. It might be one of those things that's different for everyone. I also find it much easier to hold in poop, honestly.
  15. It's frustrating to me, not because I've experienced a big difference in my personal life, but because I really dislike anything non consensual. Personally, I think not having access to a restroom is a health and human rights issue. So employers restricting restroom access just infuriates me, especially if there's a simple solution to the problem. It can cause health issues too. I find it hot if someone CHOOSES to hold it even though they have restroom access. This is more in general, though. Otherwise, I do find it annoying when men think it's hot that we can't go when they can, and/ or that they usually have easier access to a restroom while women just have to hold it. Honestly, I haven't seen this too much in my personal life, but I've heard of it a lot, so I know it exists. It just seems sexist to me. So yes, long story short, I find it frustrating. I do kind of feel like a killjoy at times, though, ngl.
  16. There is a huge difference between peeing in a city and peeing in a forest. I think that if someone is genuinely desperate and can't find a restroom, that is a problem with public health on the city's part and instead of punishing individuals, there should be more (clean) restrooms available. A person's sex doesn't matter to me in regards to this topic. To say that it's unladylike to pee in public but give guys the ok is pure sexism. Some people have health issues too where they need restroom access. Diabetes, IBS, OAB, etc.
  17. Comedy and/ or realism. I think most of us have been desperate and didn't have access to a bathroom, so it's relatable. Sometimes I would almost prefer a desperation scene in certain scenarios not because of my kink, but because of realism and believability. I think horror tends to use this more often, but in that case, it's obviously not for comic relief. As for OP's question, I'm kind of in the middle. I think I am closer to vanilla though, and I'm pretty close to asexual (grey). I like the idea of (consensual) bondage and bladder control, but I don't actively seek it out. I hate humiliation unless there's someone to comfort them. I hate workplaces that restrict restroom access for the sake of "productivity" and things like that. I really, really hate stories about people intentionally peeing in stores and things like that. Major turn off. The vast majority of employees in stores are underpaid, and they don't want to deal with that shit (sometimes literally). An actual accident is one thing, but peeing on clothes in a dressing room? No. Comedy and/ or realism. I think most of us have been desperate and didn't have access to a bathroom, so it's relatable. Sometimes I would almost prefer a desperation scene in certain scenarios not because of my kink, but because of realism and believability. I think horror tends to use this more often, but in that case, it's obviously not for comic relief. As for OP's question, I'm kind of in the middle. I think I am closer to vanilla though, and I'm pretty close to asexual (grey). I like the idea of (consensual) bondage and bladder control, but I don't actively seek it out. I hate humiliation unless there's someone to comfort them. I hate workplaces that restrict restroom access for the sake of "productivity" and things like that. I really, really hate stories about people intentionally peeing in stores and things like that. Major turn off. The vast majority of employees in stores are underpaid, and they don't want to deal with that shit (sometimes literally). An actual accident is one thing, but peeing on clothes in a dressing room? No.
  18. I have actually had this happen. I'd been drinking beer and watching anime (I haven't been feeling motivated okay lol), and I'd had to pee for awhile, but I just kept ignoring it and ignoring it. It was last summer, so I don't remember all the details, but I think I really had to go for about 45 minutes maybe? I think alcohol sort of changes desperation, and it can creep up on you very quickly. My roommate suddenly went to the bathroom, and my desperation doubled all the sudden. I was squirming around like crazy! I couldn't even focus on the anime anymore. I figured she'd just be a couple minutes, but she was in there for around half an hour. I eventually lost it a little bit, but thought I was okay because I was wearing a pad. If it was just a small leak, I would've been fine (this has happened to me before), but it... kept going. Maxi pads don't hold much lol. It overflowed very quickly, and soon my shorts were also soaked. Pretty soon, my socks were soaked. I should've knocked on the bathroom door earlier, but I kept thinking "it'll only be another minute, it'll only be another minute." Alcohol might have impaired my thinking as well, lol. The sad thing is, I don't even think I had THAT much beer. I think I had two in a short amount of time. I generally drink a lot of water throughout the day, so it wasn't ONLY beer that caused the sudden desperation. TL;DR They don't work like diapers at all.
  19. Yeah this is inhumane. Idk what is wrong with school toilets. The ones at my high school weren't super clean (although they generally weren't horrific), but we had stalls at least. I'm germ phobic, but hardly ever felt that grossed out by the toilets at my school. Schools should provide decent restrooms for the kids forced to be there. Is that too much to ask?
  20. Omg this is actually really bad, but I've been avoiding going to the doctor during the pandemic mostly because of this. I have really awful anxiety when it comes to doctor's appointments and long wait times, and anxiety severely weakens my bladder. And with COVID, I don't want to use public restrooms at all, especially not ones in doctor's offices. Most places here gave a 2+ hour wait even with an appointment, and I just can't wait that long with the anxiety, especially if you count the commute.
  21. Absolutely. Anxiety is known to cause frequent urination. I gave experienced this. If I'm extremely stressed out or having a minor anxiety attack, my bladder seems to shrink to the size of a walnut. This happened once when I was waiting in the hospital for stitches between my toes. I used the restroom there like every thirty minutes. I had this happen another time while waiting to get my tooth pulled; I waited for 4 hours and had to pee every hour despite drinking very little. I'm germaphobic and prefer not to use public restrooms, but in those situations, there is nothing I can do. It's not like I suddenly really need to go or anything, but any urge to pee at all is overwhelming for me. I think that's why I can't focus on the bladder training I want to do during this pandemic. I probably pee like 10 times a day, maybe 12.
  22. I do, sort of. I don't understand my bladder. My capacity seems to change. I can avoid peeing at work, but since including commute, that's only around 6 hours, that's not super impressive. I'm basically dehydrated, though (I drink about 8 oz of water on my break so I'm not super dehydrated), and I often really need to go by the end of my shift. My control seems to be better in public (which I guess is actually really convenient), but when I'm at home, for the most part, if I really need to go, I better hurry up and go, because I will leak. I do drink a lot more at home. I suffer from anxiety, and after doing some research, that does indeed affect the bladder. I also drink coffee, but I've really cut down. I have no idea how people do 24 hour holds or regularly hold for 8+ hours a day. I know I'm unable to do that, which is embarrassing. TL;DR Yes, pretty much lol
  23. I forgot to say in my initial comment; I often FEEL gross for having this fetish. I'm a germaphobe, so it just seems like an odd fit (although it works pretty well with the holding aspect), especially since I'm also interested in poop desperation and messing (messing not for myself, because omg I can't imagine the cleanup. I have wet my pants before, a genuine accident, and just that was annoying). I'm actually more interested in messing than I am wetting. Wtf? So sometimes I do feel gross.
  24. I mostly enjoy desperation and holding. It has to be by choice, too, and not because of strict school or work rules (hate that). Humiliation just makes me feel bad. Watersports are fine, but pee drinking is definitely out the window for me even in fiction. Since I like desperation, I mostly seek out written content, because I like the detailed explanations. I mostly like female omo, but I'm not opposed to male. Wettings are fine, but I prefer actual accidents instead of intentional. Diapers don't do anything for me.
  25. I'm mostly just into desperation, so I can understand. It's okay to only be into aspects of it. I hate humiliation, for example, and a lot of other people like it. Wetting is fine, but I don't like it for myself. The smell can be pretty bad as well- there's an older man who shops at my work and I'm pretty sure wears a diaper, and the scent is VERY bad. I've had to deal with other things at work, like people peeing on clothes in the dressing rooms, so I'm very turned off by intentional wettings in public. Actual accidents are another thing and totally understandable. What I don't understand is the fact that watersports don't totally gross me out. What? Idek lol. I guess I'm not super grossed out by pee in general, but just grossed out by the smell at times. TL;DR I can see where you're coming from. Everyone has different tastes.
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