AquaVitae

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About AquaVitae

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    Exhibitionism
    Foot play
    Humiliation
    Public humiliation
    Sadism / Masochism

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  1. AquaVitae

    How to find people to share the fetish with?

    Best way you can find partners is to start contributing meaningful content to this or some other community. Write some stories, share some media, whatever. It sounds like you have most of the other boxes checked off in regards to just being a good partner for anybody i.e. you are outgoing enough, socially capable enough, and courageous enough to experiment. You have to try to be a somewhat active member of a community because this is what ends up vetting you for a potential partner. The rest takes care of itself.
  2. AquaVitae

    Having trouble accepting this part of me...

    The quickest and most effective way to make yourself accept this part of yourself bar-none is to find a partner or partners to share this with. I used to feel much like you throughout most of my 20s, but then I started experimenting more and finding other people who wanted to explore with me. It changed everything. And it doesn't have to be an ongoing thing either. I'm in a vanilla relationship right now and while I do frequently miss the lifestyle I used to lead, I am completely comfortable with myself. Having it come out once was enough. Of course finding a partner in who a.) you click with b.) is a functioning member of society and c.) shares or is willing to explore a niche fetish with you is the challenging part. But that should be your goal. Until then, as others have already said, try to find a sense of community. It helps a little bit but it doesn't do anything to break down that major barrier between the two parts of yourself that seem to be so widely divided. Make steps. Maybe share experiences, content, etc. within your comfort zone. The main thing is just try different things.
  3. I think I'm lucky that vanilla sex still works for me. But nothing beats this, though. And if you try to figure out what's at the heart of this fetish and apply it elsewhere, it gets even better.
  4. AquaVitae

    Those2OmoGirls Videos

    For some reason I feel like this is a guy.
  5. If you've ever role-played a wetting scenario with a partner, there is NO way you could be that angry about this. I mean come on. Isn't it obvious she wasn't trying to fool anyone? Because it's pretty goddamn obvious to me. Her and her bf role-played a fantasy scenario. The fact that they have an amateur clips store is a peripheral detail.
  6. AquaVitae

    Favorite to least favorite omo producers?

    Agree with the WiP criticism. They had lost potential with models willing to do that in a place in the world where the legal punishments are relatively lax. Favorites: IN2P, B2B, LW. Youngpeegirls had a few really solid videos too, shame they're gone. The amateur producers really need a mention here. I regularly go on clips4sale and look through the categories for Female Desperation, Jeans/Pants Wetting, and Pee. Some stores don't post their videos to all three so you end up getting some really nice choices. Personally, I prefer the pay-per-clip format because you can use some screenshots to tell you if it's something you're interested in instead of gambling with an expensive monthly subscription. That's the problem I found I had with WHP. They produce a video I like about every 3 months. Another benefit of the C4S stores is that customs are less expensive than if you go with the pro models.
  7. AquaVitae

    If wetscarlet was your girlfriend... Please weigh in!

    Just keep something in mind, Scar. These are all just words. People can say whatever they want but you never really know what anyone is going to be like until they are in the situation themselves. In your case, the situation is being in a committed relationship with a dream girl for a prolonged period of time. Let me speak from experience here and say that, when I found myself in that exact situation I still did want to see other women wet themselves. Lucky for me she did too because she had the fetish on her own, so it never became quite the issue. But even if it was an issue, it would be impossible for me to change my nature. I have the feeling it will be the same for your guy. This happens to me all the time so I've spent some time thinking about it. A certain type of fetish play requires objectification. Pornography in general is built around that objectification. As long as that objectification is well compartmentalized (i.e. be an object only when you want to be an object) then there aren't issues with it. Long term relationships present a problem because that compartmentalization can get lost if you don't pay close attention to it. In one way, you could be totally objectified all the time and that's not good because sometimes you just want to be loved and respected as a partner and a person. The other extreme is one that I find myself falling into- I lose my sadistic streak. I stop being able to objectify my partner even when she wants me to because maybe I just grow too attached. Or something. But something still needs to fill that hole. So where can one turn? The sex objects of pornography. You know nothing about them, so it allows that objectification to take place once again. And this fetish in particular with its strong ties to humiliation, exposure, vulnerability makes it more difficult to make the person you love into an object over and over again. So what I'm saying is maybe don't feel too bad that he wants to see other girls wet themselves. He's not trying to take them on a date, or get to know their interests, or protect them from harm, or find out what makes them tick. He's interested in all that stuff with you. And because of that, you can't be the kind of full-time on-demand sex object to him that the pornography can be. That's a good thing. It means he loves you. It means he recognizes you the person and not just WetScarlet the pee girl. And he is still able to make you feel sexy all those other times. One last thing. If you really want to masturbate while watching porn yourself -whatever kind it is- you should have a discussion about that with him. None of what I said above is specific to men or women. It can apply to either. So you yourself might occasionally need that release too, from something impersonal like a video. The last thing either of you want is to prevent the other from doing something they should feel free to do. It causes resentment, and that will kill a relationship.
  8. It's been a long time

    But your memory lingers

    I will still miss you

  9. AquaVitae

    Woman pees jeans in boat - pictures

    Her name is Kel. She and her bf (husband?) posted a lot of stuff maybe 10 years ago. No videos as far as I know. They stopped posting when some creep recognized her and showed up at her job.
  10. AquaVitae

    Are you real? O.o

    Yeah buddy. They're real. As you dive into this world you need to remember a few things: 1.) They are people 2.) There are no such things as unicorns and 3.) Always be asking what YOU can bring to the table.
  11. AquaVitae

    Wetnatalee, what has become of her?

    That's pretty harsh, man
  12. I work with a lot of nurses ? As for your cleanup question, honestly when I've engaged in kink play with a partner i always assumed the cleanup would come after the sex, and that's more or less how it always went. This is of course going to vary with the comfort of whatever people are involved, so others may have different opinions. For me, we used to roleplay accident scenarios as like "desperate girl has accident in front of man, both get 'unexpectedly' turned on and have sex" so a cleanup would be a break in the action there. Plus in that kind of play, the girl probably drank a lot of water so her pee was pretty diluted, so there wasnt a huge grossout factor for either of us. As others here have said, communication is key. Bring all this up. Maybe see how both of you feel about the cleanup. If you guys do want it, maybe he can start joining you in the shower or something like that. There are plenty of ways cleanup can be pulled into a dom-sub wetting scenario as well.
  13. I think it's a day to day thing. Some nights, you're not as horny as other nights. I'm sure you've had nights like that so it's easy to understand. I think the girl in this situation should think back to those other times when he DID go primal on her after wetting, as it pertains to her answering the question about if he's into her or not. Really, it just needs to be given some time. You can't really determine a pattern from a single occurrence. If it keeps happening every night, then yeah it's time to have an adult conversation about what's going on. But I don't think a one time occurrence is a reason for alarm bells just yet.
  14. Sure. Obviously this is just my opinion based on my own personal preferences and experiences with the fetish but here goes. Love the store and just about all the clips. Mostly jeans wetting stuff, which is good because the girl pees A LOT. She has an incredibly sweet voice and does show her face here and there. It's honestly hard for me to parse out if she has the fetish herself or not...which is a good thing. And also impressive, because I'm usually good at telling if a model is into it, doesn't mind it but will do it, or into it. And she actually might be into it. There is a good mix of scenario-based clips. Common locked door scenarios and a few public (<3) ones. There are also a few deliberate "for you" type wettings. One of the nicest things is most clips are $4.99 which by C4S standards is pretty fair. So this allows for someone to come in and sample a couple to see if you like her style. Updates: fairly often. Like a few times a week I'd say. Model: smokin hot girl-next-door type. Red-head. Slim. Nice legs, cute toes. Does a great job of the "this could be your gf" illusion. I would say it is definitely worth taking a look through the store. It's a big recommended view from me. I was not paid for this opinion, nor have I spoken to the store owner as of this writing. This is 100% my personal opinion.
  15. AquaVitae

    What do you want from wetting videos

    I don't understand what this thread is supposed to telly you, except that people's tastes vary widely. Here's my advice to you: decide what your store's niche/style is going to be and just stick to it. Your audience will declare itself. Once you determine what that style is and you see the audience emerge, then just work on getting good at that one thing. That's how you will grow the audience. Draw examples from the sites that have been around the longest. Look at wettingherpanties, bound2burst, and ineed2pee. Each of those sites has things that people in this thread have said they do and do NOT want. And yet, here they are after like 10 years or whatever it is.