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When I'm desperate enough to wet myself its typically a constant urge which is what keeps me desperate and squirmy and strong pulsing urges inbetween that force me to squeeze. So I guess I'd answer a as the best fit answer here
Locks, elevators, etc; anything that would force me to stay still and/or wait in general
a,c and e occasionally; I'd say all 3 become more pronounced than before
Depending on the strength of the urge anything from just squeezing my legs shut to having to hold my crotch. Generally I freeze up or I leak. 

@jadin
Thank you for your response.
You mentioned, "I stopped in time before it became obvious but was genuinely shocked." How did you manage to stop once it started leaking? Also, I imagine it must have been quite challenging to halt the flow midway. Are you generally good at stopping your pee midstream in usual circumstances?

1) have you ever peed yourself right before taking off your undies in the bathroom?
Often. I have an OAB and when it acts up it often happens that I just don't make it in time and start spurting/leaking before I get my knickers down.
2) Once you got in the bathroom, did the urge to pee get stronger? Did it make you accidentally leak a bit?
Yes, see answer to question 1
3) Did you feel like you had to go even more once you got in there, and did it cause you to leak a little bit?
Yes
4) How much did you end up leaking? Did it come out in spurts or just a little bit at a time?
Sometimes it's just drips, sometimes bigger leaks, but if it's really bad it can be long spurts or more.
5) Did you try to stop the leak once it started? Could you actually stop it?
I definitely tried. With some success sometimes and less other times. Luckily it's mostly when getting home.
6)So after you started leaking, did you just go ahead and pull your undies down and pee normally? Or did you give up and just sit on the toilet in your undies to pee? Or did you just stand there and keep leaking?
I pull them down and pee normally, but some damage is done. I did once give up and sat on the toilet peeing through my clothes. I was wearing a jump suit and just couldn't get it off in time.

1) have you ever peed yourself right before taking off your undies in the bathroom?
2) Once you got in the bathroom, did the urge to pee get stronger? Did it make you accidentally leak a bit?
3) Did you feel like you had to go even more once you got in there, and did it cause you to leak a little bit?
4) How much did you end up leaking? Did it come out in spurts or just a little bit at a time?
5) Did you try to stop the leak once it started? Could you actually stop it?
6)So after you started leaking, did you just go ahead and pull your undies down and pee normally? Or did you give up and just sit on the toilet in your undies to pee? Or did you just stand there and keep leaking?

1) have you ever peed yourself right before taking off your undies in the bathroom?
2) Once you got in the bathroom, did the urge to pee get stronger? Did it make you accidentally leak a bit?
3) Did you feel like you had to go even more once you got in there, and did it cause you to leak a little bit?
4) How much did you end up leaking? Did it come out in spurts or just a little bit at a time?
5) Did you try to stop the leak once it started? Could you actually stop it?
6)So after you started leaking, did you just go ahead and pull your undies down and pee normally? Or did you give up and just sit on the toilet in your undies to pee? Or did you just stand there and keep leaking?

1) multiple times. 
2) A small stain/leak when I start locking the stall and undressing is a daily occurrence for me so yeah, the urge increases by a lot; big, noticeable spurts only occur when I'm really desperate though
3) When I have no need to pee then my urge doesn't get 'created' but if I have to pee, lets say like 5/10 or something, it gets noticeably worse when I enter the stall. Not when I just enter the bathroom though (in public)
4) Only like a small spurt of like a couple drops for most of my bathroom trips. If I'm pretty desperate to go then usually its multiple of these small spurts. Anything more and I was probably just destined to wet myself within the next half hour anyways and its not a frequent occurrence (not unintentionally anyways)
5) Yes of course, on most bathroom trips the leakage is not that bad and the bathroom so close theres no reason not to try and stop it
6) Question kind of depends on how desperate I am at the time. All 3 have happened before.

1. Every 1-1/2 hours. Maybe 2 if I really push it but that rarely happens. 
2. Nope. 
3. Yes, I have urge incontinence so I can get a very sudden urge out of nowhere, and I only have a minute or so to make it to a toilet.
4. More times than I can count. At least several times a week. 
5. Yes, almost everyday 
6. When out shopping, when at work, basically any time in public when bathrooms aren’t immediately accessible. Especially if I’ve drank anything beforehand. 
Yup, I’ve had to wear pull-ups since I was a teen, but I’ve had leaks and accidents before that too

1. Have you ever leaked your pee just before you pull down your underwear in the bathroom?
2. After entering the bathroom, did the urge to pee intensify? And did it cause you to leak pee in the bathroom?
3. How much do you leak then? Did you leak in spurts or in trickles?
4. After pee started leaking, did you try to
stop it? (and were you able to stop it?)
5. After you started leaking pee, did you pull down your underwear and pee as usual? Or did you give up and sit on the toilet in your underwear to pee? (or did you just stand there and leaked pee?)

I do squirm and wriggle ALOT if I am sitting. If I am standing I do a lot of bouncing of one leg. Sometimes I pace when getting nervous about it. Being still is not an option or I’ll pee on spot.
I can definitely hold without grabbing but I normally will have to squeeze my legs together or cross them because it’s a close 2nd to not grabbing.
Yes people do notice. The bouncing and leg crossing is a dead give away because it’s excessive and frequent as opposed to being natural. Plus the sounds I make like sighing and sometimes pouting also don’t help.
The front door pee pee dance occurs for me often where I have to run to the bathroom once I am home. Very little running in public. And I only have anxiety about leaking at home because that’s the only place it happens.
For some reason anxiety really sets in when I am driving. It’s like a panic because there is no bathroom near oftentimes and I don’t know if I can make it. This happens very very often.
I don’t consider any part weak. I am pretty good at holding and not leaking as long as I keep moving and am not at home. 

I squirm a lot even when I'm not about to wet myself. Usually just a lot of weight shifting and walking around
 
Absolutely
I feel like squirming is a death trap- if I start squirming I can't go back to not squirming. So maybe (?)
For a large portion of desperation yes- only at the very last stages that its unavoidable. My hands always go for my crotch though
I've been noticed many times
Yes but only because I'm bursting so I think thats pretty natural? I know when I was a kid I used to have to run to the bathroom every time but not since a while ago do I have to rush every time 
Even though I've peed myself many times and often do it on purpose, at the moment of leaking I get flooded with anxiety even though I can shrug it off the next day
1. No
2. Isn't that the same thing?
3. Honestly sometimes yes sometimes no
 

1) When you are bursting, do you squirm and wriggle? (Can you pretend to be calm without moving?)
Yes, I squirm a lot; I try to avoid getting this desperate in public as much as possible, because I'm afraid of underestimating my holding abilities lol. I also tend to fidget a lot and have really bad anxiety in general so sometimes movement is the only thing that *will* keep me calm. I can't stop moving all together, but I would likely try to make the movements more subtle so as not to draw attention. 
2) When you are bursting, can you hold your pee without grabbing your crotch?
Yes, but I usually have to cross one leg over the other or have my thighs pressed together. The act of separating my legs would make it so I couldn't hold anymore. 
3) Has anyone around you ever noticed that you are bursting? (If so, were you desperate because of the urge at the time?)
I try not to make this obvious. Unless I'm commiserating with someone (and even then sometimes I won't), I always feel guilty for having to go and struggle to voice it, and questions or statements like, "you can hold it just a bit longer" make me second guess myself on how badly I need to go and like I'm overreacting and being dramatic. I will 100% avoid mentioning it out loud and if someone were to notice and ask me, I'd downplay it or reply jokingly. If someone were to ask me and were being concerned, I'd be embarrassed in the moment but likely feel a different way about it later. 
4) Do you ever rush to the bathroom because of the urge?
Yes. Idk why I'm so scared of potentially wetting myself in public, despite the fact that I go out of my way to ensure this doesn't happen, despite the fact that it's never been an issue for me. I guess I'm worried about being out of control. (Which makes it appealing in fantasies? Idk. Kinks can be psychologically confusing sometimes lmao). 
5) When you are bursting, do you have strong anxiety about leaking your pee?
Yes, especially if there is like...idk how to describe it other than like a strong pulse/jolt/pressure against the release point? 
6) Please select all of the following (1 to 3) that apply.
You have a small or weak bladder.
You have a weak sphincter muscle.
Your pee spurts very vigorously, especially when you are bursting.
Do you think these(1 to 3) have anything to do with you being frantic when you are bursting to pee?
None of these do apply to me lol. But I can see how they might for others. 

1. By the time you start to feel the urge to pee, are you already bursting?
2. How long can you hold your pee?
3. What happens to you an hour after you start to feel the urge to urinate?

1. By the time you start to feel the urge to pee, are you already bursting?
2. How long can you hold your pee?
3. What happens to you an hour after you start to feel the urge to urinate?

When you are bursting to pee,
1. which is easier to hold with staying still or squirming?
2. can you pretend to be calm?
3. can you hold your pee without holding your crotch or crossing(closing) your legs?
4. can you go to the bathroom without rushing?

I'm not a native speaker of English, so I want to know what you say the term related with omorashi (or holding pee) in English.
 
"Maeosae(前押さえ)": Holding the crotch with hands "Kakato-osae(かかと押さえ)": Holding the crotch with heel. "Oshigama(おしがま, abbreviation for OSHIkko-GAMAn)": holding pee "Ochibiri": leaking pee a little

Hello everyone
My name is Tiff and I wanted to be more interactive on here since discovering this sight a month ago.  I'm 34 and finally living alone without any roommate or significant other.  This has made my fun time a whole lot more enjoyable.  I love holding and desperation and, if the opportunity is there, "accidents".
I do like to write stories but mostly I love to try some dares and talk about my experiences.  I may post pictures at a later date but we'll see ?
Hope everyone has a great day

I try to hide it if its not too bad. Like crossing my legs is about all I will do out in public, except hustle faster to get to a bathroom in time. Normally, I will start going really fast once I get into the stall or into one of the single toilet bathrooms at dunkin donuts or starbucks. LOL

Depends how desperate, I usually will as otherwise I might leak, but interestingly, rushing in for me is more likely to trigger a key in latch leak.