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BB1BBB

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  1. I have a number of fantasies based around exploring the intimacy of desperation with a willing partner. 1) Mutual desperation. Probably the least likely to happen, but although I'm not necessarily turned on by my own desperation, I am very intrigued by the scenario whereby we're mutually turned on by each other's desperation. There are no end of holding and competitive scenarios that could be brought into play, depending on the particular proclivities of the woman involved. I long regret letting go an ex-girlfriend who subtly hinted she might be turned on by male desperation. 2) The long car trip. This is a recurring one but there is something particularly arousing about the combination of being trapped and desperately searching for a suitable pee spot. Plus watching the denouement, of course. A tempting variation on this is 'the long walk back from the pub'. 3) Going down on a desperate woman. The ultimate in intimate fantasies. Given that I'm a pee fan, I'm not much into wetting or clear-up, so this always happens on a blanket in the garden. 4) This is more of a voyeuristic one, but I love the storyline of a woman who not-quite-but-agonisingly-nearly gets to pee somewhere but nearly gets caught and has to buckle up again. Quite a few video-makers have done a take one this, and they're largely great, but at the same time not quite as they could be. 5) Mild-ish control fantasies. I don't get my kicks out of bondage and hardcore bladder control, but the urge to delay a woman's need to pee while some other important duties are carried out is very appealing. In reality, I don't think I'd ever play this one out, but it's a nice video for my head. There is a milder variation on this where I very, VERY slowly strip off a 1-piece swimming costume from a woman who is begging to go.
  2. Good to see you back, Weasel. Now, what on Earth happened in that hotel room, do you think? 🙂
  3. Yup - for all the desperation fantasies that we project, talk about and write about, there is just no substitute for beer in the stakes of true desperate experiences. 🙂
  4. I suppose it’s all about drawing the line. Somewhere between ‘don’t enjoy’ and ‘get hugely turned on by’ is a nice large area of ‘I don’t get turned on by this, BUT it’s relatively harmless and I would happily indulge my partner if it turned her on’. I reckon there are plenty of guys who would fall into that category. I certainly do. And it’s the best way to sum up the various women who have helped me out in the past.
  5. I think this statement bears closer examination. Surely it’s practically the definition of a fetish that it only appeals to one half of a partnership? And there are very few sexual experiences that simultaneously turn on both people simultaneously. Unless I’ve been missing out. But a big part of sexual gratification for me is in the giving, not just the receiving. I’ve been with plenty of women of my time who have indulged my fetish to a greater or lesser extent. Should I feel guilty that none of them were aroused by it? No, I don’t think so - they got plenty of treats in return. 🙂 Your throwing-up analogy is a bit extreme, but there is a very legitimate sneeze fetish out there. If I was seeing a girl who was turned on by me sneezing, you can bet I’d be taking along the black pepper and feather duster. Wouldn’t you? 🙂
  6. You’re dating the wrong men. I couldn’t imagine even flirting with a relationship and NOT sharing this kink any more. But then it is very important to me and I don’t think I’d ever want to be with a partner who shuts down the discussion like that. Sure, lots of women I’ve been with have found it ‘a bit weird’. But they’ve always tried to indulge it to a greater or lesser extent. The basic desire to turn each other on should be intrinsic to all relationships.
  7. That's quite the image. And exactly the sort of thing I'd have done 🙂 I once had a pee in a not-very-private bush halfway down Broad Street in Birmingham, with plenty of passers-by and police watching me, because we'd been asked to leave the last pub in a pub crawl on the stroke of closing time, and I thought 'best not to upset them by asking where the toilet is'. Social awkwardness is marvellous stuff, isn't it?
  8. Wetting's not my thing. Desperation absolutely is, but the public awkwardness and embarrassment, and the risk of being caught, when peeing outside is what really rings my bell.
  9. I have woman envy. I'd love to have all the neuroses and hang-ups and embarrassment about peeing in public that makes it such a thrilling experience. I'd love to have the plumbing and investigate the variety of squatting positions. I'd love to be able to have a pee with my bestie and have a chat rather than standing in awkward manly silence. I'd love to know I could virtually get a marriage proposal by taking a leak in public in front of the right guy....
  10. This is interesting comment. We are undergoing a spot of therapy at the minute and I have a solo session this week where I imagine the subject might arise.
  11. I hate them - a tree for me every time. The question does bring to mind an interesting situation yesterday when I went out to archery with my wife but all the portaloos were locked. Turns out they weren’t actually locked but the doors were secured shut. My wife got a third of the way round (we do field archery which is a course with various targets) before having to duck behind a hedge. She reckons she would have made it all the way round but I have my doubts. I also am sure that she would be desperate enough by then to have severely affected my aim!
  12. Better to be an empath with a spine than one who gets too emotionally involved. That has dragged me into quite a lot of trouble this year. But I just can’t help myself. I think I really do get my kicks out of protecting the vulnerable and needy. Not really sure that paints a good picture of me.
  13. I should warn you I’m enormously attracted to vulnerability 🙂 But, lovely story. I enjoyed all the pontificating about your various bail-out options and the impracticality of copping/popping/dropping a squat (I think I might be able to advise, there…). And never apologise for length! The longer the better!
  14. Yup, this pretty much encapsulates my feelings, too. I have a strong urge to find desperate women a place for relief. I always like to think that would be a roadside lay-by or behind a tree, but ultimately I’d rather find them the nearest Ladies toilet than watch them struggle. I’ve more or less pleaded with a couple of female friends to relieve themselves rather than hold on, mostly because I’m worried about things getting out of my control. Obviously, the scene - regardless of outcome - embeds itself in my wank-bank for a good long time afterwards, though.
  15. You can come on a road-trip with me any time 🙂
  16. As someone who is very curious themselves about the consent issue, I think Kozmo's handling of this is exemplary, by the way. It's difficult to be a strong community leader, especially on a forum like this that is so subtly nuanced. I know that my own particular take on the kink straddles the consent line, which is a source of worry to me, and I started a similar thread about this not long ago (I was actually looking to wrap it up when I stumbled across this one). If I see a desperate woman about to duck into the bushes or squat at the roadside, it takes every fibre of my strength to turn away from the scene and I'm concerned that I might not be able to do it under certain situations, or that I might do or say something that turns me into a predator. I'd never cross the line into filming or photographing, though, which is an obvious breach of consent. I think being hyper-aware of consent, where the boundaries are, and constantly alert for your own reactions is a reasonable place to be.
  17. Not only does it count, but it’s really hot. It’s one of those things that is an intimate little insight into how much of a relief it is.
  18. I love this. Beautiful, intimate writing. Also I'm a bit low at the minute due to a horrendous start to the New Year, so needed something to cheer me up.
  19. I feel it's gotta be worth posting a reply to this just in case Miss (or Mrs, I'm not picky) Right is out there. THE WATERSPORTS STUFF Must be slightly submissive but also a bit resilient. Must be OK with mild exhibitionism and perhaps a bit of public embarrassment. A woman who drinks beer is a BIG plus for most desperation play 🙂 And must enjoy a man going down her while she has a full bladder. I'm sure that must be terrible for you, ladies! THE OTHER STUFF (THE STUFF THAT IS REQUIRED FOR A SANE RELATIONSHIP) Must be intelligent and enjoy good conversation and quizzes. Medium-to-small boobs preferred. Not too skinny, doesn't feel the need to wear too much make-up, isn't obsessed with appearance. Likes walks in the countryside and good food. Understands the concept of spending time in our own space. Not a huggy sleeper. Someone who plays board games is useful but not essential.
  20. I think you do pure desperation really well. I'd love to see more of this. 30 seconds just isn't enough 🙂
  21. Why? Because it seems unlikely that I'll ever enjoy the pleasure of sitting on the couch with a woman stripped to her sexy underwear, getting happily stoned and holding a full bladder. Have to say, it seems very unlikely that any of my attention would be on the football.
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