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BB1BBB

Ammonia Apprentice
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  1. You can come on a road-trip with me any time
  2. As someone who is very curious themselves about the consent issue, I think Kozmo's handling of this is exemplary, by the way. It's difficult to be a strong community leader, especially on a forum like this that is so subtly nuanced. I know that my own particular take on the kink straddles the consent line, which is a source of worry to me, and I started a similar thread about this not long ago (I was actually looking to wrap it up when I stumbled across this one). If I see a desperate woman about to duck into the bushes or squat at the roadside, it takes every fibre of my strength to turn
  3. Not only does it count, but it’s really hot. It’s one of those things that is an intimate little insight into how much of a relief it is.
  4. I love this. Beautiful, intimate writing. Also I'm a bit low at the minute due to a horrendous start to the New Year, so needed something to cheer me up.
  5. I feel it's gotta be worth posting a reply to this just in case Miss (or Mrs, I'm not picky) Right is out there. THE WATERSPORTS STUFF Must be slightly submissive but also a bit resilient. Must be OK with mild exhibitionism and perhaps a bit of public embarrassment. A woman who drinks beer is a BIG plus for most desperation play And must enjoy a man going down her while she has a full bladder. I'm sure that must be terrible for you, ladies! THE OTHER STUFF (THE STUFF THAT IS REQUIRED FOR A SANE RELATIONSHIP) Must be intelligent and enjoy good conversation and
  6. I think you do pure desperation really well. I'd love to see more of this. 30 seconds just isn't enough
  7. Why? Because it seems unlikely that I'll ever enjoy the pleasure of sitting on the couch with a woman stripped to her sexy underwear, getting happily stoned and holding a full bladder. Have to say, it seems very unlikely that any of my attention would be on the football.
  8. I'll tell you what, nuts to having a fetish. That photo is cute enough to make me come here and now.
  9. Yep, totally. I’d love to read more from you.
  10. I sit! Well, I do at home, anyway. I reject the macho standing-to-pee hypothesis, and despite being ‘into’ pee, I’m very bad at cleaning it up. So, to save upsetting my wife, and because I can also read a book, I sit when at home. When out and about, at a urinal, the left hand aims and the right hand makes sure there’s plenty of clearance around the fly area - accidental clothes movement is not desirable at this point. Directing the stream is a complicated bit of geometry which revolves around the key factor of minimising splashback. At work, for example, if a single drop finds it’s
  11. Yeah, another vote here for a good extended desperation. Your desperation noises are totally the most sexy bit.
  12. That desperation video was absolute gold: "I have to try and suck it back up!" Please tell me you've never actually tried that.
  13. The vast majority of real-life panties are not as skimpy as the ones in videos. Experiments have been had with this, and it's nearly always a disaster. Panties-aside women can't get to their favoured angle/position for peeing, their vulva gets distorted so pee goes in all sorts of unexpected directions, and generally the fabric ends up snapping back into place at an inopportune time. For that section of our community that like making a mess, then I'm sure it's a great option.
  14. Thanks for the responses, everyone. This has been an interesting conversation for me. It seems the general consensus is that watching, in a discreet way, doesn't really break too many rules of consent. It's only actively participating in making someone desperate that is non-consensual. I'm not 100% sure I completely agree, but it's close enough and I'm not going to quibble if it makes me less guilty about watching the next time I see a desperate lady.
  15. Yes, that's true. I'm not particularly backwards about coming forwards because it does pay off from time to time. In some ways, this makes it even harder to watch a secret peeing, because there's a bit of my hindbrain that wants to jump out of the bushes and tell them how much I'm enjoying it.
  16. Easy for you to say. I've had a lot of strike-outs.
  17. No, that's true. I have respect for consent and privacy. It just worries me that I'd almost prefer to play with those taboos than have a consensual encounter.
  18. I'll be honest, if I noticed a stranger woman (sorry, don't go in for 'girl' terminology) peeing outside, or even the preliminary indications that this might happen in the near future, I'd find it virtually impossible NOT to stop and watch. I expect that's where quite a lot of my guilt comes from.
  19. But you can quite easily have consensual discomfort and non-consensual discomfort. If I'm getting off some on someone's non-consensual discomfort, that's wrong. Or at least 'not right'. The problem is, and remains, that playing out scenarios with someone else who's into the fetish is a lot of fun. BUT, it's not as arousing as catching one of those genuine desperate situations which are so few and far between.
  20. I'm cross-posting this from Fetlife, where I also spend a bit of time under this same alias. So, let's put one obvious point out there first. Non-consent is WRONG. I would not seek to defend it or try to convince anyone otherwise. However, the problem with a desperation fetish is that it sometimes veers into non-consensual territory. The friend on a walk that has drunk too much water but is terribly pee-shy. The new date who gets caught short on the way back from the pub. These are situations which are a tremendous turn-on, but yet there is still the ongoing reminder that - well - th
  21. Welcome to the site. Keep posting stories like that, and you'll have no difficulty making friends, I expect.
  22. Yeah, you need to tell her. She's your wife and it's clearly something she wouldn't be shy about sharing with you. If it was a casual relationship, you run the risk of getting blown out (been there, so many times), but this is the woman who is married to you. She's not going to divorce you over a fetish. Or, if she's the sort of woman who would divorce you over a fetish, maybe you shouldn't be married to her in the first place. You sound like me about 15 years ago. I was much happier to write about desperation than actually talk about it, which just made me stumbling and awkward when
  23. Oh my. Yes, I can see all sorts of ways this would be fun. I don’t really get off on my own desperation, but this is absolutely a game I would play if my partner was turned on by it as much as I was.
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