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https://www.theguardian.com/music/2021/nov/21/spotify-hides-shuffle-button-adele-albums-should-tell-a-story About halfway down, if you read it too literally, it suggests that Adele might have recorded a track called ‘I Drink Wine and Hold On’ I think that’s definitely the sort of song we’d like to hear! Hope there’s going to be a video. Yeah, know it’s two different tracks, but what a nice image

I spent years and years being cripplingly insecure, not just about the fetish, but about lots of stuff to do with sex and relationships. It resulted in very little other than embarrassing, awkward and traumatic memories. Once I realised that I was just making myself more and more unhappy through my own insecurities, then I've become possibly too frank. I've asked women flat out if they want to sleep with me and sometimes they've said 'no', but no-one's run away screaming or punched me. Hey presto - no more awkward memories. Similar with the kink - I've shared it with women I'm close to an

The squat gets my vote. Lovely vid.

I sit! Well, I do at home, anyway. I reject the macho standing-to-pee hypothesis, and despite being ‘into’ pee, I’m very bad at cleaning it up. So, to save upsetting my wife, and because I can also read a book, I sit when at home. When out and about, at a urinal, the left hand aims and the right hand makes sure there’s plenty of clearance around the fly area - accidental clothes movement is not desirable at this point. Directing the stream is a complicated bit of geometry which revolves around the key factor of minimising splashback. At work, for example, if a single drop finds it’s

Yeah, another vote here for a good extended desperation. Your desperation noises are totally the most sexy bit.

That desperation video was absolute gold: "I have to try and suck it back up!" Please tell me you've never actually tried that.

The vast majority of real-life panties are not as skimpy as the ones in videos. Experiments have been had with this, and it's nearly always a disaster. Panties-aside women can't get to their favoured angle/position for peeing, their vulva gets distorted so pee goes in all sorts of unexpected directions, and generally the fabric ends up snapping back into place at an inopportune time. For that section of our community that like making a mess, then I'm sure it's a great option.

Thanks for the responses, everyone. This has been an interesting conversation for me. It seems the general consensus is that watching, in a discreet way, doesn't really break too many rules of consent. It's only actively participating in making someone desperate that is non-consensual. I'm not 100% sure I completely agree, but it's close enough and I'm not going to quibble if it makes me less guilty about watching the next time I see a desperate lady.

Yes, that's true. I'm not particularly backwards about coming forwards because it does pay off from time to time. In some ways, this makes it even harder to watch a secret peeing, because there's a bit of my hindbrain that wants to jump out of the bushes and tell them how much I'm enjoying it.

Easy for you to say. I've had a lot of strike-outs.

No, that's true. I have respect for consent and privacy. It just worries me that I'd almost prefer to play with those taboos than have a consensual encounter.

I'll be honest, if I noticed a stranger woman (sorry, don't go in for 'girl' terminology) peeing outside, or even the preliminary indications that this might happen in the near future, I'd find it virtually impossible NOT to stop and watch. I expect that's where quite a lot of my guilt comes from.

But you can quite easily have consensual discomfort and non-consensual discomfort. If I'm getting off some on someone's non-consensual discomfort, that's wrong. Or at least 'not right'. The problem is, and remains, that playing out scenarios with someone else who's into the fetish is a lot of fun. BUT, it's not as arousing as catching one of those genuine desperate situations which are so few and far between.

I'm cross-posting this from Fetlife, where I also spend a bit of time under this same alias. So, let's put one obvious point out there first. Non-consent is WRONG. I would not seek to defend it or try to convince anyone otherwise. However, the problem with a desperation fetish is that it sometimes veers into non-consensual territory. The friend on a walk that has drunk too much water but is terribly pee-shy. The new date who gets caught short on the way back from the pub. These are situations which are a tremendous turn-on, but yet there is still the ongoing reminder that - well - th

Welcome to the site. Keep posting stories like that, and you'll have no difficulty making friends, I expect.