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I think there has been real progress made in diagnosing autism in women and it's great to hear your openness on the subject, Liz. One of my pee-mates has been diagnosed as autistic and has also gone through the menopause but she is also having a great life-renewal as a result.

I've given this topic a lot of thought. C'mon, haven't we all? 1) Focus on the genitals. Seems obvious, huh? I don't know about anyone else, but I still - past my 40th birthday - still have a childlike fascination with female plumbing. Leg crossing, buttock clenching, even outright holding - they indisputably divert your attention that way. 2) Vulnerability. I am very chivalrous when in a lady's company. Probably TOO chivalrous to the extent of being patronising sometimes. When a lady needs to go, I want to let her go. It brings forth some sort of distant yearning just to watch her p

It's very difficult to match the spontaneous and unplanned in terms of desperation. That's half the appeal, isn't it?

Oh my. That's one of my fantasies addressed...

You should come out to the countryside, Liz. Plenty of holding and peeing opportunities out in the sticks, whatever floats your boat.

I won't pretend I haven't fantasised about scenarios like this, but not since I was a teenager. One of the best things about omo for me, is how private and intense and personal it can be. You lose a lot of that in public settings.

Some of this derives from the fact that there is SO MUCH content out there, that we can afford to be picky. I remember back in the 1990s (I'm not that old, honest) there was so little content, that you'd take whatever you could get off to. Now, I have GB upon GB of good quality content that can reliably do the trick for me and can even start going through my archive and get rid of stuff that is just old, low-res or doesn't click my buttons. What a luxurious life! But, if anyone's wondering: female content only, desperation (++ if embarrassment/unplanned), very little wetting, definit

The road trip fantasy is one of my persistent favourites. It's such a natural place to get into an emergency situation. I would never deliberately put someone in that situation, but I have persuaded a few travel partners that they are better off taking an emergency stop at the roadside than holding on. Completely for my own enjoyment as well, of course.

My wife and all my ex-partners know about it. If I am lucky enough to be flirting with a female acquaintance over messenger, I tend to steer the conversation in that direction, to sound out their reaction to it. Usually, I get a pretty positive reaction - no 'ugh's or weird-outs so far. So, I suppose I'm pretty open. More so than I thought. It doesn't help that I just can't get to orgasm without a bit of desperation fantasy creeping in. So it's a bit of a necessity to make sure that there's something in it for me.

I can't offer any recommendations. But the desperation in a car scenario sounds awesome if you ever want to share the experience.

Intriguing. I might be interested in this

Hey - if you need a shopping buddy, we're right there for you.

I think this is also why they're more of a fantasy. The sad reality of the world is that most women just don't let themselves get desperate because they know how much of an inconvenience it is to be caught short in public. Whereas men will quite happily whip it out anywhere and to hell with the consequences. I've noticed the straight females on the board tend to enjoy men who are more vulnerable or shy and might be a bit out the norm. A lot of M omo fiction reads that way as well. But really, most of us just piss in corners or on lampposts and to hell with it. Sorry ladies, but it's true.

Isn't that very disappointing for you. If I shared with a life partner, I'd hope that they'd recognise it for the important fetish that it is and at least do something about it. I share with all sorts of women just on the off-chance that they'll play up to it. It's a dangerous activity.

Not for the first time, I can't disagree with this