thereaverofdarkness

Established Member
  • Content count

    390
  • Joined

  • Last visited

  • Days Won

    1

thereaverofdarkness last won the day on June 21

thereaverofdarkness had the most liked content!

Community Reputation

107 Forum Idol

About thereaverofdarkness

  • Rank
    Soaking Wet
  • Birthday 12/15/1983

Personal Information

  • Gender
    Male
  • Sexual Orientation
    Straight
  • Location
    USA
  • Interests
    desperation, female desperation, wetting, nudity, freedom, space & astronomy, documentaries, science fiction, sandbox games

Recent Profile Visitors

1,378 profile views
  1. thereaverofdarkness

    The definitive Extreme Desperation

    While I find it fun to see how much bladder capacity I can achieve, and I also enjoy releasing a large amount at once, I still find it most fun to have a low capacity. The lower my capacity, the faster I reach loss of control, and the less stressful it is to reach that point.
  2. thereaverofdarkness

    Am I Doing Something Wrong?

    You can probably grow your bladder larger than it is, but you have to do it gently and over time. Maybe it's at its limit, so it might not get any bigger. 1200mL isn't really that small. I've read somewhere that the normal full bladder capacity is around 300-400mL so you're already above average even at just 800mL. Are you lacking willpower? That depends. Did you discover your limit by losing bladder control, or did you give up and choose to release? Even in the latter case, if it's painful to hold, it's not good for you. Many people have a strong enough sphincter muscle to cause damage by holding for as long as they can. Most people will lose bladder control before damage but the reverse is by no means rare and you shouldn't press your luck. Ideally, holding shouldn't cause any pain, and certainly it should not cause a strong pain. If you can't increase your capacity, then it's best for you to learn to love what you have. But it may also just increase gradually over time. Finally, if you have worked too hard to increase it, you may be experiencing temporary capacity reduction due to bladder stress, and letting it rest may be what it needs. I myself remained around 800mL max capacity for a couple years before I suddenly managed a 1500mL hold once. My capacity gradually went up to 1200mL after that. I spent a few more years trying to avoid holding, and my capacity went back down to around 800mL. But I have also noticed it just varies a lot by the situation. Usually holding leads to a lot of bladder spasms, but every once in a while I get super relaxed and I just feel the fullness of my bladder without spasms, and that's when it gets the fullest.
  3. thereaverofdarkness

    Drinking water makes me need to poop, how do I make it stop?

    I am finding drinking coffee actually helps because it gets my bowels evacuated before I get to holding, which is a decent workaround.
  4. thereaverofdarkness

    (Not wetting) Peed in the garden

    I think it fits well enough into the omo scene. Awesome plans/ideas you have! I'll be interested to hear more, if your housing situation improves, or you figure out something else!
  5. thereaverofdarkness

    Last person to post wins

    I am going to lose this for sure.
  6. thereaverofdarkness

    Panties or knickers, what do you call them?

    It does kind of sound like a sports team. If I heard of a sports team called the knickers, I might not bat an eye, I might not even connect the name to anything if I didn't think about it too much.
  7. thereaverofdarkness

    Panties or knickers, what do you call them?

    I will happily embrace this usage and declare that I wear panties!
  8. thereaverofdarkness

    Are these shorts cute or no?

    I like short shorts but that's just me. As far as if you look good in em it always depends. My best advice is wear them and check in front of a mirror. I can never tell how something will look on someone until I see them in it.
  9. Entertaining images, entertaining chat. You draw the best to you, you star! Your name is really fitting, I think.
  10. thereaverofdarkness

    Drinking water makes me need to poop, how do I make it stop?

    I know it's the water rushing through me because it causes the poop to come out before it is ready. It looks less digested and it burns. It's not like normal diarrhea, instead it's just exactly as if you tried to run water through your intestine to wash it out. I have noticed since then that I seem to need to pee more quickly when I am less hydrated. It's like my body has been saving up some pee but it hasn't had enough water to extract it, so it's waiting in the kidneys, then as soon as I drink water, the kidneys pull it through real fast. The pee comes out yellow but the kidneys seem to be able to control water absorption rate from the large intestine in that if the kidneys aren't running it through, it's not getting absorbed. Maybe my problem is just that I'm always well hydrated and my kidneys run out of urine to produce. Weird but I'm at a loss for any other explanation. The amount of water I drink isn't so much, I can trigger the diarrhea with as little as a pint. I used to be able to chug a quart easily, maybe two, and this never happened.
  11. thereaverofdarkness

    Are more males or females into omorashi?

    On Experience Project it was almost all gay men, but on here I see a much bigger range. So I think regardless of the actual statistics, it has a lot to do with comfort level.
  12. thereaverofdarkness

    Post a meme a day thread

    Aww it's so cute!!
  13. thereaverofdarkness

    Post a meme a day thread

    I saw one a while back about a dragon car salesman, but for the life of me I can't find it again. The dragon slaps the roof of the car, and the car says "I want you inside me".
  14. thereaverofdarkness

    The Desperate Dungeon: RPG-Style Interactive Story!

    She spurts every now and then, big spurts. They tease her and pretend they think she must be done now, even though she's basically still at her limit.
  15. thereaverofdarkness

    Forum ranks

    In case anyone was wondering, here is the complete list of auto-ranks, along with how many bars they indicate underneath them: 1: Newbie 2: Fidgeting 3: Squirming 4: Dribbling 5: Leaking 6: Spurting 7: Fully Wetting 8: Soaking Wet 9: Completely Drenched 10: Omorashi Veteran