Raziel

How did the weekend go?

So for the record: You, a female of the species, excrete waste from your lower region like males of the species?

Maybe for people who grew up 30 or 40 years ago, but I've heard so many women say "I NEED TO PEE!" out loud in the last 20 years that it seems to be normal behavior now.

That would make a great plot. A girlfriend gets jealous that her boyfriend is infatuated with an omo model he follows online, so she meets her in person and challenges her, or maybe one where a girlfriend is new to the concept and is sent to learn from the best.

I know that feeling, and I'm sure she appreciates that you feel that way. It's not a perfect fantasy come true because I imagine everything stays professional when the cameras aren't rolling. I guess it really depends on what they're like to be around in between shoots. On a side note: How do you prepare for a weekend like that? I imagine several cases of bottled water are required.

I'm sorry to hear that. Some people are just idiots who get off on ruining someone else's reputation for no reason. I've known several like that. That's not that uncommon btw, I dated a girl who involuntarily wet herself while throwing up in public with no alcohol being involved. We just had a good laugh about it later.

My advice would be to pay attention to what else they share with other people, or whether or not they kink shame their exes around you, before you make that decision. As for whether or not they personally enjoy it or just do it to indulge you, I don't think that should really matter when they're deciding to over share. I think it just depends more on their integrity.

I'm sorry to hear that. If I ever have kids, I'm teaching them to never to send anything electronically that they wouldn't want the whole school to see if things don't work out. She's lucky if she didn't get any criminal charges for that since you were likely still a minor when she leaked your images, although I suppose they could have come after you as well.

Maybe try pouring some warm (not hot) water on her crotch area. It may be easier to let go if her pants are already wet.

Thanks for the replies, everyone. It's nice knowing some of you out there have been in the same position and were able to remain positive.

I did end up telling two mutual friends myself after that because I would rather they hear it from me than her eventually(and I knew I'd explain it the correct way). One said it wasn't that weird since she is well versed in BDSM so bathroom control wasn't a huge jump The other even admitted she held it and wet herself for an ex before and enjoyed it. We never got around to doing anything together but maybe some day. They also both agreed that it's an integrity issue on my ex's part for sharing intimate details about me like that. I'm sorry you had to go through that, I know your pain.

I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm assuming that your "deepest, darkest kink" is omo related or at least something that's not illegal, but I won't pry. Please don't respond to that if you're not comfortable doing so. I hope at least some of the people she told questioned her integrity since she divulged that just to hurt you. I also hope that she's not your son's mother, since you refer to him as "my son" and not "our son".

As long as you're not doing anything to make the situation worse like teasing them, intentionally passing a rest area, lying that you need them to wait when you know you can manage without them, etc. then I don't consider it unfair. We may have different definitions, but I would consider something like a boyfriend stopping on the side of the road to pee but telling his girlfriend to stay in the car and hold it until they reach their destination to be unfair. As for knowing other people are enjoying your bladder discomfort, I guess that comes down to whether or not you are aiming to please in that particular situation. I suppose it is a form of sadism, but why should enjoying the sight of a woman needing to pee really bad be less accepted than enjoying seeing a woman being tied up and whipped?

At the same time how would you feel if you found out women you see every day knew that was your kink, and were afraid to drink anything in front of you or ever admit they need to use the restroom because they're worried it will arouse you?

As you can guess by the title this has happened to me. A few years ago, I found out my girlfriend at the time was telling her female coworkers that I liked it when women are desperate to pee. After lying about it and later admitting it, she was very sparse with the details on how that conversation even started. Luckily as far as I know this never got back to anyone I knew from outside that place and I live in a different state now, but at the time I was freaking out. I was worried about things like showing up to a party or something and everyone asking me questions about it, or them contacting me asking if she's allowed to use the restroom as a joke, or bumping into them somewhere and they all start pretending they need to pee to see my reaction, etc. Anyone else have a similar experience?