Dr. Struggles

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About Dr. Struggles

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  • My pronouns are..
    he/him

My Kinks

  • I'm into..
    Bathroom Control
    Bedwetting
    Tickling
    Watersports
    Bondage
    Cuddling
    Pee drinking

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  1. Dr. Struggles

    German omo fans

    Hallo Celestia, was heißt hier "gegenüberstehen"? ? Ich bin ebenfalls aus dem Südwesten und habe gerade mal eben in deinen Vorstellungs-Thread gespickt. Zwei lustige Fakten: - ich bin ebenfalls halber Italiener (wenn auch hier geboren und einsprachig aufgewachsen) - ich habe ebenfalls auf Lehramt studiert Und nein, das hat gar nichts zu heißen, aber ich musste es einfach mal erwähnen ? Liebe Grüße
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    German omo fans

    Hey there, another one from Germany ? South-West to be more precise ? regards ^^
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    How to be a creeper (Absolutely do not do this!)

    You're a real musician Kozmo, playing the sweet chin music ? Sooo, let's head over to the OP and let's be honest: If this creepy guy has some kind of fetish according to omorashi, there is fairly a good chance, that he has been searching the internet before and since omo.org is THE community for people that are into it, there is a fairly high chance, that he even might have read this (even if he'd never be man enough to admit it). Two things come to my mind about that: First and foremost I hope that he does not recognize you by (maybe) reading this here, for there is some chance in his sick mind that he puts focus on you two IF he believes that he might do you (or more likely your girlfriend a favor) by showing her some "live show" of a thing you'd normally might enjoy.... Second, I'm intuitively totally on your side if we talk about morals and inappropriate behaviour and such things, BUT: Shouldn't we take a second just to THINK about what we're doing, when someone shares sightings on here, or puts on videos of public wettings (mostly deliberate ones)? I mean: I really NEVER will come to the defence of such a creep, but we should also overthink, why we're appreciating videos of public wettings, while we're feeling unconfortable if people (that we didn't ask for it) just do it before our eyes. And YES, there is a difference on "how" you do it, but I'm fairly sure that there actually ARE videos up here that might make some passengers that witnessed the public wetting of the video for real might have felt unconfortable in a similar way... So well, that is just a thought though... in in no way an excuse for this kind of behaviour, you just reported here. And just to come full circle: I'd recommend your girlfriend should think about the sweet chin music rather than kicking him in the balls. Guys like him might have none ? Struggles out ?
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    malefemale Fully wetting this evening

    So this evening I was planning a hold and guess what: I turned my plan into reality ? I started at about 3pm and drank some soda, energy-drink and water over the next hours. Everything went fine until 8pm when I started to feel the urge. I wasn't very creative at first on how to wet when I began the hold, but then I had an idea: Let's do a "conventional" hold until I cannot hold it in anymore. When I start leaking (and normally i don't leak, I just explode) I am allowed to head to the toilet BUT I have to stop in every room for 10 seconds without grabbing myself. If I do otherwise, I have to start counting at one again. I may not go to the next room until i regained control... So well: Bad plan ^^ I was sitting on a chair and held it until 9:45pm, when i felt my bladders contents pushing and forcing their way out in big waves. I had to stand up but barely made it for some seconds, before I started to leak. Regaining control was an almost impossible task, but I forced myself to stop leaking... at least for short. So the task was on. I hesitated but finally put my hand off the crotch and started counting. The first room... 10 incredibly long seconds, that screamed at me that I wouldn't make it like it was a prophecy I could not escape from. But... I made it... Next room! When I was walking I could barely hold it in. So I took some baby-steps but finally arrived... another 10 seconds without hands, and I already felt like I couldn't even make one more second... Hands off the crotch!.... 1.....2.....3.......4.......5 Suddenly a wave hit me, and pushed so hard that i couldn't help but leak again... Intuitively I regrabbed my crotch and desperately tried to regain control... it worked... somehow... but now i had to restart.... 1......2......3.....4.....5......6......7...... Big leak... again i was about to grab myself, but only moved my hand there without doing anything, since i knew that another try would not even last until three before i was fully exploding. I removed the hand while i was leaking and counted.... 8.....9...... 10! I tried to regain control, desperately holding myself, but control (and that was in this case the optimistic word for slowing down the leaking) lasted for maybe two seconds before it happened: My bladder gave in and I was standing there, just looking down myself while my bladder would not respond to my will anymore emptying itself uncontrollably in my jeans and over the floor. I was trembling all the time like mad. And I still do, while I'm writing this. Trembling, happy, relieved ? Hope you enjoy ? PS: I was very inactive for a long time, and overall I was rarely contributing. I love and enjoy your contributions, you all - the community as a whole - is simply amazing ? I wan't to give a special shoutout to @Fangirl-wetter. I absolutely love your contributions you've made so far. Not only, but also because of so many hilarious stuff that you (and that involves all of you) share with us, I finally made up the courage to also do my bit and recorded it. Sorry, for the bad camera work, for I was trembling and shaking all over. VID_20180526_223123.mp4
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    Live Action Omorashi

    Getting a little desperate. 6 out of 10 maybe... Is anybody here, that wants to join in?
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    Some random thoughts about being "omo-sexual"

    Soooo first of all: Sono mezzo italiano. Posso parlare italiano, ma parlo molto male ;) My father is from a small village near Lecce, but i was born and raised in germany and i unfortunately did not grow up bilingual. After that is said, let's head back to the main topic ^^ I had similar experiences with my own girlfriend from back in the days. I don't even really know how the topic came up, but the girl i was in a relationship with had a similar reaction to it. I'm not saying that everyone, everytime is totally without prejudice. But as I grew older I was rethinking so many things about me and how I wish my life to be. There are so many factors, that are not up to you, but some are. And the main question for me was: Do I really want to be "someone else" and play a role my entire life, just to not lose people that are not accepting me the way i really am? It took some time to overcome myself... but after some time... well I think I started a progess with myself, that is pretty similar to the progress I've started the topic with ;) EDIT: Since our posts were overlapping @DiminishingReturns: I don't think, that you're old-fashioned. I've labeled this for the sake of arguing alongside the already "labeled" other examples I gave. I somehow found the term "omo-sexual" fitting and funny, so I continued using it, but in the end, if i want to be clear I like speaking of personal "preferences" better ;) And there IS nothing wrong with deviating from the norm. I don't like the word "normal" at all. If we speak of things that are morally reprehensible or morally good, I'd say this is the more fitting line I'd personally distinguish to make a "judgement" if people would force me to. But this has nothing to do with "normality" :D
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    Some random thoughts about being "omo-sexual"

    Whohooo, yes you're truely a pro-player. If it wasn't written in german and totally off-topic I'd be on the edge of sending you my academic paper for my final exam, to start a debate :D Back to topic ;) I see your point, and that is what I meant, when i said, that the scenario goes far. But I don't even think that it has to be such a drastic scenario at all. It was just to illustrate the problem, that you have - very clearly - pointed out. The very nature of being omo-sexual (in contrast to other kinks) is indeed, that we are talking about something that comes from our very nature to relief ourselves now and then. It is (at least under normal circumstances) nothing, that we need to stage. Yes, we still can enjoy peeing and wetting even in such a constructed world, we can still enjoy every bit of it even if Trump will be baldheaded (:P), but maybe our source of arousement might shift a bit. I know there are soooo many sources, hence everything I'll say next will be totally subjective. But for the ones that draw most of the arousement out of the thought of putting themselves into the "risk of getting caught", those who maybe even enjoy the indigation of others seeing them... these omo-sexuals might have to focus on other aspects then (like the enjoyment of losing control over their own body, the beauty of a pee strain spreading over some textile, the comforting feeling of warmth, the... oh, I'm falling adrift to daydreams xD).. To answer your question: I already am moving out of the closet. I talk very openly to my friends about this, and i only "really" hide it at work and towards my parents. The work-thing is self-explicatory I think, and regarding my parents... well... it's not that i explicitly don't talk to them about omorashi... I don't talk to them about my sexual life in general, because... well, because it's a bit weird I think :D So what can I say: I feel good with this attitude. My personal experience is, that most of the people are not into it (or at least they cannot even imagine being into it), but i never experienced that someone quits a friendship because of this. Most of the non-omo-sexual friends are rather interested, although they don't understand the attraction of omorashi. But i have to mention that my friends are very liberal. I was surrounded by all types of people in my life so far: People with open relationships and open marriages, polyarmor people (I myself have a polyarmorous tendency), a close fellow student who is transgender... so i wasn't really afraid of telling them. And when i took my first baby-steps towards this "attitude" and i saw, that the reactions weren't as negative as expected, i became more brave and started to talk to more "conservative" friends. Never made one of them pee her/himself though :P
  8. Dr. Struggles

    Some random thoughts about being "omo-sexual"

    First of all: Thanks for the replies so far :) I hope many more statements will follow. I want to add another thing to think about: Even if one day being omo-sexual is socially accepted, and everyone can openly talk about his or her preferences, without being judged... Wouldn't this be a "risk" too? I mean, speaking of desperation and wetting: Let us assume for a short moment, that everyone in the whole wide world would be perfectly fine with it (not everyone would be sexually aroused, but at least it would be no big deal). Wouldn't this "evolution" be something "bad" in a way? Let me explain the thought: If we feel a need and there is no possibility to go... The whole desperation-thing is driven by the thought, that we try to avoid something, that should "not happen". If everyone in the world would be totally okay with it, no judging, no risk of being bullied or no need for sympathies, for what is about to happen simply is "no big deal". Isn't there a risk that the originary idea of doing something "forbidden", something that is to be avoided simply lacks of grounding? In other words: Does omo-sexuality depend to a certain degree on the premise of "not being socially accepted"? I know this scenario goes far, and this point will assumably never be reached, even if the "kink" itself will be accepted. Maybe it's just the fact, that I'm not a native-speaker and cannot explain this better. I hope y'all know what I mean :D
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    You choose how I hold

    First of all: Don't worry, that you're first attempt had do be cancelled. We all can totally understand that :3 Aaaand, this gives me the chance to place my request *lol* So here we go: Volume: I'd recommend to drink as much as you possibly can one day before you start the hold. My personal experience is, that the effect will be better if you "prepare" your bladder for the upcoming hold one day earlier. At the day of holding try not to empty everything at once but drink regularily, like maybe one glass every hour/half an hour (depending on your drinking speed). Last pee: I can not really estimate this, but when you start the hold you should feel a bit of a need, but not in an unconfortable way yet ;). Clothes to wear: I'd personally totally love jeans-wettings, so I'd say jeans with some underwear you feel comfortable with. For the top section I'd recommend something not too "long", maybe a tanktop or something that doesn't hide the crotch ;) Where: Well, this is something that I totally leave up to you. I want you to feel comfortable. I've read some requests about car wettings or semi-public things, but i can totally understand, if you don't want to ruin the car seats or don't want to get caught. I'm perfectly fine with the idea of doing it at home :) But if you want to make Struggles happy, you might consider not standing in the shower, but to create a puddle on the floor, so that the full size of the puddle does not vanish into the sink before you're done :D Wet or pee on toilet: As the above might already point out, I'd absolutely love to see a full desperate wetting xD Video or not: I'd totally love to, if you want to share with us :> Last but not least, I want to say a big thank you, for letting us being a "part" in your hold :) So whatever you will do: Enjoy your hold :D regards Struggles
  10. Hey everyone, lately I've been thinking about our "special hobby" a whole lot, and I decided to share some random thoughts with you. Being into omorashi is a - let's call it personal "preference" - like many other kinks, sexual orientations, random turn ons (fill the list as you wish) too. The crucial point to me is that you can distinguish all these different aspects of sexuality into two groups (maybe three): Some preferences are socially accepted, and others are not (and some are partly, to name the third group). This is not a stigma, as you maybe can see when you look at some at these preferences over the time, or look at the acceptance in different cultural groups (I hope this point will become more clear as you read further). Not long ago in germany there was a big "paradigm shift", when homosexual marriage was legalized and I can see kind of a movement over the last years, that points in the same direction (even if in some countries or cultural regions this is super far away). When we turn back our view to the past decades this was far away from imagination for the most, and hushed up nearly everywhere. I know, that there is still a long way to go, but for now just point out that - even if there are still loads of people not able to accept this liberalism in sexuality - being homosexual at least gained more acceptance to some degree. Another example might be SM. I am totally aware of the fact that "50 shades of grey" is some very doubious and polarizing... eeeh... thing. But at least it put the whole topic up for debate, that was a taboo for so long time. Suddenly people freely start to talk about something, that would have made them blush immediately, when someone even mentioned it years before. So where do we place ourselves when we consider ourselves being, what I want to call, "omo-sexual"? Is the whole thing still a taboo? I mean, when I was a bit younger I can not really remember that this topic was being even mentioned in public. But nowadays I see celebrities in talk-shows talking about wetting themselves. I notice that the omorashi-community is growing, people get more daring and so on... But on the other hand there I see the same shyness and anxiety everywhere too, that I felt, when i discovered my "omo-sexuality" when i was about 14. So, what do you think? Is omorashi "evolving" in a way? Or is it just the evolution of media, that makes me (and maybe you) feel like it is? Thanks for listening/reading :) best regards Struggles
  11. Dr. Struggles

    Hi everyone

    Oh well, this question is digging deeper than it might sound imho. Let's face it: In that moment, when we use the words "normal" or "strange" we already implicitly accept the current "state of the world" (at least of society at it's norms) as given and constitutive. (And I must confess, that i do that too from times to times... it simply happens) We are raised in those "bonds of society" that tells us, that if we feel the need, we should go to the toilet. No peeing in the bushes, no holding until wetting or voluntarily letting go. If we do otherwise, we ought to be ashamed (so they teach us). Did someone ever ask oneself, what the world would be like if everyone could just go in their pants or elsewhere, whenever they desire to? If this would be the "state of the world" that would be considered as normal? So many people would not have been bullied for having an "accident" (indeed, the word accident would not even be applicable then, since it would not be something, that is "not supposed to happen"). So many people would not have felt like an alien, when it would be totally up to yourself where/when/how you let go ^^ Don't get me wrong. This not only applies to our so called "strange tastes", but (in my opinion) every taboo that does not really harm someone and therefore must be considered as problematic in a moral (!) dimension. So why should I be unhappy to be a person with this kink? I'm not more or less unhappy/happy than with every other preference that I have too.
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    Ethnicity and omorashi

    Well, I'm living in the south-west of germany. I was born and raised here too, but one half of me is italian ^^
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    [female] first bottle try and fail

    Thank you for this one! I know it wasn't planned this way, but nevertheless it was hilarious! :)
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    Live Action Omorashi

    I'm absolutely sure you can hold on =)... Thanks for submitting this experience so far :D... Greetings from Germany
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    Tumblr Finds

    Was this one already posted? http://omg-omo.tumblr.com/post/143855552215/part-1 http://omg-omo.tumblr.com/post/143855707198/part-2 :) Regards