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Desperato

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  1. This sounds familiar! Is it possibly this one? https://pisshamster.com/35147-leah-lexington-bladder-domination-failure/#
  2. Yes!! This is exactly what she has experienced. We didn't ever try the rapid desperation protocol as such, but we have keptbwaiting for "enough" fullness, which basically backfires for the reason you describe. I like the break-the-seal suggestion too, I think that will definitely be among the things we'll try in the next session.
  3. Thanks! We've almost exclusively tried this without clothes (or without any clothes that would get wet during peeing), but maybe doing what you describe would help because works on breaking the social programming.
  4. Hi everyone, Does anyone have advice for my cis female partner and me about how to work on her "bladder lock"? I'm not sure if there's another term for it. Basically, she's interested/willing to indulge my omo interests, but has not been able to pee anywhere other than the toilet or shower/bathtub. We've tried to get her full enough to need to pee when outside the bathroom -- e.g., on the bed, tied up against a door, sitting/kneeling on the floor -- but she can't just can't go. As she describes it, part of what happens is the feeling of urgency/discomfort itself actually makes her bladder "lock up" if she's in a "unacceptable" place to pee. (This is with no one else in the house, so there is no possibility of being literally observed my anyone other than me.) Clearly there is a big psychological element tied to lifelong programming about where she can/should pee. She says she's always had trouble even going out in nature. Any advice from anyone who has experienced this, or had a partner who did?
  5. Hi everyone, Recently, my wife has been willing to indulge help explore my interest in omo. I have had her restrain me while I get increasingly desperate until I finally lose control. We've done that with in a few different positions, including spead-eagled on the bed and tied to a hook in the ceiling (forcing me to stay standing). This has worked great. Last night, we made our first real attempt to have her hold to the limit, but ran into trouble. Once she announced she was at a ~9.5 I had her get on the bed (with towels down and a waterproof mattress cover). She was getting increasingly desperate, and in pain/discomfort, but wasn't able to let it out at all. She was in such distress, eventually we just moved to the bathroom and stood in the bathtub. As soon as we did that, she was able to go and it came absolutely gushing out. That was pretty hot as it was, but I really want to be able to do this with her on the bed or some other more transgressive place in the house. It seems clear a big part of it is psychological, though we wondered afterwards if being horizontal also made it harder. Has anyone -- especially women or other folks with vulvas -- experienced this kind of bladder "lock-up"? Is there anything that helped you get past it over time?
  6. [I don't know how to delete. I thought I could start a draft, and posted by mistake.]
  7. Yes, this exactly!
  8. Has anyone here checked out the "MakeLoveNotPorn" site and project? https://makelovenotporn.tv/ I really like their overall concept and mission, including generous revenue sharing and a focus (at least theoretically) on "real-world sex" rather than "performative, produced entertainment". I only subscribed for a couple months, and enjoyed a lot of the videos, but (unsurprisingly I suppose) there isn't much pee content. Has anyone in this community shared, or considered sharing, your own content there?
  9. Hi everyone, Long-time lurker and occasional poster here, realizing I never posted an intro when I joined years ago. I've been into omo in one form or another since my mid-teens. I think it started with wandering around the woods in the then-undeveloped property surrounding my suburban cul-de-sac, and having some older kids show me the most hidden spot to relieve ourselves. It wasn't 100% hidden, and my mom caught us one time, which I suspect further hard-wired some neurons associating omo as a risky, forbidden thing. I'm not sure what else to share in an intro. I'm a cishet White guy, now happily married for many years. My wife is aware of my interests, but we've only explored them together a couple of times. One of my new year's resolutions is to change that.
  10. I got put on a low-dose prescription diuretic a few years ago. (Actually prescribed for mild high blood pressure, but it's actual mechanism is as a diuretic.) I've never felt comfortable "over-using" it, for reasons along the line of what @Spectator9 wrote, but it definitely added a moderate increase to my urgency during holds once I started taking it. I still find caffeine even more effective that way though.
  11. Hi everyone, Happy new year! I've had this fetish for a long time, and indulged on my own in various ways over the years. My wife knows about it, and has been willing to try some things out a couple times in the past. She is perfectly willing and supportive in general, but I hardly ever ask for it because I get too embarrassed and self-conscious during the appropriate moments/activities. We have a long weekend getaway coming up -- a.k.a. about 72 hours of continuous privacy in a secluded setting, with our children fully out of the picture -- and I am setting the intention to be more explicit about asserting my interest and experimenting with my wife. I am posting this here partly as an accountability measure for myself! I hope some of you all will help by: * Checking back in on this thread and asking how it went, if I don't volunteer that myself. (It would be 2 weeks from now, after the MLK 3-day weekend.) * Sharing any suggestions (and/or your own experiences) for good ways to do initial experimentation with a partner. FWIW, we do include semi-regularly in non-omo bondage (restraints / shibari only, neither of us are into the SM side of things) and tend to "lightly" use cannabis products on weekends like this. We are also both gamers (in the tabletop sense -- card games, board games), and I find mixing omo with some sort of game mechanic appealing, but worry that could easily get too complex. Any thoughts?
  12. Has anyone else experienced the Bound2Burst store website as painfully slow? Every time I search or click on anything, there is a several-second delay before it responds. Is this just the way the site is, or should I try a different day?
  13. Does anyone know of audio-only omorashi material? I thought it would be fun to do a hold out in public somewhere while secretly listening to someone talking about how desperate they are getting, or a girl teasing the listener about getting desperate, etc.
  14. A friend shared this on social media -- of possible interest in this community for obvious reasons. (Though I suppose this is a product intended to *avoid* accidents, which is not always what we here go for, and there is no actual peeing shown in the videos...) https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/eliraapparel/elira-apparel
  15. What platform did you make this with? Are you willing to share the source code (or whatever project/etc applies for the tool you used)? Something about this -- maybe the use of DirectPlay, which it wanted me to explicitly install on Windows 10 -- is not behaving well when I try to launch it inside a VM on my Mac.
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