I didn't desire wetting myself at first, but it always felt so good to be wet or squirt upon, that I started to hold and wet alone to feel the warm wetness spread. I have since had a back injury that at first had me cathing for almost a year... Then one day the valve opened and I better be close to a bathroom if I'm unable to literally pinch it off with my hand. I normally watch intake and time it. I don't ever really feel full until my bladder spasms. Usually its a forgot the time and its a real piss. sometimes goes on its own a dribble to small wet spot. I don't wear safety normally as I keep pretty good tabs... If I'm sick or really detracted like working or scoots in the boonies I'm more likely to blow it and will wear protection if with other people... I like to let it happen now if deep woods or I can jump in the lake ,river or storm...I myself would never purposely inconvenience someone to the point they had to wet. Unless they wanted me to and yes I will play along..Mwahahahah.