Slater

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    Besides this, I'm an aspiring author, trying to get a book published at the moment. So if you would like to read any of my stories, I'd like a good, honest review to tell me how well I'm doing. Thanks!

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  1. Slater

    Ashamed of my fetish, help?

    Actually I kinda relate. My family found out about my unnatural attraction and it's caused a heavy amount of destruction in my relationship with my family over the past few years. I found out that my great aunt had tried to convince my mother, and then the rest of the family, to cut me off from Christmas and other family get-togethers. I've even been forbidden from going to a funeral, nearly missed a wedding, and haven't celebrated Thanksgiving or 4th of July in years. It's ok though; I've largely just detached from other human beings and I'm finally in a point I can just cut off from the whole family and disappear. Even the ones who still care, it'll be easier when they aren't aware for when I finally pull the plug on myself.
  2. Slater

    Does anyone regret/hate their fetishes?

    No, I'm the opposite. My omo fantasies usually involve an unwilling victim of weakness. When I got started, at age 4, I imagined boys (in TV or movies) along with girls and women often in helpless situations. I thought it was totally hot to see a character captured, trapped, or tied up. Strong, independent characters turned me off and betrays the realism of the situation. And at first it was just holding but eventually turned into full wetting. So in 2nd or 3rd grade, probably after being bullied a lot, I dropped off boys from my fantasies.
  3. Slater

    Ashamed of my fetish, help?

    The idea of it being sexual is how it's similar to a sexual high, while putting us in a dominant or subservient position like BDSM. A person holds their pee in longing desire, and it builds up to a climax of relieving release of bodily fluids, like an orgasm in sex. As far as fetishes go, it's actually one of the closest ones to typical sex itself. - I started off at age 4 being interested in omorashi. Back then, it was for boys, girls, and women. In 2nd or 3rd grade, probably due to bullying on me, I dropped off boys from my fantasies. I knew it was sexual and strange. But it was enjoyable. But as time goes on, I came to dislike it more and more. Two decades later, I felt it as a very annoying chore and I hate myself over it, among other things. I feel like a monster that needs to die, which adds to my desire to help the world not deal with me being useless. I would like to rescue the people who try helping me with my needs by leaving the earth I'm infecting.
  4. Slater

    Does anyone regret/hate their fetishes?

    Eh, I don't plan on being alive more than 10 years, if that. Existing is horrible, can't wait to be dead. Won't go out of my way for it for now, but with some of my fetishes, the world is better off without me anyway.
  5. Slater

    Does anyone regret/hate their fetishes?

    I think you misunderstood, if this reply was aimed at me. I was part of the very first group of members on this site years and years ago, a founding member. But I only come in bursts for a time, disappear for months on end, and come back briefly for a few days or weeks then go again. I've been into omorashi before it was a coined term to my knowledge, 26 years. My first Internet encounter was the first high-speed Internet while dial-up was still the norm. Old Posts From the Toilet. Then Patches.net. I used to love it, enjoy it, for years. I thought it was awesome not being interested in the boring, common side of sexuality. I knew very early on this was weird. After I became a young adult though, I disliked enjoying it but I still did. Now I thoroughly hate everything. I've considered suicide on many occasions and it's been added lighter fluid to the wood pile of my burning desire to die.
  6. Slater

    Does anyone regret/hate their fetishes?

    At least yours is legal. No you two aren't. It's calked "genophobia" and it's extremely rare; rare enough from the nearly hundred psych professionals I've talked to have never heard of it. Sometimes I feel like the only person in the world with a phobia for sex. However, I also have gymnophobia, that is, a fear for nudity of others. Sex and nudity of others to me is like spiders to an arachnophobe. I have gotten panic attacks and been upset for hours when I get unexpectedly messaged or forced to see nudity.
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    Does anyone regret/hate their fetishes?

    I've finally reached a point several weeks ago realizing that it's more of a bothersome chore to go fix myself, and I've felt this way for quite some time. It's just a waste at this point. Like needing to eat, craving gruel, and gruel is all there is to eat, and you'd rather just go on through life without food.
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    Does anyone regret/hate their fetishes?

    Any other fetish? What if a fetish were like dangerous or something? We can fantasize all day long, but I imagine it's pretty hellish in it's own way not being able to participate or anything. Like vore; vore is physically impossible to reenact and would surely kill someone. Especially if that was your own fetish or only things lile it.
  9. (Any fetish really but mainly omorashi) I actually want to come out and say that I do. One reason I hate myself. I wish I was normal sometimes, or better yet just be asexual and dull. Save time and other issues. I don't know how to undo or not be, short of castration (which I'd actually do if I had the money). I've been into omorashi since I was 4.
  10. Slater

    A point about real accidents

    First problem with the conclusion here unfortunately is that this was based on an Internet survey. The survey is mostly likely going to pop up in places of interest for clicking and noticing as ads. Ideally, this means a majority of the women taking it are most likely already in an isolated subgroup interested in the subject. For example, you put up a survey interested in researching a cure for arachnophobia. Most people clicking and coming across it are already going to be browsing the internet related to the subject. Case in point, about 9.7% of people in the US have an overactive bladder, much closer to the real number of frequentcy, and a smaller group of them will have the added problem of UI. The survey here would tell you it's 21%, more than double actuality. Another point, South Koreans (I'm half) also have a different cultural outlook and daily life, like much of Asia, to the rest of the Western world. Lastly, urge incontinence is part of overactive bladder syndrome (a term that is usually incorrectly used in slang here in the forums), a very specific problem that has nothing to do with accidents; but a specific medical problem in which minor leakage happens. A person with this may even feel the urge to pee without having a bladder that is even full enough to normally signal an urge for someone else. Also, it's not always affecting someone for life.
  11. Slater

    What are your weirdest omo fantasies?

    I'd say all but 1 of these involve something strange as far as fetishes go. Entire groups and crowds of people in desperation. . Overall, nothing here seems all that strange at all, not in the slightest. Some specific but there's no like, half-animal omo fetish like a fawn or centaur, or peeing on an animal that's trapped, or peeing while being eaten alive by an alien, or peeing in someone's stomach in a vore scenario causing the person who ate the other to also pee. . For me, hmm. None really odd now; I got into omorashi when I was 4 (desperation only at first), and I stopped thinking of boys in my fantasies at about 2nd to 3rd grade where I remember a fantasy of a girl desperate in the car, and I said to myself, "What if she had an accident?" And everything instantly changed. But around that time, I had an EXTREMELY odd, fantasy for a week where the youngest girl from Barney, a little blonde with pigtails, put her in a lot of wetting scenarios. One in particular her bladder swelled up so big, it turned into a penis with balls the size of beach balls and she was peeing for hours, walking around screamin for help. She peed so much, Barney and the other kids drowned in the daycare they were locked in.
  12. Slater

    Favorite Wet/Mess Situation

    Don't worry, not a lot of people voted yet.
  13. Slater

    My first (and best) wetting accident

    How big was that branch? And were there any other accident stories after that?
  14. A poll I thought would be fun for us to see fir a spread of demographics of sorts. If you'd like, comment with your favorite combination and what you / person would be wearing. If not, you can comment your favorite situation you saw with the combo from the questions!
  15. Slater

    Men Pee Sitting Down

    Holy crap, I'm not the only one! To be honest, I had 1-2 really bad experiences trying to pee standing up and no one showed me how (also brought up by all women mostly) so I just sat. As a preteen, I developed a hatred for the sound of me (and soon other people) peeing in a toilet, so I try to have some loud noise or at least plug my ears; I can't do that standing up. Do any of you full time sitters get extra anxious in the bathroom peeing in a stall like me?