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  1. Knickers, since it's the standard name for them in UK.
  2. Carys

    Unable to lose bladder control?

    You may be able to ease yourself into a position where it becomes more difficult to let go. Spectator9's advise is good. One thing I'd suggest additionally is, in private, start holding. At the point where it's beginning to cause pain, leak a little on purpose and then hold back. Repeat in your brain that it wasn't on purpose - it was you leaking accidentally. Give it a couple of minutes, and if you don't lose control, do it again - leak, repeat in your mind that you had an accidental leak, and repeat. You may be able to eventually, after doing this over several sessions, mentally convince yourself that you can't hold it at the pain threshold, and actually losing control becomes more natural to you at that point. May also help to ensure you never reach that point of desperation in situations where you'd be uncomfortable with wetting yourself, and to always engage in it in a more comfortable situation even if you weren't planning on wetting, to tie that behaviour to yourself. I believe that's something I've personally done through a mixture of comfort in wetting myself and a natural aversion to pain - I will lose control the moment it begins to hurt.
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    Strengthen your self control?

    And old favourite of mine is to freeze the key to a padlock or pair of handcuffs in some ice. This then gives you several options: - You could lock a belt in place around you, preventing the removal of your trousers - You could lock the bathroom door, or if it has no lock, lock yourself inside a room that does - You could handcuff yourself to a bedpost, radiator etc (make sure you have the key in the ice nearby, and can retrieve it in your locked position!) If you don't have a belt or lock, or want something with less effort required, get yourself a pair of trousers with a drawstring waist, such as tracksuit bottoms. The moment you think you might be tempted to use the toilet, pull them as tight as you can, and knot them with as much pressure as you can apply several times in a row. It will apply pressure to your bladder, as well as keeping them stuck on you until you can untie the knot - which will take you a while. All while trying not to wet yourself. Lastly, are you comfortable with wetting generally (ie if you're in the mood, can you wee on purpose)? If not, that'd be a good thing to practice. Get your body used to the idea of an accident, and comfortable with the feeling of it occurring.
  4. This is a video I've been wanting to make for a while. Infact, I've already made it a few times, then deleted them. Bloody self consciousness, lol. Anyway, I finally bit the bullet and did it. After some good old fashioned Sunday drinking with my friend, we headed our separate ways to our bedrooms. I hadn't been to the loo in a while and I was fairly excited, so it was time. Switched into scruffy clothes and sat in a spot I've "desecrated" before, lol. Already wet from general horniness, I slipped my hand down my tights and started touching myself, already fairly desperate for a wee. The result was this: https://caryspee.tumblr.com/post/175450042694/wetting-and-orgasm-had-to-keep-it-quiet-which I had to keep quiet as I could hear my friend getting ready for bed right outside. But even though performance anxiety slightly dampened (lol) the intensity of the orgasm, it was still a struggle not to let out a moan when I felt the dam burst, coating my hand. I pushed several times, my body pulsing as I let go. As I relaxed, the orgasm dissipating, my bladder emptied as I sat there, crotch wet and hot, urine pooling around my bum and upper thighs. Sat in it for a fair while afterwards, scared of the aftermath lmao.
  5. I had the house to myself all day today, so I planned some shenanigans. It's been a while since I wore an adult diaper. Tbh, they don't do a lot for me sexually - but I do enjoy the convenience they bring, and get at least a little something out of them. Anyway, from 9am to about 1:30pm, I was wearing it. I was taking in a lot of water - and some alcohol - to get full use out of it. The first time I wet it, I had to push myself a little - but I'd forgotten how naturally wetting it subsequent times comes. Perhaps every half an hour or so, I was refilling my glass of drink, and like clockwork, weeing myself a fair bit. By 1:30, I wasn't even really thinking about it. I just periodically felt my crotch go from cool and wet, to hot and wet. I decided to abort at that point because the nappy had become puffy, and was a little uncomfortable and heavy around me. I was also scared of it leaking and hurting the sofa or something else. But feeling a little cheeky, I decided that before I'd shower and freshen up, I'd wet one more time - without it. So I ripped its sides and binned it, wiped myself down a little, changed into my "wetting clothes", drank around a litre of water (more than my bladder can usually take), and waited. Didn't have to wait long. About fifteen minutes after, I was outside having a cigarette and checking my phone when I felt a rumble. My normal protocol is to start filming, lose myself a little in the moment, get myself excited, and wet when it feels right - then crop the buildup off of the start. I never got the chance to do that. https://caryspee.tumblr.com/post/175170880223/it-is-so-hard-to-hold-after-spending-the-first While leaning against the wall, trying to get in the zone, I started weeing myself - hard. I couldn't stop it if it tried, it was like my wee was affected by gravity ten times more than usual and was falling out of me, lol. I wasn't even consciously pushing, I was just peeing. The aftermath was fun. I put my phone down on the garden table, sat in my mess, and fairly quickly made myself happy in a naughty way lol. I then peeled my tights and knickers from myself, waddled indoors clutching my cigs, phone and wet items, threw them in the wash, and hobbled to the shower, the occasional drip still trailing me. Thankfully in the shower, although the need for another wee shot through me, it came with more control. I held for a while just to make sure I had that control for sure, then weed while washing. Fresh as a daisy, I spent the rest of the day, dry, watching the World Cup, sad I missed Belgium's 5-2 match, but also glad I did what I did.
  6. Carys

    Any other lesbians into omo out there?

    Joining the bi club, happy to chat to anyone of any gender about the fetish. 😊
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    What are your weirdest omo fantasies?

    I've been getting more comfortable with the BDSM side of myself, and with that, a fairly new little fantasy - which I don't know how it'd go - has been rattling around my brain lol. I'm fairly short. (Following consent - I absolutely wouldn't want this to happen in a real life scenario) I'd like to be with someone really tall and fairly muscular that, through belittling, threats, making it clear to me that I had no escape, and demonstrating to me that I had zero chance of overpowering them, either forced me to wet myself, or even better, scared me into it. I'd like to be crying my eyes out, resisting them, trying my best to escape their clutches and run to safety, maybe even trying to fight back, but eventually have to submit to them and be a wet, useless weakling.
  8. I concur on this one, nightclubs were always awful for queuing when I used to go to them. The men's ones were fine, but the ladies was often queued up halfway through the club. It tended to be exacerbated by the fact that, a lot of the time, only one cubicle was usable - some women do heinous things to a loo when drunk, and when you've been waiting for relief as long as you often had been, you were naturally going to wait for the least foul one to be freed rather than trying to clean up someone else's damage while yourself being desperate. The festival I went to was the only other real example of bad queuing I've experienced. It was alright on the first half of the first day - probably over 100 portaloos around. But that very quickly deteriorated, with almost every single one's loo paper depleting, then "flooding" in many. And at one point, the entire cluster of loos that were nearest me and my friends' tent were barricaded off due to a major problem in the clearing system. So not only was it a 15 minute walk to the nearest usable ones, the 5 or so that were still in okay standing there had a line of people behind them. I spent £20 on the "VIP" loos halfway during it, which were cleaner, maintained, and not queued, although that was sadly only something available while you were in the festival area, which was closed off when nobody was playing. I made the most of that £20 lmfao.
  9. https://caryspee.tumblr.com/post/174496875872/wanted-to-wet-today-but-not-this-early-but-i-got I was in the mood for a wetting today, although not this early, lol. My friend has gone back to visit his parents for the weekend, so I have the house to myself. I'd planned on popping to the newsagents, coming back, relaxing for a while, then indulging later. I went there, got back, and was already needing a wee. While outside, checking my phone and having a cigarette... I guess the mood struck fairly quickly lmao. I wasn't desperate, I did have to push, but I wet myself. Sadly, a lot went in my shoe - I'd half considered removing them before I weed, but ended up leaving them on. There was still a wee puddle beneath my feet, though, and my thighs got soaked. So all in all, a nice wetting. 😊 Video does contain smoking and slight passing of gas as I pushed to wee, so if they're turn offs, skip this video lmfao.
  10. Carys

    parents and kids

    My parents were always vigilant when I was young, as I was fairly poor at holding. They made sure I could always tell them when I started to need a wee, and when it got frantic. As such, we generally made sure that anywhere we went, we'd scoped out toilet locations first, or in the case of things like the local nature trail where loos were scarce, that as long as I had no chance of being seen and wasn't going to be inconveniencing anybody (not going on a footpath, going on grass or dirt etc), that I could squat. I did still have several accidents, but only generally when neither option was available at the time, or when loos were out of order or in use. I was generally taught that it's better to be slightly embarrassed than slightly arrested lmao. In any case, we would generally beeline to the nearest possible toilet, where I could wipe myself and change into spare knickers. I think that's how I would teach my child(ren) if I did a complete U-turn on my current opinion on parenting lmao. It was a good way to be - I learnt how to be sensible and take such things into account, and how to be considerate to other people when a toilet was unavailable, and I would hope that they followed suit.
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    Most Restrictive Clothing Combinations

    I have a few dresses where you tie a bow around the waist after putting them on - it's fairly easy, if I'm inclined, to tie it far too tightly, which puts a lot of pressure on me. I imagine that effect could be replicated by anyone, male or female, with a nightie/gown/dress robe that has a similar robe around it. Of course, on a similar wavelength, any lower clothing with a belt or drawstring can be done up a notch too tight. I don't wear pyjamas much these days, but I once forced myself to hold until I had an accident by tying the drawstring on the bottoms too tight and knotting them to the point where it took several minutes to untie them. And lastly, corsets. I've never found one that would fit my large frame (sadly), but they're literally designed to be restrictive to affect your figure lol. They can have an effect on your bladder, but they wouldn't, however, affect your ability to remove enough clothing to have a wee unless you wore them over something like a onesie.
  12. Carys

    Does anybody like to watch guys wet themselves?

    There are absolutely plenty of people out there - myself included - that enjoy watching male wettings. Please do share content you make if you do 😊
  13. Carys

    Omo ideas on a road trip

    Lmao, I didn't mean if they were getting pulled over 😛 But if you're driving a thousand miles, presumably at least a lot of which will be on a motorway, there's a pretty strong chance that at least one emergency vehicle will pass at some point.
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    Omo ideas on a road trip

    Definitely protect your car seat. That way, you can enjoy yourself with minimal car damage, lol. You could perhaps have to drink 500ml of liquid immediately after having a wee - or double that if you do it in an actual toilet. And you could forbid yourself from using petrol station loos, or loos at any place where you also buy food, so you can't bundle a toilet visit into a stop you'd be taking anyway. Some other potential rules, pick and choose as you see fit 😊 You may not squirm if you can see any other car. Don't want them knowing your predicament. If you have to stop at a red light for more than 10 seconds, you can no longer hold your bladder with actual effort. You must wet yourself first (however you see fit) if you need the toilet for the other thing. You must try to wee for 5 seconds for each yellow car you see. You must try to wee for 5 seconds each time you see a number plate with a "P" in it. You cannot use any loo in the hotel/motel after you wake up. You must wet, no matter what the current situation, if you hear a car alarm or emergency service siren. If you wish to use a toilet, you must earn it - stop in a layby, car park etc first, and sit completely still for 5 minutes. No wriggling, and keep your hands on the steering wheel. If you have a coin to hand, flip it any time you're at a toilet for a wee. If it lands on tails, that loo is out of order and you cannot use it.
  15. I've been getting braver recently. It used to be that if I wet in public, it was 100% accidental. However, walks home, one train home, and several park visits have resulted in me indulging in the last year or two. I somewhat attribute it to all the great stories you've all posted about yours - really got me into the idea more and more. I've never actually weed on purpose in front of people in public, though I've passed a number of them with soggy legs - no real problem because I wear a dress out. I'm still really conscious of it at the time, though, lol. I don't really count wettings in my own garden myself, but if you do, then I've done that a lot lmao.