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kochel428

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  1. I’m also speaking from experience. Not sure what “just spring it on her means” but like, if she’s open to kink then you can just be open and clear about what you like. What she does or doesn’t want to do is up to her, but slowly revealing more and more to someone you’ve already been living with for two years is not a great look. Just out with it at an appropriate time. Be confident, but also if you feel shame about it you can be open about that too. She’s not going to punish you for being vulnerable with her, and if she does, fuck her. And by that I mean don’t fuck her anymore.
  2. Sounds like it would be fine to tell her. I’d suggest doing it when you’ve both had a drink or two or are otherwise feeling uninhibited, but not when you’re just about to have sex, or are right in the middle of it. After sex can be a good time when you’re in a relaxed, vulnerable vibe. Be respectful of her reaction to it and open to the extent to which she wants to try it, but don’t roll it out like you’re telling her you have cancer—this is a new menu item that you would like to add and it could be really fun if she can get into it!
  3. I've worked from home for years, and I've wet and messed myself during conference calls and video calls many times. Since my classes have moved online because of the pandemic, I've frequently used my pants as a toilet during lectures and especially my three-hour lab.
  4. Bingo. There are huge labor/working conditions issues with nursing all over the US. They frequently don’t have enough staff to cover all their patients, let alone have time for bathroom breaks. And then there are situations like surgical nurses where, if you’re scrubbed in, sometimes surgeries last for many hours and if you need to take a potty break then there needs to be another nurse available to come take your place, and they have to scrub in and you scrub out and then after you pee you have to scrub in again, and you have to worry about hand off errors, making sure you’ve properly tracked every item that’s been used so nothing gets left inside the patient. It’s almost not worth it.
  5. My girlfriend is a nurse and has a ginormous bladder. She can and does sometimes hold it for her entire 12 hour shift.
  6. Something I’ve done: gotten very desperate and had accidents all day, and then made a resolution that night that if I must pee at all during the night, it has to be wetting the bed. At first it’s going fine. I wake up in the night a few times and empty my bladder all over myself. But eventually I get cold feet. On the third or fourth full bladder I reach for a bottle and pee into that instead. But then I realize I’ve been naughty and broken my promise to myself, so I upend the bottle and pour it into my pajamas. Shame on me.
  7. Hmm, if it were any other public place, it would be 1, but even in fantasy land I don't find holding at work or school to be fun, just scary and unpleasant. It's 2 then! You are completely under someone else's control. Would you rather have them control you by: 1. Force. You're tied up, held down, etc, and prevented from using the toilet 2. Mind control/manipulation. They can simply command you to hold or command your bladder to empty, and you are unable to resist
  8. pretty sure men have them too, just not usually as young as women
  9. Yeah an incest content warning was probably in order for this thread if this was the way you were hoping to take it, @bswanson
  10. Constantly. Oh wait we’re talking about wetting? Nah. Jk jk. I do sometimes get the urge to hold or wet or otherwise make a mess of myself and then I’ll do it and I get off and clean up and then I’m like, “oh that actually took all day and I did not have all day available for an orgasm or two.” Also once held to the point of having accidents two days in a row, and that night I *completely* soaked my bed with no protection. Like, I woke up in the middle of peeing, having obviously emptied my bladder once already, so I just went ahead and finished, and then woke up leaking again and just let it happen, and then again... It took a long time and several boxes of baking soda to get the smell mostly out, so as great as that felt, I did regret it.
  11. I’m perfectly straight but not so straight that the image of men in a video is threatening to my boner.
  12. I told my girlfriend about my wetting and messing fetish, and she took it really well! Our play has been mostly a question of her indulging me, but she told me recently that the idea of being tied up for so long that she’d have to wet herself is kind of a turn on—more as a sub thing than an omo thing, I think. But still!
  13. 2, definitely. It plays into my power-exchange fantasies! My girlfriend would probably dig this even though she's not really into wetting, but she is into being controlled and dominated. Imagine someone handing over complete control of their bladder to you... ok, choose between: 1. While you can pee whenever you like, you are able to hold indefinitely, forever. You don't suffer ill health effects (burst bladder, infection, etc), and you don't suffer pain, exactly, but you do suffer ever increasing desperation, such that after say, 3 weeks of holding you might be unable to do anything but scream and writhe constantly on the floor while resisting the urge to pee. 2. While you can stop whenever you want, you are able to pee full force continuously, forever. When you're not peeing, your bladder fills normally, but once you start peeing it refreshes itself magically. Some might say this is a simple question of whether you prefer wetting or desperation, but it's more complicated than that: both wetting and desperation can be done in either one of these options.
  14. not so great to ambush a board with a dick pic
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