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  1. I often have this problem too, and haven't found a solution :/ You could try to just not care and just poop pants, that's what I usually do.
  2. Casual wetting

    I also do this time to time :) Mostly just little spurts of pee, though. In public I sometimes let small leaks but not enough for it to be visible. In my home I sometimes let our larger spurts, but not so much that it would wet my chair/carpet/floor.
  3. Seeing parents wet/mess themselves?

    Okay, here's one time my mom had an accident in her pants. I think I was about 12 years old when this happened, so obviously I can't remember much details. We were going to visit my grand parents with my family. It was usually about three hour car drive, but this time traffic was very slow. By dad was driving, mother was sitting in the front passenger seat and I was sitting in the back seat with my siblings. I think we had drove for about two hours when my mom first time mentioned needing a rest stop. My dad said he would stop as soon as he could, however we were on highway and traffic was not moving at all. My mom didn't sound very desperate or worried at this point, though. Half an hour or so passed when my mom said something along the lines "Oh, I really have to pee". I noticed she fidgeted a little and had crossed her legs. I recall that at this point the traffic was moving slowly so she just couldn't jump out of car and squat. During the next fifteen minutes she mentioned her needing to pee a couple of times. Dad just told her that he'd stop as soon as he could and told her to hold it. Me and my siblings didn't say anything since the situation was a bit awkward. Then, I heard her sigh and saw her shove her hand into her crotch. "I just peed a little..." she said, a bit embarrassed. "We can stop in ten minutes" dad replied. After five minutes I heard her sigh again and heard her mutter the f-word. She had her hand in her crotch and muscles very tense, she was clearly trying to stop the pee flow. After a few seconds she seemed to relax a bit. She didn't say anything, knowing that we all knew what had happened. At this point we were on a ramp exiting the highway. At this point my mom was already unbuckling her belt and opening the button on her jeans. My father stopped the car at the side of the road as soon as he could. When the car stopped, my mom jumped out as fast as she could. I saw there was a wet spot on her butt. She pulled down her jeans and panties and squatted down next to the car. I watched from the window as she peed. It was obvious she really needed to pee. She finished peeing and stood up, but instead of pulling her jeans back on she slipped off her shoes and removed her wet jeans and panties. My father stepped out of car to help help, browsing the trunk and looking for dry clothes for her. He handed my mom a dry pair of panties and jeans from the trunk and also some wet wipes. She wiped herself with the wipes and then put on the clean clothes. Meanwhile my father wiped the seat my mom had peed on. Then my mom put her wet clothes into a plastic bag and throw it into the trunk. Then she came back into the car and took her seat and we continued driving. I think we had some discussion about her accident while driving, but I really can't remember details. Her attitude seemed to be rather relaxed, that accidents happen. But it was still clear she was quite embarrassed.
  4. I was recently browsing an another wetting-related site, and stumbled upon a story where a person told about an incident where her mom had peed herself, and that story kind of sparked my interest... So, have any of you ever seen your parent pee or poop their pants? If you have, do you think that has affected your fetish? I've seen that happen to my parents a few times, I'll try to write about those incidents and post here a bit later when I have more time... Also as a related question, have your parents ever encouraged you to go in your pants? (eg. at crowded outdoor event with few toilets...)
  5. That sounds very interesting idea :) I don't think I've ever come across professionally produced male wetting content which I think is a shame... Good luck finding suitable models :)
  6. What to do if you have to poo?

    Oh, I have been in that situation many many times... :/ I can't either just pee or poop without another coming out. Most of the time I just give up and go to the bathroom which sucks. Then, sometimes I just do both in my pants... Yes, it tends to be gross and cleaning up is awful but sometimes it is just worth it to be able to pee pants.
  7. Thank you for your replies all :) I guess for most of us our childhood experiences have an effect on our fetish. Still I'd be interested in hearing about incidents where your parent had wet or messed their pants. As I mentioned, I have seen that happen a few times to my parents.
  8. Myself I like to wet same kind of undies I like to wear everyday. I don't like wearing nor wetting thongs. Boyshorts, granny panties and bikini briefs for both wetting and everyday use :)
  9. Thanks for replies all :) Yeah, the question was a bit ambiguous... I originally meant that what kind of clothes you like to wet yourself, but of course it's okay to discuss what kind of undies you like to see other people wet too :)
  10. What kind of underwear do you prefer when wetting? Or do you prefer to go commando? I personally prefer boyshorts or granny panties. Thongs and G-strings are my least favorite undies, both in general and for wetting. Also I don't like wetting without undies.
  11. desperation Women at work

    It must suck that you can't have breaks when you need to :( Have you ever seen any of your colleagues ending up wetting or messing their pants?
  12. Female First Experience

    I also often have problems with stopping mid stream... Do you mind me asking, if you can't stop do you just keep peeing on the ground or finish in your pants?
  13. When are you "Wetting"?

    I think one is wetting when there is a visible wet spot on their pants. Or in case of skirts or dresses, moderate sized wet spot on their panties. I don't think one needs to lose all to be wetting.
  14. Best clothes to wet?

    It's hard for me to name a favorite clothing for wetting. However when I wet I always want to wear some underwear, I just don't like idea of wetting commando :D Sometimes I like to wear dresses, but mostly I prefer pants or jeans. I like to wear light colors so that the wetness shows, however if I'm going to wet in public I wear dark pants or skirt or dress. At the moment I actually tend to prefer loose pants to tight pants, but this things varies.
  15. How do you hold with your hands?

    I usually hold with both of my hands. If I'm in public I hold my hands over my pants (I don't do public desperations deliberately though). In private I tend to have my hands between my pants and underwear. I tend to use force moderately, I think. Usually with hands helps with urge, but I think it's mostly a psychological thing. Of course in some situations pushing with hands can physically stop the pee flow, but that isn't usually the case for me. I really don't like to hold so long that I start to leak. I also cross legs usually, though sometimes I just hold them tightly together. Usually in early stages of desperation I cross legs, then when urge grows I start to hold with hands and hold legs side by side and press them together.