Rubic13

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About Rubic13

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  • Birthday 07/08/1990

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  • I'm into..
    Ageplay
    Bathroom Control
    Bedwetting
    Diapers
    Tickling
    Watersports
    Biting
    Humiliation
    Messing
    Parent and child play
    Public humiliation
    Spanking
    Tomboys

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  1. I was lucky when it came to the origin of this kink, it was never a big mystery. Though I was and still am an extrovert I was really introverted when it came to women. For years I could look at any women and automatically decide she was "out of my league". So when I stumbled across my first wetting site there was a mental solution. Though I still believed every woman was "out of my league" the thought of them in wet pants somehow made them approachable, at least mentally. The idea was simple, you can take the most authoritative in charge woman in the world, the type you'd be too intimated to ever talk to and simply imagine her in wet pants. Suddenly she just isn't intimidating anymore, she becomes approachable. That was how I came into this kink, it was a way to picture intimidating women as approachable and it grew from there.
  2. Rubic13

    How?

    I think @Jimbeam261087 has it right. The best way to find someone into it is by finding someone with a fetish. I'm not saying it should be your first question but asking about fetishes once you get to know someone can be an interesting conversation. I recommend asking someone out that you're interested in and after a few dates once you're both comfortable bring up the topic of fetishes. Are you likely to meet someone with this fetish? No that's like a million to one shot, but most people have at least one fetish. If they have a fetish they're usually more open to trying a new one, even if it's diapers. So it's probably easier to find someone willing to indulge you from time to time than it is to find someone with this fetish. I've dated a few different women over the years that weren't into omorashi or diapers but were happy to indulge me anyway.
  3. Thank you everyone for the unexpected support. I am in a much better place with this breakup than I was with the last (which is fairly obvious as I let you all know it ended right away instead of telling everyone long after the fact). Life takes interesting turns and it has a way of taking you where it wants you to go as apposed to where you might want to go. This relationship showed me that the only way to have a meaningful relationship is to fully open yourselves to it from an emotional standpoint. Up until now my heart was very guarded but now I know to have anything real you need to be willing to open your heart up. Don't wear it on your sleeve, but you can't keep it locked away. Another important lesson was that this fetish is important to me. Will I only be happy with a willing and excited partner? No, this site is more than enough as an outlet. Would I like more? Sure but it isn't a primary factor when it comes to who I love. Can I keep this a secret from my partner? The answer is no. This experience showed me that I have to tell my partner about this side of my sexuality (can't tell if I worded that right). Is it something I mention on a first date? No, but once we're in a committed relationship where I see real potential (as in marriage and building a life together) I do need to tell my partner. So a lot of good came from this experience. Not just a few good memories but growth as a person. As with most lessons in life these are things I've been told over and over again by those that had to learn the hard way. As is the case with these kinds of lessons you have to learn them yourself, usually the hard way.
  4. Figured I should probably update this. I won't be able to share any more stories on here about this relationship simply because it no longer exists. Turns out she is an academy award worthy actor(pretty sure that is the proper term now). She was only with me for the money I spent on her. She only indulged my fetishes simply because it made me more malleable to her whims. After a month of my friends and relatives telling me this I finally realized they were right. Luckily someone else attracted her attention so I'm off the hook with a few cool memories. Can't help but feel lucky, she got rid of me long before I was too emotionally or financially invested.
  5. Rubic13

    How to tell my girlfriend about my fetish

    The best way to bring this up is in a regular conversation. Just open up a discussion of bedroom preferences and fetishes, ask if there is anything she likes or anything she would like to try. Even if you don't tell her about your fetish this conversation alone is worth having and might give you some clues as to how she will react to your fetish. Telling a partner about any fetish is difficult. This is one of those occasions where you are really putting all your cards on the table. Just go slow and be prepared to answer questions and explain exactly what it is you like about it. Just being able to articulate what you like about your fetish goes a long way, even if its something they're not into and unwilling to try it makes it easier for them to understand. Seeing as you've already done this once in regards to your foot fetish you already know all of this. I can understand wanting to tell her as soon as possible. Once you figure out this is something you like and have experienced it before the idea that you'll never experience it again can be frightening. You also don't want to hold back and then spend your time wondering if you missed out on something. All I can recommend is that you really think about this, which it sounds like you have. You need to ask yourself how important this really is to you. Is this something you can be happy without? I think what you really have to consider in this is her. You told her about your foot fetish early on in the relationship and she has had time to become comfortable with it and even understand it. If you think she has a solid handle on your foot fetish, that she understands and is comfortable with it, I would suggest waiting a little while before telling her about this fetish. That way it doesn't feel so overwhelming for her. If you think she's fine with your foot fetish just give her a few months more before springing this other fetish on her, that way she can "find her footing" so to speak. All I can say now is good luck.
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    Diapered Anime Photos

    I think I may have a few as well. I'll try to avoid any reposts.
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    Telling Girlfriend

    I wouldn't recommend a text. Doing it face to face is the way to go. I can understand not wanting to see a disgusted reaction but this is definitely something you talk to your partner about face to face. The best way to bring this up is just like the others have said. Just open up a discussion of bedroom preferences and fetishes, ask if there is anything she likes or anything she would like to try. Even if you don't tell her about your fetish this conversation alone is worth having and might give you some clues as to how she will react to your fetish. Telling a partner about any fetish is difficult. This is one of those occasions where you are really putting all your cards on the table. Just go slow and be prepared to answer questions and explain exactly what it is you like about it. Just being able to articulate what you like about your fetish goes a long way, even if its something they're not into and unwilling to try it makes it easier for them to understand. All I can say now is good luck.
  8. Found this awhile ago it's just a wetting though no diaper. Surprised its not already on here. Looks to be just an ordinary cosplayer that also happens to like omorashi. Harley Quinn Wetting.mp4
  9. Since this episode aired I keep running across these. Each one is progressively better, with this one being the undisputed champ. You did a great job editing this.
  10. Weekend went really well. We met up and had a typical day, well typical for us. We came home had dinner and ended up in the bedroom. I indicated my bag and when she opened it up her face practically beamed. She smiled as she pulled her training panties from my bag. She held them up and inspected them for a moment before almost leaping into them. We weren’t sure if they would fit or not but they did. She walked around in them a little and admired herself in the mirror for a bit. She ended up putting a movie on and we cuddled on the bed and watched. In time we ended up doing “things”. I made sure the focus was on her, I want her to associate these panties with pleasure. That sounds weird, but I know trying something like this is asking a lot of a partner even a partner that seems to like it so I wanted to make sure it was an enjoyable and positive experience for her. That was all we ended up doing this weekend. Nothing too crazy we just tested the waters a little. I loved every minute of it and I’m pretty sure she did to (otherwise her acting skills are out of this world). After that night which I think was quite the success she spent the rest of the weekend teasing me. She would randomly tell me how she loves her new panties or while out and about she’d say something about how she should have wore her new panties. Apparently my reaction when she does that is priceless or so she seems to think. That was my weekend. All in all I think it’s a great start. I think she liked it almost if not more than I did and I think its something we will be exploring in the future. She tried this for me, but I think it’s quickly becoming her thing too.
  11. So let me start by saying I believe I am posting this in the proper place. Since this relates to training panties I can only assume this belongs in the diaper section as apposed to general omorashi. Today is certainly going to be something special. I met an amazing woman recently, if anyone is interested in the full story check out my old posts (I should put in the links but I’m not going to bother). The short of it is once I realized how incredible she is I decided not to tell her about my particular kinks. As I am here you know that didn’t last. I told her about me being into omorashi and figured I’d just leave it at that. Again I’m here so you know that didn’t work. She is a very sexually adventurous woman and is interested in doing a wetting we just haven’t had a chance yet. About a week ago she asked me if there were any particular outfits I thought were sexy. Do I prefer women in dresses or jeans that kind of thing. In truth I don’t really have a preference. When she asked if there were any “bedroom” outfits I like I knew I was in trouble. She was thinking something along the lines of sexy nurse or sexy police officer. I tried in vain to avoid the question. Lying is not my strong suit and I don’t want to lie to her anyway. In the end I told her that I think it’s sexy when women wear training panties. That of course needed a little explanation which is kinda funny to people like us but is perfectly understandable (She was thinking along the lines of shapers like Spanx or control panties). Once I explained exactly what I was talking about she took it upon herself to do a google search. We talked a little bit more about why I liked them, she said she wanted to look into it, and that’s where we left things. The next day she absolutely floored me by saying that she wanted to try wearing training panties. We talked about it for quite a while, I wanted to make sure she was comfortable and wasn’t just going along with it for me. I tend to spend a lot of time making sure my partner is comfortable. Once I was positive this was something she was okay with and wanted to try I started looking around for something in her size. I was surprised to find that baby pants carried her size. Instead of just picking something out I asked if she wanted to pick her panties. She very excitedly told me she was hoping I was going to ask that. I sent her a link to the site and after a few minutes she had made her choice. She ended up choosing a very cute pattern (the cupcake pattern she even called it by the site’s name cuppy cakes). I once again made sure this was something she wanted to try. She told me in no uncertain terms that if she didn’t feel comfortable or didn’t want to try it she wouldn’t. Now that we had both reassured each other I went to the site and placed an order. While we waited the few days for the package to arrive we talked about “her” training panties off and on. Even after I placed the order I still had a few doubts about if she actually wanted to try this or not. Those talks however quickly eased my mind. She is quite excited, I’m pretty sure it’s genuine too (otherwise she deserves an Oscar). Now we come to today. Her training panties arrived yesterday, we’ll be seeing each other today, and we’ll spend the weekend together. To be honest I’m surprised I slept so good last night. I can’t truly say which one of us is more excited, which is a really good thing. This probably won't be updated until Monday; whether things go well or not I intend to let everyone know how things go. As I’ve mentioned in my other posts in relation to this amazing woman she knows I’m a member of this community though she doesn’t know my screenname (though if she wanted to it wouldn’t be hard to find out) and is fine with me posting about “our particular experience”, her words
  12. Rubic13

    Met an amazing woman...

    A small update to this ongoing run of luck. We spent the weekend together and had an amazing time even when we were just doing nothing. Over the weekend we made love, which without going into details was fantastic. What floored me though was some of the things she said while we were making love. She's no stranger to "regular" dirty talk, but this time she was almost roleplaying an omorashi scenario; talking about how she wet her pants and she was so sorry and embarrassed. I listened carefully and once I was positive that she was okay with this I joined in as well, almost taking a caregivers role talking about how she was too old for that and that we'd have to get her cleaned up. Afterwards we talked about the experience mostly because I wanted to be certain that she was okay and that neither one of us had gone too far (Making sure I hadn't gone too far or said anything that made her uncomfortable and that she hadn't said anything she regretted or had made her uncomfortable either). She assured me that she was fine and that next time we would go a little further because she had enjoyed it. As I've already said, she knows I'm a member here and is fine with me posting about "our particular experience" again her words. She even joked about it saying, "that I probably couldn't wait to write about it". All I could do is smile and nod my head.
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    Few wetting videos from Vimeo.com

    Thanks joshnolan this is such a great find. Thanks also to rachelkirwan for grabbing these.
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    The Weird Scholarship

    So excited to see this story wasn't abandoned. This is definitely one of my favorite stories from this site. Keep up the great work, I know I'm not the only one who can't wait to see what happens next.
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    Met an amazing woman...

    That is true, but considering everything else I know I could be happy without bringing omorashi into the mix. If she hadn't opened up first I doubt I would have ever told her because at a certain point you need to just realize how great someone/something is. This is an amazing woman I feel a real connection with and can easily see spending the rest of my life with. I don't want to say fetishes aren't important, they are but at the same time they're really not. If you find someone you love and can easily envision a future with a fetish becomes less important. Taking everything else into consideration I'm perfectly happy so omorashi became less important. How I Met Your Mother showed me that when it comes to relationships you're never going to find everything you're looking for. If you come close though you can be truly happy. I'm not saying you have to settle you just have to be realistic. In this case she is an amazing woman which is more than enough and if she wants to indulge my fetish too that is just the icing on the cake.