LoadedMink

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About LoadedMink

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    Fully Wetting
  • Birthday 10/05/1993

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    Male
  • Sexual Orientation
    Straight
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    Bay Area, California, USA

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  • I'm into..
    Bedwetting
    Diapers
    Cuddling
    Foot play
    Spanking

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  1. LoadedMink

    Post a meme a day thread

    Trust nobody not even yourself
  2. LoadedMink

    Guys, most sensual position?

    My two favorite positions are sitting and crouching. The warmth feels best in the crotch and butt area to me.
  3. In terms of wetting/omorashi as a sexual fetish, I kind of wish that society was less disgusted by it and more indifferent. People don't have to love it or be into it at all (I kind of like it being seen as at least a little naughty) but I wish more people reacted with indifference as opposed to disgust. Same thing goes for diapers. For wetting your clothes in public generally, I kind of side with brittanybunny. I think accidents could be more accepted, but I wouldn't want everyone nonchalantly wetting themselves with reckless abandon. I like Irritated's second idea, that it could be more of an intimate thing between close friends instead of an everyday thing.
  4. I was actually speaking extremely generally. The simple idea that transactions have consent from all parties is inherently a more moral idea than forcing a transaction at gunpoint. However, like jkanau said before, your examples are precisely why capitalism is far from perfect in practice if it is left completely unregulated, as far as I know. I'm not an anarcho-capitalist who wants every aspect of life controlled by the market. I would always encourage people in extreme, dire situations to turn to their local community for volunteer help if they can't help themselves, but in absolute extreme cases where even volunteering wouldn't help then somebody more powerful needs to step in.
  5. I will admit that I'm not very well-read on any of these subjects and I am biased because I happen to like Sargon of Akkad and Jordan Peterson. However, I am fascinated by this subject. I won't argue that there aren't corrupt people out there, but I disagree that surplus value is inherently theft and that income inequality is the root of many problems. As far as I know, nepotism and corruption are the exception to the rule. The vast majority of higher-ups in businesses don't magically become higher-ups overnight and set out to cheat everyone underneath them while they sit around smoking cigars. Bosses and CEOs get to where they are by taking huge risks and working hard to start and maintain a business in the first place. They deserve more because of the huge risks they take. Lower level workers aren't the ones taking the same big risks, so they don't deserve as much. I can see where lower level workers in literal life-risking situations like construction work should deserve a higher wage than a cashier for example, but I don't think it should be the same as a CEO. Income inequality is the natural result of people choosing to do different types of work. However, I do think that people all over the political spectrum (at least in America) agree that corporatism (also called "crony capitalism"), is evil. Corporatism is when corporations lobby the government and the government in turn spends taxpayer money on that corporation's interests or their own, usually at the expense of the taxpayers. The two become cronies hand in hand. This is not the result of capitalism. Instead, this is a result of too much power in the government. If the government was smaller and didn't have the power to dole out favors to cronies, corporations wouldn't have any incentive to lobby them and expect favors to begin with. I think we have different views of what fairness is. I think that capitalism by nature is fair and moral because it's a free exchange of goods or services between consenting parties. It leaves everything up to personal choice. I think socialism is inherently unfair and immoral because it will eventually lead to people being forced to exchange goods or services against their own will. It is held up as a source of society's ills because the sheer amount of human suffering socialist-inspired governments have caused throughout the past 100 years completely outweighs their benefits. The answer to poverty and income inequality should not be to forcibly take wealth away from people and redistribute it. This is theft. I do not claim to have all the answers, but the best I can come up with is to elevate people out of poverty through a combination of a culture that encourages hard work, emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility, discourages victim mentality, and encourages safe sex, as well as a reduction in the size of government to crack down on corporatism and government over-spending to stimulate the economy for middle and working class people. I do agree that there is a lot of misinformation out there about what both socialism and capitalism are, and I still have a lot to learn of course.
  6. LoadedMink

    Wetting in combination with other fetish

    I've had a fixation on upskirts and panties for as long as I can remember. My favorite kind of panties are simple, cute cotton ones like these for example. I've also always had a specific attraction to women's legs and feet. So naturally, I'll find a barefoot woman wetting cute cotton panties under a short, flowy skirt way hotter than a woman wetting her jeans with shoes on.
  7. I think people are thinking more along the lines of: it's one thing to wet yourself out in public without directly involving bystanders. It's totally different to lure an unsuspecting person to you under false pretenses (like ordering a pizza) and wetting yourself in front of them for sexual gratification. Directly involving somebody in your sexual fetish without their consent is the problem here.
  8. LoadedMink

    Different ways to approach Omorashi

    This is a fascinating topic. I can name some specific aspects that I like. - Pee itself, especially my lover's or mine. I like the way it feels, looks, and smells (most of the time). - Wetting, especially underwear, diaper, and bed wetting. I love the warm feeling, the way fabric clings to your skin, and sitting in a warm puddle or a warm, soggy diaper. I also like the naughty feeling of peeing anywhere other than a toilet. - Seeing a grown woman purposefully wetting herself and/or wearing diapers/abdl accessories, while at the same time enjoying it. I love the idea that a pretty, young woman would enjoy or get aroused by something that society considers gross and taboo. I'm not much into abdl roleplay, but I like the general idea of seeing a grown woman doing something kind of childlike in nature, but having this unique adult take on it.
  9. LoadedMink

    Sad songs to listen to this valentine’s

    Walk Away Renee by The Left Banke Caroline No by The Beach Boys The Long and Winding Road by The Beatles Some of my favorite sadder songs.
  10. LoadedMink

    Is Gender A Spectrum?

    I was trying to be as charitable as possible, because I know not all trans people are a hive mind and that there are trans people like Blaire White who think that non-conforming people who don't experience any dysphoria are only helping further stigmatize trans people to the general public. But you cannot please everyone. I'll restate it bluntly. Gender dysphoria is a real, diagnosable mental condition and I'm ok with people treating their dysphoria by choosing to transition. Intersex people are born with several variations of sex characteristics, so I'm ok with giving them a little leeway if they express themselves unconventionally because it might be confusing for themselves and other people. Brain structure, evolution, hormones, and DNA all contribute to binary differences between males and females. The only aspects of gender that are socially constructed are things like masculine and feminine fashion choices, which vary throughout cultures and are always subject to change. If I can find some scientific proof that gender can be non-binary for some and not others then I'm willing to keep an open mind and hear it out. I'm not some closed-minded monster. Accusing me of using a group of people to attack another group of people is not going to change anyone's mind. I also said twice that I'm not here to trample on anyone's right to express themselves. Anyone is free to personally identify as whatever they want. Just don't expect the entire world to immediately see eye to eye with how you express yourself.
  11. LoadedMink

    Is Gender A Spectrum?

    Don't attack your opponents' character. It makes people take you less seriously. Preface: Anyone can express themselves how they see fit as long as they're not harming anyone else. I believe in freedom of speech and freedom of thought. This post is merely meant to be an attempt to make a case for objectivity in an increasingly postmodern world where objectivity is thrown into the trash. I think too many people are conflating expression and personality with gender, and confusing gender with biological sex. I would be more open and accepting to this muddying of objectivity if a chilling effect wasn't on the rise. What started out as a well-meaning but overcompensating attempt to be accepting to marginalized people has mutated into authoritarian bullying of anyone who is skeptical of this behavior in public places like entertainment circles and college campuses. For example, look at the way teaching assistant Lindsay Shepherd at Wilfrid Laurier University was treated http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2017/12/18/lindsay-shepherd-controversy-students-never-complained-about-ta-laurier-finds_a_23311318/ Biological sex is the classification of males or females based on the types of chromosomes and genitals they have, and the types of gametes they produce. Intersex people are born with variations of chromosomes and genitals, but no matter what their condition is, they either produce male or female gametes, or are infertile. However because of the confusing nature of their anatomy to the average person and the trouble that might cause them in life, I can understand giving them a little leeway in expressing themselves unconventionally. Gender has had many definition changes in the past several decades, but the way I see it and Merriam-Webster defines it is the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex. Male and female, men and women, boys and girls, etc. If gender is defined as purely a useless cultural or social construct then it's plausible that an infinite number of genders could exist and we shouldn't make a big deal out of it. However, this definition is flawed because evolution, brain structure, hormones, and DNA all contribute to binary differences in the behavior of humans. For example, a study from UC Irvine mentioned here https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/01/050121100142.htm shows that men have more gray matter in their brain, which represents information processing centers, and women have more white matter, which represents the connections between these processing centers. The neuropsychologist Rex Jung says this may help to explain why men tend to excel in subjects like math, which requires local processing, while women tend to excel in communication, which requires integrating information from gray-matter regions of the brain like language facility. Similarly, this study https://www.math.kth.se/matstat/gru/5b1501/F/sex.pdf showed that newborn girls were more excited by faces, suggesting superior social skills. Newborn boys were more excited by mechanical items, suggesting superior spatial and logical thinking. This study https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10341369/ found that MtF trans people who took female hormones became less aggressive, gained verbal fluency skills, and became worse at visual spatial skills. FtM trans people who took male hormones showed the opposite. Of course, plenty of women do have masculine personality traits and plenty of men have feminine ones, but a personality difference doesn't necessarily require a new gender identity. If a somewhat scientific approach to gender isn't a good enough case, I'll make an emotional one. I think the idea that gender is a spectrum spits in the face of transgender people who experience gender dysphoria, and may go through life changing lengths like hormone replacement therapy and/or surgeries to treat their dysphoria. If gender is non-binary, why should transgender people care so much about transitioning from FtM or MtF? If gender is fluid, why do transgender people even bother with life changing treatments when they could just snap their fingers and be another gender depending on how they feel on a particular day? Not to mention that people who adhere to these ludicrous lists of made-up genders and lump themselves together as "the transgender community" are only further stigmatizing actual transgender people to the general public who still have a hard enough time understanding how a woman or man could possibly not be comfortable with their biological sex. Give transgender people a break. Again, this post is not meant to trample on people's rights to express themselves however they wish. I am free to criticize though, and I would be more accepting to this deconstruction of objectivity if it wasn't accompanied by an authoritarian chilling effect to dissenters.
  12. LoadedMink

    Being a cheater / dating a cheater

    A lot of people have already said many things better than I could, so I'll try to keep it simple. I also don't intend to step on anyone's toes. Before you do anything, I advise you to come clean to your current partner about cheating on her. If you thought this relationship was serious enough to consider marriage, she deserves to know the truth. If you don't have the courage or decency to tell her the truth then you should break up with her. At the very least spare her the heartbreak of a deceitful marriage. If the relationship ends one way or another, and you want to be in a committed relationship with one woman but also can't be satisfied without casual sex/flirtation on the side, seriously look into online swinging communities. Find someone you can potentially have an open marriage with. All your desires will be out in the open right off the bat and you don't need to cheat. If swinging/an open marriage isn't for you and cheating is the only thing that satisfies you, seek professional help immediately.
  13. LoadedMink

    Abdl Brittany

    For reference:
  14. My all-time favorite clothing to see a girl wet in is classic bikini panties. Otherwise, short skirts, short shorts, tights, and cute socks getting wet in the process are also good.