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    capacitylover got a reaction from nappypants in Anyone else's bladder wildly inconsistent?   
    Time depends hugely on input amount, input timing, how your body uses the fluids (salt intake and higher vasopressin levels will slow down urine production in the kidneys). So I'd only go by output and even then, the pee urge can vary depending on whether the sympathetic or parasympathetic nervous system is more active, whether we're distracted or consciously thinking about peeing, a lot happens in the brain too: e.g. when feeling cold or stressed or being close to a bathroom, the brain releases the inner sphincter a bit and pushes the detrusor/bladder wall muscle, that's the moment when the pee urge increases and we have to hold with the conscious/willingly controllable outer sphincter.
    So holding ability is an interplay of at least 3 muscles and brain signals/hormones, depending on a lot of outer circumstances and not just "the bladder" itself.
    Temporarily decreased bladder control and/or sphincter strength after a big hold might be a way of our body making sure that we're not overdoing it. If we overdo it constantly, the bladder wall muscles might get accustomed to the more work they have to do to push it out after a certain fullness level (muscle wall grows and looses elasticity) up to the point the controllable outer sphincter can't keep up with the pressure at the same amount. That's how urge incontinence develops and might also be the reason why holding ability decreases with a higher age, apart of muscle degradation. 
    But this might also differ on other factors as well, moderate practice/holds and habits might enable most people to keep a big capacity over their lifetime, while others struggle more or even risk kidney reflux. Then again, some that are blessed with loose/elastic bladder walls and/or low activity detrusor (good compliance levels) combined with extremely strong sphincters, might be just fine doing regular holds way above the 2L mark and having a holding habit over their lifetime.
    DrBorderline did sum it up well.
    I'm not a doctor myself but this is what I've learnt and observed so far.
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    capacitylover reacted to ControlFreak in Let's Frankly Discuss Video Piracy   
    I don't think it's any secret that the downloads section of this site thrives on the sharing of material that was originally made for sale. There is occasional discussion of this on particular posts, representing a range of views on the ethics of copyright violations and the monetary value of pornography. Some people are very open about never, under any circumstances paying for it, while others are quick to scold a user for uploading a clip belonging to one of their favorite models. But I assume that most people fall somewhere in the middle ground, being generally in favor of supporting adult content creators but also not categorically opposed to watching leaked clips.
    Well, I recently had an experience that led me to think there should be a place for open discussion about video piracy, it's potential impact on paid fetish content, and what you think constitutes a reasonable response to it from customers and creators.
    First off, let me say that I certainly believe adult content creators should be able to make a decent living off of their work. That said, I am begging them to manage their expectations, especially regarding long-term earnings for older clips. It seems to me that people who make a living off of porn have to churn out content on a regular basis, generating sales through the interest that has developed from both legitimate and illegitimate views of what they made before. This isn't to say that a creator's business isn't threatened by systematic piracy, but I firmly believe that when some content from a given model or producer is available for free, it leads to more sales for their other content.
    It's possible that I'm just assuming most consumers are similar to me, since I have certainly bought clips because I knew it would be worth the money, based on other content I'd seen from the same model posted here or on another site. But it seems like the most successful creators look at it the same way, more or less. Presumably that's why HD Wetting posts free clips on a rotating basis, and why Penny Barber made a bunch of her earlier clips available for free on Pornhub. Over on Twitter, instead of trying to take down leaked clips of herself on random accounts, Liz Raw retweets them and makes sure that they're properly attributed to her, for the benefit of anyone who will click on to her ManyVids store.
    Unfortunately, I recently learned the hard way that not everyone has this kind of a measured response to the occasional or incidental leak of their content. Some of my favorite adult content is POV clips of women reacting to the viewer as if he has had or is going to have an accident. Years ago, another fetishist with an account on here shared a clip with me which quickly became my favorite. I kept going back to it and hoping that I would be able to find something in the same vein from the same creator, who goes by MinnyMinx on ManyVids. But not only was there nothing like it in her store, that particular clip was no longer available either.
    Eventually I reached out to her and asked if she would be interested in filming a follow-up to it. She very enthusiastically agreed and quoted me a price of 75 dollars. I paid 80, then later tipped an additional 10 after she said she had ordered some sort of prop to use in the clip. We exchanged a few messages in which I expressed confidence that when the clip went up, it would sell immediately. I'd previously commissioned another clip, from another model, then promoted it on this forum and watched her Twitter feed as it tabulated the sales day after day. I was very excited to support MinnyMinx as a creator of POV omorashi content, and to encourage other people to do the same.
    Then a couple of weeks passed and the clip never arrived. I asked her about it, and then found that apparently, some time after accepting the commission and taking payment and actually filming the clip, she had searched my ManyVids username and found it associated with a page on ThisVid where the original clip -- which again, had not been available for purchase for years -- had been uploaded. Suddenly I was being accused of "spreading around" all of her clips (I hadn't even seen any of her other clips), as well as costing her thousands of dollars in sales, based on the view count for that video on the free site.
    To reiterate: I am begging content creators to understand that when people click to watch one of your videos for free, it does not necessarily mean that they would have paid for it under other circumstances. As I said above, there are many people who are very open about never paying for porn. I truly believed that against that backdrop, a professional creator would appreciate the fact that someone who had seen an older clip of theirs for free then went on to seek them out, offer them a bunch of money for new content, and encourage other people to buy it when it became available.
    I guess I was being naive, because not only did she never deliver the clip to me, she listed it for sale for one thousand dollars in case I wanted to compensate her "losses", messaged me to say that she "has my legal information", and apparently got me banned from ManyVids! I find the latter development to be particularly ironic, because not only is it a direct result of me trying to spend money on porn, it actually makes it impossible for me to spend money on porn through that site in the future. Guess what the result is? I'll be relying a lot more on pirated uploads to ThisVid and Omorashi.org.
    Now, to make this more of a discussion I guess I ask what everyone's thoughts are on my story. Was her response reasonable? Was I wrong to try buying a custom clip from someone whose prior work I'd seen for free? Is there a lesson in all this and is it that you should never pay for porn if you've ever, under any circumstances, pirated it? And to bring it back to the larger issue, do you believe, as I do, that free access to some porn is essential for determining what is worth supporting financially?
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    capacitylover reacted to Urgently in Let's Frankly Discuss Video Piracy   
    Looking at this from a consumer point of view, she basically just took your money and didn't deliver the product, which is theft.
    The correct move from her would have been to ask to have it taken down first before using the nuclear option. Did she do that? If not, that's an awfully petty reaction from her.
    I get that having her content uploaded elsewhere can potentially cost her some revenue, but if I was thinking of ordering something from her before, I'm surely not anymore. She might decide to withhold my money too for some reason unknown to me. Stealing from your customers is no way to run a business.
    I also personally check out other vids from a creator I'm considering purchasing videos from, I wouldn't buy anything blind. A lot of porn content creators just do it for the money and they have no passion at all in what they do, and it's really obvious after watching a few clips from them.
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    capacitylover reacted to squirmandglow in Anyone else's bladder wildly inconsistent?   
    I'm not a doctor, but here is what I think is what is going on with me, as a long-time omorashi participant.
    It feels like omorashi has given me a larger maximum bladder capacity, but also reduced sensitivity until a certain point. I feel like I have less control when I'm bursting, which still gets better when I take time off.
    I think the combination of reduced sensitivity, maybe skipping the bathroom in a low-key way more often than a normal person, drinking more liquid than average, and being comfortable with peeing your pants can lead to some unexpected surprises if you are not careful.
    I think another problem for people is they do not realize how much the filling rate of your bladder and experience of discomfort is dependent on all sorts of things like how hydrated you were two hours ago, how full or empty your stomach is, blood sugar and electrolyte levels, any bladder irritants in your diet, sleep/stress levels, etc.
    Put all that together, and you get accidents 😉
    Sudden accidents can be frustrating from an omorashi perspective, especially when you are doing it over text messenger or get in a mood and pee yourself after 10 or 15 minutes. But I also kinda think it can be hot when it happens. No one has the perfect omorashi bladder, but to me that's part of the fun.
     
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    capacitylover reacted to DrBorderline in Anyone else's bladder wildly inconsistent?   
    There are a lot of different factors in play, from physiological like bladder elasticity and abdominal volume for the bladder to expand into (or not if there's other organs in the way) to endocrine / hormonal effects that change the settings on the body's machinery, to environmental in the form of temperature and even air pressure, psychological / neurological in the case of nerve signals to and from the bladder and sphincters, and of course pharmacological impact like diuretic medication (some blood pressure meds and HRT are at the top of a LONG list). Trying to categorize, let alone track and measure, all of these factors for a single person would be a staggering scientific challenge even before doing anything with the data - we're likely to get a Unified Field Theory of physics before we get a Unified Theory of Continence.
    Though that DOES give me an idea for a story....
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    capacitylover reacted to DesperateRabbi in Pee in a measuring cup with me to see how much I’ve peed~   
    I may or may not have peed a bit on my thigh~ and also I was feeling an urge to pee but not soo desperate, but just an normal urge
     
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    capacitylover reacted to DesperateRabbi in Pee in a measuring cup with me to see how much I’ve peed~   
    I think I’ll try that out as soon as I can, I’ve been wanting to do that when I’m at bursting state
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    capacitylover reacted to holdinginpee in How many litres of urine can fit in the bladder?   
    as others have noted, around two litres seems to be the highest reasonable volume, and even that is a feat; volumes in the 1-1.5 litre range are more commonly achievable, and someone who hasn't practiced holding it a lot might reach their limit sooner still, in the 500-800ml range. higher volumes - from three litres all the way up to eleven - have been recorded, but such cases typically result from chronic urinary retention causing the bladder to stretch over time and are usually accompanied by a variety of resultant and other health issues. i've never heard of anyone reaching three litres under their own power (beyond random claims with no evidence), so while i don't know if it's strictly impossible i'd consider it highly unlikely.
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    capacitylover reacted to Inkdoodle in Just woke up bursting full in bed. Help me hold? ☺️   
    I plan to do more holds soon. I think I could eventually build up even more endurance, but I'm guessing I peed about my usual maximum of 1,200ml. Surely I can be better trained than that..? 😄
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    capacitylover got a reaction from holdit247 in bladder bulge with 3+ liters for a double wetting (with pictures)   
    wow! have you ever measured how much you can pee? 
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    capacitylover reacted to yaosaka in bladder bulge with 3+ liters for a double wetting (with pictures)   
    i think i definitely cap out around 1.5 regardless but it's harder for my brain to override my bladder now ya know 😅
    🥹 ur too sweet
     
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    capacitylover got a reaction from yaosaka in bladder bulge with 3+ liters for a double wetting (with pictures)   
    So before your capacity had changed you could hold even more than 1.5?
    I'd love to see the measuring videos, I'm sure they won't disappoint :)
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    capacitylover reacted to yaosaka in bladder bulge with 3+ liters for a double wetting (with pictures)   
    i mean it's highly likely. i don't think closer to 1.5 is impossible with the right circumstances but also with the way i do holds and drink a ton of water within an hour i get desperate again (imo i'd rather do multiple large wettings than one very long excruciating one lol). i will admit i've put my body through the wringer these past couple of years so perhaps my capacity has changed. i had put together some videos recently trying to measure (by eyeballing peeing into a gallon jug and then back into 355ml cans, very scientific i know 🤣) but maybe those should stay a mystery so i don't disappoint u guys 🥲
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    capacitylover got a reaction from yaosaka in bladder bulge with 3+ liters for a double wetting (with pictures)   
    wasn't it more with that bulge? Maybe 1.3 or 1.4? It's impressive nonetheless
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    capacitylover reacted to yaosaka in bladder bulge with 3+ liters for a double wetting (with pictures)   
    i haven't in a while!!! I should def do that soon
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    capacitylover got a reaction from yaosaka in bladder bulge with 3+ liters for a double wetting (with pictures)   
    wow! have you ever measured how much you can pee? 
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    capacitylover reacted to Bursting_Baby in Doing a “little” hold....   
    Filling up soooooooo fast! I pop any moment!
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    capacitylover reacted to Bursting_Baby in Doing a “little” hold....   
    I popped 🤭 calling it about 1400ml! Here’s the video of my final moments of desperation, and then my big explosion. There is nudity, just a warning. Hope you enjoy this as much i as I did! https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/p1cm37t8iiylcz67oykzl/FullSizeRender.mov?rlkey=fxklivhmh1ecylljoe2bjr41r&dl=0

     
    Edit: oh btw yeah I have a couple little styrofoam balls from a pillow stuck to my ass 😅
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    capacitylover reacted to Bursting_Baby in Doing a “little” hold....   
    Bored and h-word 😉😋 and bought a case of beer this afternoon......
    At over 2,130ml of liquid consumed. 1,420ml beer + 710ml sparkling water = 2,130ml + the large bowl of very brothy soup I just ate/drank the entirety of. About to crack open another beer and another water (don’t want a head ache 😉)
    bladder feeling moderately full (you can see I can push into it.... hopefully not for long!) About 5 or 6 out of 10. Tummy feeling very full of liquids that will soon stretching my bladder out until it’s a big solid ball 🥰


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    capacitylover reacted to Bursting_Baby in Doing a “little” hold....   
    Finished that 5th beer and 3rd sparkling water… tummy much emptier, bladder extremely full! Like 8 or 9/10 now! Starting to feel solid! Can’t push into it much, just my lil fat layer 🙈


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    capacitylover reacted to SpaceWonderer in Turned on at partner’s bladder ultrasound   
    Of course bladder isn't quite a sphere and has more like a pyramidal shape in women's body, but if it was 12.6 cm long I think it was holding way more than 500-600 ml. Sphere with diameter 12.6 cm holds about 1100 ml, given more pyramidal shape and less volume I would bet on around 900 ml. Maybe even close to 1 liter. That kind of explains consultant reaction too.
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    capacitylover reacted to Hon3y in First full fledged holding for a online dom   
    So basically today i had my first ever holding on command. And I'm super excited for the experience, so I'll try to share it verbatim.
    So yesterday night, i went to sleep by chugging 1 litre(not all at once) of water since the last pee.... So had a mildly irritating bladder in the midnight. It felt needed to just pee and have a good night sleep, but i ignored my urges, contained all my liquids inside myself and masturbated a bit, to ease off the urge and had a nap. But it didn't last long, after two and a half hours, my night sleep ended and it was morning, 7:30 am... Talked with an online bladder controller and he said to chug 1 litre of liquid. So i followed and first only chugged half of that... And a few more minutes later chugged the remaining...but that time i did something mischievous. I put lemon juices inside my water and probably that was really an effing good diuretic for a already bulging bladder. After a few minutes he told me to open my legs, and i just noticed maybe i was overestimating my power. After a few minutes i went back to the sleeping position. But this time i noticed i just couldn't lay on my back!!!! I started leaking. Time maybe 9:00 am. And then the real desperation started..... I felt stuck in a certain position only, i.e, curling on a side... Thighs pressed together...still leaking drops every now and then... On demand, i even pushed on my bladder. It felt rock solid... Even turning a bit made me to leak more... And as on my previously stated wish, he commanded to get a tape to prevent my pussy from leaking. I wanted to be pushed past my limits. To be sealed tight even though i just can't!!!! The pain from my lower belly disrupted my breathing. I felt immobilized!!!! Not having any energy to move.... All energy was being utilised in keeping my urethra closed like a properly disciplined gal. So i couldn't get up to gather the tape. Then he demanded me to drink another half litre for leaking a few drops... Just as i wished to be brutally dominated. But i was really helpless this time. My ability to move was long gone. I couldn't stop leaking every now and then and above everything the pain from keeping all the water inside my inexperienced girl bladder was overwhelming!!!! I was probably 12/10 in terms of urge rating. He too wanted to stretch my bladder. And i happily complied to such bladder domination. I was in pain heaven, anxious whether an impending bladder rupture will kill me or not, still kept going. It was 9:40 am then, when he said he's going to cut a deal, he went to sleep, saying that he knows i won't tolerate anymore with the amount he pushed into me. So we would talk later when my other fantasies can be fulfilled. Like holding pee for straight one-two days, being plugged up with more liquids being injected inside of me. LoL, i know, these are extremely brutal, but i love it. 
    And after that i figured out i was leaking unconsciously... So few drops already wetted my bed....it was such a shame to my overconfident composure of being able to resist all my bodily urges. It literally felt like i can't really hold anymore if I'm not literally plugged up. My determined mind too couldn't handle that much (2 litres total, as i was squirming since midnight) of liquid. And then the moment came...to get up and reach to the bathroom. I was already a mess in my panties then... Grabbed a bottle (of 500 ml) and went inside the bathroom. And then holy prolly, even though i was inconveniently full and leaking, i couldn't force my pee out with much force.... It seemed like i was so busy in squeezing my urethra, it couldn't do the opposite.... In the meantime, i wasted probably almost 500 ml on the floor, for being a noob to position the bottle exactly below my urethral opening. Then after wasting that much, i thought of capturing whatever remaining is in there, and then!!! Oh my my my!!!! I literally filled up the bottle within seconds... I filled up a 500 ml bottle within 7-8 seconds.... But still it didn't stop.... I peed some more... I don't know the exact amount... But i guess it was almost 1.5 litres in total!!! And among them only 500 ml captured, rest probably wasted due to inexperience in positioning own urethra and the scarcity of any extra bottle at that time! 
    I am really proud of my holding ability this time. Previously i thought maybe i have just a regular girl size bladder, i.e, feeling the urge to void if it's full(500 ml~)... But now it seems i have really pushed myself... Stretching it to accommodate more ignoring my pain . And I'm super excited for the next time too. Will have to gather a good measuring jug to quantise the exact capacity too. Thought of having my sanitary pad on , so that primary leaking won't drag any attention towards me. My pain will be only contained within me. A certain masochistic desire. It just feels awesome to dedicate my everything. A total submission offering. Enduring some torture to give a proper service. My pussy is only meant to be squeezed tight. Nothing goes out without permission from my daddy. Daddy will decide how full i should be, and how lil I'm eligible to let out. He may force his dick inside my pussy when i start leaking, to prevent my leaks, and see a painful expression on me for being stripped off this basic need . And even after fucking, i wish to get sealed....no chance for a relief. The torture must go on. I don't know why i feel this much submissive, but it feels good when even me crying too can't stop someone from controlling me. I know internally i just crave for a caring daddy, who'll take care of my every need. Totally owning me. It's just that these two types of owning concepts sometimes get mixed up. The owning from utter care and possessiveness, and the owning from just a sadistic Vantage point. I know I'll choose the first one (caring daddy) to surrender to.... It's just that in real life i like to see how much pain i have to tolerate to finally get my desired man. To finally be in that cuddly mood permanently. To finally gift my submission to a deserved one. In either way, pampering own lil quirks is always cute. And the fact that i feel my submission as a gift, is the reason why i like to cherish every inch of it. 
    And again, thanks a lot to this platform too. I've found so many cute yet extreme power exchange dynamics type stories here. Thanks to all the contributors. You just make this world a lil less lonely. Cheers fellow kinksters 🥂
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    capacitylover reacted to rebeljaffa in Who can hold their pee longer males or females?   
    I am still of the opinion that this question is unanswerable because of the sheer variety in humanity regardless of gender.  The way my bladder works (male) is down to a complex mix of my unique physiology and the way my mind operates. Human bladder control is impure because it involves complex thoughts, habits and social considerations.
    I would say that I pee relatively often and part of the reason is that I think about it too much and sort of worry myself into it.  If I have to, I can stretch!   The physical and mental are hopelessly intertwined in all of us, regardless of gender, and I just don't think - though I love discussing it - that measuring bladder shapes and urethras will answer this question, ever.  
    The people I've known who can really, really hold it to extremes have all been female, but that doesn't count as scientific data!  For one thing, female desperation is my fetish. I don't notice men who can hold it, so I may have simply missed them. 
     
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    capacitylover reacted to ryancorm in Pee Volume Diary   
    Thought we should make a thread where people post pictures of their pee volumes and measurements and records, similar to the bulge diary thread.
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    capacitylover reacted to peedesperate12 in Bladder too strong?   
    Could you guys try some kind of rapid desperation? Maybe that would irritate his bladder more to cause more of the urgency that you're looking for 
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