nappypants

Yeah, I think it's pregnancy and giving birth that is the main difference, on average. Take that factor out and it probably is pretty even. But it's the main reason why the majority of wetting accidents happen to women (along with the fact that it's harder for them to find a way to discreetly relieve themselves in an emergency), and why incontinence products are primarily marketed at women.

Sounds like a fun idea... I expect plenty of people would have proper accidents if they tried that when desperate! It's a bit like the situation when your bladder knows relief is imminent, and if you then delay it then it's not going to care about the fact that you've still got your pants on ;)

Yeah, by all accounts, you can't make yourself permanently incontinent, but multiple holds in sequence can temporarily weaken your bladder, and it might be an idea to wear some sort of nappy or pad as a precaution afterwards.

Yeah, I like that idea (on a temporary basis). The situation where there's nothing you can do but flood your nappy, and that's why you need them...

Nobody's mentioned nappies yet... why not give them a try?

Yeah, a weekend would be about right. Would be good to have different choices of how to experience it, e.g. constant leakage, or episodes of urgency that you can't hold back.

The title of the video suggests she usually wears nappies, which is a nice thought...

I've never had a real obvious public mishap... once I was in a pub and just wearing a light nappy (drinking Coke as I was driving, but quite a bit of it). I was just letting a bit out at a time as I don't feel that confident fully wetting while sitting down, in a public setting. When I got up to leave, I was pretty desperate, as I hadn't "been" properly. When I got to my car I just stood there and let it all go... then, although there was no immediate leakage, I realised "I'm not going to be able to sit down in this". So it was either go back in the pub and change my nappy, or just put my protective seat pad down and get on with it. I took the latter option and drove home (45 minutes or so I think) sitting in a puddle. Also I was in a university computer room at night, 20+ years ago, wearing one of the primitive adult nappies available off the shelf at the time. It leaked seriously on the way back to my room, managed to discard the wet nappy in the toilets but still had to come back with wet jeans - luckily there weren't many people around at that time, and I tried to hold a backpack to disguise it from any that were!

Yeah, anything that involves serious holding, particularly if repeated, or maybe the practice of staying desperate and just letting out a bit at a time, over an extended period. Your bladder will get tired eventually, it shouldn't cause permanent damage but it's likely, as with any other muscle, to be weaker for a while. It's worth taking precautions, particularly if you need to be out of the house while in this state, you might need a nappy or pad in the short term.

I love the "not quite making it" scenario, and the idea of a woman who is still trying to get her clothes off when she's basically already in full flow... she would probably make less of a mess if she just sat down on the toilet and did it through her jeans/tights/knickers but instead she's fiddling about with her clothes and soaking everything in sight!

Looks like she needs proper adult nappies instead of just pull-ups!

I think they tried marketing them some years ago, but I guess the stigma of wearing a "nappy" limited sales. But that was probably before even Tena pull-ups etc. were around. There's no reason why incontinence pull-ups or nappies couldn't do the job anyway,

I only usually need to go once in the night, unless I drink a lot of water before going to bed... getting up at all disrupts your sleep, even if you only have to walk a few steps, so much easier to wear a nappy and you can just let it go and go back to sleep... feels great as well!

I like that idea - definitely one for the Super Bowl or before!

Yeah, I don't think these are absorbent or anything are they, just a convenience thing for travelling or maybe if you wear pads etc. and are worried about leaks on your proper underwear? Proper "disposable panties" are the sort that can take a full bladder or more 😉