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LupusCanis88

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  1. First of all, and I can't believe I'm saying this: Don't Trick Your husband! I understand the impulse, but stuff like that should be talked about openly. And honestly, I think you can just...tell him. A heads up could help. Maybe when you're both relaxed, having a drink or something. "Honey, I need to tell you something. And its important to me" If you want to test the water, maybe ask him about his kinks first. From his question, I would assume that he wouldn't react badly, as he asked about it very matter of factly. I guess you could also simply ask him if he would mind of you peed in your pants...if the occasion arises.
  2. Hmm, honestly, I kinda assume that this is happening. In my experience, women are, on average talking in a far more detailed manner about their sex lives to one another than men do. So in my mind, it's always very probable that at least one friend of my partner knows what I'm into.
  3. That's a really good story! I can imagine that it's more likely for someone else to hold it once one person starts wetting themselves. Probably a more likely scenario Well, that might be true...but people wetting themselves is, all in all, also not a common thing. So it happens sometimes, I guess. Well, I had that suspicion too, as have many others, as shown by the comments. From the answers posted so far, I would however assume that it is not entirely made up. At the very least, there is a chance that one person wetting themselves might prompt others to do so as well.
  4. Thank you for your answer! I could imagine that it kind of...reduces the stigma. Like when you're the first one to cross a red light...and the others follow. One of the women who told me a solidarity wetting story told me of another incident at a concert (before she knew omo was a thing) where she debated with her friend of they should just wet themselves instead of going to the bathroom. They didn't, but the thought occurred. I mean, if they're doing it...
  5. As well as it's been a theme in stories and experiences, I've been told two stories by women I know that included what I call solidarity wetting. What I mean by that is: one woman either can't hold it any more and has an accident, or decides to just wet her pants in the presence of others who also need to pee. This then leads to the others deciding to wet their pants as well, either because they don't want to hold it anymore or because, citation: "I'd would suck if you're the only one with wet pants". I say women here because it seems to be more of a female phenomenon, though I could be wrong. So my question is: Does this actually happen? Did ant if you ever observe this or participate in it? It is sometimes hard for me to actually believe the stories I am told, plus I am genuinely curious.
  6. I love the moment when the fidgeting and desperation switch over to relaxation...when the mindset changes to acceptance of "I am peeing my pants", and you can see that reflected in posture and tone. One of the most powerful tropes, in my mind. Also says something about a person where that point is. How bad does it have to be for them to just go with it? How wet do the pants have to be before the inevitable is accepted?
  7. There's a specific scenario that I love. It's when you had no intention to wet at all, no planning or excessive holding, but some factors align, and the thought creeps into your head. Maybe on your way back from a friends house, or a party. It's dark, but you still have a way to go...but you also NEED to go. And you get excited at the though, mixed with that feeling when it just hits you...you really want to pee your pants. Your heart is beating fast, someone could see you...but at the same time, the urge hits you so hard, and you're tipsy enough to not really give a fuck... So you stop, feel your rapid heartbeat, and just flood your pants. Not even kicking off your shoes, because you couldn't be bothered. Do you know what I mean? Does this happen to you, too?
  8. Hmm, with all those experiences, I'd definitely tell her. You are relaxed around each other and you two seem to have a very strong base of trust. You made so many comments about it and she never reacted badly. I'm actually surprised that she hasn't inquired further. So I say "go for it". Otherwise, you're gonna keep asking yourself that forever. Additional thought: she might already know something and be waiting for you to make a move. But you gotta know what that move looks like. Maybe she'd like you to just tell her to do it? As long as she has a way to get out of it and you trust her to say no if she doesn't want to do something, there's not much that can go wrong.
  9. I second this. From the women who like doing it in public, I heard that it is about the thrill of doing something naughty, breaking the rules and such. It's a huge adrenalin rush, sorta like riding a roller coaster. I'm not sure If humiliation factors into that though...I rather believe that those are two separate drives for wetting. And to some people, humiliation is just a turn on...that would involve actually being seen, though.
  10. I once told an acquaintance of my fetish and he told me that he saw this at two separate shows. The first time it took a while to understand, the second he knew what he was looking for. Apparently they wore black pants in both occasions, but he basically watched them wet themselves. Also, a friend of mine who I got into wetting told me about a pink concert she went to with a friend. They had really good spots and didn't want to give them up. So, as she told me, they actively debated of they should go or just wet their pants. (This was before she knew it was a fetish). In the end, they went to the toilets and gave up their seats. "In retrospect", she said, "we should've just went in our pants"
  11. Hmm, the first times I did that, I would bring spare clothes, go out at night and do it somewhere secluded (in the woods). That way, you have an exit strategy and don't mess up your car. Especially if you have a longer drive, its better not to stay in the wet clothes. Black pants work, but it's more secure at night. So maybe don't start with that.
  12. Hmm, i think this is a matter of practice. I had a fwb a few years back who got into wetting through me. The first time was at my place, and it was really hard for her to get over the blockade we all have... But after doing it a few times, she got into doing it outdoors (and frankly peed her pants many more times while I was NOT around compared to me being around) At some point, she got so comfortable with it that she could just pee herself without any trouble. Interestingly, after not doing it for a while, the blockade returned. After we weren't regular fwbs anymore, she did it less and less. But we occasionally still hooked up. One day, we went outside with the intention to wet ourselves. And she couldn't do it anymore. So, I guess its practice and consistency.
  13. When I took a walk in my neighbourhood last year, I overheard a guy and a girl talking... "Do you know this feeling, when you really need to go, and as soon as you approach your door, it gets that much worse?" She asked. "Oh yeah, as if your body knows your close and starts to prepare itself" he responded. "Uh, it's the worst! Well, as long as I make it I to my apartment" she said "True, if you you're inside, you can just fill up your pants" ("die Hose voll machen") he laughed. "Exactly" she laughed back. I didn't get any more of that conversation, sadly, as our paths diverged and I had no intention to be a creep. But to this day, I still wonder how many times she frantically shuts her apartment door with bent knees, just to stand still in her hallway with her eyes closed, uninhibitedly peeing her pants.
  14. Seriously, talk to her. This has been said before, she's kinky so she will at least be understanding. But more importantly...you build up so much tension inside your relationships by keeping that in. And you're also seeing and trying to manage the negative impact it has on you. So you'll use up that energy anyway. I understand that it's scary. But when you open that door, you can work with it. However that will work out.
  15. Oh, those were just examples i came up with. So, yeah, other options! That was partly what I was going for ^^ And it's in that subcategory i guess. The fact that you like wet clothes in general is...making it more precise, I would say.
  16. First of all, it's not kinkshaming to feel gross about something. At least not in my book. Personally, I'm into wetting and don't care much about pee...it's more the act itself, the motivation and the way it looks. I don't mind fresh pee, but I'm grossed out by sticky bathrooms and smelly clothes. (Kinda adding to the chorus) In the end, we all have our own "frame of arousal". And we do like to pee our pants, so i feel like...who are we to say what's weird? ^^
  17. Okay, bare with me for a bit because I don't really know how to put it yet, but here goes: We all have our different likes of fabric, situation and person who does it when it comes to wetting. We also have different scenarios of intention, mainly differentiating if it is intentional or an accident. But I don't feel like it is doing justice to answer the question that is burning in our mind when I read a story or watch a video: Why is that person peeing in their pants? (I'm kinda assuming here that you ask yourself the same) There is a difference between wetting yourself on purpose because you think "i really wanna do this", because you need to pee anyway and think "hmm, might as well..." or because you wet your underwear already and just give up to gain a level head be able to concentrate again. Even though they're all, technically, "on purpose " Also, it makes a difference if the person in question is actually into it or even knows about the fact that people are into it. And I feel like we all have our own favourite motivations for ourselves and also for situation we imagine others to be in. So, I guess my question is...what are yours?
  18. Honestly...this is one if the best stories I've read. Firstly the whole scenario of you basically creating a conflict between the side of you that wants to wet and the side that is afraid to do it. But especially the way you described it by what you were thinking and feeling at the moment. Thank you
  19. Hmm...it definitely matters to me. It's more of a turn on if I find her attractive. But the figure also has an impact on how the wetting looks, so this is a factor as well. Mostly, i dont enjoy super fit or super thin girls as much...which is due to my preference, but also because the pee just spreads differently. The portrayal is much more important though. Even if the model is exactly my type, the way she talks can turn me off immediately. Which is why I don't enjoy a lot of German content, sadly.
  20. Interesting phenomenon...most women I have talked to about this can't go "just a little". There is, however, one woman I know who seemingly mastered this. At some point after I told her about my fetish, she revealed to me that she does in fact wet her panties...but only in very small spurts. So, whenever she is in a situation where she really has to go, she will pee her panties juuuust a little...basically a spurt. And then keep holding. Apparently, she can do this when she is super desperate and then keep holding for several hours afterwards. She seems to be the exception, though.
  21. This post makes me feel a little old, but here we go... I think I must've been around 14, so...2002. Back then, there was no PornHub or anything similar, only paysites that gave you a few free samples...Which led to a multitude of shady Websites that linked Photosets and short video samples... And when I found out about those, this is where I went. The whole thing was a little tricky, because besides my english beeing not that good yet, I didn't know anything about porn slang...So I shifted through these links whenever I got the chance, and someday I stumbled across a link that said something about "Wetting Panties". I didn't know what to think of this, And I can't recall why I looked at it... Maybe I was curious, maybe I had a hunch. You see, I was into wetting when I was very young, way before I knew anything about fetishes and sex. And I had kind of buried it. But when I clicked that link, I was mesmerized...it was a Photoset of a woman wearing nothing but panties and...peeing in them! I still remember what she looked like...slim, kinda mature, short blonde hair and white panties with lace at the sides. This was when I realized that I was not as strange as I thought and that my obsession with people wetting themselves was an actual thing that people are into.
  22. German here. I guess there are more, ut I don't know for sure.
  23. Watch for the fabric. Natural materials like cotton absorb the liquid and show the wet spots, plus you get the "blooming" effect that jeans have. If you're wearing leggings made mostly of synthetics, depending on the material, the wetness might not show at all because the pee goes right through them.
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