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  1. Doing a long hold and avoiding UTI

    One thing I always make sure of when doing holds is to continually be drinking water throughout it, regardless of anything else I drink. Like just always having some water next to me and drinking some of it every now and then, so that I'm consistently hydrated. I tend to hold for quite a long time, and I hold semi-often, but I've never had to worry about UTIs. Only 1 - 1.5L of water per day seems like such a small amount to me...I think I usually drink about double that, honestly. But then maybe I just need more water than most people.
  2. Tips on wetting yourself?

    This is a common problem that comes up in topics now and then. The issue is that mental block, and the best way to get around that is to slowly ease into it...start with a situation where it's just a bit unusual to pee, like clothed whilst standing in the shower or something (or even in the shower with clothes off and water on, if that's not something you're already used to doing), and try to get comfortable with that first. Then you gradually get more adventurous with it as you get used to each situation, until you can just wet yourself anywhere when you want to. I probably didn't explain that well, and somebody else could probably word that better and/or give more suggestions. But maybe you get the idea?
  3. Big curiousity

    Either, really. The important thing is how well I can relate to it to imagine experiencing whatever I'm reading about.
  4. Big curiousity

    Possibly taking it a step further...I don't tend to watch videos much at all, really, since visuals alone usually don't do much for me. I prefer reading as opposed to watching for that sort of thing, since even though I need to imagine it all, I'm given all of the information to do so. Like...the things that turn me on most involve interaction and/or experiencing something happening to me, as opposed to just people doing things that I'm observing. That said, yeah; just sex by itself doesn't interest me at all. Sometimes, when combined with a fetish, it can be better than that fetish alone, but the fetish needs to be there for it to interest me. Not exclusively omo, in my case, since it's not my only fetish, just one of the bigger ones.
  5. What do you enjoy doying while desperate?

    Gaming, usually. Not only a great distraction, but it can also add an extra challenge to a game, trying to play whilst distracted by the need to pee and fumbling a bit with the keys and all that. An interesting thing I've noticed recently from doing that is my reaction time gets much quicker...I just don't necessarily react well. Fun, though! Sometimes I try to do more productive things like working on art, but I lose the ability to concentrate on that much earlier on in a hold, compared to gaming.
  6. Plus Sized

    This is definitely a strong preference for me, to the point that thin women really don't do much for me. I greatly prefer extra-curvy ladies with more to snuggle! Also, being pinned under a larger girl is indeed excellent. I like that sort of thing in general, and it works well with omo, having my lap sat on so I can't get up and the like. I agree on it being a bondage sort of thing, where the method of restraint is a person.
  7. Not specifically a desperation-related thing, but I find it kinda hot when women use the word 'piss'. Also just casually and openly talking about it, completely unashamed. It's, like...a bit crude in an oddly attractive way.
  8. Desperation Question

    Usually I can very easily stop mid-stream, and it's something I like to practise since it can be quite enjoyably tortuous to only briefly pee when I need to go badly. However, I've noticed that once I'm past a certain point of desperation (when the need to pee is painful enough and I'm getting that bladder-cramping feeling), it becomes difficult to start, but then once I've started it's just about impossible to stop until I've peed quite a bit. It also depends on where/how I'm peeing; if I'm intentionally leaking in my clothes (something that's still very difficult for me to accomplish, but I've gotten slightly better at it), it takes a lot of effort to not just automatically stop right away, to the point that I often just can't accomplish anything longer than a split-second leak no matter how hard I try.
  9. Concerns when Masturbating

    Peeing during ejaculation (as in, not before or after, but actually at the same time) is not normal, since the anatomy is supposed to prevent that from happening. I'm not sure what could cause that to happen or whether it's something you'd need to be concerned about. Feeling a need to pee shortly after ejaculation is very common, and being desperate enough to actually lose control then is something plenty of omo fetishists (myself included) intentionally attempt to achieve. Nothing to worry about at all in that case, since everything's working as intended. I've heard of it happening before as well, but I think that's much less common.
  10. Drugs

    Opiates can make it difficult to pee. The strong ones can make it all but impossible to pee even if you're extremely desperate. I know this from experience, but at least in my case I was already used to dealing with a similar situation (due to paruresis). Weed makes peeing at the end of a hold feel even more intense and pleasurable, but I find it generally makes my head too fuzzy to smoke it before the end of a hold. It's brilliant when relaxing after a hold, though, as it magnifies that euphoric relieved feeling. Also, I wouldn't say that it makes me need to pee more by itself, but it definitely makes me drink more, which helps!
  11. How Frequently Do You Do Holds?

    Well, I usually wait until it's too distracting to concentrate on anything before I go, simply out of laziness and/or not wanting to stop what I'm doing, but I don't really consider that actually holding. For actual holds, it varies; at least one other person besides myself needs to be involved (preferably controlling me, but even just being a particularly interested audience works) in order to make it properly enjoyable and to motivate me to wait long enough, so how often I hold depends partially on other people. I generally take a day or two off from it regardless afterwards, especially if I've done two 'rounds' of holding in a row without a break in between.
  12. I feel the same about this fetish as I do about BDSM in general (omorashi is a form of that, for me): it can be either sexual or nonsexual, more often the former but certainly not always. Whether or not I'm turned on by it depends a lot on context and my current mood. Sometimes I'm not turned on during, but find the memory arousing later. But basically, the masochistic/submissive aspect of this fetish is almost like a drug for me; the feelings of discomfort and pain during, the rush of desperation, panic, helplessness, etc., contrasted by the exhausted relief at the end...I get an intense emotional catharsis from the experience that's satisfying to me by itself. I definitely do enjoy it most when the context is arousing in some way, but it's not strictly a requirement.
  13. Thoughts on Furry Omorashi?

    Part-time furry here. I don't really have a preference either way for human or furry (or fantasy creature or alien or whatever else). As long as they act human enough to be relatable and are humanoid in body structure, they're all just exotic flavours of human to me.
  14. Peeing before bed

    I always go before bed, since normally I can't fall asleep with even a slight need to pee, for some reason. The exception is when I'm so exhausted that I can just fall over and pass out immediately, but that's pretty rare. I've never wet the bed, and I never get woken up by the need to pee, so I'm not worried about either of those things. I just go before bed to make it easier to fall asleep (since that's difficult enough as it is).
  15. More advice on doing holds?

    I'd say you're safe to do another hold as soon as you feel fully recovered. As far as muscle pain/aches, just think of it like you would any other muscle -- if it doesn't hurt or feel weak, you should be just fine putting it to use again. I haven't experienced any lasting weakness that didn't go away after a bit of rest, even though I've definitely experienced a lot of temporary weakness after some of my more extreme bouts of holding. I just always plan to give myself a break from holding until I feel fully recovered (even if it involves peeing very frequently for awhile after, heh).