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brothacheese

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    Bathroom Control
    Watersports
    Bondage
    Cuddling
    Exhibitionism
    Humiliation
    Public humiliation
    Tomboys

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  1. It's a very interesting concept! I'm really interested to see where this ends up.
  2. I have a few reasons for not liking it when it's used in the context of written omorashi fiction. First, I think "sexist" is too strong a word but for me it's very like... "haha boys and girls are different" and that's the sort of thinking I'm personally trying to get away from. It's not that it offends me or anything like that, it's more that I think it plays on something overly simple and even childish. At this point in my life I no longer find it interesting or compelling to highlight the supposed differences between men and women. Second, I don't find it relatable because it doesn't reflect my experiences. I can think of one time that it kinda happened but that was more due to unwillingness on the part of the women, rather than inability or a lack of permission. In the vast majority of instances where it might've applied, I can pretty much always think of at least one or two women who "figured it out." Third, with no offense intended to people who use it, it's often used in lazy writing. Not saying people should never use it but idunno, by this point I've read hundreds of stories that rely on that specific trope and it's played out. Depending on your point of view this might be the least valid of my concerns, because like really what am I criticizing here - omorashi writing as a whole? That's "fart in a hurricane" levels of effective. Tl;Dr I think it's overly basic, doesn't match up with my experiences, and I've seen it too much
  3. Specific to men's restrooms: the "trough" is somewhat infamous for being just a bunch of dudes pissing on a wall, but I think one specific set up is actually worse. Sometimes at sporting events you end up in a situation where each urinal has its own line and I can NOT handle that pressure. It's one thing to know people are waiting on "a spot" to open up, it's another thing entirely to have a line of dudes waiting on you specifically to finish peeing
  4. I don't put my writings on here very much at all but I support this initiative and might participate in some form or fashion
  5. Gonna throw it out there that I blame Media, both traditional and social, for much of the reason that people in general (and yes, men in particular although you should NOT feel ashamed to be a man) are so attached to romantic and sexual fulfillment. Folks frequently view it as something that is either owed to them, or as something that they are weird/wrong/""""concerning"""" for not having experienced. Why does every protagonist have to have a love interest? Why don't we have reality shows where someone looks for love and fails? Why does it sometimes feel like everything is marketed for "your significant other" or "couples" or "families?" Why do your single friends seem to post less than those in relationships? Part of the reason is that these are ingrained in culture due to the real need for procreation. Part of it is because the dominant religions in the west all promote monogamy & procreation as "the only way." Part of it is to sell things that are "for women," to men, by way of maintaining the patriarchy - which, by the way, doesn't even benefit the vast majority of Men anymore. But none of it is to help people feel better about themselves, and for folks in situations like mine it makes us feel a lot worse. The amount of self-reflection and therapy I need to deal with the fact that it's been over 10 years since I've had sex and longer since it's been any good. There's nothing inherently wrong with being a 27 year old man who hasn't been made to orgasm by another person since he was 16. I know this to be factually true, but when you go on the internet and see people complaining about how they're so miserable after like... 90 days without sex, you start to wonder "wait if he can't take 90 what the hell am I doing after 3000." It really takes a toll. I'm not sure where I was going with this so I'll leave a few key points: 1) To the Men who feel like nobody wants them, like they're never able to meet that elusive person that's both single and attractive , and like society doesn't care about this or think it's a problem: I care and I love you. This applies to people of all genders but I rarely see things appealing to all men in a positive way, so I want to single us out here. Some say "Men Are Trash," I say "Men Are Treasure." 2) If you self-identity as an incel, hang out in those spaces and make it a part of your personality, then you are making a choice. This calls the "involuntary" part of it in question and makes it something that is important to you, when it was at first something you very much did not want. Try your hardest not to think of yourself as an incel, but just as a single person who's been looking for a while. 3) For anyone out there that's really bothered by these feelings and doesn't know what to do: I encourage you to seek therapy. As far as I'm aware, you don't strictly need to have some sort of diagnosed mental illness to talk to a therapist. If you aren't able to seek therapy due to circumstances beyond your control, such as the place you live or an inability to get insurance, then I'm sorry and I still wish you the best & love you. Kinda went off the rails here but Tl:Dr we are manipulated into feeling this way, read the bold
  6. I already knew about the two you posted but I'd be interested to see what else you know of for major PC games because I don't know of that many others. Or maybe non-major ones, not sure what you've got.
  7. aklong's comment pretty much nails it, but I would like to add that there is additional variety - sometimes the idea is "who can last the longest before they have an accident" and sometimes the idea is "who can produce the largest volume of pee." If you read the full description then there is almost always detail about how they end up peeing. Also, if you are disinterested in/turned off by the nudity then I would say that most videos featuring nudity will show that in the thumbnail, as it's a major selling point for some people (hi, I'm "some people.")
  8. I honestly can't say which came first - a bit of a "chicken or the egg" situation - but omo definitely goes hand-in-hand with ENF for me. Embarrassment is a big part of it, and it's also easy to make the leap from "wet clothes in public" to "no clothes in public." Also, I started out purely interested in the "other people" aspect but over the years have developed a love for more self-directed pee shenanigans.
  9. Since it came up I'll weigh in: sex isn't easy to come by for everyone. I am not a virgin but I've greatly struggled to find partners and it's been approximately a decade since I've managed to put two and two together. Crazy to think about how much I've grown in that time. This site has been a big help in... well, not being driven insane by my libido. To those of you who choose abstinence or virginity or celibacy or waiting or whatever, good for you. To be clear, my point is that I do not think it is strange to not be actively having sex as an adult, whether or not it's by choice.
  10. One of the most freeing, validating experiences I ever had was telling one of my exes about this. I worked up the courage and gave her about 1000 different versions of "I know it's weird but..." because I thought it was so weird. When I finally told her, the reaction spoke volumes: "Oh that's it? That's easy! Thank God, I thought it was going to be something that was really weird or creepy." We're not together anymore but since that day I've felt a LOT better about my kinks in general, this one specifically.
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