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  1. Apparently me needs are fairly mundane. I don't want any detailed role-playing. To me this makes it seem fake. I want it real not acted. I hope that O and a female companion hold our pee until we are uncontrollably desperate. We do everything possible to hold our pee. I particularly love watching her desperately trying not to pee her pants I want to see her pee dancing pussy holding while vocalizing how badly she has to go. I like to see the first leak and where it comes from. One thing is special though. My ultimate fantasy is when she can't hold it any longer, she sits on my lap and grinds into my leg to try to hold it in. But in the end she can't prevent herself from wetting her pants and mine on my leg and crotch. I would love to be be just as desperate around the same time wetting my pants and hers. Of course I would do to her whatever she wants with my pee once I can't hold it anymore.
  2. First relationship went fine, second not so great . My GF in high school who later became my wife had a habit of holding her pee to the last second. Occasionally she waited to long and wet her pants to one degree or another. On one of our first dates we were talking outside and she was holding herself and frantically pee dancing. She eventually ran in the house because it was going to come out . I hoped she didn't notice my hard on. I told her this a bit later and from that point on she indulged me telling me true pee stories of desperation and wetting. She would hold and wet for me and I for her. It was awesome This pee talking anyway continued even as our relationship deteriorated. Several years later after our divorce, I dated another woman that quickly became sexual. To be honest the sex was not so good. I desperately wanted her to know what really turned me on but couldn't figure out how to tell her. I got impaitent and screwed up. Without saying anything I held my pee and I think we were to take a shower we were both in the bathroom. In any event I had to pee quite badly . I stepped into the shower fully clothed and let go, soaking my pants in pee. She was WTF Shocked. She later threw it in my face, ridiculing me. She said I like to wet my pants , needs to to get excited ( by then true I needed pee play). That really stung. She was the mother of one of my coworkers and I always suspected she talked about it. I felt betrayed. I know I should not have wet my pants without talking first. I don't think it would have mattered in the end. We stayed together for a year or so she sort of accepted it. She would gently tease me about it. She let me watch her pee and play with her stream but that is it. She never held her pee for me or talked about holding her pee becoming desperate. I never told her that when we had sex, I thought about my ex-wife's pee stories in order to cum. Besides wetting I enjoyed peeing off high places. She told me about an old abandoned railroad trestle in the woods. To be fun I need to be desperate, so I held it, a bit too long as it turned out. She didn't mention the was a fast moving stream under the trestle. I had to climb up a steep incline to get up there. The rushing water and the climb was too much and I started peeing in my pants. The wet spot was too big to cover up. She was quite amused whenshe saw my wet jeans. So yea it is a touchy subject. Pee play is not for everyone. In fact we are a small minority. How do we express our desires to a partner? I am not sure, I never told anyone else. I guess we have to totally trust the person, know they truly love us and will non-judgmentaly accept and support our fetish. I suppose this is to be expected we were all taught peeing in our pants is just wrong. I disagree if done in private we are not hurting anyone. It is what gets me sexualy aroused. That is the way I am wired.
  3. To plug your urethra in any manner to override natures need to let out some pee is foolish and dangerous. You risk permanent damage to your body. You should stick to any natural means to prevent leaks, like sphincter clenching, pee dancing and holding yourself, whatever works. You may surprise yourself in how long you can hold your pee if you set realistic time goals. When I do a hold I frequently set a time or finishing an activity goal before I can pee. Usually ( but not always anymore) no matter how full my bladder is I can hold it until the time is up. It is sort of like the psychologically of not wanting to wet my pants in public, allowing me to hold my pee longer. As the goal approaches I struggle, and sometimes I leak a little, but I frequently make it . I am not sure what the male chastity cage is but wouldn't it prevent you from squeezing your dick, but not prevent your pee from coming out ? Again any device or substance to artificially keep your pee from coming out is a very bad idea. Good Luck.
  4. I would have to let out quite a bit, enough to get my pants wet anyway in order to prolong the hold. Once some of my pee tastes freedom the rest wants to follow. I can stop, but will be struggling even more to stop leakes. Perhaps it is because I have not tried it early enough, and never preemptively let some out. If I do leak some in my pants it's because I can't prevent it, so there is a visible wet spot on the front of my pants down to my crotch . Then I can hold it in a bit longer. My pants are still wet. In my younger days I could stop for a bit with just my briefs wet, but to more. Again I didn't let it out, it came out on it's own. edit : I do remember trying a partial bladder emptying to prolong a hold. When I was very desperate, I let out about a quarter of my bladders contents in the toilet. Once I started peeing it was very difficult to stop. I started voluntarily and stopped it as soon as I could. I spurted and leaked a few times before regaining control. I was then able to continue to hold my pee for a while. my bladder was irritated , not very happy, which likely shortened the additional time I gained. It was long ago, and I don't remember how much longer I held it. In any event if I had done it in my pants they would have been quite wet.
  5. I finally got to watch this amazing video on my laptop instead of my phone. As before I thoroughly enjoy you moaning and gasps as a leak becomes imminent . I love watching pee leaking from your pussy with pubic hair. I had missed the actual pee itself before, as I did the dribble you could not stop as you sat down on my phone. In all your desperation and wetting is very arousing . I was just wondering one thing. How wet did your skirt get shoved between your legs as you were in the last moments of struggling to hold your pee from coming out ? Thank you for an exciting video.
  6. I love watching you desperately struggle to hold back your pee.
  7. I love to see some genuine desperation, and struggle to hold your pee until you can't stop it from coming out. A big plus would be some vocalization. Realistic Moaning and even saying what you are feeling. IE I have to pee so bad .....it's going to come out etc.. as long as it's not fake.
  8. Most of the time I start out with a few leaks that gradually morph into bigger spurts . In my younger years I could do this for a couple of hours before my sphincter got tired, and I peed a long continuous but slow stream. All this time, including the slow stream , I struggled to keep my sphincter closed as tightly as possible. The pressure was just too high for my tiring muscles to hold it back. I love that sensation of being so overfull and my distended bladder battling with my sphincter to let my pee out. My pleasure is enhanced as my pants start to get wet. As I have aged the time between when I start feeling like my pee is going to come out , to leaking, to the long slow stream is much , much shorter. However, in all cases, I regain control with at least one third to almost half of my pee is still in my bladder. I never totally empty my bladder when I lose control, my pants are saturated though. Of course it feels much better, but there is still quite a bit still in there. I can't really measure it , but I have been surprised at how much more I peed when I let the rest out full stream ( usually in my pants they are soaked anyway) .
  9. I have peed in lakes and pools more times than I can count. I wondered if it was visible as some suggest. I usually am fairly well hydrated. Anyway, I waited until I was desperate and sat in the shallow water , nude and let go. Since my bladder was full I had a long( time wise) and powerful ( distance) stream. It was interesting to see my pee mixing with the water. However it quickly began spreading, and in only about maybe six inches it became invisible. So I doubt anyone will know unless you draw attention to it. Omo fans , though may wonder if you walk into the water waist deep, stand there for a minute or less and get back out. I have seen females do this and thought, she just peed.
  10. Exactly. I don't know how interesting it could be to watch you just going about your day for many hours. Maybe posts to let people know how you are doing and build interest
  11. Nope. All men have a valve that automatically closes the sphincter at the base of the bladder when erect. It is natures way of preventing urine from mixing with seaman and possibly damaging the sperm. It also makes sure your spuge goes out and not back up into your bladder. Some guys can overcome this partially especially if that valve is weak. You don't that valve to be weak because that can also allow retrograde ejaculation. You cum but little or nothing comes out. Your seamen leaks back into your bladder . This makes your orgasm less intense and a lot less enjoyable. It will come out the next time you pee, making you urine look foamy.
  12. In my mind yes. You need to unlearn your potty training . It's ok to wet your pants.Some prefer the rapid desperation method, but I don't see the point. I like the gradual build up. I don't see how drinking a lot and peeing frequently saves time. You really don't want your muscles to become lazy, because with too much pee play you can end up wetting your pants when you don't want to. It has happened to me.
  13. Actually many females who have had children have a higher tendency to leak even if they don't need to pee that much. So they may cross their legs reflexively to prevent an embarrassing leak. Some just stand that way. Nevertheless my interest is always peeked and I watch closely hoping to see increased desperation movements.
  14. I have had friends admit the had to pee so bad and I immediately start paying attention, hoping for some signs of desperation. Even though it was quite a while until they went, I was disappointed that they never showed any. On the other hand, I have been in public , people around but nobody I knew, and I became very desperate. There was no opportunity to go at the time, but I didn't want to embarrass myself by pee dancing or holding my penis. Not wanting to draw attention to my situation , I just clamped my sphincter as tightly as I could , and hoped for the best. There were a couple times I can think of off the top of my head when the pressure overwhelmed my ability to hold it back , and I experienced a significant leak. There was an obvious wet spot in the front of my pants, that was difficult to not see, but nobody said anything or appeared to notice. If I had been in private or with someone who didn't mind or appreciated my desperation I would have acted differently, but I hoped I could have held it without being obvious. If I had been then if people noticed my wet pants they may have reacted differently . My rule is don't draw attention to the fact I am that desperate that I need to dance & hold myself. Then again I may miss the approval of an appreciative female.
  15. I had not wet myself in months, until a couple hours ago. The day did not go as planned. In fact this is a two pee story. I got up and peed as normal . I had breakfast with 2 large mugs of the , along with my prescribed for medical reasons high dose diuretic . The combination always causes my bladder to fill completely quickly . I usually try to hold it as long as possible because I hate having to keep getting up to pee. I wanted to finish what I was doing then shower before going out. I had to pee really bad but, I was going to pee in the shower so I continued trying to hold it . I became quite desperate to the point of holding myself and squirming to keep my pee from coming out.. It was difficult to focus on what I was doing due to my stretched overfull bladder and sharp pressure in my penis. I had to go so bad I was sure I would lose control in the shower. I was not about to let it out. However I only leaked and dribbled a little despite pain in my bladder. I even tried spraying the shower directly on my bladder and penis, but I was able to keep holding. So , I decided to test my sphincter further. I shaved and brushed my teeth , and despite it feeling like my pee would come out any second, I kept it inside my bladder. I had to go out and I knew I would get my clean pants wet if I didn't just go but I didn't want to waste it. So I measured what I had held. I can't hold as much as I used to , but I had held a decent 1 liter. I went grocery shopping and I could sense my bladder quickly filling up again. I figured I would be fine, because I had not had an accident in a long time. I forgot the diuretic always completely fills my bladder twice. As I drove home I was becoming desperate, but didn't know why,; I was not out that long. As I got out of my car my pee rushed for the exit. I struggled to get the bags out of the trunk because my pee felt like it was about to come out. I was determined to take my stuff in with me and not just leave them and rush inside just to urinate. Because I was in an apartment complex parking lot and I had to walk down a hall to my place holding myself was not an option, besides my hands were full. As I rushed to unlock the door I felt my pee pressing into the slit of my pee hole. In my rush I stupidly had the key upside down . I got the door opened, but could not hold it back any longer. As I tried to clench my sphincter shut a slow but steady stream of pee poured out, wetting my black jeans to my knees before I regained control. With the pressure somewhat relieved, I decided to put the groceries away, and eat lunch in my wet pants. I still had to pee, a lot. By the time I finished pee was pushing at the pee hole again. As I stood up myy tired muscles gave way . This time I did not try to stop it, since I was unlikely to succeed. I just let the rest out soaking my black jeans, and socks to the floor creating a puddle. Ahh I really have to go again . I have to put pants back on after putting the wet ones in the washer. I had to squeeze myself to keep from peeing on the floor when I stood up. I added pix from my phone, but not exactly in order. The bottle is what I measured after my shower. My jeans were black, not the best to show wetting but this was not planned. My boxer briefs show it better. As I was taking that pix I started leaking again which can be seen in one pix. I have not peed in thrle toilet since the time I got up. Desperate again. One hand squeezing my naked dick.
  16. It has long been a dream of mine to have a woman wet her pants on me. It happened once , a great time. thanks for sharing.
  17. Since she was okay with you pee kink did you ever think of incorporating it into your sex ? My ex-wife was good in bed at first, but sometimes I wanted that little extra. She was very accommodating. And if she didn't want sex she would talk about the many times she held her pee, sometimes too long . It always got me off. She still did this after our kids were born, our relationship deteriorated along with the intercourse. Years after our divorce I dated a woman that frankly didn't satisfy me sexually. I would get her off after awhile, but I still had not cum. My mind went elsewhere to my ex's pee stories . I kept thrusting as I dreamed, and I came just as expected. She sometimes wondered why I got quiet, but never suspected what truly got me off. I did moan as I reached a climax, that was real.
  18. Everybody is different in what they enjoy, and that is fine. It would be boring if everyone enjoyed the same thing. Personally I need to be desperate, and my pee has to come out because I can't hold it. But that is just me.
  19. It is because of slight variations in the angle of their urethra.
  20. I like other omo fans definitely notice. Even if it's a natural casual leg crossing I wonder if she has to pee. Other people much less likely to think anything of it. Even less likely to say anything or indicate they noticed. Heck I had a period of occasional incontinence due to prostate issues. I peed in in pants enough that there was an obvious wet spot in the front of my pants. I was very self conscious and embarrassed but I didn't see anyone looking there, and nobody said a word. There is no way they could not see it. Most people 's minds are not so highly tuned to pee related things.
  21. Beverages like tea or coffee are bladder irritetants. Just to clarify I know you said no alcohol but it ,especially beer is a diuretic it dehydrates you. Anyway I used to be like you I could not have an accident no matter how full i was, or how much it hurt. I thought I couldn't do it. * I definitely don't recommend this but one evening I decided to endure the pain. It had to come out eventually. I suffered it for hours before eventually it started coming out ,uncontrollably. Over time I could have a true accident because I couldn't hold it anymore , yet still hold it if I needed to . The pleasure part of my brain recognized I enjoy doing it. Another poster asked if you could wet your pants willingly. I am not suggesting you fake anything but you have to psychologically get past the training that peeing in your pants is wrong. Try to pee sitting on the toilet or standing in the shower with your pants or panties on. It is best if you are somewhat desperate. And relax, just take your time , you will get there. Letting water run slowly helps . Just relax and let it out imagine you are on the toilet, without pants on. The worst thing you can do is rush it or try to push your pee out, just let it happpen. Once it does a few times and you realize nothing happens because you wet your pants having an accident becomes easier. It may take some time though . You need to do this alone before trying to stream it. You need to be confident you can wet your pants before doing it for an audience to lessen performance anxiety . Be well hydrated drink bladder irritetants. It is critical that you don't drink just water. Water toxicity is real . Mix up your fluids. Good luck , Wet your pants.
  22. I loved this video. Desperation and struggling to hold your pee is what turns me on. The moaning and vocalizing is a BIG plus I anticipated the first leak by the change in your voice. I really enjoy seeing the first leak dribble out. This is not said enough , I love seeing your pubic hair Just curious Unedited how long was the video . I was wondering how long you were struggling to not pee. Side note : nice boobs too. Great video Thank you for sharing.
  23. @fullofp17. I regret not being on here Saturday. Your description of your desperation to pee was amazing. I love hearing the words my pee is pressing against my pee hole . My pee hole burns and stings pee trying to push through my bladder is throbbing are trigger words for me. I really didn't think you would make it in the house . The desire not to piss in the drivers car probably helped you through the ride. Thank you for the exciting real time I am not going to make it story. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
  24. I am a long time veteran of omorashi, but still I am impressed by your huge bladder and ability to hold your pee.
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